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For me it's this Nedu story with his wife. If you remember that time that Comedian Nedu trended with his wife during their divorce saga.

She made one statement that comes up in my head from time to time. This has been up to a year or two now since their divorce but the statement still gives me trouble once in awhile.

She told him plainly that because they were married, he assumed that the child she gave birth to was his.

Till today I still can't get this statement out of my mind. Like how do you even think up something like this and say it with full confidence?

Like why are we married if I can't accept the child from the marriage as my own?

This talk weak me die.

A lot of men will raise children that are not theirs especially the first born. This sane first child will inherit your properties while your real children if any will struggle to get peanuts from your estate after you pass on.

It's a scary future mahn.

I hope we all get finance to run DNA tests o

You want trauma? Go watch 2 girls 1 cup. That's enough trauma to last you for days

For me this Serena Williams transformation. Still can't believe it's same person

Maybe also this video. The blatant extreme tribalism - "If we can't get a Northerner, then we look for a foreigner, instead of another Nigerian!"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5_odAy4rVz8?si=TGCzbMPYrGbAcjGA

Maybe also this one - the way he casually and happily described shooting Ahmadu Bello:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PJ2pcLO9HSc?si=GjlpKJfXEUdYVMq7

Oh God, not another one of these marketers. Una don turn GNLD now.

Host78:
For me it's this Nedu story with his wife. If you remember that time that Comedian Nedu trended with his wife during their divorce saga.

She made one statement that comes up in my head from time to time. This has been up to a year or two now since their divorce but the statement still gives me trouble once in awhile.

She told him plainly that because they were married, he assumed that the child she gave birth to was his.

Till today I still can't get this statement out of my mind. Like how do you even think up something like this and say it with full confidence?

Like why are we married if I can't accept the child from the marriage as my own?

This talk weak me die.

A lot of men will raise children that are not theirs especially the first born. This sane first child will inherit your properties while your real children if any will struggle to get peanuts from your estate after you pass on.

It's a scary future mahn.

I hope we all get finance to run DNA tests o

Nedu own surprised me

You guys wanna say youve not seen any video of these heartless terrorists in action?

I've been so traumatized that I've become desensitized...

What have I not seen? Live murder, jungle justice, armed robbery attack, kidnap attempt...


Very few things would shock me at the moment...

i think the rebirth of Pit Obi as the messiah of Nigeria. That people even believe it and fight family, tribe and religion over it.

Hmm, I remember watching a video of what Boko Haram did to a captured Nigerian Airforce pilot. His cries still give me nightmares to this day

Therock5555:
I've been so traumatized that I've become desensitized...

What have I not seen? Live murder, jungle justice, armed robbery attack, kidnap attempt...


Very few things would shock me at the moment...

Anyday I visit Nairaland... fresh trauma is guaranteed for the day, overriding the one('s) I got during the last visit.

It has become a norm to see traumatizing things that such things don't traumatize anymore.

Aluu jungle justice back then. Rest in peace Chidi, Floyd, Tekena and Ugonna.

DoctorStanley:
For me this Serena Williams transformation. Still can't believe it's same person

Ozempic if you know you know. That is the new fad, watch out it will hit naija soon

Make i talk my own tori though not that a trauma as i don old pass am!

I live in one of the most populous Local Government in Nigeria. I once had a neigbor who lived in a flat in the same compound. The guy seems like around 37 years old, short and okay! He's an introvert, usually stays indoor for long hours. I always thought he was into Yahoo yahoo, but i knew there could be many legit jobs one can do online. There was a lady with him. Fair, tall and stout! I could say the lady was way out of this guy's league by mere looking at them. And i wonder where they met as she looked more like a sugar mummy than wife! I also feel guy wasn't simple too. Person wey fit pay about N1M rent no be small person!

To cut the long story short, the guy don Japa and the lady has returned to her former husband's house! They had a misunderstanding earlier and she left to be with the BF. So when they settled, she returned. Another person don move into our house now!

Pictures coming from Gaza.

The before and after Pictures.

Mine is the many posts and comments about President TINUBU who built Lagos cannot replicate the same at National level.

The killing of those University of port Harcourt students (Uniport 4 boys) at Aluu, and Deborah Samuel's burning by despicable extremists in Sokoto. I still feel deeply hurt when I remember these.

What is the meaning of trauma?

I see that word being thrown around carelessly with the likes of PTSD, manipulate, gaslight, heal etc

Oh. By the way, I was born in the 80s.

Each time I remember how these kidnappers made a video of how they slaughtered my elder brother till he died because we were unable to pay their ransom. Till date,I'm still traumatized and need to see a Therapist, but I heard it's quite expensive

Esn killing of that military couple some years ago, they cut out her punana... I'm still suffering from ptsd

Child rape.

I always ask what the man thinks when he touches a girl child and she's screaming....the conception of the thought of deriving sexual satisfaction is what I can't wrap my head around.

Bruno Fernandes telling us he missed a penalty because of the referee
i cant still wrap my head around that

This picture is really traumatic to say the least. To even assume someone who wants to preside over millions of youths as president watched idly while his own turned angel Gaybu

Ibom Air Breast

I am still traumatized

Deborah Samuel's lynching for alleged blasphemy.

BlackViper:
Hmm, I remember watching a video of what Boko Haram did to a captured Nigerian Airforce pilot. His cries still give me nightmares to this day

Pls what did they did to him or can u show me the link to watch the video...

When I see some young people that are suffering supporting their oppressors and insulting there fellows I cringe. It's weird and creepy what some folks on nairaland do here

DoctorStanley:
For me this Serena Williams transformation. Still can't believe it's same person

She went from thick and beautiful to just bones.

I don't like bones.

APC pyramids of rice in Ogun in the days of baba oni fila gogoro, witnessed by late Buhari.