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DoctorStanley:
Fenrir you missed this one. Come and tell him you think he's heartless for suggesting 5K and lecture him how 5K is too small.
Zero sense of irony, sacarsm, homour

You all know what I think about Nigerian men and this nonsense goes on daily here, you give your families a pittance and expect gratitude for the bare minimum and struggling to survive

You should ripping into the man and making him feel ashamed not making a joke of it, from most perspectives the wife signed up for it by expecting the husband to grovel to her family and stroke their egos for marriage but those kids are innocent in all of it

You should be making an example of men like this so even thoughts like this stop

Fenrir:
You all know what I think about Nigerian men and this nonsense goes on daily here, you give your families a pittance and expect gratitude for the bare minimum and struggling to survive

You should ripping into the man and making him feel ashamed not making a joke of it, from most perspectives the wife signed up for it by expecting the husband to grovel to her family and stroke their egos for marriage but those kids are innocent in all of it

You should be making an example of men like this so even thoughts like this stop

Is this guy ok at all? Have you no sense at all??. First of all NOBODY who makes 600K will give his wife 35K with 3 kids! So OP is likely jesting. To add to the jest people suggest even power figures. Quite Obvious, yet this guy missed it all as deadly serious!

DoctorStanley:
Is this guy ok at all? Have you no sense at all??. First of all NOBODY who makes 600K will give his wife 35K with 3 kids! So OP is likely jesting. To add to the jest people suggest even power figures. Quite Obvious, yet this guy missed it all as deadly serious!

I live in your country fella, I see this on a daily basis for all you know she could be a second wife like the Islamic pleasure marriages

I see it on a daily basis and 600,000 naira is under £300 and yet you act like it its a lot and family can have a decent life on it?

dollyjoy:
35k is too much. Reduce it to 15k for the entire month.

Still too much. He shouldn't give her anything at all. She should be the one giving him money.

This has got to be a joke or rage bait....even me as a single guy living alone, 35k is not enough to feed for a month, and now you're using that for 5 people? Your wife needs to take the kids and run far away from you. 35k for 5 people, so each person will survive on 7k in a month? Ah! Make I no talk wetin dey my mind sha, I guess that. 600k is a typo and you meant to say 60k. Make I even look the date dem post this thing, e be like say na 2010 thread be this

I don't understand you

Fenrir:
I live in your country fella, I see this on a daily basis for all you know she could be a second wife like the Islamic pleasure marriages

I see it on a daily basis and 600,000 naira is under £300 and yet you act like it its a lot and family can have a decent life on it?

Honestly, it's good to be reminded that people like you exist - people who take everything literally.
Why don't you show us where u see on a daily basis a man going to divorce his wife because he gives her 35K with 3 kids while making 600K!!!

DoctorStanley:
Honestly, it's good to be reminded that people like you exist - people who take everything literally.
Why don't you show us where u see on a daily basis a man going to divorce his wife because he gives her 35K with 3 kids while making 600K!!!

Dont take this remark against race because its not
But to me when it comes to good and bad life is black and white and im not talking skin colour

There is no grey area in life
Good is good and bad is bad, i will never see it as a joke when innocent kids are involved and men like me are willing to do truly horrific things for the greater good

DoctorStanley:
Honestly, it's good to be reminded that people like you exist - people who take everything literally.
Why don't you show us where u see on a daily basis a man going to divorce his wife because he gives her 35K with 3 kids while making 600K!!!

And i just gave you an example of where I see it daily
Islamic pleasure marriages and it is the dominant religion in Nigeria at 52% and the remaining 48% is not Christian the remaining 48% is a mixture with Christianity dominating that 48%

Fenrir:
But love is just a 4 letter word to the majority of this country

Weddings are humiliation rituals for the parents and extended family then marriage is slavery and abuse in return

No wonder the wives are ditching the husbands as soon as the get European citizenship then they make innocent European men suffer the families for better treatment

Honestly you are all bad as each other, suffocating in a flawed system and you want to choke the world with it

Do you know the meaning of sarcasm?

35k is too small for a family of 5 in a month!

Even as a single guy, I spend more than that per month. So, increase the amount you give to your wife. Since you earn up to 600k, give your 150k every month for your family's upkeep.

Skeyskey:
Do you know the meaning of sarcasm?

Like ive said many times, im sociopathic I have to be very very careful in life and force myself to care about other people

My wife and daughter are the only things that matter me and I love those people more than anything on the planet and I base all decisions I make in life on one question that i ask myself "will doing this cause me to lose my wife and child?"

My wife and child are my moral compass and anyone that jokes about leaving kids in poverty and neglect sicken me

If this is true then its the womans own fault for choosing that type of man and making him grovel to her parents and extended family to marry her over choosing a man wont do it and will put her first in marriage but those kids had no choice in it at all

Jman06:
35k is too small for a family of 5 in a month!

Even as a single guy, I spend more than that per month. So, increase the amount you give to your wife. Since you earn up to 600k, give your 150k every month for your family's upkeep.

No, if this is true and makes a measly 600,000 naira what he should be doing is putting 60,000-120,000 naira into savings for his familys future

Then giving his wife exactly half of whats left and anything after housekeeping is hers

He married her, so take care of her and stop pretending women are greedy

There is literally is no such thing as a gold digger or greedy woman

All women cost money even women you think are low maintenance are expensive to some men

Just pick one that can live within your means, be happy and do right by her

Fenrir:
No, if this is true and makes a measly 600,000 naira what he should be doing is putting 60,000-120,000 naira into savings for his familys future

Then giving his wife exactly half of whats left and anything after housekeeping is hers

He married her, so take care of her and stop pretending women are greedy

There is literally is no such thing as a gold digger or greedy woman

All women cost money even women you think are low maintenance are expensive to some men

Just pick one that can live within your means, be happy and do right by her

You're right. I'll do same for a lady I love

Fenrir:
And im shocked that a woman is supporting this treatment of another woman and 3 innocent kids

They are definitely going be malnourished
And with his attitude do you think hes paying school fees? Medical bills? If cannot be bothered to provide money for decent and nourishing food just the bare minimum do you really think a man like this is funding the rest?

