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renderme:
Awwn this ur dream sha. There are way more beautiful babes waiting to throw themselves on Bright, he doesnt need to get into bed with girls from the show.
The fact that he picked interest in Mide and approached her first, instead of ur fave, just pains you. Cos if it was ur fave he was doing all these with, u will be swearing they were the best thing ever.

You are always either implying he doesn't like her, or rejoicing when he remotely talks to another girl in the house.

Okay.

Coolsat:
Koyin ignoring her affected her badly and she has giving opueh to kola something she would not do if Koyin is still within her grip. Kola just told bright they did more than kissing and would gist him later. Outside boyfriend sorry oooo. Na camera all these girls they fear, all of them are in the same group with Isabella and sultana but they are looking down on them because they decided not to be a hypocrite lol

This whole show is all about Creating a compelling Narrative. The production/camera crew do that all the time, giving viewers what to run with on social media.

The production/camera crew created a narrative that Dede is the perfect girl, The IT babe of the season, who is without flaws(knowing She’s human and heavily flawed at that) Thereby Portraying the likes of kola, Koyin and Jason as mere chasers and pawns in her game.

Now, the production/camera crew didn’t show us what happened between her and kola for a reason and we all know what that reason is(to maintain that narrative) What is unfair though, is the fact that they never accorded the same treatment to housemates like sultana and Bella.

Dede’s Fans/supporters too played a part in this whole situation. Placing her on a pedestal of perfection(Saint Dede) And we all know what usually happens when imperfect humans are placed on a pedestal.

When someone is on a pedestal, the person placing them there holds them to an impossible standard of perfection, making even their natural flaws seem like large disappointments…Her fans are already crashing out on social media, blaming Joanna and Rooboy, While some have started tagging ebuka again to ask kola questions on Sunday. 🤣

If kola didn’t have that conversation with bright this morning, we wouldn’t have found out something happened between them because the production crew kept it from us.

Now, My question is this; are people mad at kola for being a blabbermouth for having that conversation with bright or they are angry and disappointed because Dede, an imperfect human has fallen off the pedestal they placed her on?

Friendly25:
Kai, Dede! This is why it's good to have someone watching out for you. After shaming Isabella and Sultana, Dede has finally joined the duvet gang.

It's still morning and of course, Kola is already doing media rounds. I feel for Dede, her aura was what took her so far. I know guys like Kola, they'll eventually spill EVERYTHING, just to prove a point.

If possible, he'll keep Dede's undies as a trophy and show Ebuka on Sunday.

She's not my family member,but e pain me i no go lie. Kola of all people!

Knowing that she had lost Koyin must have also messed with her head.

Think so too but I didnt expect her to react this way. The way she quickly closed the door when she saw Isabella with Koyin was a pointer to how it affected her

Will be watching how she moves with Kola now and their body language together cos I suspect she'll want to act like nothing happened - (which is still my theory that it was what made Koyin switch on her) but if she doesnt, then I may have been wrong.

But if she does, I expect Kola to have a crashout and want to prove a point but then again Kola may have been exaggerating what actually happened afterall he got really excited when he licked her fingers the other time and even blabbed to Imisi sef

Friendly25:
Nah, i knew Kola was trouble the day he told Imisi & Bright about the pecks with Dede. Dede too is still a child, you NEVER say yes to a man you've delayed and embarrassed in public, he'll ALWAYS want to get his pound of flesh back.

I blame Rooboy and Joanna for pumping her head with rubbish talk of "Dat Kola boy really like you o" in the secret room. The guy just wants to SMASH, infact ALL the fishes just want to smash her, the only difference is that Koyin will keep SHUT about it.

Dede doesn't even need to have sex, all she needs to get humiliated is to French-kiss Kola and handle him a little, then she'll watch her aura reduce !

I feel bad because she expressed a fear of Kola's basket mouth to Mide and she was right.

Do you know why you’re sounding like this? You’re among those who placed her on that pedestal. Na kiss she kiss she no kill person.

renderme:
You don't know these vile BBN fans again? That would only happen if this was big brother Msanzi or UK or sthn. Their haters saw an opportunity to get them out so they voted for all those people.
People that were popping champagne when they sent bamteddy home and voted delawoods. We were stuck with all their fake ships for the rest of the season discussing endless emptiness. They keep spoiling the show for us.

Mehnn! It’ll pain me for bright sha. Great guy!

