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Outside of the little 50k, 100k You call 50 to 100 k little only you not to talk about the one the man use to send to your parent ooo that money is some workers salary in this country ,lazy man go and look for work don't kill the man or maybe is your Papa that send him overseas Guys never married into a family that they have jobless brother \sister

isyourboy:
I’m not the begging type as I have a lot of things going on for myself. My sister joined her husband in Canada last year courtesy of her husband. Outside of the little 50k, 100k there that this man used to send to me (I don’t know how much he gives my parent — In law, by the way ), he’s never thought of establishing me in business or find a way for me to join my sister in Canada.

Even most times you have to remind him before he send the pittance he sent to me. Last week, I told him to find a way for me to join my sister in Canada, and he said he’s still paying for the debt he took for my sister to join him and he want to send her to school also. Meanwhile I didn’t know this. Okay then I can wait. After then I told him to find me a bulk sum so I can start some business. He asked how much and I said 5M naira would be enough, he cut the phone, called him back and send him msg on WhatsApp which he read and didn’t reply. I called my sister and told her what her husband did and she said she will talk to him.

You have been in Canada for a while and little things to give back to the family is difficult for you? Not his fault

Lazy man, he owes you nothing. You are a man like him.

cooltola:
Very useless and entitled post. I have been to Canada, so I know how hard it is to find work. You act like your bro in law is Dangote when in reality he trying survive.

Why did you come back from Canada? Please tell us we japa yoots!

I'm so angry reading this. The fact that your profile shows you are make equally doesn't help matters. Because he's in Canada and married to your sister, he should be your bread winner. I equally believe your are not disabled both physically and mentally.
He owes you nothing and any dimension you get from him should be appreciated.
Most will be calculating what the guy makes and be converting to naira as if naira is spent in Canada. They may barely have enough left after expenses. You should be grateful your sister has joined her husband. Don't put cog in the wheel of their marriage progress. Look for how to sort out yourself here indepent of your in-law. He also has his extended family too, who may have people with your kind of mentality.
Give them space.

What kind of entitlement mentality be dis? Person wey dey dash you 50 to 100k and you still claim he's stingy. Haaaaa!!!! Fear god oo.
You even told him to send or help you with 5 million to start a biz after he told you he's sponsoring your sis to school and he's still indebted.

I no just understand . Imagine. Oya you sef imagine. Make you sef imagine wetin you dey yahn again na.

Some people go just dey rubbish people who are overseas as if those there dey pick money for ground . Na your papi and Mami send your inlaw go Canada ?

Your issues you and your families problems.

Wahala for men who marry from an entitled family. Him just need to assist minimally with in laws. This is how una they destroy marriages abroad.

Wait for when your sister start to work. Him go help him parents and sometimes siblings come add your whole family join. Just last year your sister went and he said him never adjust. If na me na block I go give you for3 years minimum.

isyourboy:
I’m not the begging type as I have a lot of things going on for myself. My sister joined her husband in Canada last year courtesy of her husband. Outside of the little 50k, 100k there that this man used to send to me (I don’t know how much he gives my parent — In law, by the way ), he’s never thought of establishing me in business or find a way for me to join my sister in Canada.

Even most times you have to remind him before he send the pittance he sent to me. Last week, I told him to find a way for me to join my sister in Canada, and he said he’s still paying for the debt he took for my sister to join him and he want to send her to school also. Meanwhile I didn’t know this. Okay then I can wait. After then I told him to find me a bulk sum so I can start some business. He asked how much and I said 5M naira would be enough, he cut the phone, called him back and send him msg on WhatsApp which he read and didn’t reply. I called my sister and told her what her husband did and she said she will talk to him.

You have been in Canada for a while and little things to give back to the family is difficult for you? Not his fault

isyourboy:
I’m not the begging type as I have a lot of things going on for myself. My sister joined her husband in Canada last year courtesy of her husband. Outside of the little 50k, 100k there that this man used to send to me (I don’t know how much he gives my parent — In law, by the way ), he’s never thought of establishing me in business or find a way for me to join my sister in Canada.

Even most times you have to remind him before he send the pittance he sent to me. Last week, I told him to find a way for me to join my sister in Canada, and he said he’s still paying for the debt he took for my sister to join him and he want to send her to school also. Meanwhile I didn’t know this. Okay then I can wait. After then I told him to find me a bulk sum so I can start some business. He asked how much and I said 5M naira would be enough, he cut the phone, called him back and send him msg on WhatsApp which he read and didn’t reply. I called my sister and told her what her husband did and she said she will talk to him.

