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1) When someone lends you money, return it even before they ask for it. If you're unable to repay, keep them updated regularly. Don't just go silent on the person.

2) When you visit someone's house, don't go through their fridge. Stop asking if you can take this or that. Stay in one place and respect their space.

3) Don't ask people unnecessary questions. Apply emotional intelligence when inquiring about something. If someone had a miscárriage, avoid asking about their pregnancy. If someone dropped out of school, don't bring it up. Such questions can rúin their mood. If they don't mention it, it's best to pretend you don't know.

4) When someone is having a discussion with you, put your phone away. It shows you're concerned and paying attention. Being distracted by your phone can give the impression you don't care, and it's disrespectful.

5) Don't visit people unexpectedly. Let people know you're coming ahead of time. It shows respect for their schedule and space.

6) When you enter a room and meet people, greet everyone, not just the person you know. It shows respect and kindness to everyone present.

7) Try not to spitt in front of people. It's really disgûsting. And if you want to sneeze, use a tissue or handkerchief to cover your mouth.

When you take your children to someone's house or an event, keep them under control. Ask them to stay one place and avoid running around. This helps avoid inconveniencing your host and others. They might not feel comfortable telling you. Some might wárn you.

9) When you're with your partner in public, avoid yelling at your partner using abûsive words. It creates an impression that you're abûsive at home.

10) When you visit someone's house, know when to leave. Don't overstay your welcome. No matter how sweet the conversation is, know when it's time to leave.

11) Don't comment on someone's appearance negatively. You don't know what's going on in their lives.

12) When talking with someone in a public space, be mindful of your tone of voice. Stop shouting.

13) When you see someone in public or at an event, don't over stare. It could make the person feel uncomfortable.

14) Don't focus too much on your phone when you're in public. It can make you shy.

15) If you're someone who cúts people off immediately when they offend you, it may affect your social life. Unless the person poses a thréát to your life or mental health, try to be more understanding and forgiving. Condone people. Everyone has their own weaknesses, even you.

16) Don't be fond of disclosing people's secrets without their consent.

17) Learn to appreciate people when they do something for you, even if you're paying them. It motivates them to do more and deliver better results.

18) When you're having a discussion with someone, listen to understand, not just to respond. And don't dominate the conversation.

19) Don't brag about your achievements around friends who haven't reached the same level. It can cause jeáIousy and eñvy. Even if they smile and pretend to be happy, a part of them feels like you're overtaking. It's natural and human nature.

20) The fact that someone is friendly with you doesn't mean they want to be friends with you. Understand boundaries. Stop trying to turn all casual friendships into a romantic affair. You could end up losing both.

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Thank you. All codes has been in brain ever since I was born. I've been practicing these codes even without knowing they exist.
The best thing to ever happen to me, is to be born quiet!

Chilota2:
Thank you. All codes has been in brain ever since I was born. I've been practicing these codes even without knowing they exist.
The best thing to ever happen to me, is to be born quiet!

Sad 😢. .. without a voice many will not even know your Aura .. but being quiet is not really good thing .. when you are hurt how do you let out steam .. sometimes it is just what it is .. and life is brutal .. but we fight and change whatever we can change with whatever power at our disposal

I admit I’m guilty of number 15 — I tend to cut people off once I notice certain irresponsible attitudes. For example, there’s this lady my friend introduced me to. The first day we agreed to meet, she kept me waiting for more than an hour. When she finally arrived, I let it go.

The second time, I called her at night and she said she was on the road and would call me back once she got home. She didn’t call back until the following morning, when she only sent me a message.

The last straw was one afternoon when she rejected my call twice and never bothered to return it until the next day. After that, I decided to cut her off completely.

Sometimes, I still question myself about whether the action I took was the right one.

You took the right step though.
But don't cut her off.
Just mute on the relationship/friendship and let her be the one to come back to you after she might had realised all her mistakes.

Still give her chance but just stay your cool(leave her to be on her own).

nnamdi640:
I admit I’m guilty of number 15 — I tend to cut people off once I notice certain irresponsible attitudes. For example, there’s this lady my friend introduced me to. The first day we agreed to meet, she kept me waiting for more than an hour. When she finally arrived, I let it go.

The second time, I called her at night and she said she was on the road and would call me back once she got home. She didn’t call back until the following morning, when she only sent me a message.

The last straw was one afternoon when she rejected my call twice and never bothered to return it until the next day. After that, I decided to cut her off completely.

Sometimes, I still question myself about whether the action I took was the right one.