Tifay:
Story.

Just watch how he crashes out when Dede acts like nothing happened or give him the whacking again.

You don see them…. People wey dey place heavily flawed humans on a pedestal. I already addressed you in a quoted post. Saints get hornny too mama. 🤣

geezprince:
Mehnn! It’ll pain me for bright sha. Great guy!

It could be mide going home too. Anything can happen.

Anyways. Bright helping Mide out with her chores this morning.
She hugged him after for the help. My loves.


Video1:

Awww

Bright Morgan helping his lady mide with her chore.

Nice right 😊#BBNaija #BBNaijaS10 pic.twitter.com/zQ3u5W8euf

— MERCYOSARO22 OFFICIAL (@poshsypce22) September 13, 2025

Video2:

Mide appreciates bright's gesture with a hug. 😊#BBNaija #BBNaijaS10 pic.twitter.com/iD8t5pE2Z4

— MERCYOSARO22 OFFICIAL (@poshsypce22) September 13, 2025

geezprince:
You don see them…. People wey dey place heavily flawed humans on a pedestal. I already addressed you in a quoted post. Saints get Hot too mama. 🤣

Look at my last post.

I never placed her on any pedestal, What i've consistently said is she's a very prideful person whose (perceived) pride comes first to her and I still stand by it.

And like I said, she'll most likely act like nothing happened, that's if it did. Cos Kola too can sometimes be quite delusional and exaggerate things when it comes to Dede

Geezeem:
Dede slept in Kola's bed?

I talk am say na Kola turn last night

Apparently this happened. Kola and dede are trending for sleeping together last night.

Tifay:
Look at my last post.

I never placed her on any pedestal, What i've consistently said is she's a very prideful person whose (perceived) pride comes first to her and I still stand by it.

And like I said, she'll most likely act like nothing happened, that's if it did. Cos Kola too can sometimes be quite delusional when it comes to Dede

Whatever happens moving on, changes nothing. Afterall, it’s all a game to her. But even the greatest strategists are heavily flawed. Kissing kola shouldn’t even be a big deal or termed a moment of weakness, but it has become one because of the pedestal she’s placed. Prideful people get hornny too boo.

renderme:
Apparently this happened. Kola and dede are trending for sleeping together last night.

Couldnt resist an opportunity to get your pound of flesh back.

But why do you hate Dede sef? Is it cos of Mide?

Tifay:
Think so too but I didnt expect her to react this way. The way she quickly closed the door when she saw Isabella with Koyin was a pointer to how it affected her

Will be watching how she moves with Kola now and their body language together cos I suspect she'll want to act like nothing happened - (which is still my theory that it was what made Koyin switch on her) but if she doesnt, then I may have been wrong.

But if she does, I expect Kola to have a crashout and want to prove a point but then again Kola may have been exaggerating what actually happened afterall he got really excited when he licked her fingers the other time

Well, i know sex didn't happen. But it seems aggressive cuddling did happen, even Kola seems dazed by what happened. I'm counting on Kola's loose mouth to do what the cameraman didn't do.

Again, I'm still disappointed. It's just 2 months!!!! Why is self-control suddenly so difficult? Abi girls like Zita and tracy are made of steel?

This is why i was giving Jackie B accolades and someone on this thread was saying "She's not real". People wey blue film dey hungry!

Meanwhile isabella dragged all the girls last night and none of her crushes.
Dem say Joanna be like beast. Isabella wants Ebuka to question her on Sunday, says she will talk.
They've labelled the girls dracula, shim and eyeglasses.

Video:

Nor be small Dragging Session sponsored by Isabella and Imisi

Dem drag Thelma
Dem drag Joana
Dem drag Mide
Dem drag Dede

They actually gave them names upon the dragging 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂#bbnaija pic.twitter.com/3YmIyLhjL2

— In’je (@sita_iam_hag) September 13, 2025

SMH.

Tifay:


Couldnt resist an opportunity to get your pound of flesh back.

But why do you hate Dede sef? Is it cos of Mide?

For saying they slept in the same bed? I had informed geezem it didnt happen last night so was correcting myself.
I don't see anything wrong with them sleeping together the way you guys do. Kola has worked hard to get her in his bed so he deserves.
Or not. I honestly don't care cos they're both playing games.

