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Why you go allow that

Have u checked for her at her family house? Since u ca her ur wife I believe u know her family properly?

Austinbiggy It weakens me when I see the kind of men we still have in our generation. From your naration, the lady already pictured you as a complete weak man and played on you.

Firstly, she never took any drug to abort the pregnancy, she played a game to test your weakness and when she confirmed you're a weak man she decided to keep the pregnancy.

Anyway, Mr good and kind hearted man please go ahead and marry your single mother and also to be a very good man, please take care of her 2 children outside because she already gave you the condition.

PLEASE LET'S TREAT OUR WOMEN WELL.
IT'S NOT A CRIME TO BE A SINGLE MOTHER OF 2.

Search for her bro and get your kids back if you can't do it physical do it spiritual na just 7 bitter Kola and one other thing you go join together and do the the right thing wallahi if na inside ground she carry your kids go na by herself she go bring them to you within 72 hours.

Hello indomitable kids don't make mistake to ask me any question about what I said I won't reply you ok.

jaxxy:
Have u checked for her at her family house? Since u ca her ur wife I believe u know her family properly?

I don't know her family and I only know one of his uncle.

This lady is a serial philanderer, it's only a matter of time she will get pregnant for another man. She doesn't know what she wants and will jump at anything that looked like attractive. Make arrangements to take your baby away from her, and care for the baby.

Talkisneeded:
You go give single woman of two belle ke,I pray it never gets to a level where I’d struggle to attract single girls sha

Men with low self esteem always think they can use single mother to form Lord and Savior

Austinbiggy:
I don't know her family and I only know one of his uncle.

How can u marry or have kids with someone that u don't know her parents?

This is not the right way to do things and u allowed it.

Austinbiggy:
I don't know her family and I only know one of his uncle.

Lol.... Funny guy

Don't worry yourself. She'll run back the way she ran out but you'll be the biggest fool if you accept her back. What is pursuing her out is bigger than what can keep her in.

Figure out a way you can take care of your child once you know her whereabouts.

michlins:
relax, Tinubu economy will reset her brain and she will bring your son back.


But I don't know what will fix your own brain. You saw a problem and jumped into it with two legs

Valid 😂😂😂✅✅✅

Austinbiggy:
I don't know her family and I only know one of his uncle.

And you're referring to her as your wife upandan! How's she your wife?

Austinbiggy:
Last year I met a girl who she claimed to be a nice girl, I was having a good intention of settling down with her not when she told me she has two son elsewhere. I was like two son but she told me the father of the two children are not dating but the children are with their father people.

We started in a good tone but not when she took in for me, she gave me condition that I am going to see her parents and also be responsible for her two children and I said over my dead body. I told her I can go and see your parents but I will not be responsible for your two children and she said we need to remove the pregnancy and I said no problem. She claimed to remove the pregnancy but all the drugs didn't work but when I took the responsibility of keeping the child she was so excited.

Since the day she gave birth everything about her change towards me, when she was staying with her former Guy, she took the two children and ran away from the man but when she discovered she can no longer handle the bill of the children she returns it to the man and the man took the children and returned them to her sister. The former Guy sister has been the one taking care of the two children.

Now, the two children came to visit their father for holiday now my wife left my house and go and see the children and hide my own child saying she doesn't want the children to know she has given birth. I have been having issues with her concerning the children, now the father of the children said she don't have business with her.

Guess what happened today, my wife knows very well that I am too attached with my four months baby, she took my baby and park her things and ran away from my house and my baby is just four months. I don't know her where about. People are saying I should calm down but I can't sleep. I met her former Guy and the guy told me she's a big fool, that she supposed to be happy that she see a man who accepts her even after giving birth for two. I don't really know what to do.

The problem is not the lady. The problem is you! You thought you could save a damsel in distress - the clean-up guy. What happened to your testosterone - Nice Guy?
People who make this sort of decision are the "my mother raised me" crew, who believe that women are angels and deserve protection and tender support.
Learn this: you don't ever judge women by their outlook or your observations, but their results and their nature. The results so far will tell you everything you need to know while their very nature will always manifest.
My advice: the more needy you become, the more you are pawned. Your strength is manifested in your ability to disconnect from her and by extension, the baby. Deaden your hunger to provide and nurture until it's right. For now, she is playing games that you can never win. At best, exit the arena, then participate when the need calls. Then, and only then will you come as a man and set the terms. More so, she is not your wife. She belongs to many.

