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Friendly25:
Well, i know sex didn't happen. But it seems aggressive cuddling did happen, even Kola seems dazed by what happened. I'm counting on Kola's loose mouth to do what the cameraman didn't do.

Again, I'm still disappointed. It's just 2 months!!!! Why is self-control suddenly so difficult? Abi girls like Zita and tracy are made of steel?

This is why i was giving Jackie B accolades and someone on this thread was saying "She's not real". People wey blue film dey hungry!

Who told you zita didn't do it with danboskid several times? even tracy na because no guy give am face for the house if not she fit do too.
And what's wrong with agressive cuddling??it isn't even proper sex and the house is chilly and lonely too

Centwizzy13:
who told u is only by wager? Didn’t imisi did a lot in last week wager did she win the MIP

Person wey carry spoon wey everybody suppose use you think they will ever vote for her

Friendly25:
Hmmm, maybe the agreement is to maintain distance and meet at night like Koyin and Bella? Kola & Dede made breakfast together na.

I don't know why i feel Joanna fed Dede that Kola's Maserati gist. That's the only other thing that Kola can get her with - give her assurance in case her boyfriend leaves her. Kiddwaya would have done that since.

I don't know, maybe she's really considering Kola. Maybe they'll go harder this night.

There's no agreement.

She's just your typical (pretentious) Gen Z/alpha girl who'll act like nothing happened so long as it was done in hiding. Just like how Koyin will keep denying the Sultana and Isabella if we didnt see it on camera. It's left for Kola to play along and keep it moving but unfortunately for him, the shipping script - lovey dovey nonsense must still happen. Bright is already calling him bad guy around the house

It's not the Maseratti, I've watched Kola promise to take her around the world and even for concerts and football games but she still whacked him right after. Also I think her bf hold pass Kola. If it was about Kola, she would have pursued him and been more intense after Isabella kissed him weeks ago but she kept it moving.

But I'm guessing yesterday was a lot and the realisation that she's actually lost to Isabella just made her succumb. Let's see how they both move after and we can get our right conclusions

Friendly25:
It was kissing and handling and a mutual attraction based on respect, after which Zita has been completing herself since. Mind you, Zita didn't enter with Dede's level of shakara and aura, that's why Kola was hell-bent on getting her, applying pressure and emotional blackmail with media rounds even when she said no at first.

which only kissing and handling? danboskid that was using the available condoms in the house that victory even said it in his media rounds outside the house when he was asked by ebuka'who was using the missing cds?if he lied about it won't danboskid deny it?who was he using the c.ds for? you like arguing blindly and you are too opinionated

Heard my baby is the game master for the checkers task.

Abeg make Una update us with what’s happening in the house.

Video:

Game master extraordinaire
If my oga talk, you better listen make you no collect

🎥 @BBNaija #MideIwasokun#BBNaija pic.twitter.com/KjqZuLhv4Z

— Mide Iwasokun (@Mide_iw) September 13, 2025

Tifay:
Nah....

Kola isnt as messy as Pere. He's still refined in that area, his problem is just that he's a blabbermouth and cant keep things to himself especially when it comes to Dede

I would never forget that gesture of Pere licking his fingers on National TV and broadcasting to everyone how he fingered and licked Maria's vag1na. It was that bad. Pere was something else man

Na, I dont think Kola would be that brutal and vulgar

which pere licked his finger? you people and lies sha that's how you twist things and mislead nairalanders who never watched the shows here was he that raw and crude?he only even mentioned it twice to control the narrative outside and to biggy so he won't be labeled as a molester or kemenized because maria loved to lie and was forming amn'es'ia and a saint.!!

Tifay:
There's no agreement.