Tifay:
Think so too but I didnt expect her to react this way. The way she quickly closed the door when she saw Isabella with Koyin was a pointer to how it affected her

Will be watching how she moves with Kola now and their body language together cos I suspect she'll want to act like nothing happened - (which is still my theory that it was what made Koyin switch on her) but if she doesnt, then I may have been wrong.

But if she does, I expect Kola to have a crashout and want to prove a point but then again Kola may have been exaggerating what actually happened afterall he got really excited when he licked her fingers the other time and even blabbed to Imisi sef

One thing about kola is…that dude never lies. He’s been getting signals from Dede and he says it all the time. They flirt a lot according to him, but the production crew never showed us those parts, because it doesn’t suit their narrative. But the moment kola starts complaining or having his media rounds, ranting about Dede..you’ll see the crew Showing it to the world.
Kola is a lot of things but that guy no dey lie.

Friendly25:
Well, i know sex didn't happen. But it seems aggressive cuddling did happen, even Kola seems dazed by what happened. I'm counting on Kola's loose mouth to do what the cameraman didn't do.

Again, I'm still disappointed. It's just 2 months!!!! Why is self-control suddenly so difficult? Abi girls like Zita and tracy are made of steel?

This is why i was giving Jackie B accolades and someone on this thread was saying "She's not real". People wey blue film dey hungry!

Zita did stuff with danbosskid before he got evicted.

Tifay:
Look at my last post.

I never placed her on any pedestal, What i've consistently said is she's a very prideful person whose (perceived) pride comes first to her and I still stand by it.

And like I said, she'll most likely act like nothing happened, that's if it did. Cos Kola too can sometimes be quite delusional and exaggerate things when it comes to Dede

Her shakara won't work again at this point. If she ignores him, Kola will simply do media rounds all over the house. He's that messy!

I remember Maria in SYE ignoring Pere and distancing herself. Pere responded by spilling to all the housemates that he was intimate with her, knowing fully well she had something outside. Kola now holds the advantage.

That was why in All Stars, Cee-C said she would never do anything with Pere even though she found him attractive because she remembered what happened with Maria. Despite her beef with Alex, Cee-C showed sisterly love by warning her about Pere.

That was why i didn't approve of the ship between Mercy & Pere, the guy was simply pretending to get laid in the house, not outside as that would be private and he wouldn't be able to brag about it. Luckily Mercy delayed him till after the show.

Just imagine Erica messed with a person like Kola instead of Kiddwaya.

geezprince:
Zita did stuff with danbosskid before he got evicted.

It was kissing and handling and a mutual attraction based on respect, after which Zita has been completing herself since. Mind you, Zita didn't enter with Dede's level of shakara and aura, that's why Kola was hell-bent on getting her, applying pressure and emotional blackmail with media rounds even when she said no at first.

Friendly25:
Her shakara won't work again at this point. If she ignores him, Kola will simply do media rounds all over the house. He's that messy!

I remember Maria in SYE ignoring Pere and distancing herself. Pere responded by spilling to all the housemates that he was intimate with her, knowing fully well she had something outside. Kola now holds the advantage.

That was why in All Stars, Cee-C said she would never do anything with Pere even though she found him attractive because she remembered what happened with Maria. Despite her beef with Alex, Cee-C showed sisterly love by warning her about Pere.

That was why i didn't approve of the ship between Mercy & Pere, the guy was simply pretending to get laid in the house, not outside as that would be private and he wouldn't be able to brag about it. Luckily Mercy delayed him till after the show.

Just imagine Erica messed with a person like Kola instead of Kiddwaya.

Nah....

Kola isnt as messy as Pere. He's still refined in that area, his problem is just that he's a blabbermouth and cant keep things to himself especially when it comes to Dede

I would never forget that gesture of Pere licking his fingers on National TV and broadcasting to everyone how he fingered and licked Maria's vag1na. It was that bad. Pere was something else man

Na, I dont think Kola would be that brutal and vulgar

geezprince:
One thing about kola is…that dude never lies. He’s been getting signals from Dede and he says it all the time. They flirt a lot according to him, but the production crew never showed us those parts, because it doesn’t suit their narrative. But the moment kola starts complaining or having his media rounds, ranting about Dede..you’ll see the crew Showing it to the world.
Kola is a lot of things but that guy no dey lie.

The bolded actually isnt true cos all of those lines Dede keep telling him are from Love Island & Tik-tok.

