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Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by aswani(m): 10:14am On Sep 04, 2025
Berankis:
My own blood brother never sent me a dime for about 15years he travelled to Germany but has built houses here grin
So, this is just a lesson for you...
I know someone that went to US, didn't send shishi to anybody, got deported and now complains bitterly that people that he didn't send anything to that are now abroad have forgotten him.

God will never allows Nigerians into heaven, Walahi talahi.
Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by JustcallmeFavou(f): 10:19am On Sep 04, 2025
isyourboy:
I’m not the begging type as I have a lot of things going on for myself. My sister joined her husband in Canada last year courtesy of her husband. Outside of the little 50k, 100k there that this man used to send to me (I don’t know how much he gives my parent — In law, by the way ), he’s never thought of establishing me in business or find a way for me to join my sister in Canada.

Even most times you have to remind him before he send the pittance he sent to me. Last week, I told him to find a way for me to join my sister in Canada, and he said he’s still paying for the debt he took for my sister to join him and he want to send her to school also. Meanwhile I didn’t know this. Okay then I can wait. After then I told him to find me a bulk sum so I can start some business. He asked how much and I said 5M naira would be enough, he cut the phone, called him back and send him msg on WhatsApp which he read and didn’t reply. I called my sister and told her what her husband did and she said she will talk to him.

You have been in Canada for a while and little things to give back to the family is difficult for you? Not his fault
If this is true, the sender is high. The person is not even your direct sibling, but a brother in-law, and you're this entitled to his money that you don't even know how hard he worked for.

Even if he is your sibling, as long as you're an adult, and can fend for yourself, don't be entitled. You're such a shameless, and ungrateful person! I hope he doesn't even assist you, or look your way ever again!
Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by AKWATGOLD1(m): 10:35am On Sep 04, 2025
ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY.
Please go and find something do. Your story is smelling for my hear.

isyourboy:
I’m not the begging type as I have a lot of things going on for myself. My sister joined her husband in Canada last year courtesy of her husband. Outside of the little 50k, 100k there that this man used to send to me (I don’t know how much he gives my parent — In law, by the way ), he’s never thought of establishing me in business or find a way for me to join my sister in Canada.

Even most times you have to remind him before he send the pittance he sent to me. Last week, I told him to find a way for me to join my sister in Canada, and he said he’s still paying for the debt he took for my sister to join him and he want to send her to school also. Meanwhile I didn’t know this. Okay then I can wait. After then I told him to find me a bulk sum so I can start some business. He asked how much and I said 5M naira would be enough, he cut the phone, called him back and send him msg on WhatsApp which he read and didn’t reply. I called my sister and told her what her husband did and she said she will talk to him.

You have been in Canada for a while and little things to give back to the family is difficult for you? Not his fault
Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by ednut1(m): 11:39am On Sep 04, 2025
Sandralight:
Good evening Sir
Yes Sir
seen 👍
Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by DiarisGodoo: 12:00pm On Sep 04, 2025
Kobicove:
I refuse to believe that this is real.

This person is just looking for engagement!
And he got it!!
His first Frontpage in 23 topics since he opened his account in 2017!
Congrats isyourboy

DiarisGodooo!!! (In Mama Peace voice), my famous moniker grin
Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by DiarisGodoo: 12:04pm On Sep 04, 2025
cococandy:
He said it’s a pittance. Lord have mercy
But let's be honest, is it not a pittance?


DiarisGodooo!!! (In Mama Peace voice), my famous moniker grin
Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by DiarisGodoo: 12:14pm On Sep 04, 2025
Dancebreaker:
I pray for the Canada man that the wife he married from this family is not like her brother.

Otherwise, the man will soon hear "are you the first to bring a woman to Canada?"
He'd DEFINITELY hear that and worse, regardless
Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by Sandralight(f): 12:43pm On Sep 04, 2025
ednut1:
seen 👍
Good afternoon Sir
Thank you so much 🙏
Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by CGN1(m): 1:10pm On Sep 04, 2025
Se wahala oooh, I dey pity your sisters husband.
Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by achimendy(m): 1:26pm On Sep 04, 2025
isyourboy:
I’m not the begging type as I have a lot of things going on for myself. My sister joined her husband in Canada last year courtesy of her husband. Outside of the little 50k, 100k there that this man used to send to me (I don’t know how much he gives my parent — In law, by the way ), he’s never thought of establishing me in business or find a way for me to join my sister in Canada.

Even most times you have to remind him before he send the pittance he sent to me. Last week, I told him to find a way for me to join my sister in Canada, and he said he’s still paying for the debt he took for my sister to join him and he want to send her to school also. Meanwhile I didn’t know this. Okay then I can wait. After then I told him to find me a bulk sum so I can start some business. He asked how much and I said 5M naira would be enough, he cut the phone, called him back and send him msg on WhatsApp which he read and didn’t reply. I called my sister and told her what her husband did and she said she will talk to him.

You have been in Canada for a while and little things to give back to the family is difficult for you? Not his fault
Am not surprised when burnaboy criticise the idea of getting married to a Nigerian woman. The load and entitlement mentality that comes with it is really alarming. No wonder most men die quick.

If you need money go and work, nobody owe you anything.
Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by isyourboy(op): 1:39pm On Sep 04, 2025
JustcallmeFavou:
If this is true, the sender is high. The person is not even your direct sibling, but a brother in-law, and you're this entitled to his money that you don't even know how hard he worked for.

Even if he is your sibling, as long as you're an adult, and can fend for yourself, don't be entitled. You're such a shameless, and ungrateful person! I hope he doesn't even assist you, or look your way ever again!
Before this started, I didn’t ask him to do this for me. He was the one that promised he will be sending something to me every month when my sister told him I was unemployed that time.