She's just your typical (pretentious) Gen Z/alpha girl who'll act like nothing happened so long as it was done in hiding. Just like how Koyin will keep denying the Sultana and Isabella if we didnt see it on camera. It's left for Kola to play along and keep it moving but unfortunately for him, the shipping script - lovey dovey nonsense must still happen

It's not the Maseratti, I've watched Kola promise to take her around the world and even for concerts and football games but she still whacked him right after. Also I think her bf hold pass Kola. If it was about Kola, she would have pursued him and been more intense after Isabella kissed him weeks ago but she kept it moving.

But I'm guessing yesterday was a lot and the realisation that she's actually lost to Isabella just made her succumb. Let's see how they both move after and we can get our right conclusions

Lol,nah. I think Dede is gone at this point. I suspect Kola might be waiting for the Saturday night party to tell Bright stuff that will be muffled by the sound of loud music. He's a gamer too and might have realized that viewers might get mad if he talks carelessly, plus he wants to avoid Ebuka's torchlight.

Dede might even disappoint her fans more this night. She seems to have made a mental decision to stop caring and she really has no confidante except maybe Joanna.

Koyin's 360 degree turn must have really hit her, but Bella's strategy was too potent. Once a woman makes sure a man is neither Hot nor hungry, the man will start acting like he's under juju. If Isabella wants to drop a fatality, she'll just start washing Koyin's clothes. That was how Phyna took Groovy's brain.

Gestures matter, sometimes more than seggz. Jackie B didn't even kiss Michael, she just gave him constant cuddles, never failed to prepare and serve his meals, and even did his laundry i think. Before Michael came in as a new housemate, she used the same tactic on Boma and he behaved himself.

Dede never gave a green light, and Koyin never made a move. I think that's sad, but it's life. She just didn't have to fall into the hand of a character like Kola.

I saw the clip of Kola and Dede in bed before an advertisement interrupted the scene. By the time the camera returned, Kola looked like he was adjusting himself. I'm also noticing Dede moving this morning with something that looks like a walk of shame, i hope she's not asking herself, "What the hellie did i just do?"

ultraviolet27:
which only kissing and handling? danboskid that was using the available condoms in the house that victory even said it in his media rounds outside the house when he was asked by ebuka'who was using the missing cds?if he lied about it won't danboskid deny it?who was he using the c.ds for? you like arguing blindly and you are too opinionated

Hold on , don't be disrespectful because of a reality show,are you suffering hormonal imbalance problems? Did i know about Danboskid and the cds? Why not pass your point across like a civil human being? Did i insult you please?

scondy:
As in....I defend tire that period...it was something else..
And he kept narrating it to every housemate...Maria sef...character ....forming amnesia....pere say....no....not for my side...

To be fair, That was the period of "me too"

And as a yankee guy, maybe he was trying to protect himself before the girl throws him under the bus. But man, he was so vulgar I started to feel so so embarrassed for Maria

And why's Dede still pouting all over the place. Abi Kola no satisfy her? or Is it one of regret.

Lets see sha, maybe I'm the one over analysing

Eeghe:

It may seem as though we have a ship here🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

I don't know how to view quoted picture. By the way which ship nne oma? 🤨

Friendly25:
Kai, Isabella na person sister o! Make una dey calm down biko 🙏🏿!

Read again

My post is about Koyin

ultraviolet27:
which pere licked his finger? you people and lies sha that's how you twist things and mislead nairalanders who never watched the shows here was he that raw and crude?he only even mentioned it twice to control the narrative outside and to biggy so he won't be labeled as a molester or kemenized because maria loved to lie and was forming amn'es'ia and a saint.!!

He licked his fingers when he was describing what he actually did. He was extremely graphic with his description

Maybe you should ask Scondy or your fellow Pere supporters if you think i'm lying.

Friendly25:
Kai, Dede! This is why it's good to have someone watching out for you. After shaming Isabella and Sultana, Dede has finally joined the duvet gang.

It's still morning and of course, Kola is already doing media rounds. I feel for Dede, her aura was what took her so far. I know guys like Kola, they'll eventually spill EVERYTHING, just to prove a point.

