₦airaland Forum

JovialJune:
Of course the obvious thought process of an average Nigerian man, their purpose in life, is to diick as much women as they can like it's a lifetime achievement, nothing to emulate from them, nothing worthy to pinpoint as their legacy

That's why this one above can boldly say a Nigerian man can do whatever he likes not minding if it hurts the mother of their kids

Thats why I always say that the generation of old failed young adults of this generation in their method of upbringing, because the end result is the obvious menace in Nigeria today.

Kobojunkie:
Turning her into a glorified housemaid, namgmama(assuming he still has sex with her, laundry maid, nanny, etc.,) is a sign that he cares for her?

Na the women wey raise Una I go blame for this. Clearly, they did not raise you lot well enough to realize that women are humans too. 🥱🥱🥱

LordIsaac:
➜I didn't make all the inferences you listed up there. All I'm saying is what I'd reiterate, a man possesses the inalienable right to spend his money as he deems fit. His money!

Kobojunkie:
You did exactly that when you declared that a husband who cheats on his wife cares for her. Clearly, indicating that submissives are indeed a hated class of women by men like you.

LordIsaac:
➜Men don't cheat. He is only distributing his resources how he deems fit. ' I shall repeat the umpteenth time that I am talking about the right of a man to the fruit of his labor- his resources!

LordIsaac:
Yes, every human, and by extension, every man, has the right to how he uses HIS resources. Stop being a leech today!

Kobojunkie:
Well, women have also been showing you a lot that they too cannot cheat since they can also have side-dicks in marriage.

Chilipepper:
My husband recently bought a brand-new car, and the whole family was excited. Not long after, he mentioned that he wanted to sell his previous one and upgrade to the latest version.

I didn't think much of it,until a friend called, saying she spotted his "old car" at ShopRite being driven by a woman. When she confirmed the plate number, my heart sank.

It was indeed my husband's car. She even sent me a picture, and the driver turned out to be his girlfriend. He gave her that car as a birthday present, while I, his wife, am struggling with two kids and no car to ease our daily movement. I feel crushed.

How am I supposed to deal with this kind of betrayal?

Caaz:
Never underestimate the power of a good gidin. Understanding wife award of the year goes to this woman



Person wey she suppose don arrange with boys,collect that car go ngbuka market dismantle the car and sell ham as scrab.

Kobojunkie:
Well, women have also been showing you a lot that they too cannot cheat since they can also have side-dicks in marriage.

marlow1962:
➜Make the side dick put them for house, paint her papa house, open shop for her brother, buy her papa boxers, take their last born in, pay her bills etc, even buy her the car self. abi you want my continue?

Kobojunkie:
Why should she do that when she is in her husband's house?

marlow1962:
✓ Ohhh so na so abi, for my house na em u wn dy do side dick. Lol women sha

marlow1962:
Ohhh so na so abi, for my house na em u wn dy do side dick. Lol women sha

viyon02:
, No sane man there hurt a very submissive wife, even if he try to cheat, his spirit will never be at rest until apologize

brain54:
Irresponsible man...

Red card!

Caaz:
Never underestimate the power of a good gidin. Understanding wife award of the year goes to this woman



Person wey she suppose don arrange with boys,collect that car go ngbuka market dismantle the car and sell ham as scrab.

Namaster:
That is the difference between an ASSET and a LIABILITY.

A wife is a standing LONG-TERM LIABILITY by every measure. A wife is a constant DRAIN on your resources. Even a "good wife". You'll support her. You'll support her family. You'll entertain her. You'll "upgrade" her.

And the sex is NEVER guaranteed.
In fact, the more you do the above, the LOWER the frequency and quality of the sex.

Wives NEVER want to let their husband think they deserve sex because of ALL their husbands have done.

Meanwhile, the GF on the other hand needs LITTLE maintenance. And pleasure flows from her.

If a side chick dies on Friday, the man would take his family to the wedding ceremony of a third cousin without missing a beat.

By the following Friday, another Side Chick would have taken her place.

Plus, this woman phrased it as "suffering with 2 kids" like it's not the man that drives them around. She made it sound like the man NEVER takes them anywhere.

Finally, she didn't "think much of it" because the car is likely over 15 years old with more than 5 years on Nigerian road. It's OLD and DOWNTRODDEN.

In fact, I can GUARANTEE that the current market value of the car is LESS than what the man has spent on his wife this year.

viyon02:
, No sane man there hurt a very submissive wife, even if he try to cheat, his spirit will never be at rest until apologize

Samantha125:
Some women are just too nice and innocent... If it was me, I'd neither confront the husband, the side chick, or post it online... But I'd instead sit down and play a game of chess and by the time I say checkmate, I'd make sure that he's getting admitted into psychiatric hospital while I play the role of a concerned wife... He'd think his village people are after him...

viyon02:
Your husband is never a stupid man. Pay attention to what he has been complaining about in your character or action. May be you have been taking his warnings for granted thinking afterall you ara already married to him and he can't send you away just like that. My dear wife, you will lose big term. Just go back and pretend nothing happen, make him happy, start doing what will make him happy, you know those things he love you doing don't pretend you don't know, he must have complained times without number. See you at the other side of happy home.

seanblaise:
Is the husband owing the wife a car?

One thing women fail to understand is that men reward people who ease their stress. What if the wife is a torn on the flesh of the man. Why would she also complain for taking care of two kids who call her MOTHER. If she wants a car, she should go out and work instead of thinking that she magically deserves a car from her husband.