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I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Chilipepper(op): 11:29am On Sep 30, 2025
I married my wife when her looks was not in the best form because I was sure I’ll enjoy peace and tranquillity — Engineer Shares

Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Sonnobax15(m): 11:38am On Sep 30, 2025
lipsrsealed
Na so e suppose be.........If not for the fact that I owe my future kids a debt of a pretty mom,I don't think I'd have had any business with a pretty banny in the first place,let alone a fair one in complexion angry

I've equally noticed it about all my married nighas cool. Especially the handsome ones who were players back then angry. They all ended up marrying scare crows for the sake of their peace of mind angry

Reminds me of the story of one of my uncle whose Beautiful wives were all snatched away from him by wealthy men angry. He ended up marrying a crippled woman so that no man could look her way......That was when and how he finally found peace of mind and enjoyed his marriage till the end of his days on earth..

As a man, whether you agree with the man in the Op's post or not,but the truth is that marrying a pretty wife has the highest probability that many men would wanna steal her away from you angry. And I can't imagine myself hustling and struggling to put food on my table and the same time be thinking of fighting my fellow men over a lose woman angry
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by We4all: 2:18pm On Sep 30, 2025
Story for the gods! In actual sense, men chase after women who are morally loose and give them greenlight. When I was in Uni, the most chased after girl in my department was physically unappealing with a macho body. However, she was a big flirt and many guys used it as an advantage. As a woman, if you carry yourself with elegance and dignity, men will get the message and accord you the respect you deserve.
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Kajaard: 2:26pm On Sep 30, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Na so e suppose be.........If not for the fact that I owe my future kids a debt of a pretty mom,I don't think I'd have had any business with a pretty banny in the first place,let alone a fair one in complexion angry

I've equally noticed it about all my married nighas cool. Especially the handsome ones who were players back then angry. They all ended up marrying scare crows for the sake of their peace of mind angry

angry
Lol at the boldfaced cheesy grin cheesy

This my Delta brother they always give me joy with his posts cheesy
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Samantha125(f): 2:28pm On Sep 30, 2025
So what now made her beautiful? I guess she went under the knife and he considers her botched body as beautiful.
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Divaan: 3:40pm On Sep 30, 2025
Good to know, as long as that wouldn't be the reason for leaving her.
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Kobojunkie: 3:52pm On Sep 30, 2025
Chilipepper:
I married my wife when her looks was not in the best form because I was sure I’ll enjoy peace and tranquillity — Engineer Shares
The woman was already beautiful when you met her just that she may not have had access at the time to make her beauty shine. undecided

OP, the title is misleading. Please update it. undecided
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Kobojunkie:
Sonnobax15:
➜Na so e suppose be.........If not for the fact that I owe my future kids a debt of a pretty mom,I don't think I'd have had any business with a pretty banny in the first place,let alone a fair one in complexion angry
I've equally noticed it about all my married nighas cool. Especially the handsome ones who were players back then angry. They all ended up marrying scare crows for the sake of their peace of mind angry
➜Reminds me of the story of one of my uncle whose Beautiful wives were all snatched away from him by wealthy men angry. He ended up marrying a crippled woman so that no man could look her way......That was when and how he finally found peace of mind and enjoyed his marriage till the end of his days on earth. As a man, whether you agree with the man in the Op's post or not,but the truth is that marrying a pretty wife has the highest probability that many men would wanna steal her away from you angry. And I can't imagine myself hustling and struggling to put food on my table and the same time be thinking of fighting my fellow men over a lose woman angry
1. Na, those women I pity pass... many of them busy playing wife at home, oblivious to the fact that they are no more than glorified house maids/nurse wives/baby mamas— single married women— for their husbands— the women he settled for because he failed to level up to get his type. Very sad life indeed! undecided

2. A crippled woman he probably detests but chose because he would rather settle than be alone. Kai! undecided
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Sonnobax15(m): 4:15pm On Sep 30, 2025
Kobojunkie:
1. Na, those women I pity pass... many of them busy playing wife at home, oblivious to the fact that they are no more than glorified house maids/nurse wives/baby mamas for their husbands—the women he settled for—, while they live as single married mothers. Very sad life indeed! undecided

2. A crippled woman he probably detests but chose because he would rather settle than be alone. Kai! undecided
. At least,his peace of mind was restored,Kobo undecided. And that's what matters to every man on earth,and not beauty that will someday fade away..
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Kobojunkie:
Sonnobax15:
. At least,his peace of mind was restored, Kobo undecided. And that's what matters to every man on earth,and not beauty that will someday fade away..
The crippled woman deserves none of that, too, I see! Since he has dashed her a Mrs badge, she should live gratefully as the woman he settled for because the beautiful ones he wants don't want him, abi? undecided
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Passionate888: 5:08pm On Sep 30, 2025
Which kind talk be this? When her look was bad, na seasonal something?
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Kobojunkie: 5:09pm On Sep 30, 2025
Passionate888:
Which kind talk be this? When her look was bad, na seasonal something?
OMGosh! You caught the nonsense right there in that phrase! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by BRATISLAVA: 5:10pm On Sep 30, 2025
He's not looking his best either.

