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Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by APCNig: 3:32pm On Sep 14, 2025

But all of you celebrated Toke Makinwa for having a child who has no father nah

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Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by Godspowerpro(m): 3:33pm On Sep 14, 2025

I thank GOD for cleansing me from all sexual impurities

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Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by Amarachieze(m): 3:35pm On Sep 14, 2025

Sex is both biological and social-cultural. For those whose instinctual desire (Id) controls, sex is sex irrespective of who, where and when it is consummated but for those with strong superego (cultural values such as religious belief) sex is better or sweet under certain social-cultural regulated contexts or institution such as marriage.
As humans, sex is a normative behavior and so is better consummated under cultural norms and values, otherwise someone can still claim that it doesn't matter if one has sex with his own mother, because he gets the same feeling whether is his mother or any other persons

Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by duduade(m): 3:42pm On Sep 14, 2025

It's always better to taste the merchandise before the marriage

What you order might not be what you get o

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Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by naughtysaus: 3:52pm On Sep 14, 2025

Another lie propagated by religious people.

Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by Lovelydaisies: 4:04pm On Sep 14, 2025

Host78:
Why do we lie to ourselves this much to the point we accept the lies as truth?

Like how does marriage make sex beautiful? One of the reason most men divorce their wives is because of poor sex.

Yet everyday we delude ourselves with this nonsense.

Sex is sex. Whether in marriage or outside of marriage. The results are the same for chrissake!

If you love someone, it doesn't matter whether or not you're married, you'll enjoy the second with them. Not all the time but most of the time.

Let's stop witg this utter garbage and redundant talks and start using our head for once

Hi. It's alright to say you're atheist or non-Christian, but it's not acceptable to come here an counter what Christians believe. The OP provided verses to back his point based on Christianity and I don't see why it's difficult to accept.

Many cultures and religions value sexual purity. Even if you think it's a lie, isn't it noble to be chaste for many other reasons - such as freedom from diseases, heartbreaks and so on?

Good teachings as these should be promoted.

Maybe you can tell your family members and children that premarital and extramarital affairs mean nothing, but the rest of us who believe in Christ will uphold our moral values and sexual purity.

Thanks, brother.

Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by Ginomel(m): 4:09pm On Sep 14, 2025

Host78:
Why do we lie to ourselves this much to the point we accept the lies as truth?

Like how does marriage make sex beautiful? One of the reason most men divorce their wives is because of poor sex.

Yet everyday we delude ourselves with this nonsense.

Sex is sex. Whether in marriage or outside of marriage. The results are the same for chrissake!

If you love someone, it doesn't matter whether or not you're married, you'll enjoy the second with them. Not all the time but most of the time.

Let's stop witg this utter garbage and redundant talks and start using our head for once

You have a challenge In comprehension

Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by Omoawoke(m): 4:16pm On Sep 14, 2025

Fiscus105:
You enjoy sex with person you really in love with .

How people go to brothel to have sex with total random and strangers hookers, still Marvel me

It baffles me that you as a man are asking that question when you know all you need is e3ection. Are you trying to pretend you don’t get e3ection from seeing strangers when they have those curves and hot body?
Or else you have one medical condition or the other

My problem with your likes is that you love to pretend and put in an act like those things baffle you and irritate you while same you may be watching p03n of strangers and be getting e3ection from it.

You can say you are baffled how people don’t have self control or can’t be disciplined not to do it despite the fun and temptation. But don’t come here pretending that you are baffled how a man can have s3x with a stranger…. You aren’t pleasing anybody here

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Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by hush15: 4:18pm On Sep 14, 2025

PurityOrNothing:
*Purity or Nothing Global Movement*
DAILY PURITY DIGEST

Date: *9th September, 2025*

Topic: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage

Genesis 2:24 NKJV
[24] Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

*THE PURE WORD*

Becoming one flesh (sharing sexual pleasures) with someone you aren't married to is very deadly and dangerous. In extramarital or premarital sex, the partners become “one flesh” under God’s curse.