Ive mentioned it here before. It's why I said Kola can be delusional cos he keeps taking those words in their literal form. Nothing genuine there

Friendly25:
It was kissing and handling and a mutual attraction based on respect, after which Zita has been completing herself since. Mind you, Zita didn't enter with Dede's level of shakara and aura, that's why Kola was hell-bent on getting her, applying pressure and emotional blackmail with media rounds even when she said no at first.

Emotional blackmail? You’re reaching right now. You’re making it seem as if Dede is not attracted to the dude. Well, He hasn’t gotten her yet though. Kissing and smooching doesn’t mean he has bagged her.

Kola and Dede — I knew it was only a matter of time. If it didn’t happen inside the house, it was definitely going to happen outside. I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again: Kola is Dede’s ultimate prize in that house.

Koyin and JJ were just pawns (Chihuahuas) Dede used to increase her value in Kola’s eyes — and she played that game perfectly while it lasted.

Dede is not who or what her fans want us to believe she is. She’s a regular Naija babe who knows what she wants — comfort and something good — and she’s smart enough to recognize that Kola represents exactly that.

I agree with those who believe Kola was trying to prove a point with Dede. Yes, it’s true — and that’s because Kola has always known that Dede wanted him, despite her “fish” narratives. As a Dede fan, the earlier you get the already stale "fish" story out of your head, the better for your sanity. Dede will mess with your head if you keep expecting some kind of "perfect girl" storyline from her. She’s a regular Naija babe — far from perfect!

geezprince:
Do you know why you’re sounding like this? You’re among those who placed her on that pedestal. Na kiss she kiss she no kill person.

No, i simply enjoy seeing good examples on the show, especially from housemates i like, both in guys and girls.

Boma was my most-liked housemate in SYE until he started to unravel by telling several housemates he slept with JMK, then constantly saying Angel was for his enjoyment, then his littering Queen, then his jeopardizing his friendship with Pere just to lay Maria, and then his thing with Tega despite Jaypaul begging him to not do it as her husband is his friend.

Kiddwaya never treated Erica like an object and always spoke very highly of her, taking it further by shipping with her for a while after the house until Linek broke everything up. That's why Erica could even tell other housemates about their bedroom doings.

Sheggz was very irritating, but he never did Bella dirty, and he made sure their private business was their private business, even though they didn't go beyond kissing.

Bright and Mide have done a lot, but Bright treats her like a new bride while always keeping his own mouth shut. That alone has made Mide feel totally safe with him, and that's why nobody's slut-shaming her.

Koyin's rating skyrocketed on Twitter with his treatment of Isabella. He basically turned a wannabe OS to a good humble girl with affection, respect, and saving her from embarrassment when Dede returned to the house. Though they're more sexually intense than Bella was with KK, their duvet tins now look more like a romantic love scenes than the gonzo por*n Bella was known for.

Dede presented herself as having quiet aura mixed with home training that could outwit and outlast Hot guys that just wanted to lay her. Shakara is normal for women, i don't see who she hurt by carrying herself with some pride. But when she just pecked Kola, Twitter people were celebrating like the APC had been thrown out of government!

There was a very toxic need among many viewers to just see Dede get "humbled" , and we know what humbling a woman means in Nigeria. It was no more "Will Dede find a guy she likes on the show?", it was now "Who'll finally take down Dede, the it-girl of BBnaija Season 10?".

So i noticed there was a kind of unspoken "May the best man win " thing between Jason and Kola. Because Dede really didn't mix in the house but Kola did, there was no one to warn her to maintain her guard till the show ends.

Infact, Jason and Kola are so messy that even if Dede gives in to either of them after the show, they'll still spill at the reunion.

That's why i really wished Dede put her foot down with the fishes.

Something happened yesterday, and Kola will spill everything for 1 reason - Bragging rights. Why? Because it's cruel fun for many guys to humble & shame girls like Dede.

Bright is now blonde.

Joanna dyed his hair.

geezprince:
Emotional blackmail? You’re reaching right now. You’re making it seem as if Dede is not attracted to the dude. Well, He hasn’t gotten her yet though. Kissing and smooching doesn’t mean he has bagged her.

Trust me, that's as far as Dede will go, except Kola times her this night after the party. There's no more Koyin to protect her, except Kola stops based on conscience. He has told Imisi he always gets ere.ctiuns whenever Dede is around him, so if Dede looseguards, he'll eat her like a hungry lion and apologize later.

Tifay:
Nah....