Sonnobax15:
. Omoh,what kind of mentality is this naaahhhhhh? . The way some of you reason en,it makes me to wonder if God actually gave brain to some people and left others to wander around with empty skulls

Too much Bible reading can do that to brains

1) How is she your wife?
2) What part of the story shows she is a nice girl. I am not one to judge people, so I guess I missed the supposed nice qualities that made you decide to embark on this.
3) You owe your kids a stable parent. Can you see how you have messed that boy's life up by getting entangled with this woman?
4) You don't know any member of her family. Is she an orphan? Shouldn't that have been a red flag?
5) Do you have any health challenge? Maybe mental. I am wondering what made an able-bodied man do this.
6) Given her history, don't fret, she would be back. What you will do when she is back is what I don't know. She is not even good to raise a child. This one is a critical case. Next time don't lay with a woman you cannot marry or trust with raising your child. Igbos have an adage on that because of cases like this. I wish you the best.

people will never learn
stay away from these single mothers. they will act all lovie but give them time, they will show their true colors.

mostly those that their exes are still alive.

They make it seem like they give birth because of men .... like they are doing men a favour ....but when e set...dem go carry pikin run

They want men to keep on making stupid mistakes that benefit women...reason why they hate geh ghe

Sonnobax15:
. Omoh,what kind of mentality is this naaahhhhhh? . The way some of you reason en,it makes me to wonder if God actually gave brain to some people and left others to wander around with empty skulls

l join you too in your comment. As l read the story l want to comment but l am just dey speechless, lost in thought and in short thoughtless. But why but why maka why wetin be this which kind thing be this now?

Pupanchie:
How many times are we going to warn you people to desist from single mothers, you won't hear, oga face ur consequences

Very nice response.
These are the same people that will attack us when we advice them.

One thing I've noticed about single mothers is that they're emotionally damaged women and these set of people only know 2 set of men: Smart men and Mug + u men, there's nothing like a good or kind men their vocabulary.

Women look at men before they say certain things to a man, for a single mother of 2 to look at a single young man and give him the condition that he must marry her and also take care of her not just 1 but 2 children means that she's regarding the man as a complete weak and m -u g_u man.

From his narration, the guy Na very weak si _mp and the lady is capitalising on his weakness.

She first tested his weakness and when she confirmed that he's a weak man she decided to keep the pregnancy. You think you lady is a fool to carelessly get pregnant and keep the pregnancy after 2 children as a single mother ?

The kain bad spirit wey dey follow that woman ehn. She can never have a stable home until she is delivered from it. She couldn't live with man number one, and now she by herself has left man number two. She will still have man number three and will be unable to live with that one too

Austinbiggy:
Last year I met a girl who she claimed to be a nice girl, I was having a good intention of settling down with her not when she told me she has two son elsewhere. I was like two son but she told me the father of the two children are not dating but the children are with their father people.

We started in a good tone but not when she took in for me, she gave me condition that I am going to see her parents and also be responsible for her two children and I said over my dead body. I told her I can go and see your parents but I will not be responsible for your two children and she said we need to remove the pregnancy and I said no problem. She claimed to remove the pregnancy but all the drugs didn't work but when I took the responsibility of keeping the child she was so excited.

Since the day she gave birth everything about her change towards me, when she was staying with her former Guy, she took the two children and ran away from the man but when she discovered she can no longer handle the bill of the children she returns it to the man and the man took the children and returned them to her sister. The former Guy sister has been the one taking care of the two children.

Now, the two children came to visit their father for holiday now my wife left my house and go and see the children and hide my own child saying she doesn't want the children to know she has given birth. I have been having issues with her concerning the children, now the father of the children said she don't have business with her.

Guess what happened today, my wife knows very well that I am too attached with my four months baby, she took my baby and park her things and ran away from my house and my baby is just four months. I don't know her where about. People are saying I should calm down but I can't sleep. I met her former Guy and the guy told me she's a big fool, that she supposed to be happy that she see a man who accepts her even after giving birth for two. I don't really know what to do.

Another Ohhhhhluku. Una no dey hear word. Of all women in this world, why always single mothers? It's not that we are judging them, no. It's simply because most of these single mothers are nothing to write home about. They are so mean.. una no dey hear word. Make una no dey disturb person with una stories everytime.

You are the big F.... L

You are attached to your baby and you let a woman know that..?

You have handed your power over to her that way...

