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Why will someone who can never fall fear?

A woman adopting her father's name after marriage was a tradition crafted by men to control women. A married woman can choose to bear whatever name she feels like and no man has the right to challenge that.

Gotocourt:
Love still dey burst this one head, by the time e clear for her eyes ehhhhhh

na today them start love life? Bad belle

owobokiri:
Ladies are now starting to feel like they did their husbands a favour by adopting their husbands name after marriage in Nigeria! Chai!!!
What were you supposed to do before? Answer your papa name in your husbands house? What in the Chimamanda Adichie is going on here

you don't get the gist

We4all:
A woman adopting her father's name after marriage was a tradition crafted by men to control women. A married woman can choose to bear whatever name she feels like and no man has the right to challenge that.

who is this one again.. carry your mentality go somewhere else

Who ask her to shalaye?

harsysky:
Na wa oooooo. Na so we go dey this yopic from night till morning. Una go just turn each conversation to separate topics here. Shebi the first question na " why did you say yes?" Now this one. After this, another topic go be " how una pull cloth?

Akwa Ibom man...which one be 'yopic' again?

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Okay.

belikewater:
Akwa Ibom man...which one be 'yopic' again?

One bottle of akpa anwuru for you

free2ryhme:
How is this news

una want make the girl no take is husband surname?

if na you you go allow your wife drop your surname as a man

I wonder o. Lasy danbanza youthz.

All this hate came from your mouth Abi heart ... Omo slow down .

meobizy:
She achieved nothing with the name. It would be pointless to keep it. Did she become a UN ambassador, a CEO of a commercial bank or sports woman? No. She was an actress for a while and now the wife of a faded musician.

It's their choice

Na woeman wey still get plan to leave marriage later dey keep father's name. Awon oko kan o kun cupboard . I have one around me . She still bears her fathers name after over 10 years in marriage
I understand her anyway, she no wan dey change name from one husband to the other .

Odewaleadesoye:
adding that his determination during "difficult" times remains her greatest source of inspiration.
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If you define it difficult

Then I call it eternal death

Everything is hate to you children.

Bettergoat:
All this hate came from your mouth Abi heart ... Omo slow down .

tammie24:
Young love

Soon you'll learn madam

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There's nothing to learn uncle/auntie

You people type as if you're praying for their marriage to fail or you want something bad to happen to them.

Stop projecting your own experience on people in healthy relationships

lailo:
Na woeman wey still get plan to leave marriage later dey keep father's name. Awon oko kan o kun cupboard . I have one around me . She still bears her fathers name after over 10 years in marriage
I understand her anyway, she no wan dey change name from one husband to the other .

Charity they say begins from home.
Ask your sisters to change their names , maybe then she'll reconsider hers .
Narco wacko