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In this stage of my life I need married friends, tired of introvert life. A lot on mind mind.
I need someone to call and chat with. So that my head don't explode with thoughts.

osmerc:
➜In this stage of my life I need married friends, tired of introvert life.
➜A lot on mind mind.
I need someone to call and chat with. So that my head don't explode with thoughts.

Why specifically married friends? Why are you living a life that you say you are now tired of?

2. What are some of these thoughts that you are afraid to face off against and would rather distract yourself from?

I'm married so feel only married person can understand

Kobojunkie:
Why specifically married friends? Why are you living a life that you say you are now tired of?

osmerc:
➜I'm married so feel only married person can understand

First of all, that is a convenient lie we like to tell ourselves when we are instead looking for others to either validate/invalidate our insecurities. What you need is neutrality when truly looking for understanding. You should be able to freely unburden yourself to pretty much anyone out there without needing to color the conversation with "Only married will understand," jargon.

If you give me an idea of what this problem relates to, I can maybe find you the closest place to find the best responses online. There are groups on places like Reddit where you can post your concerns and get input from people all around the world who have been in your shoes and have the best suggestions to give you.

Thanks

Kobojunkie:
First of all, that is a convenient lie we like to tell ourselves when we are instead looking for others to validate our insecurities. You should be able to freely unburden yourself to pretty much anyone out there without needing to color the conversation with "Only married will understand," jargon.

If you give me an idea of what this problem relates to, I can maybe find you the closest place to find the best responses online.

Ok DM me and also try someone in your family. A problem shared is a problem half solved

osmerc:
In this stage of my life I need married friends, tired of introvert life. A lot on mind mind.
I need someone to call and chat with. So that my head don't explode with thoughts.

what you need is not married couples but true friends. Marriage should not be a cage, you and your wife should have a weekly outing experience. Also, if you are a Christian find a Bible believing church and be committed, with that you will build relationships.

You know what, I get this. In the Health section there's 2 giant threads for Pregnant and Newborn mums and then TTC mums. And it is a lovely community.

I wish we could do something like that for Married couples without it being flooded by people with other agendas derailing it.

That would be nice. Looking forwardto it

Onegai:
You know what, I get this. In the Health section there's 2 giant threads for Pregnant and Newborn mums and then TTC mums. And it is a lovely community.

I wish we could do something like that for Married couples without it being flooded by people with other agendas derailing it.

Onegai:
You know what, I get this. In the Health section there's 2 giant threads for Pregnant and Newborn mums and then TTC mums. And it is a lovely community.

I wish we could do something like that for Married couples without it being flooded by people with other agendas derailing it.

I agree with you 100%

osmerc:
In this stage of my life I need married friends, tired of introvert life. A lot on mind mind.
I need someone to call and chat with. So that my head don't explode with thoughts.

You are welcome.

Thanks.

Sophiemama:
You are welcome.

osmerc:
That would be nice. Looking forwardto it

There are lots of threads on that on here too that had even degenerated into WhatsApp communities from Nairaland....I forgot their titles

Okay

Lizzyangel31:
There are lots of threads on that on here too that had even degenerated into WhatsApp communities from Nairaland....I forgot their titles

That means ur husband is not around or something..?