Love800:
You took the right step though.
But don't cut her off.
Just mute on the relationship/friendship and let her be the one to come back to you after she might had realised all her mistakes.

Still give her chance but just stay your cool(leave her to be on her own).

Thanks for this advice

nnamdi640:
I admit I’m guilty of number 15 — I tend to cut people off once I notice certain irresponsible attitudes. For example, there’s this lady my friend introduced me to. The first day we agreed to meet, she kept me waiting for more than an hour. When she finally arrived, I let it go.

The second time, I called her at night and she said she was on the road and would call me back once she got home. She didn’t call back until the following morning, when she only sent me a message.

The last straw was one afternoon when she rejected my call twice and never bothered to return it until the next day. After that, I decided to cut her off completely.

Sometimes, I still question myself about whether the action I took was the right one.

Boss, you are completely on the right path, no need to feel guilty one bit.


It's normal courtesy that when you miss someone call, even you don't have airtime, you fit flash back to fufil all righteousness. If the person simply ignores and still doesn't call you after weeks, just move on.


The only people I break that rule for are my family members, I fit choose to call back another date when my mind cool as you ignore my call, but if it's an outsider, even supposing that you promise to call me back and you didn't, toor naso your contacts go remain for my phone as decoration.

The part of keeping children to stay in a place when you go visit someone can't work when you have a toddler.

Toddlers can't stay in a place. And I believe anyone you are visiting will definitely understand that.

letitrainnow:
1) When someone lends you money, return it even before they ask for it. If you're unable to repay, keep them updated regularly. Don't just go silent on the person.

2) When you visit someone's house, don't go through their fridge. Stop asking if you can take this or that. Stay in one place and respect their space.

3) Don't ask people unnecessary questions. Apply emotional intelligence when inquiring about something. If someone had a miscárriage, avoid asking about their pregnancy. If someone dropped out of school, don't bring it up. Such questions can rúin their mood. If they don't mention it, it's best to pretend you don't know.

4) When someone is having a discussion with you, put your phone away. It shows you're concerned and paying attention. Being distracted by your phone can give the impression you don't care, and it's disrespectful.

5) Don't visit people unexpectedly. Let people know you're coming ahead of time. It shows respect for their schedule and space.

6) When you enter a room and meet people, greet everyone, not just the person you know. It shows respect and kindness to everyone present.

7) Try not to spitt in front of people. It's really disgûsting. And if you want to sneeze, use a tissue or handkerchief to cover your mouth.

When you take your children to someone's house or an event, keep them under control. Ask them to stay one place and avoid running around. This helps avoid inconveniencing your host and others. They might not feel comfortable telling you. Some might wárn you.

9) When you're with your partner in public, avoid yelling at your partner using abûsive words. It creates an impression that you're abûsive at home.

10) When you visit someone's house, know when to leave. Don't overstay your welcome. No matter how sweet the conversation is, know when it's time to leave.

11) Don't comment on someone's appearance negatively. You don't know what's going on in their lives.

12) When talking with someone in a public space, be mindful of your tone of voice. Stop shouting.

13) When you see someone in public or at an event, don't over stare. It could make the person feel uncomfortable.

14) Don't focus too much on your phone when you're in public. It can make you shy.

15) If you're someone who cúts people off immediately when they offend you, it may affect your social life. Unless the person poses a thréát to your life or mental health, try to be more understanding and forgiving. Condone people. Everyone has their own weaknesses, even you.

16) Don't be fond of disclosing people's secrets without their consent.

17) Learn to appreciate people when they do something for you, even if you're paying them. It motivates them to do more and deliver better results.

18) When you're having a discussion with someone, listen to understand, not just to respond. And don't dominate the conversation.

19) Don't brag about your achievements around friends who haven't reached the same level. It can cause jeáIousy and eñvy. Even if they smile and pretend to be happy, a part of them feels like you're overtaking. It's natural and human nature.

20) The fact that someone is friendly with you doesn't mean they want to be friends with you. Understand boundaries. Stop trying to turn all casual friendships into a romantic affair. You could end up losing both.

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Morals in summary.

Behave yourself

Came4amod:
Sad 😢. .. without a voice many will not even know your Aura .. but being quiet is not really good thing .. when you are hurt how do you let out steam .. sometimes it is just what it is .. and life is brutal .. but we fight and change whatever we can change with whatever power at our disposal

I was born great spiritually. And also have a purpose. Many doors opened for me even without knocking . You can imagine when someone is quiet and handsome in and out.