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Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by Nobody: 10:10pm On Aug 31, 2025
To succeed in the business or game of religion, you need to carve out a niche for yourself in order to be unique.

These people in the early days knew some of these laws were absurd but they wanted a way to look different from others. They knew people won't follow them if they don't have what they're are doing differently.

The same Kumuyi who told his younger members not to involve in any other Christian music ministry apart from the church choir tried to invite people like Mc kluky (can't spell correct, Nathaniel Bassey and other foreign Christian singers he once referred to as 'worldly singers' to perform in his church convention. But thanks to a young man in the church who petitioned the church council over the decision and it was cancelled
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by Successsearch90(m): 10:14pm On Aug 31, 2025
Jughead29:
Gbam

Thank God I like living my life to please my God.

Some churches will create rules and regulations that can't be fully obeyed in modern world of today.
Honestly
It's important for people to know between church rules and scripture
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by fobiflex(m): 10:15pm On Aug 31, 2025
ednut1:
How can humans allow another human dictate for them on how to live theirs lives. Something that is not even in the bible. Nawa o. For years people who were not compatible not know themselves were getting married. This kind end time church ehn
Funny, is your live not dictated by the government of the state you stay?
When it comes to religion, y’all want to start claiming I too know
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by akpumping7720(m): 10:18pm On Aug 31, 2025
muyico:
Many many many doctrines need to be nullify in deeper life, I'm former member, stinginess?? Of most of they re members, me revolution
I don't understand your assertion. As in most of deeper life members are stingy?
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by Tohsynetita1(m): 10:19pm On Aug 31, 2025
fobiflex:
Funny, is your live not dictated by the government of the state you stay?
When it comes to religion, y’all want to start claiming I too know
So, Did Jesus ask apostle to teach what is not in lie with Bible but their own personal doctrine.
Government is different from church,
Church are to make laws according to Bible and not what suite them.
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by Ken4Christ: 10:21pm On Aug 31, 2025
geoworldedu:
I am waiting for you to nullify the idea of hell fire. That's when I will start taking you seriously.
Hell fire is not an idea. It is scriptural. Jesus spoke about it more than any other subject in such a manner that it couldn't be misinterpreted.
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by bixton(m): 10:30pm On Aug 31, 2025
nlfpmod:
https://thewillnews.com/kumuyi-softens-marriage-rules-for-deeper-life-members-abolishes-six-month-mandatory-courtship/
Pastor William Kumuyi, has announced sweeping changes to some of the church’s long-standing marriage regulations, stressing that they are administrative guidelines rather than divine commandments.

Speaking at the 2025 Global Family and Marriage Conference, Pastor Kumuyi urged Christians to differentiate between God’s unchanging laws and church rules, which, he said, can be adjusted to meet practical realities.



It is good this is coming from Daddy G.O.
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by Rexymania(m): 10:38pm On Aug 31, 2025
Baba go sit down. Na only God knows why I come this world, but it ain't for taking orders that are not benefiting
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by chipet67(m): 10:39pm On Aug 31, 2025
geoworldedu:
I am waiting for you to nullify the idea of hell fire. That's when I will start taking you seriously.
You go wait till you grow beards inside mouth
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by CrownLands(m): 10:40pm On Aug 31, 2025
GoodAssociate:
Baba look into this very well before abolishing it.
I think the idea is that more Deeper Life ladies are sure to marry.
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by okeke6969: 10:46pm On Aug 31, 2025
ednut1:
How can humans allow another human dictate for them on how to live theirs lives. Something that is not even in the bible. Nawa o. For years people who were not compatible not know themselves were getting married. This kind end time church ehn
I wonder too how grown up person will submit himself to another man's rule. It beat my imagination.
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by VladimirTheGrea: 10:47pm On Aug 31, 2025
ednut1:
How can humans allow another human dictate for them on how to live theirs lives. Something that is not even in the bible. Nawa o. For years people who were not compatible not know themselves were getting married. This kind end time church ehn
Humans have always have to live under the dictate of other humans. It's called the law but not applicable to all. Remember animal farm?

Get this, these rules were set up to preserve morality. But sadly today because humans like you said yern for freedom, it has led to very grave orientation.
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by honeyB2018: 10:57pm On Aug 31, 2025
nlfpmod:
https://thewillnews.com/kumuyi-softens-marriage-rules-for-deeper-life-members-abolishes-six-month-mandatory-courtship/
Good as it may sound, but what of lives, relationships and faith that has been shattered by these unscriptural laws in the church these years?
What of those that have been suspended and driven out from the church for going contrary to the rules,?
We must be careful, how we set rules in churches, that aren't supported by the scriptures only to relax them after they have caused very harmful effects on the lives, faith of people and relationship.
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by OmoOshodi(m): 11:07pm On Aug 31, 2025
If you can not use your brain... someone will use it for you




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Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by StoryHaven: 11:12pm On Aug 31, 2025
DMerciful:
One man like them making laws for the sheeples!

Have no other God beside me yet some Christians commit idolatry!
Always ready to bash the church and it's leaders. Every institution has its rules. Those who dont are not organised.
If[b] adhering to the rules of the leadership of the church is idolatry and adhering to rules of the leadership of the university and the Nation is wrong, then something is wrong upstairs with who ever has such a notion.[/b]
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by DrYa: 11:14pm On Aug 31, 2025
nlfpmod:
https://thewillnews.com/kumuyi-softens-marriage-rules-for-deeper-life-members-abolishes-six-month-mandatory-courtship/
I listened to this mesage life and direct and all I can say is that this mod/topic is misleading...
Listen to the mesage with a open mind and you will understand what the man of God was saying.