If possible, he'll keep Dede's undies as a trophy and show Ebuka on Sunday.

She's not my family member,but e pain me i no go lie. Kola of all people!

Knowing that she had lost Koyin must have also messed with her head .

You guys Sha 🤣🤣

geezprince:
While I understand everything else, I find this somehow though “it’s more about anger at WHO she’s doing it with” What I quoted right there is a typical example of parasocial relationship. The core of a parasocial relationship is its one-way nature, the fan(You) invests time and emotion, but the celebrity(Dede)remains largely unaware of the fan's existence, expectations or feelings, hence her being oblivious to the noise on social media.

In some cases, fans might develop an unrealistic belief that their faves are personally obligated to fulfill every desire, overlooking the human element of the person behind the persona. Dede is just a girl, a fine strategist. let her live, please.

In Kola’s defense; production has painted an unfavorable portrait of him to viewers making most of her(Dede’s)supporters believe he’s undeserving of Her affection. It’s just a show….y’all can tear them apart when they are out of the house.

Gbamest it's kola I blamed from the start when you make a lady look like she is your all in all and you can't breathe without her it reduces your worth and carriage in the lady's eyes,the housemates and even the viewers eyes same thing also apply to a lady a guy wanted to try that with me in past till I gave myself brain a proper 'gaslighter and manipulator' he wouldn't have or loved me yet wouldn't want any other guy to

will ghost me(no calls,sms,no chats)yet blames me when I delete his number and blocked him as it was affecting me emotionally he won't also pick my calls this was because he had acquainted himself with my mom as she went to pray and the prophetess lied he is my husband my mum no wan hear any bad thing about him until I called his bluff

If it had been someone like Koyin, bright or kaybobo she did it with people won't have been upset kola lost his rep as he was always pinning and swooning over dede though I don't believe they did more than agressive cuddling as kola loves exaggerating too

Nkl4u:
Is one of them leaving tomorrow? Tomorrow’s eviction will be a shocking one. I hope Jason Jae is safe 🥲

I pray so

This Dem Thelma Custard no done oooo

Adaumunocha:
This Dem Thelma Custard no done oooo

yeah it looks raw

Those custard garnishing decorations look nice!

Tifay:
And why's Dede still pouting all over the place. Abi Kola no satisfy her? or Is it one of regret.

Lets see sha, maybe I'm the one over analysing

Lol, wait and see. Kola will always deliver with media rounds.

scondy:
As in....I defend tire that period...it was something else..
And he kept narrating it to every housemate...Maria sef...character ....forming amnesia....pere say....no....not for my side...

I was torn into two that period

I was team Peria

I liked them 50/50

My first time ever liking two contestants equally

They drove me mad

They fought every two seconds and spoke in low tones

Pere would stare deep into her eyes...like he wants to cry

That ship Sha 😅

HajiaNotu:
I just like this thread...
It's amazing to see the length people can go to make us see their fave as been a "Modest girl
You will read tins like, she's ovulating, she's a young in, she was pressured, she was bleh bleh,she's just playing games etc
You guys shd cut the asewo some slack.
She's a pro and please just accept her for who she is and stop the "she's holier than Jesus narrative...

Yet I have been trying to catch since and have read over 5 pages...all had Dede in them 😓😅

Friendly25:
Lol,nah. I think Dede is gone at this point. I suspect Kola might be waiting for the Saturday night party to tell Bright stuff that will be muffled by the sound of loud music. He's a gamer too and might have realized that viewers might get mad if he talks carelessly, plus he wants to avoid Ebuka's torchlight.

Dede might even disappoint her fans more this night. She seems to have made a mental decision to stop caring and she really has no confidante except maybe Joanna.

Koyin's 360 degree turn must have really hit her, but Bella's strategy was too potent. Once a woman makes sure a man is neither Hot nor hungry, the man will start acting like he's under juju. If Isabella wants to drop a fatality, she'll just start washing Koyin's clothes. That was how Phyna took Groovy's brain.

