₦airaland Forum

epainos:
Mr Eazi is exactly what Ote$ said he is. That boy is out of online controversial nonsense. I don't understand why Cuppy no grab the boy that he dashed her sister. Anyway, congrats to the two.

Cuppy dey find the most handsome boy..the Anthony Joshuas of this world.

tunapawizzy:
Chairperson Association of Bitter Feminists dun drop opinion.

As I should. I am proud of the man he has proven to be. Hopefully someone can say same for you. 👍

Riversides2003:
Na husband wey get money to perform be boss o. No let anyone deceive una. Women are only submissive to men that can carter and fit the bills.

And that is why DIVORCE RATE IS SO ALARMING. IF MONEYAKES A MAN A CORRECT HUSBAND, WHAT SHOULD MAKE A WOMAN? Pussyyy and Breast abi?
No sensible Man settles with a coded PROSTITUTE. One that have no financial investment in the courtship other than her body.

Correct man

Where's Tonye? I wish she can see this..

spencekat:
There are no two ways about it, your husband is your boss. That does not mean master-servant relationship. He is simply your head.

Even the bible INSTRUCTS this :- Ephesians 5:22-24 - Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

As a matter of factly, these pieces of advice were not directly meant for Temi and Tosin, but rather Tuface, Annie, Natasha, and their likes.

Tallesty1:
Feminists are already having sleepless nights. Some even said she took them 15 steps backwards 😂😂😂.

But here’s the thing guys, Temi dare not say she will never take Eazi’s name. Why? Because she was raised right. She respects authority, and she’s loyal too.

Recently we hired someone to handle a few things. At first we thought she was just performative, but over time we realized she’s genuinely like that. When I dug deeper, I found out her dad had two wives but still remained a responsible father. That shaped her. When you raise a daughter in love and care, you’re teaching her how to love and respect a man.

The witches we see online are either direct descendants of second Timothy or products of failed parenting. And let’s not forget that the love a man shows his wife influences his daughters’ choices in men: what they give, expect, and tolerate.

So if we want wives like Temi, we must raise daughters like Otedola did. Women who won’t only submit to their husbands but also won’t be shaking nyash for likes or turning weddings into 18+ events with half-naked displays.

A responsible society is a collective effort.

nice input


your mama born you well

Great advice from a wonderful father who truly knows what is best for his daughter.

May God bless their union.

iammolise:
You can sense as it's glaring that Femi otedola is an entrepreneur with every blood in him and would want everyone in his circle in that line of work. Like minds roll together, imagine Mr easy is a factory boy, how dis marriage wan take happen, capital NO WAY!

Flamin Hot

I actually know what it means to be boss and what it means to be head. You're trying to confuse me with facts.

maik:
In Yoruba land when you address the husband as the boss, it means you should respect your husband as the head of the family.

Mr eazy don slim too much

Sound advice from a great mind.
Of a truth Temi and Eazy are a wonderful couple.
It's always easy to know people who have and manifest sense.
I really wish them the very best.

ricson11:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fXDloQW_AD0?si=P8EnEmkkt5txHSV2

Billionaire businessman Femi Otedola gave a heartfelt speech at his daughter Temi’s wedding, praising her union with Tosin (Mr Eazi) while urging her to respect her husband as her “boss.”

He also encouraged the couple to keep their challenges private and continue building their love together

Tosine seemed disappointed with the gift

ricson11:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fXDloQW_AD0?si=P8EnEmkkt5txHSV2

Billionaire businessman Femi Otedola gave a heartfelt speech at his daughter Temi’s wedding, praising her union with Tosin (Mr Eazi) while urging her to respect her husband as her “boss.”

He also encouraged the couple to keep their challenges private and continue building their love together

See this man?
You dey give Gen Z dem advice?

Mexyz:
This is someone swimming in millions if not billions advising his daughter who is most likely to inherit millions from her dad o, just compare this to those single ladies out there who probably made their first million, they will start telling the whole world that they don't need a man and any man that comes now must be ready to cook for himself, wash and still take care of the household bills 100%.

It's well o

This is one of the reasons I broke out with one lady, she has the effrontery to tell me that he doesn't cook nor wash. I asked her; who does those things for her, she said maid, and if I'm ready to marry her, I should employed maid for her. I stylishly japa, I'm married with three children. Anty never marry till now, once in a while she will DM me, stylishly asked me some silly question to see if I will give her a chance.

