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| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by olaolaking: 12:14pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
ARISHEM:must she divorce before she gives the owner his child? |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by pansophist(m): 12:19pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
Dogalmighty17:This is a very good question. Now lets get few things clear out, for clarity sake. 1. A minor has no full legal capacity, so in this case, her guardian (either mother, father, or appointed) can sign and make decisions on her behalf, even when it concerns her child. The guardian can give the child up for adoption. 2. All of the rapist's rights to custody are terminated immediately upon being convicted for the rape in which the child was conceived. With the above two points, your questions are answered. But to legalise everything, the father should contact a lawyer and make sure the man is convicted of rape. Mind you, the adoption process must be carried legally. So it must go through a court of law. If it went through, then it means the law recognised the father's right to act on behalf of the child. The very act of the rapist's conviction automatically relinquish all his parental rights to the child. Although it might be difficult to convict him for rape depending on his age, since minors having sex together are judged differently than situation where its an adult and a child. |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by omooba969(m): 12:29pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
pansophist:Do you disagree with my comment, if yes, can you point out the part you don't agree with? |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by pansophist(m): 12:34pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
omooba969:Your comment suggests or implies that the father may not have custodial rights and obligations. Or that his right commences if the mother for whatever reasons cant |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by 43Ronin: 12:44pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:The Court of Appeal made this clear in Muojekwu v. Ejikeme (2000) 5 NWLR (Pt. 657) 402. In that case, TOBI, J.C.A. held: Why don't you Google the above judgement to gain clarity |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by omooba969(m): 12:45pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
pansophist:Well, in the case of custody battle, the law recognises the mother as the primary caregiver. The father's right of contact would be also be recognised, and there would be a court order to enforce this. |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Thundafireseun: 12:56pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
ExudeLoveToAll:May God almighty in Heaven have mercy on you…. You have no idea what you’re saying |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by fxexperts: 1:10pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
Successlane:You are wrong, damn wrong on this one. |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by gr8child(m): 1:21pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:He cited a Court of Appeal case. |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Kobojunkie: 1:23pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
43Ronin:... gr8child:... Zouzer:Knowing what I know of Nigerian judicial decisions and how they tend to violate/contravene even the Law of the land from time to time, I rather focus m learning what the Law in fact says. ![]() And no, your court decisions are not intended to form part of the Law. Rather, Court decisions are meant to comply with the Law. Otherwise, they violate they are in direct violation of the Law and ought to be done away with. That is why any right minder person should insist on knowing what the Law says before investigating other opinions. ![]() |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Kobojunkie: 1:31pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
MrDoGood:Try to process the reason for a response before commenting next time. ![]() |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Kobojunkie: 1:33pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
yemre:Your judges are notoriously corrupt yet you utter this nonsense my way for what purpose? To tell me I should trust the judgement of men who are known to defy the very law of the land in favor of that which benefits their course? Are you kidding? ![]() |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Kobojunkie: 1:35pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
alphaconde:If this is the way you lot approach the law... Then the corrupt judiciary isn't the only problem I see here. |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by TrackerSK: 1:40pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
ALLNIGERIANSMAD:How do you know that you are the father of the child? Have you done DNA test? |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by eepeepook: 1:47pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
Isn’t that what DNA tests are for? |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Mokole2023: 1:52pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
The writer has misused the word "custody". The write-up is basically saying that a man has rights to a child born out of wedlock which is quite different from CUSTODY. Even though he tried mentioning custody, but i still think the purpose of the whole post was about parental rights and not necessarily custody, because even legally married couples also file custody claims if certain conditions permit. |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by TenQ: 1:55pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
kaltonga:To the courts, it is all about compelling EVIDENCE: if you don't have it , forget about it EXCEPT You can buy your way through the system |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by travelzcruix: 2:24pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
