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Last year I met a girl who she claimed to be a nice girl, I was having a good intention of settling down with her not when she told me she has two son elsewhere. I was like two son but she told me the father of the two children are not dating but the children are with their father people.

We started in a good tone but not when she took in for me, she gave me condition that I am going to see her parents and also be responsible for her two children and I said over my dead body. I told her I can go and see your parents but I will not be responsible for your two children and she said we need to remove the pregnancy and I said no problem. She claimed to remove the pregnancy but all the drugs didn't work but when I took the responsibility of keeping the child she was so excited.

Since the day she gave birth everything about her change towards me, when she was staying with her former Guy, she took the two children and ran away from the man but when she discovered she can no longer handle the bill of the children she returns it to the man and the man took the children and returned them to her sister. The former Guy sister has been the one taking care of the two children.

Now, the two children came to visit their father for holiday now my wife left my house and go and see the children and hide my own child saying she doesn't want the children to know she has given birth. I have been having issues with her concerning the children, now the father of the children said she don't have business with her.

Guess what happened today, my wife knows very well that I am too attached with my four months baby, she took my baby and park her things and ran away from my house and my baby is just four months. I don't know her where about. People are saying I should calm down but I can't sleep. I met her former Guy and the guy told me she's a big fool, that she supposed to be happy that she see a man who accepts her even after giving birth for two. I don't really know what to do.

How many times are we going to warn you people to desist from single mothers, you won't hear, oga face ur consequences

Notify her parent, trust me all what the lady needs from you is the baby, since she have lost her other two kids to the Family of her ex, now that she have another new born from you, to her she doesn't need you anymore, when she nurse the baby up to a year plus, she will be jumping from one man to another for money, don't stress yourself looking for her, just notify her parent that you no longer know her whereabouts so that you can be free from any future allegations her people may raise against you. Let her be for now, when the baby is up to two years, track her down and make sure you do DNA to be sure the baby is yours and be doing the little you can do for the baby , because as for now, the baby is too small for you to claim custody

It is not about her formal or informal guy, it's that you wanted to remove the pregnancy.
She probably can sense the baby would be a star!

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Austinbiggy:
Last year I meant a girl who she claimed to be a nice girl, I was having a good intention of settling down with her not when she told me she has two son elsewhere. I was like two son but she told me the father of the two children are not dating but the children are with there father people.
We start in a good tone but not when she took in for me, she gave me condition that am going to see her parents and also be responsible for her two children and I said over my dead body. I told her I can go and see your parents but I will not be responsible for your two children and she said we need to remove the pregnancy and I said no problem. She claimed to remove the pregnancy but all the drugs didn't work but when I took the responsibility of keeping the child she was so excited.
Since the day she gave birth everything about her change towards me, when she was staying with her formal Guy, she took the two children and ran away from the man but when she discovered she can no longer handle the bill of the children she returns it to the man and the man took the children and returned them to her sister. The formal Guy sister has been the one taking care of the two children. Now, the two children came to visit there father for holiday now my wife left my house and go and see the children and hide my own child saying she don't want the children to know she has given birth. I have been having issues with her concerning the children, now the father of the children said she don't have business with her.
Guess what happened today, my wife knows very well that am too attached with my four months baby, she took my baby and park her things and ran away from my house and my baby is just four months. I don't know her where about. People are saying I should calm down but I can't sleep. I meant her formal Guy and the guy told me she's a big fool, that she supposed to be happy that she see a man who accepts her even after giving birth for two. I don't really know what to do.

relax, Tinubu economy will reset her brain and she will bring your son back.


But I don't know what will fix your own brain. You saw a problem and jumped into it with two legs

michlins:
relax, Tinubu economy will reset her brain and she will bring your son back.


But I don't know what will fix your own brain. You saw a problem and jumped into it with two legs

That's what am regretting. I saw it and jumped inside. Just like what you said tinubu economy will surely reset her brain.

This post will now vindicate the Ediko guy.

It is well with you.

DoctorStanley:
It is not about her formal or informal guy, it's that you wanted to remove the pregnancy.
She probably can sense the baby would be a star!

. Omoh,what kind of mentality is this naaahhhhhh? . The way some of you reason en,it makes me to wonder if God actually gave brain to some people and left others to wander around with empty skulls

Some men will never learn

Avoid single mothers like a dreaded disease you said no now she don't use you collect count

Single mother a No go Area but my gender of Penisetum Purpureum will never Hear........... Lalami3232 don preach this thing taya........All the preaching fall on deaf Ears. Na wa!!!

Now, Single mother 3 Vs 0 Austin.

Btw, She went back to see her two kids in her Baby daddy's house when they came for holidays.........OKAFOR'S Law of Congoelasticity must Play out.......E no get wetin anybody wan tell me.........Okafor's law, A very stringent law.

The first baby father must have his reasonable reasons for leaving

Sonnobax15:
. Omoh,what kind of mentality is this naaahhhhhh? . The way some of you reason en,it makes me to wonder if God actually gave brain to some people and left others to wander around with empty skulls

Didn't you see him saying "her formal guy" everywhere. How someone can think "former" is "formal", I don't know!😅

Op, don't stress yourself, she will come back when the responsibilities hit on her, except if she's doing well financially or meet another mugun.

Out of all the single girls in the world, you chose a single mum.
Runaway as fast as your legs can carry you. Una dey think say naa play.

You can only have a good time with single mum's and help her if you can. Why will you get so attached to the extent of getting her pregnant?

If you had seek your parents advise. They would have told you not to proceed.
Keep telling all her friends what she has done and get your baby back. Don't keep calm

GOFRONT:
Single mother a No go Area but my gender of Penisetum Purpureum will never Hear........... Lalami3232 don preach this thing taya........All the preaching fall on deaf Ears. Na wa!!!