Don't just copy and paste
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by Blessed4sure:
A church is an organization. Organizations have rules, which are purely for administration. Such rules can change any time.

ednut1:
How can humans allow another human dictate for them on how to live theirs lives. Something that is not even in the bible. Nawa o. For years people who were not compatible not know themselves were getting married. This kind end time church ehn
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by Cti28(m): 11:46pm On Aug 31, 2025
DMerciful:
One man like them making laws for the sheeples!

Have no other God beside me yet some Christians commit idolatry!
No be small sheeples and this remins me of Animal Farm by George Orwell's
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by saintkel(m): 11:54pm On Aug 31, 2025
Nazgul:
The problem I've noticed about most men of God is that they can't differentiate between an instruction and a doctrine.

That's why a pastor who said TV is bad few decades ago has a TV station and live stream his services.

This is why people keep seeing the church of today as a joke.
Kumuyi admitted he made mistakes too like any mortal man.....things like television ain't in d Bible to say it's a must....but u see holiness and righteousness?....those are a must for a Christian if u want to make heaven....forget all dis media hype about tv, cloth n all that...we know what baba meant n what he said
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by Cti28(m): 12:02am On Sep 01, 2025
StoryHaven:
Always ready to bash the church and it's leaders. Every institution has its rules. Those who dont are not organised.
If[b] adhering to the rules of the leadership of the church is idolatry and adhering to rules of the leadership of the university and the Nation is wrong, then something is wrong upstairs with who ever has such a notion.
[/b]
His not bashing the Church. If I may ask what is a Church? The true Church has Christ as it's leader. And not one man calling the shot.

The Church is not an organization. Rather what you people misconstrue as a Church, which is rather a man made organization. Denomination is not a Church, there is a sharp contrast between the Church and denomination.
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by ufotunang: 12:04am On Sep 01, 2025
Nazgul:
The problem I've noticed about most men of God is that they can't differentiate between an instruction and a doctrine.

That's why a pastor who said TV is bad few decades ago has a TV station and live stream his services.

This is why people keep seeing the church of today as a joke.
.. I remember some years ago where deeper life members did not have TV..they said that pastor kumuyi told them that watching TV is a sin
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by Abigailwebsites(f): 12:19am On Sep 01, 2025
Wow
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by okomile(f): 12:22am On Sep 01, 2025
Make dem dey play

The woman in my bq is a member
Her two daughters married their men in the men's churches and dey did not bother about the said rules

They will loose the upcoming generations if care is not taken

I come In peace
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by eagleonearth(m): 12:27am On Sep 01, 2025
geoworldedu:
I am waiting for you to nullify the idea of hell fire. That's when I will start taking you seriously.
that is a fact stated by Jesus Christ. It was not any man that told you that hell exists.
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by Neoteny(m): 12:54am On Sep 01, 2025
ednut1:
How can humans allow another human dictate for them on how to live theirs lives. Something that is not even in the bible. Nawa o. For years people who were not compatible not know themselves were getting married. This kind end time church ehn
A certain gentleman was said to have come down a mountain with two tablets (no, not iPads) with 10 commands on them for billions of people.

So undecided
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by InvertedHammer: 1:16am On Sep 01, 2025
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Every sect has its doctrines. A man or bunch of men sit together and come up with the most absurd of rules for their sheep. The best dissenters can do is to abandon ship and form their own sect. That's how we ended up with thousands of religious sects. I dare say that only about 1% of religious doctrines are divine mandates. The rest is derived from some deranged lunatics verbalizing loud their soliloquy.

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Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by SmartyPants(m): 1:21am On Sep 01, 2025
Dandsome:
Many relationships have been scattered cos of these rules long before now
What kind of relationship would be scattered by 6 months courtship?
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by flexyrule(m): 2:26am On Sep 01, 2025
geoworldedu:
I am waiting for you to nullify the idea of hellfire. That's when I will start taking you seriously.
Someone once said... It's better to believe in hell... When you die and discover that there's no hell, you've got nothing to lose..

But what if you don't belive in hell, then you die, only to realise that it exists?
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by Tohsynetita1(m): 3:19am On Sep 01, 2025
SmartyPants:
What kind of relationship would be scattered by 6 months courtship?
What he meant is 6 months is not enough to court.
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by Originalsly: 4:45am On Sep 01, 2025
If the church follows the teachings of the Bible there will be no need for church rules nor doctrines. No doubt... there should be marriage counseling sessions to educate members and help them avoid entering unequally yoked marriages. Too many churches have Marriage Committees that make marriage decisions .... basically ...match makers.
Re: Kumuyi Abolishes 6-month Mandatory Courtship For Church Members by ShyHussaini: 5:04am On Sep 01, 2025
ednut1:
How can humans allow another human dictate for them on how to live theirs lives. Something that is not even in the bible. Nawa o. For years people who were not compatible not know themselves were getting married. This kind end time church ehn
You live in a country where everything is dictated to you. Someone in far away London decide your leaders and all yet you're surprised that the church operated under a law that's not even grievous to the adherence of it. The church is not an end time church.
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