So, you should know that there's nothing like “casual sex.” Every sexual relationship at least begins a one-flesh bond. The bond will either be something beautiful (when it's within the marriage institution) or it will be something distorted (when done outside marriage).

Now, even when sexual pleasures are shared inside the marriage union, to genuinely bond, the right conditions must be put in place, such as committed love, commitment to the marriage, and a pursuit of true intimacy. It is important to know that just because sex is taking place in a marriage doesn’t necessarily mean it is truly fulfilling God’s purpose of bonding together a one-flesh relationship.

Finally, the verse said "they become one flesh". Let's place a brief emphasis on "become". It means, whilst the first sexual pleasures shared in marriage (maybe on the wedding night) can ensure that an initial bond in a one-flesh union is formed, we must know that the fullness of what God wants to do in the one flesh relationship takes time. It has to "become" overtime as they keep at it.

*Confession:*

I acknowledge that sex is a sacred act, designed by God for divine purposes. By His grace, I will honor and uphold its sanctity. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Sex is sex. Its beautiful when both parties consent and genuinely have it. It has nothing to do with marriage. It doesn't mean there is no value for it in marriage but it doesn't also mean its valueless outside it. Just being blunt.

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Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by Kelpat7464: 4:29pm On Sep 14, 2025

Sex is beautiful in marriage cause you have God approval, when u have it outside marriage then it's fornication

Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by Fiscus105(m): 4:34pm On Sep 14, 2025*

Omoawoke:
It baffles me that you as a man are asking that question when you know all you need is e3ection. Are you trying to pretend you don’t get e3ection from seeing strangers when they have those curves and hot body?
Or else you have one medical condition or the other

My problem with your likes is that you love to pretend and put in an act like those things baffle you and irritate you while same you may be watching p03n of strangers and be getting e3ection from it.

You can say you are baffled how people don’t have self control or can’t be disciplined not to do it despite the fun and temptation. But don’t come here pretending that you are baffled how a man can have s3x with a stranger…. You aren’t pleasing anybody here

I stop from where you said, all you need is erection...... infact, I understand more than what you uttered, even if erection comes for women you are not supposed to bed, you have to do it since you are a complete man.

No wonder, people sleeping with friend's wife, daughters, even practice bestiality.

Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by zenburster: 4:36pm On Sep 14, 2025

Says who?

I like how this forum is used by these Christian fundamentalists every Sunday to air their sexual fantasies.

Sex is beautiful ko, sex is beautiful ni.

Is sex your problem?

Do you even have light?

Can you travel to your village without being kidnapped on the highway?

Abeg koshi lo jo!!!

Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by SQLmastar(m): 5:03pm On Sep 14, 2025

PurityOrNothing:
*Purity or Nothing Global Movement*
DAILY PURITY DIGEST

Date: *9th September, 2025*

Topic: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage

Genesis 2:24 NKJV
[24] Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

*THE PURE WORD*

Becoming one flesh (sharing sexual pleasures) with someone you aren't married to is very deadly and dangerous. In extramarital or premarital sex, the partners become “one flesh” under God’s curse.

So, you should know that there's nothing like “casual sex.” Every sexual relationship at least begins a one-flesh bond. The bond will either be something beautiful (when it's within the marriage institution) or it will be something distorted (when done outside marriage).

Now, even when sexual pleasures are shared inside the marriage union, to genuinely bond, the right conditions must be put in place, such as committed love, commitment to the marriage, and a pursuit of true intimacy. It is important to know that just because sex is taking place in a marriage doesn’t necessarily mean it is truly fulfilling God’s purpose of bonding together a one-flesh relationship.

Finally, the verse said "they become one flesh". Let's place a brief emphasis on "become". It means, whilst the first sexual pleasures shared in marriage (maybe on the wedding night) can ensure that an initial bond in a one-flesh union is formed, we must know that the fullness of what God wants to do in the one flesh relationship takes time. It has to "become" overtime as they keep at it.