You have been in Canada for a while and little things to give back to the family is difficult for you? Not his fault

No go work

isyourboy:
I’m not the begging type as I have a lot of things going on for myself. My sister joined her husband in Canada last year courtesy of her husband. Outside of the little 50k, 100k there that this man used to send to me (I don’t know how much he gives my parent — In law, by the way ), he’s never thought of establishing me in business or find a way for me to join my sister in Canada.

Even most times you have to remind him before he send the pittance he sent to me. Last week, I told him to find a way for me to join my sister in Canada, and he said he’s still paying for the debt he took for my sister to join him and he want to send her to school also. Meanwhile I didn’t know this. Okay then I can wait. After then I told him to find me a bulk sum so I can start some business. He asked how much and I said 5M naira would be enough, he cut the phone, called him back and send him msg on WhatsApp which he read and didn’t reply. I called my sister and told her what her husband did and she said she will talk to him.

You have been in Canada for a while and little things to give back to the family is difficult for you? Not his fault

See this one, did you send him to Canada? Is he owing you? He is your inlaw, when did he suddenly became family? To you, 5m is little, isn't it? Entitlement, don't go and hustle.

What did you even mean by joining your sister in Canada? My friend, are you not a man or human being?

I pour you spit

isyourboy:
I’m not the begging type as I have a lot of things going on for myself. My sister joined her husband in Canada last year courtesy of her husband. Outside of the little 50k, 100k there that this man used to send to me (I don’t know how much he gives my parent — In law, by the way ), he’s never thought of establishing me in business or find a way for me to join my sister in Canada.

Even most times you have to remind him before he send the pittance he sent to me. Last week, I told him to find a way for me to join my sister in Canada, and he said he’s still paying for the debt he took for my sister to join him and he want to send her to school also. Meanwhile I didn’t know this. Okay then I can wait. After then I told him to find me a bulk sum so I can start some business. He asked how much and I said 5M naira would be enough, he cut the phone, called him back and send him msg on WhatsApp which he read and didn’t reply. I called my sister and told her what her husband did and she said she will talk to him.

You have been in Canada for a while and little things to give back to the family is difficult for you? Not his fault

Is it until you put on clothes with the phrase , "Begger" printed all over the body and got your begging registered officially that you will admit that you are a professional begger, one with entitlement?

isyourboy:
I’m not the begging type as I have a lot of things going on for myself. My sister joined her husband in Canada last year courtesy of her husband. Outside of the little 50k, 100k there that this man used to send to me (I don’t know how much he gives my parent — In law, by the way ), he’s never thought of establishing me in business or find a way for me to join my sister in Canada.

Even most times you have to remind him before he send the pittance he sent to me. Last week, I told him to find a way for me to join my sister in Canada, and he said he’s still paying for the debt he took for my sister to join him and he want to send her to school also. Meanwhile I didn’t know this. Okay then I can wait. After then I told him to find me a bulk sum so I can start some business. He asked how much and I said 5M naira would be enough, he cut the phone, called him back and send him msg on WhatsApp which he read and didn’t reply. I called my sister and told her what her husband did and she said she will talk to him.

You have been in Canada for a while and little things to give back to the family is difficult for you? Not his fault

It lookslike he made a mistake marrying someone in your family. You better go and learn handwork and stop being an entitled parasite. Abi, in all your story what have you done for him? You called 50k and 100k pittance. If it is that small for you, go get a work or ask your father and brothers. Don't stress the innocent man. He did go to Canada because of your family!

advanceDNA:
U can say that again.....

His own sister is now abroad....but he's not harassing her for money....but thinks it's okay to strangle another person's son...complaining that 100k is too small...

some Nigerians just think you have truckload of money because you are abroad... He's wasn't even afraid to call five million naira...

To even mention that the 100k comes in monthly beats my imagination.

armyofone:
True, but the entitlement of Nigerian people ' very real!

Yeah, true, but this particular case, it seems as though the OP's actions are purposefully crafted to irritate or annoy someone.

jetguy:
To nack you two by two from this place the hungry me
This must be a fabricated story sha,
if not, if it easy why can't you find your way down there by yourself....

Nonsensical entitled mentality

The guy just wants responses. Na hoax. No sane adult would truly harbour those feelings OP expressed.

Otherwise, that in-law in Canada is very unfortunate.