Gestures matter, sometimes more than seggz. Jackie B didn't even kiss Michael, she just gave him constant cuddles, never failed to prepare and serve his meals, and even did his laundry i think. Before Michael came in as a new housemate, she used the same tactic on Boma and he behaved himself.

Dede never gave a green light, and Koyin never made a move. I think that's sad, but it's life. She just didn't have to fall into the hand of a character like Kola.

I saw the clip of Kola and Dede in bed before an advertisement interrupted the scene. By the time the camera returned, Kola looked like he was adjusting himself. I'm also noticing Dede moving this morning with something that looks like a walk of shame, i hope she's not asking herself, "What the hellie did i just do?"

You're a very good analyst, even though sometimes you come across as biased. I enjoy reading your submissions, and if I must tell you, that’s where many of your “likes” come from. Oftentimes, you type exactly what I have in mind, and I’d just be like, “WTF?!”

Now, you said something about Dede “shame walking,” and that’s it! Whatever went down between Kola and Dede last night was way beyond just kissing and smooching — it was “bad enough,” as Kola put it to Bright. Really, that in itself is no big deal. But what is a big deal is the futile attempt by Dede’s fans to paint her as a saint — Saint Dede!

I’m not swayed by that “fish woman’s narrative.” What I know for sure is that Dede is highly interested in Kola, especially outside the show. I just laughed when someone here said the outside boyfriend — or is it the old man friend? — was better than Kola. Yinmu — pure self-deception!

Christlike01:
You're a very good analyst, even though sometimes you come across as biased. I enjoy reading your submissions, and if I must tell you, that’s where many of your “likes” come from. Oftentimes, you type exactly what I have in mind, and I’d just be like, “WTF?!”

Now, you said something about Dede “shame walking,” and that’s it! Whatever went down between Kola and Dede last night was way beyond just kissing and smooching — it was “bad enough,” as Kola put it to Bright. Really, that in itself is no big deal. But what is a big deal is the futile attempt by Dede’s fans to paint her as a saint — Saint Dede!

I’m not swayed by that “fish woman’s narrative.” What I know for sure is that Dede is highly interested in Kola, especially outside the show. I just laughed when someone here said the outside boyfriend — or is it the old man friend? — was better than Kola. Yinmu — pure self-deception!

Kola na just regular Toronto boy wey hin family hold bar, nothing more nothing less, He even said it on the show that he still lives in his parent/family house whenever he's in Nigeria.

Kola wey dey wait for shipping content to create buzz for shippers money outside the house or which one?

Someone who even mentioned it this morning that Topher from the last Bbnaija is one of his closest pals - Go and find out what they did with shippers money.

You want to compare that to someone who successfully sponsored and camped Dede in SA for 3 whole months??. Someone who's been fully funding her as she just finished school and hasnt even gone for NYSC

Now you're the one with the bias

Geezeem:
How?

You can't force these things

She was not his first pick

So it's always going to drain him

That thing they are doing does not inspire my boi

They just smoke, shag and talk nonsense....i hate it

I’m happy for your boy. Gee baby

What this Jason?
Joanna too is opening teeth and leaving herself to be touched inappropriately, later they will gather to slutshame Sultana.
Understanding girlfriends una weldone o.

Now I understand why Dracula teeth doesn’t like sultana 😂😂🤷‍♀️ jealousy

See her operating Jason Jae why sultana is sleeping

She is not standing on business with her frnd anymore ? And Dr was awake 😭 later she will be deceiving herself #BBNaija #BBNaijaS10 #JasonJae pic.twitter.com/hzhTkXqBZ6

— serena🔱🔱🔱 🇩🇪 (@Beauty50513425) September 13, 2025

Christlike01:
You're a very good analyst, even though sometimes you come across as biased. I enjoy reading your submissions, and if I must tell you, that’s where many of your “likes” come from. Oftentimes, you type exactly what I have in mind, and I’d just be like, “WTF?!”