Learn this, no matter how much love you have for a woman, never show her that you are attached to someone, something, someplace etc. Because the moment she wants to suffer you, that thing you are attached to becomes her number one target.. and object of her manipulation.

Then secondly, which one is you cannot sleep because your child is not around? My brother, I am talking to you like a brother nii... If you don't want to die young, better learn to take things easy because you are not the first person to have a child and you will not be the last ever... Have you thought about it that if you die this very moment, that child will still live his life as any child would... The child will still grow up and even attain his life's goals without you.

Then this woman you are calling my wife, my wife.. I have to tell you, she's not your wife... She's just your baby mama and unless you are not someone who gets a lot of action from women, you may want to settle for someone with 2 kids who does not want people to know she has another kid elsewhere...

She has seen that you do not get any attention from women so she's even the one who is like your major hit, (as worse off as she is with 2 kids) that's the way she's thinking.... So she can do anything to you and she knows she will get away with it...

If she comes back to you today and sheds some fake tears you will take her back and in fact boil the rice that she will eat that night... She has seen that pattern and she's committed to exploring it to the hilt.

You can change that pattern if you want though by first making her know that you are not attached to your child as she thinks (though you and I know that you are) when she comes back, you send her packing with the child again so that she will be surprised to see that you can live your life with or without your child around you... In that way, she will not do that again... See I can go on and on... But first try this one...

Austinbiggy:
Last year I met a girl who she claimed to be a nice girl, I was having a good intention of settling down with her not when she told me she has two son elsewhere. I was like two son but she told me the father of the two children are not dating but the children are with their father people.

We started in a good tone but not when she took in for me, she gave me condition that I am going to see her parents and also be responsible for her two children and I said over my dead body. I told her I can go and see your parents but I will not be responsible for your two children and she said we need to remove the pregnancy and I said no problem. She claimed to remove the pregnancy but all the drugs didn't work but when I took the responsibility of keeping the child she was so excited.

Since the day she gave birth everything about her change towards me, when she was staying with her former Guy, she took the two children and ran away from the man but when she discovered she can no longer handle the bill of the children she returns it to the man and the man took the children and returned them to her sister. The former Guy sister has been the one taking care of the two children.

Now, the two children came to visit their father for holiday now my wife left my house and go and see the children and hide my own child saying she doesn't want the children to know she has given birth. I have been having issues with her concerning the children, now the father of the children said she don't have business with her.

Guess what happened today, my wife knows very well that I am too attached with my four months baby, she took my baby and park her things and ran away from my house and my baby is just four months. I don't know her where about. People are saying I should calm down but I can't sleep. I met her former Guy and the guy told me she's a big fool, that she supposed to be happy that she see a man who accepts her even after giving birth for two. I don't really know what to do.

Fiscus105:
Your story gets so many k legs, your woman left your house to go and greet her ex, claiming she wanted to see her kids.

I doubt if you know, baby boy is hotcake business in Nigeria.

Your child has possibly sold to couples who needs him.

Meanwhile, learn how to do proper relationship with women,you said know, you have plan of having kids with woman, yet you didn't know any of her siblings. Even if she is blocking you, you should have forced her or manipulate to know her people.

Check his profile and you'll understand why his story has k leg. What you're reading here is pure fiction. He tells different stories all the time.

I sympathize with you with what she did.
But pls I want to beg you and most other people with same grammatical errors. When next you want to make a post and you're not that good in writing, spelling and arranging words. Try and get someone to help you out so that when someone like us is reading, we won't have headache reading your post.
It was with brain and IQ I managed to discern all what you wrote above.
Pls guys, for the sake of our sanity. Thanks

This one go don pain you well-well. 😀
Including your brothers, AdvancedDNA and Nonexistent (abi wetin be that other guy moniker again sef?) 🤔💭

ediko5:
Very nice response.
These are the same people that will attack us when we advice them.

One thing I've noticed about single mothers is that they're emotionally damaged women and these set of people only know 2 set of men: Smart men and Mug + u men, there's nothing like a good or kind men their vocabulary.

Women look at men before they say certain things to a man, for a single mother of 2 to look at a single young man and give him the condition that he must marry her and also take care of her not just 1 but 2 children means that she's regarding the man as a complete weak and m -u g_u man.

From his narration, the guy Na very weak si _mp and the lady is capitalising on his weakness.

She first tested his weakness and when she confirmed that he's a weak man she decided to keep the pregnancy. You think you lady is a fool to carelessly get pregnant and keep the pregnancy after 2 children as a single mother ?