And even some months you have to message him before he sends this money. How wicked can that be?
Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by isyourboy(op): 1:39pm On Sep 04, 2025
achimendy:
Am not surprised when burnaboy criticise the idea of getting married to a Nigerian woman. The load and entitlement mentality that comes with it is really alarming. No wonder most men die quick.

If you need money go and work, nobody owe you anything.
Before this started, I didn’t ask him to do this for me. He was the one that promised he will be sending something to me every month when my sister told him I was unemployed that time.

And even some months you have to message him before he sends this money. How wicked can that be?
Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by Emeskhalifa(m): 2:09pm On Sep 04, 2025
The fact that I know of someone with this guy's mentality here with me makes it so hilarious cheesy

The day I distanced myself from him was when ue complained that the two square meal I was given him wasn't enough, that I should give him at least 2m to start something of his own cheesy grin grin
Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by cococandy(f): 3:03pm On Sep 04, 2025
DiarisGodoo:
But let's be honest, is it not a pittance?


DiarisGodooo!!! (In Mama Peace voice), my famous moniker grin
How many people are you giving 50k each month?
Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by cosade(m):
isyourboy:
I’m not the begging type as I have a lot of things going on for myself. My sister joined her husband in Canada last year courtesy of her husband. Outside of the little 50k, 100k there that this man used to send to me (I don’t know how much he gives my parent — In law, by the way ), he’s never thought of establishing me in business or find a way for me to join my sister in Canada.

Even most times you have to remind him before he send the pittance he sent to me. Last week, I told him to find a way for me to join my sister in Canada, and he said he’s still paying for the debt he took for my sister to join him and he want to send her to school also. Meanwhile I didn’t know this. Okay then I can wait. After then I told him to find me a bulk sum so I can start some business. He asked how much and I said 5M naira would be enough, he cut the phone, called him back and send him msg on WhatsApp which he read and didn’t reply. I called my sister and told her what her husband did and she said she will talk to him.

You have been in Canada for a while and little things to give back to the family is difficult for you? Not his fault
If I were to be your brother-in-law, I will blacklist you and your family members in Nigeria.
Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by Sandralight(f): 3:16pm On Sep 04, 2025
ednut1:
seen 👍
Good afternoon Sir
I just saw the alert, the way I screamed eh people around me were looking at me funny.
Thank you so so so much Sir, I know you said you don't believe in prayers but I will pray for you Sir that you remain healthy and safe.
I am very grateful Sir 🙏 🙏🙏
God bless you 🙏
And once again thank you Sir
Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by meobizy(m): 6:45pm On Sep 04, 2025
Nairaland finally learning what rage bait is. Interesting.
Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by Caaz: 8:03pm On Sep 04, 2025
Sandralight:
Good afternoon Sir
I just saw the alert, the way I screamed eh people around me were looking at me funny.
Thank you so so so much Sir, I know you said you don't believe in prayers but I will pray for you Sir that you remain healthy and safe.
I am very grateful Sir 🙏 🙏🙏
God bless you 🙏
And once again thank you Sir
Start small farm o
Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by Ganjafama(m): 8:06pm On Sep 04, 2025
isyourboy:
I’m not the begging type as I have a lot of things going on for myself. My sister joined her husband in Canada last year courtesy of her husband. Outside of the little 50k, 100k there that this man used to send to me (I don’t know how much he gives my parent — In law, by the way ), he’s never thought of establishing me in business or find a way for me to join my sister in Canada.

Even most times you have to remind him before he send the pittance he sent to me. Last week, I told him to find a way for me to join my sister in Canada, and he said he’s still paying for the debt he took for my sister to join him and he want to send her to school also. Meanwhile I didn’t know this. Okay then I can wait. After then I told him to find me a bulk sum so I can start some business. He asked how much and I said 5M naira would be enough, he cut the phone, called him back and send him msg on WhatsApp which he read and didn’t reply. I called my sister and told her what her husband did and she said she will talk to him.

You have been in Canada for a while and little things to give back to the family is difficult for you? Not his fault
Your entitlement mentality is unrivalled.
Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by fxexperts: 9:38pm On Sep 04, 2025
jetguy:
To nack you two by two from this place the hungry me tongue
This must be a fabricated story sha,
if not, if it easy why can't you find your way down there by yourself....

Nonsensical entitled mentality
Most times it is not fabricated, alot of Nigerians are really very daft and so very entitled. Entitlement mentality wan wound Nigerians. This is the reason it is so bad for a man to marry a woman from a wretched home. Because most of them see marriages now as a poverty alleviation program. Assume he married from a wealthy home all this nonsense would not be happening. So the man is even playing the role the op father abandoned by wanting to train their daughter, and his wife to school, and that ode is still calling him stingy after all he has done for them, i really pity that dude, well he brought it all upon himself.
Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by Ishilove: 8:50pm On Sep 05, 2025
Rage bait.
Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by Exceed15: 2:20pm On Sep 06, 2025
He owes you nothing
Re: My Sisters Husband in Canada Is Very Stingy by achimendy(m): 5:03pm On Sep 06, 2025
isyourboy:
Before this started, I didn’t ask him to do this for me. He was the one that promised he will be sending something to me every month when my sister told him I was unemployed that time.

And even some months you have to message him before he sends this money. How wicked can that be?
I don't get angry with people that fail to fulfil their promise to me, I shift focus to another alternative and move on. Infact when i see them next time i greet them like nothing ever happened.

That's the best way to live and avoid hating and insulting people.
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