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‘No argument with my wife in 17 yrs of marriage’- Pastor David Oyedepo Jnr.

Having arguments in marriage can actually be healthy!

Why Arguments Matter in Marriage
1. They Build Trust
-When couples argue respectfully, they show that it’s safe to express disagreement.Over time, this builds emotional security and openness

2. They show Hidden Issues
• Arguments often reveal concerns that have been hiding beneath the surface.Addressing these early prevents issues from growing• It is better to release tension than let it explode later.

3. They Promote Honesty
• In conflict, people often speak their raw truth. This can lead to better understanding and connection.

4. They Improve Communication Skills
• Learning to argue well—without yelling or shutting down—teaches conflict resolution.

5. They Strengthen the Bond
• Working through disagreements shows commitment• Couples who resolve conflict together often feel more united afterward.

6. They Establish Boundaries
• Arguments clarify what’s okay and what’s not.
• They help couples define personal limits and mutual expectations

“A little conflict can build trust, so approach disagreements with respect to grow closer”

• Proverbs 15:1 — “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
• Ephesians 4:26 — “Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.”
• James 1:19 — “Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.”

Dae Jumong 12/09/25

Never had an argument in 17 years? These talebearers are at it again.🙄🙄🙄

If two human beings are in a informal relationship, disagreements and arguments are to be expected. 🤔

Daejumong:
‘No argument with my wife in 17 yrs of marriage’- Pastor David Oyedepo Jnr...

Depends on how he defines "argument"

Some people define arguments as "shouting matches"

But not all arguments need to result in raised voices.

Now, if he's saying himself and his wife have NEVER had differences of opinion on issues, that's another story altogether...

Even Peter argued with Jesus - when he refused for Jesus to wash his feet at first. Noah argued with God and went the opposite direction. Jacob fought an angel one-on-one.
That's being human.

Which one is you never argued with your wife. Or did you mean "hot arguments" or "quarrels" or "shouting matches"
Even if you married an angel or you're one yourself, you must have differences.

Maybe they live just like roommates and even their conversations are shallow and trivial.

It could also be that one of them is dumb, weak or subdued and afraid to reveal their true feeling or opinion on things so as to not offend or be judeged.

Or the whole thing could be a lie. Maybe they want outsiders to think they have a great marriage, so they make up stories about themselves.

Argument,quarrels tends to happen even with the coolest person around.The best part I guess about relationships is these small argument and the makeover after them where either husband or wife does their best to get their spouse back

Nairaland front page is dedicated to the Oyedepos today.

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That's his truth. They have their target audience.
The message is not intended for everyone especially those with functional brain and common sense.

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Daejumong:
‘No argument with my wife in 17 yrs of marriage’- Pastor David Oyedepo Jnr.

Having arguments in marriage can actually be healthy!

Why Arguments Matter in Marriage
1. They Build Trust
-When couples argue respectfully, they show that it’s safe to express disagreement.Over time, this builds emotional security and openness

2. They show Hidden Issues
• Arguments often reveal concerns that have been hiding beneath the surface.Addressing these early prevents issues from growing• It is better to release tension than let it explode later.

3. They Promote Honesty
• In conflict, people often speak their raw truth. This can lead to better understanding and connection.

4. They Improve Communication Skills
• Learning to argue well—without yelling or shutting down—teaches conflict resolution.

5. They Strengthen the Bond
• Working through disagreements shows commitment• Couples who resolve conflict together often feel more united afterward.

6. They Establish Boundaries
• Arguments clarify what’s okay and what’s not.
• They help couples define personal limits and mutual expectations

“A little conflict can build trust, so approach disagreements with respect to grow closer”

• Proverbs 15:1 — “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
• Ephesians 4:26 — “Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.”
• James 1:19 — “Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.”

Dae Jumong 12/09/25

Just 17 years. You no go shut up. All these people self.

I've never fell sick since i was born


If you believe that then you will believe the fake pastor's son

Daejumong:
‘No argument with my wife in 17 yrs of marriage’- Pastor David Oyedepo Jnr.

Having arguments in marriage can actually be healthy!

Why Arguments Matter in Marriage
1. They Build Trust
-When couples argue respectfully, they show that it’s safe to express disagreement.Over time, this builds emotional security and openness

2. They show Hidden Issues
• Arguments often reveal concerns that have been hiding beneath the surface.Addressing these early prevents issues from growing• It is better to release tension than let it explode later.

3. They Promote Honesty
• In conflict, people often speak their raw truth. This can lead to better understanding and connection.

4. They Improve Communication Skills
• Learning to argue well—without yelling or shutting down—teaches conflict resolution.

5. They Strengthen the Bond
• Working through disagreements shows commitment• Couples who resolve conflict together often feel more united afterward.

6. They Establish Boundaries
• Arguments clarify what’s okay and what’s not.
• They help couples define personal limits and mutual expectations

“A little conflict can build trust, so approach disagreements with respect to grow closer”

• Proverbs 15:1 — “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
• Ephesians 4:26 — “Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.”
• James 1:19 — “Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.”

Dae Jumong 12/09/25

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Is she a submissive wife? Even a submissive wife will argue once in a while. Bro you ain't speaking the truth or you guys are just living as room mates and there's no love at all.

Except if ARGUE is not the same as in the English dictionary.

..hhh

Lamba
Lamba.. could this be true.


I don't believe it

These pple never get tired oo.. like u married a zombie or dumbiee.. mtchewww.. sheepels will say yes daddy'..

Can dissenting voices happen where you are reigning?

If you are to be president, your totalitarian will worse than tyrant on the throne presently.

That's a very good attitude worthy of emulation. May God continue to bless your marriage.

Kobojunkie:
Never had an argument in 17 years? These talebearers are at it again.🙄🙄🙄

If two human beings are in a informal relationship, disagreements and arguments are to be expected. 🤔

The main reason for constant arguments is Finance and he doesn't have problems with that so every other issue are minor.

It is an indication of the fact that a simpleton and .a simpletess have come together as husband and wife. The fact that they have not argued for 17years doesn't mean they have a perfect marriage. Some times, argument make marriage especially constructive one.

ImmacuIate:
That's a very good attitude worthy of emulation. May God continue to bless your marriage.

Bcoz money is overflowing in his marriage. Everything is made ready and available for him.

Lie from pit of hell. If you compared your marriage with this statement u don miss road.

why would u ?

when there is money beyond talking... everything is done based on money and influence. Even if u are lying, who would speak out

Physical fight... I agree... But argument ino gree oh... Every two intelligent people must disagree once in a while

If he never had an argument with his wife in 17 years then they are in a master- slave relationship. "Teeth and tongue must clash" After some backlash ... we will hear the spiritually weak will not understand....he was speaking in parables.

Somebody shout powerrrrr


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If there is no argument in 17 years, one partner is a yes partner. There's absolute compromise.

This is what they use to entertain their members. Papa this mama that, pastor this pastor that 😂😂😂

Another motivational speaker! Its good to ginger young married ones up but I don't believe you.