See eh. In anything you do, If you want a polygamous home, convert to any religion that still supports it. Just tell the family that according to your religious tradition, your son must come for spiritual cleansing that last for 15 years. Thank me later. |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by CondemnBattery(f): 2:44pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
But sharia law supercedes Nigerian law abi. This country is a joke. What is good for guinea is good for uganda Fiscus105: |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Fiscus105(m): 3:05pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
CondemnBattery:If you are educated,you would know Sharia law is part of Nigeria's constitutions, but since you are an illiterate you didn't know. If you want your igbo custom to be part of Nigeria laws, you are free to take it to national assembly for incorporation, not until then, Igbo custom must give way for Nigeria constitution. Learn how not to overwhelm by prejudice & emotions. I mean tribal and religion biases , this would help you to be arriving in logical and rational conclusion, which will be moving society forward. Let go back to OP, if you are the one that impregnated a lady, in which, you were not financially capable to do wedding, because of that, they take away your blood, how will you feel? The man that want to claim the child, doesn't he has erection to impregnate woman? Must he wait for woman, that has been impregnated by another man like him |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by auduadeniyi(m): 3:06pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
go on a low key beg the family and be ready to take responsibly but taking it through court you will be in a serious mess they will lie against you even self you can be jail for that |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Zouzer: 3:14pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:This is such a flawed take. I didn't even understand most of that. And you clearly don't know a lot about the Nigerian legal system. Again, the court's pronouncements constitute our corpus juris (body of laws). When there's a dispute as to the interpretation of provisions of a legislation (which appears to be the only form of law you know), the court is the avenue to give correct meaning to it. It is their interpretation that adds flesh to legislation There are rules to statutory interpretation. Sometimes, when the court interprete legislations, you'd be surprised at how the law can be stretched or restricted so that it can be applied to fit the circumstances of a case. I suppose that's why a layman like yourself can arrogantly state that "judicial decisions violate the law of land". Let it be known to you today that, whatever authoritative interpretation the courts give to a statute acquires the force of law. The only ways such interpretation will cease its authority is if It's overturned by higher courts (eg Supreme Court overturning the Court of Appeal judgement) or by the same court in future cases (eg Supreme Court reversing its decision on a point of law it had decided in the past) or through legislative amendment (eg when the court interprete a statute, it may expose some weaknesses in that legislation, so it behoves on the legislature to amend that legislation so as to cure that deficiency. Go and read about Amaechi V INEC where the Supreme Court held that votes belong to the candidates and not the party. And in response, the NASS quickly ran to amend the section 141 of the Electoral Act, 2010) |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Arda1000(m): 3:30pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
ExudeLoveToAll:weyrey Igbo people are wise,the inheritance of a woman is at her husbands home unless her parents don’t have male kids |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Kobojunkie: 3:53pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
Zouzer:This is the only part I will bother broaching at this point since I made myself clear in previous comments on why I prefer to focus on learning what the Law instead says. Yes, Judicial interpretations can have the force of law. However, as you also hinted at there in the last part of your post, they are not absolute and can be challenged. ![]() |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by HenryWilliams(m): 4:01pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
ALLNIGERIANSMAD:When the man she's with gets tired of her and her child and the bills for the child's upkeep becomes too much for her to bear.. She'll be the one calling you day and night seeking a day to dump the kid on you. Just relax.. She'll come back |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by dom(m): 4:06pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:He cited an authority there; a Court of Appeal decision. That suffices. |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Kobojunkie: 4:08pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
dom:Wrong! ![]() |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Zouzer: 4:13pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:Mister, you can pick up the Constitution, an Act of the National Assembly, a Law of a State House of Assembly, or even delegated legislation made by statutory bodies, and you might understand some of the provisions. But UNDERSTANDING the law is not limited to just reading statutes. You are still straitjacketing your understanding of what “law” truly entails. Like I said, case law adds flesh to statutes. You can't understand the law if all you do is to read statutes but don't read judicial decisions on how those laws apply |
| Re: Lawyer, Can A Father Lawfully Get Custody Of A Child Born Out Of Wedlock? by Kobojunkie: 4:16pm On Aug 28, 2025 |
Zouzer:Again, pay close attention to what is being said so you do not keep needing to go off on these meaningless rants. Kobojunkie: |
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