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Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by MrIcredible: 5:10pm On Sep 30, 2025
Yeye person

See reasoning

Some people sha

Nawa o
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Antoeni(m): 5:10pm On Sep 30, 2025
Dear God Please Protect Me From Any Trouble That involves Prisons , Hospital,Robbery & Kidnapping in Nigeria.
Because No Functional Government That Protects Lives & Properties
No Functional Legislation That Reflects Nigerians Interest.
No Functional Justice System to Help Prove Your Innocence.

May Nigeria Never Happen to You
RIP SOMTOCHUKWU CHRISTELLE MADUAGWU
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by SmartPolician: 5:11pm On Sep 30, 2025
The least op would've done was to show us his wife because the woman may only be fine to him
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Paut(m): 5:11pm On Sep 30, 2025
[quote author=Chilipepper post=136966882]I married my wife when her looks was not in the best form because I was sure I’ll enjoy peace and tranquillity — Engineer Shares


Non of my business
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by koladata(m): 5:12pm On Sep 30, 2025
Pretty ladies have the most beautify heart, once they love you , they stick with you. But we confuse half nude dress ladies as being pretty. I'm talking about Cinderella kind of beauty. Those ones that when you meet them you won't even remember a lady should have breast of yansh. Their beautiful face is so distractive that you admire God's artistic work. That kind of beauty, they are usually beautified inside and outside, and they will give you rest of mind. Less attractive women give the most problem self
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by SeriouslySense(m): 5:12pm On Sep 30, 2025
amen to that, 30 more character needed to fill the stomoch
Antoeni:
Dear God Please Protect Me From Any Trouble That involves Prisons , Hospital,Robbery & Kidnapping in Nigeria.
Because No Functional Government That Protects Lives & Properties
No Functional Legislation That Reflects Nigerians Interest.
No Functional Justice System to Help Prove Your Innocence.

May Nigeria Never Happen to You
RIP SOMTOCHUKWU CHRISTELLE MADUAGWU
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by kingbee90: 5:13pm On Sep 30, 2025
Wetin this one dey yarn?
So as your wife is now beautiful that mean say men no go still fit chyke her?
Does he know if men were lashing her when she was ugly? As some men dey wey dey lash anything wey get hole. shocked
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by ibechris(m): 5:13pm On Sep 30, 2025
Until we see her pictures then we verify the truth...I no longer believe in them say anymore.
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Aify147(m): 5:13pm On Sep 30, 2025
The same peace, I enjoy. It's good to marry your soulmate, but it's in the hands of God o, cos all these ladies up and down, no one to trust
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Gotocourt: 5:13pm On Sep 30, 2025
Most fair ladies are possessed by Mami spirits 📌💯

No say I no tell you
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by MaziObinnaokija: 5:13pm On Sep 30, 2025
cool correct man..I once visited one Prof 🏡 in my sch days.If una see his wife,she luk like village mother.No wonder,he 😉 his PEACE OF MIND
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Apcshit: 5:15pm On Sep 30, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Na so e suppose be.........If not for the fact that I owe my future kids a debt of a pretty mom,I don't think I'd have had any business with a pretty banny in the first place,let alone a fair one in complexion angry

I've equally noticed it about all my married nighas cool. Especially the handsome ones who were players back then angry. They all ended up marrying scare crows for the sake of their peace of mind angry

Reminds me of the story of one of my uncle whose Beautiful wives were all snatched away from him by wealthy men angry. He ended up marrying a crippled woman so that no man could look her way......That was when and how he finally found peace of mind and enjoyed his marriage till the end of his days on earth..

As a man, whether you agree with the man in the Op's post or not,but the truth is that marrying a pretty wife has the highest probability that many men would wanna steal her away from you angry. And I can't imagine myself hustling and struggling to put food on my table and the same time be thinking of fighting my fellow men over a lose woman angry
You hate black skin ,what a shame, this story is not for your likes
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by shegzhkn: 5:15pm On Sep 30, 2025
Does Nairaland have any board of director please??
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by osuofia2(m): 5:16pm On Sep 30, 2025
WHY is he telling us, you married your wife , is your choice and not ours. Joblessness too much for this country
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Omoawoke(m): 5:16pm On Sep 30, 2025
It’s weird to think there’s correlation between ugliness and peace

So you think an unattractive woman means peace?

How can a man say he has peace when he wakes up every day to a woman he considers as unattractive?


Justice for attractive ladies, a woman can be attractive and also give peace
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Kobicove(m): 5:16pm On Sep 30, 2025
I'm sure what the OP meant to say that his wife was not exposed to money when he married her but now that she has access to plenty of money she can spend more money to update her appearance which has made her more beautiful and appealing
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by chibuikejohn: 5:19pm On Sep 30, 2025
who we go ask? abi nah for eye of the beholder grin

however, the most important thing is the peace you are talking about.
Re: I Married My Wife When Her Looks Was Bad Because I Want To Enjoy Peace: Man Says by Jayhome24: 5:20pm On Sep 30, 2025
Oga I understand your thought but you should never have come scil media and say this because I can tell you without reservation some demonic infidelity curse men don't care how woman look in as far she is woman they will still want to enter under skirt.

All the best but keep your home away from social media.
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