1kinggy:
It lookslike he made a mistake marrying someone in your family. You better go and learn handwork and stop being an entitled parasite. Abi, in all your story what have you done for him? You called 50k and 100k pittance. If it is that small for you, go get a work or ask your father and brothers. Don't stress the innocent man. He did go to Canada because of your family!

I pray for the Canada man that the wife he married from this family is not like her brother.

Otherwise, the man will soon hear "are you the first to bring a woman to Canada?"

It's normal,most people abroad are very stingy. Even if they want to send money to you they will be calculating it in naira. It's a syndrome among all of them.

No sister-in-law or In-law can in general can make any demand from me, just because I married your sister or daughter does not mean that I should be financially responsible for you. I do not own anybody anything.

I FEEL LIKE COMING TO KNACK YOU WITH A TWO BY TWO (2X) AKPAKO FOR HEAD THERE. THIS GENERATION OF ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY, WHAT IS EVEN YOUR PROBLEM?, YOUR SISTER AND YOUR INLAW DOESNT OWE YOU ANY HELP OR ASSISTANCE IN LIFE, THEY ARE JUST YOUR SISTER AND YOUR INLAW.

DO YOU KNOW HOW THEY ARE COPING OVER THERE?, DO YOU KNOW HOW HE WAS ABLE TO GET THE LOANS (MONEY) HE TOOK TO EVEN BRING YOUR SISTER DOWN THERE.

IF I WERE THE MAN, I WOULD HAVE BLOCKED YOU FOR LIFE. GO AND GET SOMETHING DOING, AFTER ALL, YOU ARE ALSO A MAN LIKE YOUR INLAW. REDE REDE...[b][/b]

I think I now know the meaning of a Narcissist

busariabeyx24:
What kind of entitlement mentality be dis? Person wey dey dash you 50 to 100k and you still claim he's stingy. Haaaaa!!!! Fear god oo.
You even told him to send or help you with 5 million to start a biz after he told you he's sponsoring your sis to school and he's still indebted.

I no just understand . Imagine. Oya you sef imagine. Make you sef imagine wetin you dey yahn again na.

Some people go just dey rubbish people who are overseas as if those there dey pick money for ground . Na your papi and Mami send your inlaw go Canada ?

I hope after sending the wife to school (usually to study nursing), in Canada, her family will not use juju, lies and everything to scatter the marriage. They do it so they can leech on their now single, fairly good-earning sister/daughter. 9ja na case o.

Emekayoung:
It's normal, most people abroad are very stingy. Even if they want to send money to you they will be calculating it in naira. It's a syndrome among all of them.

It is their money, and they are only doing you a favour by sending you the little amount they can send. It is not as if you have a right to it, they are only extending to you a hand of privilege.

How old are you warey

You have Alot going on for yourself indeed

You even get lucky say em dey send you small small things that's by the way, but the way you type all these it's like you are seriously disturbing this man.

And what makes you think that his own siblings are not on his neck to relocate them as well, bro no be only you oo.He already told you that he is still paying his debt he uses to enter Yankee so chill continue to hustle for now and see how things would work out.

Talkisneeded:
It is fabricated story tho,so why should I be bothered

Go and ask those Nigerians living abroad what they face at the hands of their relations living in Nigeria.

This is a small case.

He is not, he's only prudent because he's working hard to make that money.

Chimbinyelum24:
To even mention that the 100k comes in monthly beats my imagination.

Pple don't understand that the human nature is naturally selfish causing us we think of only ourself most of the time......so when someone thinks of you, debit themselves and credited you that you are not his or her responsibility, the least we can do is be appreciative...

.......Even if it's just 3k....they could have used that money for something else
.

isyourboy:
I’m not the begging type as I have a lot of things going on for myself. My sister joined her husband in Canada last year courtesy of her husband. Outside of the little 50k, 100k there that this man used to send to me (I don’t know how much he gives my parent — In law, by the way ), he’s never thought of establishing me in business or find a way for me to join my sister in Canada.

Even most times you have to remind him before he send the pittance he sent to me. Last week, I told him to find a way for me to join my sister in Canada, and he said he’s still paying for the debt he took for my sister to join him and he want to send her to school also. Meanwhile I didn’t know this. Okay then I can wait. After then I told him to find me a bulk sum so I can start some business. He asked how much and I said 5M naira would be enough, he cut the phone, called him back and send him msg on WhatsApp which he read and didn’t reply. I called my sister and told her what her husband did and she said she will talk to him.

You have been in Canada for a while and little things to give back to the family is difficult for you? Not his fault

You no go see better, see entitlement, make Ogun kee

On top which person money

Funny people