*Confession:*

I acknowledge that sex is a sacred act, designed by God for divine purposes. By His grace, I will honor and uphold its sanctity. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

I've been married for over 4 years, however the most beautiful and sweetest sex I ever had was with my neighbour's wife.

I guess it was sweet and beautiful because both of us were "married", right?

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Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by gabbytabby: 5:16pm On Sep 14, 2025

Today na Sunday so no comment.

PurityOrNothing:
*Purity or Nothing Global Movement*
DAILY PURITY DIGEST

Date: *9th September, 2025*

Topic: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage

Genesis 2:24 NKJV
[24] Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

*THE PURE WORD*

Becoming one flesh (sharing sexual pleasures) with someone you aren't married to is very deadly and dangerous. In extramarital or premarital sex, the partners become “one flesh” under God’s curse.

So, you should know that there's nothing like “casual sex.” Every sexual relationship at least begins a one-flesh bond. The bond will either be something beautiful (when it's within the marriage institution) or it will be something distorted (when done outside marriage).

Now, even when sexual pleasures are shared inside the marriage union, to genuinely bond, the right conditions must be put in place, such as committed love, commitment to the marriage, and a pursuit of true intimacy. It is important to know that just because sex is taking place in a marriage doesn’t necessarily mean it is truly fulfilling God’s purpose of bonding together a one-flesh relationship.

Finally, the verse said "they become one flesh". Let's place a brief emphasis on "become". It means, whilst the first sexual pleasures shared in marriage (maybe on the wedding night) can ensure that an initial bond in a one-flesh union is formed, we must know that the fullness of what God wants to do in the one flesh relationship takes time. It has to "become" overtime as they keep at it.

*Confession:*

I acknowledge that sex is a sacred act, designed by God for divine purposes. By His grace, I will honor and uphold its sanctity. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by zedman1(m): 5:26pm On Sep 14, 2025

DextrousD:
Very true sir,

I acknowledge that sex is a sacred act, designed by God for divine purposes. By His grace, I will honor and uphold its sanctity. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

I did same until I became married. I will not lie, I did not marry as a virgin. I had a few relationships before marriage but never cheated on ANY of them while we were dating. Now I'm married and I'm doing the unthinkable. I'm not saying I'm proud of myself, but there are many things ahead of us that people do now and we say "God forbid". But wait for time and pray you don't turn out like us.

Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by NovusHomo(m): 5:26pm On Sep 14, 2025

PurityOrNothing:
*Purity or Nothing Global Movement*
DAILY PURITY DIGEST

Date: *9th September, 2025*

Topic: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage

Genesis 2:24 NKJV
[24] Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

*THE PURE WORD*

Becoming one flesh (sharing sexual pleasures) with someone you aren't married to is very deadly and dangerous. In extramarital or premarital sex, the partners become “one flesh” under God’s curse.

So, you should know that there's nothing like “casual sex.” Every sexual relationship at least begins a one-flesh bond. The bond will either be something beautiful (when it's within the marriage institution) or it will be something distorted (when done outside marriage).

Now, even when sexual pleasures are shared inside the marriage union, to genuinely bond, the right conditions must be put in place, such as committed love, commitment to the marriage, and a pursuit of true intimacy. It is important to know that just because sex is taking place in a marriage doesn’t necessarily mean it is truly fulfilling God’s purpose of bonding together a one-flesh relationship.

Finally, the verse said "they become one flesh". Let's place a brief emphasis on "become". It means, whilst the first sexual pleasures shared in marriage (maybe on the wedding night) can ensure that an initial bond in a one-flesh union is formed, we must know that the fullness of what God wants to do in the one flesh relationship takes time. It has to "become" overtime as they keep at it.

*Confession:*

I acknowledge that sex is a sacred act, designed by God for divine purposes. By His grace, I will honor and uphold its sanctity. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by Godmind2022(m): 5:27pm On Sep 14, 2025

Host78:
Why do we lie to ourselves this much to the point we accept the lies as truth?