Kola isnt as messy as Pere. He's still refined in that area, his problem is just that he's a blabbermouth and cant keep things to himself especially when it comes to Dede

I would never forget that gesture of Pere licking his fingers on National TV and broadcasting to everyone how he fingered and licked Maria vag1na. It was that bad. Pere was something else man

Na, I dont think Kola would be that brutal and vulgar

Lol, Pere! Looking back now, i believe Maria wasn't legitimately voted out, her guy probably pulled strings and had her evicted before she'll give him a cardiac arrest!😁

Kola's basket mouth is still terrible because he does it so harmlessly so you can't say he was malicious about it.

All the same, 3 weeks left.

Christlike01:
Kola and Dede — I knew it was only a matter of time. If it didn’t happen inside the house, it was definitely going to happen outside. I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again: Kola is Dede’s ultimate prize in that house.

Koyin and JJ were just pawns (Chihuahuas) Dede used to increase her value in Kola’s eyes — and she played that game perfectly while it lasted.

Dede is not who or what her fans want us to believe she is. She’s a regular Naija babe who knows what she wants — comfort and something good — and she’s smart enough to recognize that Kola represents exactly that.

I agree with those who believe Kola was trying to prove a point with Dede. Yes, it’s true — and that’s because Kola has always known that Dede wanted him, despite her “fish” narratives. As a Dede fan, the earlier you get the already stale "fish" story out of your head, the better for your sanity. Dede will mess with your head if you keep expecting some kind of "perfect girl" storyline from her. She’s a regular Naija babe — far from perfect!

You're reaching here.

Dede has whacked Kola way more than any of those boys that people already started putting him in the Ozo category. Even this morning, the body language from them isnt giving what Kola said, but let's see. Cos she still looks like the one in control and was just bossing him around to go pick beans - Thats just this morning

If she wanted Kola like you said, he wont be the one doing all the works. He's been the one doing all the gumbody, sleeping on her bed and not giving her any room. Contrast that to how she gravitates NATURALLY towards Koyin or even the defeatist look she currently wears around him.

For me it looks like she's settling since she has realised that she's lost her favorite fish. Lets all remember that at the end of the day Dede's still a kid and does things kids would typically do. No one has said she's perfect

geezprince:
This whole show is all about Creating a compelling Narrative. The production/camera crew do that all the time, giving viewers what to run with on social media.

The production/camera crew created a narrative that Dede is the perfect girl, The IT babe of the season, who is without flaws(knowing She’s human and heavily flawed at that) Thereby Portraying the likes of kola, Koyin and Jason as mere chasers and pawns in her game.

Now, the production/camera crew didn’t show us what happened between her and kola for a reason and we all know what that reason is(to maintain that narrative) What is unfair though, is the fact that they never accorded the same treatment to housemates like sultana and Bella.

Dede’s Fans/supporters too played a part in this whole situation. Placing her on a pedestal of perfection(Saint Dede) And we all know what usually happens when imperfect humans are placed on a pedestal.

When someone is on a pedestal, the person placing them there holds them to an impossible standard of perfection, making even their natural flaws seem like large disappointments…Her fans are already crashing out on social media, blaming Joanna and Rooboy, While some have started tagging ebuka again to ask kola questions on Sunday. 🤣

If kola didn’t have that conversation with bright this morning, we wouldn’t have found out something happened between them because the production crew kept it from us.

Now, My question is this; are people mad at kola for being a blabbermouth for having that conversation with bright or they are angry and disappointed because Dede, an imperfect human has fallen off the pedestal they placed her on?

To be honest, it's more about anger at WHO she's doing it with.

Koyin & Dede was wholesome and giving "High School Musical" vibes.

A situation like Dede and Bright would have been brushed off as understandable because it's Bright.

But Kola & Jason established a bad reputation for just being messy. If Kola maintained a sense of discretion it would have given the energy of an official new ship, just like how Cee-C & Tobi's first French-kiss was celebrated after weeks of Cee-C proving very tough.

Kola is making it clear he wants Dede as a conquest, which is the annoyance of viewers.

I do agree that the camera crew were very wrong for not showing what happened, because it would seem like Kola is lying or Dede is being protected by the show's production team as a ratings gold mine.

geezprince:
Mehnn! It’ll pain me for bright sha. Great guy!

Oh my goodness! Bright is leaving?

geezprince:
Zita did stuff with danbosskid before he got evicted.

like what?