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Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by mercysamuelson(m): 12:52am On Aug 26, 2025
I hope you sha get savings and investment sha! If not, na to dey stranded for there begin your Naija life.
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by Ashirioluwa: 12:57am On Aug 26, 2025
SmartPolician:
There are many reputable building contractors who advertise houses they have built for many people on social media. They travel down to your village/town, measure your piece of land, and start erecting a house on it. I think diasporans should start engaging them. You can get a trusted relative to only supervise them and send pictures/videos so you can independently track the project progress. Sorry to that man; trust is a big issue in this country.
To avoid untimely death or high blood pressure, one should be very cautious when it comes to business dealings with Nigerian contractors.
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by mukthar2000(m): 1:33am On Aug 26, 2025
Kai wickedness, imagine his own wife oooo.

We'll still thank her bro that she use the money to build the house to this level, what if she send another person house pictures.
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by uuzba(m): 1:55am On Aug 26, 2025
Baronthecelebri:
Very bad from the wife
Wrong. You're very wrong.
This is very good from the wife.
When you people are dating and marrying, is it not so that YOU and MRS can be sleeping on the same bed everynight?
If you know you don't want to sleep on same bed with wife, WHY did you marry in the first place?
Then you went and stayed away for 20 YEARS?
Haba? Is it not just WICKEDNESS?
That marriage ENDED long time ago.
The woman NEEDS her FULL MARRIAGE RIGHTS and she just used the rest of the money
to arrange herself.
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Please if you have so much power that you can hold your prick from your wife/each other, DO NOT MARRY AT ALL.
STAY SINGLE and be holding your prick with yourself.
Marriage is meant for people that WANT TO DO THE DOING.
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by goslowgoslow(m): 2:04am On Aug 26, 2025
ruggedtimi:
the man wey leave her for 20yrs no bad?...it was half-way she realized herself. Probably the reason why she left the building half way.
Do you know what he went thru while abroad? At least he still remembers his wife by sending money to build a house which obviously the two of them will eventually live.
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by goslowgoslow(m): 2:05am On Aug 26, 2025
uuzba:
Wrong. You're very wrong.
This is very good from the wife.
When you people are dating and marrying, is it not so that YOU and MRS can be sleeping on the same bed everynight?
If you know you don't want to sleep on same bed with wife, WHY did you marry in the first place?
Then you went and stayed away for 20 YEARS?
Haba? Is it not just WICKEDNESS?
That marriage ENDED long time ago.
The woman NEEDS her FULL MARRIAGE RIGHTS and she just used the rest of the money
to arrange herself.
-
Please if you have so much power that you can hold your prick from your wife/each other, DO NOT MARRY AT ALL.
STAY SINGLE and be holding your prick with yourself.
Marriage is meant for people that WANT TO DO THE DOING.
Chai pikin dem full this forum o! Make God dey help us o!
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by Nnamdipapa(m): 2:33am On Aug 26, 2025
Any man who leaves a woman for 20years should forget about the marriage.
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by occfx: 2:39am On Aug 26, 2025
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by Harddiskng(m): 4:19am On Aug 26, 2025
Kobicove:
This does not look like a man who has been living in Europe for the past 20 years
They dey write am for face?

The guy that had been abroad for over a decade then UBA cornered his 106 million, leading to testimony at Lord Chosen.

When you sw him did he look like someone that had 106 million or ever travelled before.

Una too funny
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by integrity16(m): 4:49am On Aug 26, 2025
I seriously doubt this.
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by NaijaNaWaa: 5:41am On Aug 26, 2025
kokoA:
This one na content. How can you be away from your wife for 20 years? No woman will accept that in the first place, so Una no gbensh for 20 years??
Don’t mind them. These days anyone with access to fake tokunbo Chinese phone and cheap data records n0nsense and post online to go viral. For 20 years, he didn’t go home, call his relatives or ask for video call to see progress of work? He has no one in 20 years other than his “wife” to give him an independent status report? They think we are all mumu.
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by Okeyc230: 5:48am On Aug 26, 2025
Lie everywhere! No request for picture, no video call. Yeyeman
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by Analyscam50(m): 6:03am On Aug 26, 2025
This is the sam thing my mother did to her brother
If I tell you that I don't fear women know that i robnectar is lieing
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by GIFTEDPLANNERS(m): 7:19am On Aug 26, 2025
Fake story from the man.....

He is not saying the truth at all

20 yrs of sending money to build a match box house can never be true.
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by descarado: 8:02am On Aug 26, 2025
Seun, tell your mods to verify all these contents before rushing them to front page. Bloggers use your platform to sell lies. We no say hunger dey but this?

Haba!