Now, you said something about Dede “shame walking,” and that’s it! Whatever went down between Kola and Dede last night was way beyond just kissing and smooching — it was “bad enough,” as Kola put it to Bright. Really, that in itself is no big deal. But what is a big deal is the futile attempt by Dede’s fans to paint her as a saint — Saint Dede!

I’m not swayed by that “fish woman’s narrative.” What I know for sure is that Dede is highly interested in Kola, especially outside the show. I just laughed when someone here said the outside boyfriend — or is it the old man friend? — was better than Kola. Yinmu — pure self-deception!

Thanks for the kind words.

Now regarding Dede, let's get something straight - there's no boyfriend outside. He's a sponsor and has gotten his money's worth from her months ago.

A man with money that is serious about having a commitment with a female will NEVER let her come to BBnaija when he can sponsor her career as an online influencer.

Now, no young boy will spend that money on just ONE woman unless he's in a serious relationship with her OR wants to marry her.

An old man with money already has a wife,wives, and even children that might be way older than Dede.

Maybe the man agreed to just spend on her without a commitment.

No girl in a serious relationship will enter a Truth or Dare game and French-kiss another guy as a dare(Dede and Koyin did this weeks ago).

Maybe she has parents and siblings she's scared , but i know even in many Igbo homes, you dare not enter the house with a belly ring piercing like Dede.

She is living the babygirl life, but she has needs that sugar daddies won't or can't fill because of age. Not every sugar daddy can be like Baltasar Ebang Egonga.

Now that's out of the way. What was her aim from the show? What does she want out of life? I doubt she knows, i had no plans at 23. So she's basically vibing.

She still has the main character syndrome many campus girls have until graduation and reality hit, and she confused her experience with sugar daddies with actual experience with men.

She is slowly realizing maybe she wasn't the main character she thought she was. Jason has bounced, Koyin did a shocking turnaround and was the only so-called fish to maintain that he wasn't physically interested in her. She was breastfed on attention, and she's in BBnaija 10/10, not Pepper Dem where egbons like Mike and Seyi would have protected her.

Tega was the closest thing to her protective zaddy in the house and the actual 30- year olds she met were agbayas in the form of Kola and Jason. It was only a matter of time.

She's realizing that be it smooching or kissing, SOMETHING has left her, and one of the fishes might be turning out to be a shark that was disguising for so long. So she's torn between uncertainty, the shame of what she did, confusion as to why she did it, a sense of regret, and a cold realization that she might have played herself into being no different from Sultana and Isabella.

She's wondering if it will affect her bride price value outside,while hoping Kola will behave like Bright, and wondering IF what she did was actually shown on camera.

She just realized she has been newly inducted into the BBnaija Porn Hall of Fame.

She just realized she's alone and she might be damaged goods.

EXCEPT Kola maintains the appearance of a ship for the cameras, during which he'll keep chopping her until the camera crew gets frustrated and air one scene on TV. My advice for any Dede fan is to love her regardless, this might not be the end, and because if they rate her highly she might give them a cardiac arrest.

It's like the cutlery is finally out!

When Imisi dey kitchen this shovel teeth no talk ooh

Geezeem:
How?

You can't force these things

She was not his first pick

So it's always going to drain him

That thing they are doing does not inspire my boi

They just smoke, shag and talk nonsense....i hate it

Jason is worse than Sultana when it comes to waywardness , he is not stable, he has had more meaningful conversations with Sulatana than with any other person in that house, she’s calm, caring and respects him, she’s very much stable.

Jason is the one with a girlfriend outside, he wants Dede and still flirts with Joanna, look at the way he touches Joanna, he is the problem and never Sultana,he should just stay true to himself and quit acting like Sultana is the one influencing him when he’s the one making her do stuffs.

Imisi finally freed the imprisoned cutleries....

So what cutlery did Faith discover?