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Host78:
Why do we lie to ourselves this much to the point we accept the lies as truth?

Like how does marriage make sex beautiful? One of the reason most men divorce their wives is because of poor sex.

Yet everyday we delude ourselves with this nonsense.

Sex is sex. Whether in marriage or outside of marriage. The results are the same for chrissake!

If you love someone, it doesn't matter whether or not you're married, you'll enjoy the second with them. Not all the time but most of the time.

Let's stop witg this utter garbage and redundant talks and start using our head for once

One of them spotted

Host78:
it is beautiful everywhere.

Na why married men and married women commit adultery because sex is sex regardless of marital status.

Some even råpe for this sex. Because sex is sex.

Sell marriage if you want but not with delusions and lies.

another one spotted

Kelpat7464:
Sex is beautiful in marriage cause you have God approval, when u have it outside marriage then it's fornication

Do you know what baffles me the most?

The person we are all emulating didn't even have sex for once.

He never even got married

Host78:
Why do we lie to ourselves this much to the point we accept the lies as truth?

Like how does marriage make sex beautiful? One of the reason most men divorce their wives is because of poor sex.

Yet everyday we delude ourselves with this nonsense.

Sex is sex. Whether in marriage or outside of marriage. The results are the same for chrissake!

If you love someone, it doesn't matter whether or not you're married, you'll enjoy the second with them. Not all the time but most of the time.

Let's stop witg this utter garbage and redundant talks and start using our head for once

You clearly aren’t serious You can’t be serious

Dey play 🤣

zedman1:
I did same until I became married. I will not lie, I did not marry as a virgin. I had a few relationships before marriage but never cheated on ANY of them while we were dating. Now I'm married and I'm doing the unthinkable. I'm not saying I'm proud of myself, but there are many things ahead of us that people do now and we say "God forbid". But wait for time and pray you don't turn out like us.

Hello sir,

What do you mean turn out like you,

Please sir, turn your back on Adultery, and stay committed and faithful to your wife.

you owe her your sexual commitment and faithfulness na.

if you resist the devil (temptation) he will flee from you sir,

James 4:7 KJV
Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.

Sellfastng:
Sex was not created by God. Adam and Eve were 'cursed' by God because they had sex (ate apple). Men discovered sex through the help of 'snake'

Stop the nonsense about sex please.

Very wrong sir,

Genesis 1:28 NLT
Then God blessed them and said, "Be fruitful and multiply. Fill the earth and govern it. Reign over the fish in the sea, the birds in the sky, and all the animals that scurry along the ground."

I acknowledge that sex is a sacred act, designed by God for divine purposes. By His grace, I will honor and uphold its sanctity. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

This might sound blunt, but here’s my truth: my wife isn’t great in bed, and I have a high sex drive. Do I want to have great sex with someone else who matches my energy? Absolutely. Does that mean I don’t love my wife? No.

For me, love and sex are not the same thing. Love is a responsibility — responsibility for your home, your own peace, and the people around you. As a man, you have to decide what’s truly most important: sex, peace, respect, companionship, financial partnership, and responsibility.

Sex is important, yes. But peace, respect, and stability often carry more weight in the long run. A man must learn to prioritize — to know when to pursue pleasure and when to protect peace. That doesn’t mean ignoring your sexual needs, but it does mean understanding that love, at its core, is about commitment and duty.

At the end of the day, every man balances desire with responsibility. That balance determines not just the quality of your marriage, but the quality of your own life.

Host78:
Why do we lie to ourselves this much to the point we accept the lies as truth?

Like how does marriage make sex beautiful? One of the reason most men divorce their wives is because of poor sex.

Yet everyday we delude ourselves with this nonsense.

Sex is sex. Whether in marriage or outside of marriage. The results are the same for chrissake!

If you love someone, it doesn't matter whether or not you're married, you'll enjoy the second with them. Not all the time but most of the time.

Let's stop witg this utter garbage and redundant talks and start using our head for once

What did the bible tell you about sex before marriage?

DextrousD:
Hello sir,

What do you mean turn out like you,

Please sir, turn your back on Adultery, and stay committed and faithful to your wife.

you owe her your sexual commitment and faithfulness na.

if you resist the devil (temptation) he will flee from you sir,

James 4:7 KJV
Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.

Like I stated, I'm not proud of myself, but are you married and staying away from your family for months due to your nature of work like me? If not, get married first Sir and pray not to behave like us.

Host78:
it is beautiful everywhere.

Na why married men and married women commit adultery because sex is sex regardless of marital status.

Some even råpe for this sex. Because sex is sex.

Sell marriage if you want but not with delusions and lies.

You are Absolutely Right .... Straight to the Point .... Honestly.

zedman1:
Like I stated, I'm not proud of myself, but are you married and staying away from your family for months due to your nature of work like me? If not, get married first Sir and pray not to behave like us.

If you are not proud then stop adultery please!

For your family sake

Yes it might not be easy due to distance from your family, or due to different types and sizes of ladies you meet out there... temptations and all..

but note; you have the choice sir, master your body, dont let your body be the master of you.

Please note, i am not judging you o.

Just saying that the path you are treading would result in so many 'headaches' and heart aches, maybe not now, but in the future.

Now about me, i am not depending on my self to do what is right, neither do i even trust myself.

But one thing is sure, i am willing to follow Christ Jesus till the end! and therein is my confidence.

Hebrews 12:1-2 KJV
Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us, [2] Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God.