Oga don't take like too serious.

Both the poster and dollyj are catching cruise.

OP is just a clout chaser... People posting on his thread are indulging his senseless behavior

duduade:
OP is just a clout chaser... People posting on his thread are indulging his senseless behavior

You talk about senseless behaviour when 1 particular tribe equates a man having self respect and saying no to prostration like the law says he has a right to do with a literal slap in the face while preaching about humility and respect and at the same time throwing tantrums like petty and petulant children and calling him every insulting name under the sun and attempting to destroy the relationship

DenreleDave:
Dear Nairalanders,


This issue has been giving me problem... I earned 600k and I give my wife 35k for the month. We have 3 kids and I am sure that 35k is okay for the month for the 5 of us... She will buy foodstuff and any other things she needs.

I am thinking of divorcing her.... Please advise me as I am really thinking of going for another woman.

Bro is this a joke?? What exactly is the issue as I see no correlation between the 35k and your intention to divorce your wife.

By the way, why are you starving your family?

tobore4u:
Oga don't take like too serious.

Both the poster and dollyj are catching cruise.

Maybe shes the posters mistress and encouraging him to neglect his family to spend more on her

You never know Nigerians are not exactly moral or ethical people and definitely not religious people or responsible people

Fenrir:
And i just gave you an example of where I see it daily
Islamic pleasure marriages and it is the dominant religion in Nigeria at 52% and the remaining 48% is not Christian the remaining 48% is a mixture with Christianity dominating that 48%

Being a foreigner, even living on the moon, is no excuse. Where do you see the guy say anything about "wives"??
Anyway let me spell it out for you (because that is the only way someone like you will get it):
THE OP IS JOKING AND PEOPLE SAYING HE SHOULD PAY EVEN LESS ARE BEING SARCASTIC!!!
If you still don't get that you never will. Now run along. What a guy!

DoctorStanley:
Being a foreigner, even living on the moon, is no excuse. Where do you see the guy say anything about "wives"??
Anyway let me spell it out for you (because that is the only way someone like you will get it):
THE OP IS JOKING AND PEOPLE SAYING HE SHOULD PAY EVEN LESS ARE BEING SARCASTIC!!!
If you still don't get that you never will. Now run along. What a guy!

No, im just sickened that people would make jokes about neglecting and starving children, why don't you understand?

There is nothing funny about starving children or neglecting them and any nationality that sees it as a joke when half of your country is suffering malnutrition and starvation needs to seek medical help immediately

Fenrir:
No, im just sickened that people would make jokes about neglecting and starving children, why don't you understand?

There is nothing funny about starving children or neglecting them and any nationality that sees it as a joke when half of your country is suffering malnutrition and starvation needs to seek medical help immediately

What is he still yapping about? What "half of your country is suffering malnutrition and starvation"??
Show us photos of Nigerians looking like Gaza people where they actually have starvation.
Oga, you have a problem. You should NOT be participating in a thread like this. You should first go somewhere and borrow a sense of humor and a sense of sacarsm!

DoctorStanley:
What is he still yapping about? What "half of your country is suffering malnutrition and starvation"??
Show us photos of Nigerians looking like Gaza people where they actually have starvation.
Oga, you have a problem. You should NOT be participating in a thread like this. You should first go somewhere and borrow a sense of humor and a sense of sacarsm!

Why would I care about a religious war?
Seriously why? Let them do what they want to each then why they are all gone we can just take over and build a holiday resort

Ive got no sympathy for ether side and by now you lot should know I personally feel about that particular religion involved its over religion of all things the world would be better off with no religion at all

You need to focus more on your own country and stopping all the bad stuff here first and stopping all the religion based crime here

Fenrir:
Why would I care about a religious war?
Seriously why? Let them do what they want to each then why they are all gone we can just take over and build a holiday resort

Ive got no sympathy for ether side and by now you lot should know I personally feel about that particular religion involved its over religion of all things the world would be better off with no religion at all

You need to focus more on your own country and stopping all the bad stuff here first and stopping all the religion based crime here

Just go borrow yourself sone sense of humor, irony, and sacarsm. You desperately need it.

Ciao

DoctorStanley:
Just go borrow yourself sone sense of humor, irony, and sacarsm. You desperately need it.

Ciao

Lets test how racist you are fella....

You are stood infront of 2 buttons

One instantly deletes 1,000,000 white people

The second deletes 100,000 Ghanaians

No matter what you do the next day its all over world news and the entire world knows

What would you do?

dollyjoy:
35k is too much. Reduce it to 15k for the entire month.

15k is too much let him reduce it to #700.

I cook beautiful meals with 350.i dey even dey return back home with change.

Fenrir:
Lets test how racist you are fella....

You are stood infront of 2 buttons

One instantly deletes 1,000,000 white people

The second deletes 100,000 Ghanaians

No matter what you do the next day its all over world news and the entire world knows

What would you do?

Racist? This proves you're not lying. You're truly a foreigner.
Oga, if you grow up in Nigeria you don't see race and you CAN'T be racist even if you tried. BECAUSE race had NOTHING to do with you when you were growing up! Everybody is black so where would you get the notion of race from? What you do see is tribe and what you do have is tribalism and tribal bigots and gingoists!