Always quick to start gender war. Na so our IQ dey drop ni?
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by ShoeMarket: 8:05am On Aug 26, 2025
Sometimes I didn't believe stories like this. So for 20 years that you were sending her money she was not sending you progress report via video or pictures?

Abeg wetin I know
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by Didi2d(m): 8:14am On Aug 26, 2025
Wife wey don move on. How can you stay away from your wife for 20 years and you expect her to wait for you.
She was communicating with you cos you're foolish enough to be sending her euros thinking she's still your wife, 20 too much na
Her man friend wey dey nack her know you if you no no
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by chris51(f): 8:23am On Aug 26, 2025
Twenty years of abandoning the wife. What stopped the man from sending for his wife to join him abroad as other men do?
He is lucky that there was an incompleted building for him to see.

Did he think of how the wife coped mentally, physically and financially. It could not have been easy in an environment like ours.
The man should work out things and appreciate his wife. He should overlook her shortcomings.
Good luck
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by chris51(f): 8:23am On Aug 26, 2025
chris51:
Twenty years of abandoning the wife. What stopped the man from sending for his wife to join him abroad as other men do?
He is lucky that there was an incompleted building for him to see.

Did he think of how the wife coped mentally, physically and financially. It could not have been easy in an environment like ours.
The man should work out things and appreciate his wife. He should overlook her shortcomings.
Good luck
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by sooperrescue(m): 8:33am On Aug 26, 2025
There is a single lady who was secretly building houses in lekki through these so called private contractors. The woman lives in the US and recently died. Initially, the contractor claimed to know the place but has refuted that he does not have any idea of any house or land. What can we do? The elder Brother is in lagos now to trace her unknown house. Where do we start?
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by Kobicove(m): 8:46am On Aug 26, 2025
Harddiskng:
They dey write am for face?

The guy that had been abroad for over a decade then UBA cornered his 106 million, leading to testimony at Lord Chosen.

When you sw him did he look like someone that had 106 million or ever travelled before.

Una too funny
The guy does not look like he has been in Europe for the past 20 years period!!!

I said it and I fully stand by it, if you don't like it come and jump on my back!
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by Tolu2024(m): 8:56am On Aug 26, 2025
One thing about abroad I don’t like, only 1-4% of people living abroad can afford to come back home. Over 95% can’t afford to come back.

Spending 20 years abroad and come back with nothing God forbid.

Why will you called someone you left after 5 years your wife ? Not to take of 10 to 15 years .
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by kushme: 9:02am On Aug 26, 2025
kokoA:
This one na content. How can you be away from your wife for 20 years? No woman will accept that in the first place, so Una no gbensh for 20 years??
The only thing you people mostly think about is gbensh. Talk abkout the issue at hand. Disloyalty, deception.. As he dey send her money to build, why didn't she save to surprise him with a visit?
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by henrydav: 9:10am On Aug 26, 2025
Believe this story at your own peril. 20 years na 20 days? There is an adage that said, if you believe that social drinking is good for you, you can believe anything.
If you believe everything you red on social media, you can believe anything.
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by Harddiskng(m): 9:14am On Aug 26, 2025
Kobicove:
The guy does not look like he has been in Europe for the past 20 years period!!!

I said it and I fully stand by it, if you don't like it come and jump on my back!
Baba shift. Who sigh you
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by kokoA(m): 9:15am On Aug 26, 2025
kushme:
The only thing you people mostly think about is gbensh. Talk abkout the issue at hand. Disloyalty, deception.. As he dey send her money to build, why didn't she save to surprise him with a visit?
During the visit dem no go gbensh? You can never take gbensh out of the equation.
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by ledaman: 9:29am On Aug 26, 2025
Content creator grin
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by CrownLands(m): 9:32am On Aug 26, 2025
Dear Diaspora Nigerians,
Dear Nigerians in Nigeria,...

Your family loves you, but love is not the same as professionalism.

They may mean well, but they are not trained to:
✅ Verify land titles
✅ Check legal documents
✅ Protect your money from fraud
✅ Supervise projects with accountability

That’s why you need a professional Realtor.

Because family is for love ❤️
… but Realtors are for real estate. 🏡
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by Jeon(f): 10:10am On Aug 26, 2025
FavouriteOfGod:
😳You say??!!! 🤔
I said I need a virtuous woman like her.
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by Bishopwizzy(m): 10:19am On Aug 26, 2025
which right thinking man stays abroad for 20 years without returning home, no video calls, no contact with family members and friends to check and review the house by also sending him updates... i don't believe this
Re: “man Sends Wife Money For 20 Years, Returns To Meet Empty Shell” by seunmsg(m): 10:29am On Aug 26, 2025
Not bad.
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