ManOfSon:
It seems he's setting them up for failure. A husband is a husband (as in husbandry, if we understand what that means). He's not a boss.

Setting them up for failure how?

He spoke like a typical Yoruba father on hos daughter's wedding day; he also reminded Eazi that he is from a good home aka don't misbehave. Also talked about their genuine love for one another (a husband who loves you won't 'boss' you) and how they are both entrepreneurial aka (my daughter must keep growing with you).

He even started his story with how he bought two homes in Dubai for her wedding so the husband knows the kind of princess he married (I am sure he does).

I don't know why these urgent N2k NL boys are rejoicing or 'feminists' hyperventilating.

Haven't they attended a Yoruba traditional wedding before?

God bless their home. The ceremony looked so classy.

Ilekokonit:
Even the bible INSTRUCTS this :- Ephesians 5:22-24 - Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

Are you a Christian? If yes, does submission to Christ feel like a burden or bandage?

Can you imagine Jesus hammering submission on the Church or telling the Church that 'He is the boss'?

Infact, if Christian men would follow that passage in letter & spirit, submission wouldn't be a hot topic in the Church.

My problem is with the word boss. An immature gen-zier may take it literally and goes in hoping to boss a lady who doesn’t accept being bossed. A husband is not a boss and shouldn't aspire to be one.

bukatyne:
Setting them up for failure how?

He spoke like a typical Yoruba father on hos daughter's wedding day; he also reminded Eazi that he is from a good home aka don't misbehave. Also talked about their genuine love for one another (a husband who loves you won't 'boss' you) and how they are both entrepreneurial aka (my daughter must keep growing with you).

He even started his story with how he bought two homes in Dubai for her wedding so the husband knows the kind of princess he married (I am sure he does).

I don't know why these urgent N2k NL boys are rejoicing or 'feminists' hyperventilating.

Haven't they attended a Yoruba traditional wedding before?

God bless their home. The ceremony looked so classy.

seunoyeleyep:
The so called feminists do not even have basic understanding of what feminism is all about.

"The feminist goal is removing all constraints on female sexuality while maximally restricting male sexuality."

JackDaAlienz:
So that means
He can sack her and employ another person

very correct if she fvck up its on her

Free ticket for the man to manhadk the wife if he so desires. This advise no too follow. Which one be she should submit to his whims and caprices? Even when they don't suit her? African parents ehhh, una too do!

We4all:
Boss ke? As if he will keep quiet if Eazi treats his daughter like an employee. One thing I have observed about Nigerian marriages is that, men will treat you according to your status. There is no way in hell will Eazi boss over Temi knowing full well what awaits him. All that advice from Otedola is just a misyarn, and for social media validation.

It's the usual advice given by omoluabi parents. It's a way of making a bride understand the best way of keeping her home. Humility, respect and cooperation are important. That doesn't mean that they won't support her if the man misbehaves.

Saidaboj Should Come And See a Girl With Proper Parental Upbringing

I support this advice with two cartons of Gulder max

Basic123:
Mr easy Temi is so lucky.

Chioma and her lousy husband no let us hear words

Fixed.

nwirinedu:
Let's see how the next 24 months will be.
Forget about that boss talk, if the guy mess up na prison e go sleep.

Watchman, keep waiting for your fellow man downfall.

ManOfSon:
It seems he's setting them up for failure.

Set your own children up for success.

A husband is a husband (as in husbandry, if we understand what that means). He's not a boss.

The husband is the boss, the wife is the manager. 💯

maik:
The children of the rich behave responsibly nowadays while most of the poor children are always rude.

ManOfSon:
My problem is with the word boss. An immature gen-zier may take it literally and goes in hoping to boss a lady who doesn’t accept being bossed. A husband is not a boss and shouldn't aspire to be one.

As long as you ain't the husband, Tosin...

...drink water, drop cup , Mr Man

We4all:
Boss ke? As if he will keep quiet if Eazi treats his daughter like an employee. One thing I have observed about Nigerian marriages is that, men will treat you according to your status. There is no way in hell will Eazi boss over Temi knowing full well what awaits him. All that advice from Otedola is just a misyarn, and for social media validation.

Even if it's a misyarn the father has already created an impression and a path for them to follow.