Now, Single mother 3 Vs 0 Austin.

Btw, She went back to see her two kids in her Baby daddy's house when they came for holidays.........OKAFOR'S Law of Congoelasticity must Play out.......E no get wetin anybody wan tell me.........Okafor's law, A very stringent law.

Thank you for tagging me here. No matter what we preach or say, most men won't learn their lessons atall. Dem go continue to fall for this same trap. Someone who's in this same situation is reading this stuff and still won't learn. Anyways, let the stubborn fly learn in the grave na. E go fit even shock the man say no be he pikin . The woman just dey use dem play pingpong game, so annoying. Oga if you get money, go do DNA test for your child first, maybe na that one go give you sleepless year and not sleepless night. Some men go wan take ownership of a public bus... Who does that

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

You go give single woman of two belle ke,I pray it never gets to a level where I’d struggle to attract single girls sha

You saw big problem and you put your neck willingly.. The only single mother worth marrying is a widow .
I’m sure the ex husband didn’t tell you the part where he knack your wife wetin no good when she went to visit her children 😂😂

You this guy with your conflicting stories. Shebi na you get hand to dey type. Continue. Mr. Storyteller.

I don't pity any man that die again because of one woman....

What is that thing that is so sweet in a single mother or divorcee ?

I pity myself for reading this again today despite our warning long ago.

Whatever reason make a woman to run from her husband, will continue to chase her away from any man no matter what. In 99% cases this gender are at fault

You left a single girl out there destined for you to chase clout...... Or didn't you ask yourself if this is God's willing for you?

You not only shoot your self in the leg, You deliberately submit your leg to be shot several times. And you are asking for solution.
You dug a pit for yourself and fall into it and you are asking for help

Pupanchie:
How many times are we going to warn you people to desist from single mothers, you won't hear, oga face ur consequences

Are single mothers no longer human beings? Are you saying you don't have any in your family?

You can't use behavior of some people to judge everyone.

The same way girls are complaining of no good guys to date is the same way guys are complaining of no good girls to date. Which of them is right or wrong?

Everybody with him own problem

Wahala too plenty for this life

Aside from issue or death of husband or maybe the lady left her marriage due to physical abuse... Most single mothers are not people to build a home with. They are just out to drain you both financially and emotionally.

Austinbiggy:
Last year I met a girl who she claimed to be a nice girl, I was having a good intention of settling down with her not when she told me she has two son elsewhere. I was like two son but she told me the father of the two children are not dating but the children are with their father people.

We started in a good tone but not when she took in for me, she gave me condition that I am going to see her parents and also be responsible for her two children and I said over my dead body. I told her I can go and see your parents but I will not be responsible for your two children and she said we need to remove the pregnancy and I said no problem. She claimed to remove the pregnancy but all the drugs didn't work but when I took the responsibility of keeping the child she was so excited.

Since the day she gave birth everything about her change towards me, when she was staying with her former Guy, she took the two children and ran away from the man but when she discovered she can no longer handle the bill of the children she returns it to the man and the man took the children and returned them to her sister. The former Guy sister has been the one taking care of the two children.

Now, the two children came to visit their father for holiday now my wife left my house and go and see the children and hide my own child saying she doesn't want the children to know she has given birth. I have been having issues with her concerning the children, now the father of the children said she don't have business with her.

Guess what happened today, my wife knows very well that I am too attached with my four months baby, she took my baby and park her things and ran away from my house and my baby is just four months. I don't know her where about. People are saying I should calm down but I can't sleep. I met her former Guy and the guy told me she's a big fool, that she supposed to be happy that she see a man who accepts her even after giving birth for two. I don't really know what to do.

I'm very sure you saw some red flags at the beginning of your relationship with her but you chose to ignore them

Austinbiggy:
Last year I met a girl who she claimed to be a nice girl, I was having a good intention of settling down with her not when she told me she has two son elsewhere. I was like two son but she told me the father of the two children are not dating but the children are with their father people.

We started in a good tone but not when she took in for me, she gave me condition that I am going to see her parents and also be responsible for her two children and I said over my dead body. I told her I can go and see your parents but I will not be responsible for your two children and she said we need to remove the pregnancy and I said no problem. She claimed to remove the pregnancy but all the drugs didn't work but when I took the responsibility of keeping the child she was so excited.

Since the day she gave birth everything about her change towards me, when she was staying with her former Guy, she took the two children and ran away from the man but when she discovered she can no longer handle the bill of the children she returns it to the man and the man took the children and returned them to her sister. The former Guy sister has been the one taking care of the two children.

Now, the two children came to visit their father for holiday now my wife left my house and go and see the children and hide my own child saying she doesn't want the children to know she has given birth. I have been having issues with her concerning the children, now the father of the children said she don't have business with her.

Guess what happened today, my wife knows very well that I am too attached with my four months baby, she took my baby and park her things and ran away from my house and my baby is just four months. I don't know her where about. People are saying I should calm down but I can't sleep. I met her former Guy and the guy told me she's a big fool, that she supposed to be happy that she see a man who accepts her even after giving birth for two. I don't really know what to do.

Your story gets so many k legs, your woman left your house to go and greet her ex, claiming she wanted to see her kids.

I doubt if you know, baby boy is hotcake business in Nigeria.

Your child has possibly sold to couples who needs him.

Meanwhile, learn how to do proper relationship with women,you said know, you have plan of having kids with woman, yet you didn't know any of her siblings. Even if she is blocking you, you should have forced her or manipulate to know her people.