Like how does marriage make sex beautiful? One of the reason most men divorce their wives is because of poor sex.

Yet everyday we delude ourselves with this nonsense.

Sex is sex. Whether in marriage or outside of marriage. The results are the same for chrissake!

If you love someone, it doesn't matter whether or not you're married, you'll enjoy the second with them. Not all the time but most of the time.

Let's stop witg this utter garbage and redundant talks and start using our head for once

Why will you engage in a sexual act with a person with whom you are not married? Does it elevate your soul or spirit or does it dampen your spirit?

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Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by NovusHomo(m): 5:28pm On Sep 14, 2025

zedman1:
I did same until I became married. I will not lie, I did not marry as a virgin. I had a few relationships before marriage but never cheated on ANY of them while we were dating. Now I'm married and I'm doing the unthinkable. I'm not saying I'm proud of myself, but there are many things ahead of us that people do now and we say "God forbid". But wait for time and pray you don't turn out like us.

Total and absolute nonsense.
'X'Bleep'xxxx'xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Shey, e don reach 40 xters?

Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by Oracle411: 5:35pm On Sep 14, 2025

Lies. Lies. Lies

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Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by zedman1(m): 5:41pm On Sep 14, 2025

NovusHomo:
Total and absolute nonsense.
'X'Bleep'xxxx'xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Shey, e don reach 40 xters?

Rude boy, the only thing constant in live is change. Pray time doesn't happen to you bro.

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Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by Hellisreal70: 5:48pm On Sep 14, 2025

Non virgins left the group chat, they can not relate.

Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by Sellfastng: 5:56pm On Sep 14, 2025

DextrousD:
Very true sir,

I acknowledge that sex is a sacred act, designed by God for divine purposes. By His grace, I will honor and uphold its sanctity. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Sex was not created by God. Adam and Eve were 'cursed' by God because they had sex (ate apple). Men discovered sex through the help of 'snake'

Stop the nonsense about sex please.

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Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by BreakingNews21: 6:02pm On Sep 14, 2025

Not tonight honey, I have a headache, our kids dey stress me today. grin

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Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by Theunderman: 6:12pm On Sep 14, 2025

Let them keep decieving themselves, the same sex they do as if it's holy, is the same reason they get divorced over

Host78:
Why do we lie to ourselves this much to the point we accept the lies as truth?

Like how does marriage make sex beautiful? One of the reason most men divorce their wives is because of poor sex.

Yet everyday we delude ourselves with this nonsense.

Sex is sex. Whether in marriage or outside of marriage. The results are the same for chrissake!

If you love someone, it doesn't matter whether or not you're married, you'll enjoy the second with them. Not all the time but most of the time.

Let's stop witg this utter garbage and redundant talks and start using our head for once

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Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by Bimpe29(m): 6:37pm On Sep 14, 2025

Yes

Beeni ooo

Gaskiya

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Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by Proudlyngwa(m): 6:45pm On Sep 14, 2025

Fiscus105:
You enjoy sex with person you really in love with .

How people go to brothel to have sex with total random and strangers hookers, still Marvel me

konji neva hold u

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Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by Omoawoke(m): 6:53pm On Sep 14, 2025

Fiscus105:
I stop from where you said, all you need is erection...... infact, I understand more than what you uttered, even if erection comes for women you are not supposed to bed, you have to do it since you are a complete man.

No wonder, people sleeping with friends wife, daughter, even bestiality.

Yes, a healthy man should find a hot banging body attractive and enough to cause him erection, let’s stop pretending pls

Where the difference comes in is following the direction of the erection. It’s left for a man to decide whether to embrace extra discipline and self control..
but that you don’t understand how men can bed a stranger they don’t love, that one na self deceit …

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Re: Sex Is Only Beautiful In Marriage by Host78: 7:22pm On Sep 14, 2025

Godmind2022:
Why will you engage in a sexual act with a person with whom you are not married? Does it elevate your soul or spirit or does it dampen your spirit?

yes it elevate my soul... Whatever that nonsense means undecided

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