₦airaland Forum

What can i say, if gbola be for us .... ....... ...... ........ ......... Who can be against us?.

Yoruba Men and pastor work be like bread and butter, dem too like pastoral work sha!!!

Many of this so called single ladies, you will be surprised after church service you will approach them and they will turn you down calling you a poor man that you are not in their level to wife them etc.

Women are wired differently for this life wahala!!

"Lagos was lit up this past weekend as Pastor Bolaji Idowu, Lead Pastor of Harvesters International Christian Center, hosted what many are now calling the largest singles gathering in Lagos — the Singles Connect Conference."


Dem for match make them right there na

Bolaji and his funny games!🤔

Send my Adam, I'm tired of sleeping alone

Men are really the prize

These same ladies here would still be social media making posts and comments like "who men/marriage help, marriage is not for everybody, happily single etc" while deep down, they're desperate and crying every night for husband.

Waste of time.

Black people pretending as of they don't know the answer to their problem. Let us continue to dey deceive each other dey go.

Showbiz church

Adam and Apple be like 5&6

Fake pastor


Cash out season


Na your time



In Biggies voice "Time to get paid

blowing up like the world trade

Eye go clear wuna

We are here on nairaland searching for our missing ribs.

madridguy:
Polygamy is the answer to their prayer.

Uncommon answer but the cheapest truth.

Everyone there should just exchange numbers but the ladies wouldnt subscribe to that. The issue is not a lack of men but its a lack of rich men.

I can tell you for free that 90% of the men that attended, attended to take a girl home for sex while 60% of ladies that attended also attended for sex .so expect enough sex today.
Hotels will be fully booked today

They have not face reality of the nature, now in Lithuania, women seeing polygamy as normal because of large margins between women and men.

Their solution is polygamy, all women that married should give consideration for those outside.

mecuries:
There is a guy in there that's gonna have s*x with at least 5 ladies in this meeting in pretence that he is looking for a wife... To that guy, you are a champ

There's no gain in sleeping around. Grow up!

I hear. Some 5-7 years ago, many of these ladies no dey let person drink water drop cup. Their eye dey tear everywhere. Now beans done done. E don dey burn sef.

According to a famous Nigerian deliverance minister, seven out of ten men and women are troubled with spiritual wife/husband_these wicked spirits fight marriages and can make men poor in order to hinder them marrying.

No be me talk am o.

Reason why these singles conferences don't work is because they are never catered towards men.

And they also don't encourage women and the few men that come to interact.

Advice too much but actions so little.

AZControversial:


Husband dey....na motor he no get.....

Be deceiving yourselves...

Very simple, pick a man up and work with him genuinely but they want Chioma Davido. Already made by God

One thing I have finally come to accept in this life is that I will never ever understand why people will want to be in a relationship

There's this girl I used to 'die' for that year. I go toast that babe with all the toasts I could ever known and read about but that girl no dey gree for me. Once, she left me while I was toasting her and jumped inside a Lincoln navigator that just arrived to pick her

It's more than 20 something years now, same girl sent a friend request on Facebook 2 weeks ago, she calls like 2-3 times a day, both audio and video calls . She's even planning to spend this christmas in the state I'm living now. Na she dey toast me now

I'm yet to tell her that I'm living happily with a beautiful woman and two cute children. If she been follow attend this largest singles conference and prophecy told her na me be her Adam then I can bet with my whole life that she no go ever believe in conferences like this again

Since it is HICC, I believe the congregants will be upwardly mobile middle class ladies. I never knew our young women loved marriages so much. Aren't men sccum again? Is marriage that necessary? Wouldn't marrying a woman be a more better option? Must a young and modern woman marry anyway? C'mon!

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Interestingly, the number of anti-men rhetoric has reduced significantly compared to pre-COVID.

What changed in the last five years?

AZControversial:


Husband dey....na motor he no get.....

Be deceiving yourselves...

If man approach any of these ones, dem go still dey check the kind of phone e dey use. If na iphone, the kind of iphone. These girls never ready.

eherbal:
Na polygamy get them at the end of the day. I'm yet to see anywhere in the holy Bible where it's a sin, or why it'll lead you to hell. Pastors need to up their game and let this sisters get married to married men

Then who will the single guys marry?
I think the problem is that the pastors should make them to lower their expectations from the men and marriage.
We wey get one e no easy, you want come carry another one give us when there are many single men out there.

ideologies:
Lagos was lit up this past weekend as Pastor Bolaji Idowu, Lead Pastor of Harvesters International Christian Center, hosted what many are now calling the largest singles gathering in Lagos — the Singles Connect Conference.

Over 8,500 singles packed the Harvesters International Headquarters, beside grand view hotel ,Ologolo, Lekki.

The atmosphere was electric powerful worship, deep prayers, and real conversations about love, marriage, career, healing, and finding purpose as a single person.

According to many who attended, this wasn’t just another church program.

Testimonies have already started rolling in — from answered prayers about marriage, clarity for relationships, emotional healings

See video here -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ukzlTyLqy0

May your prayers be answered IJN. She that findeth shall receive.

Nigerian women don't learn.
Especially those ones in the church. Same church and Pst Bolaji that told them to endure and bind the spirit of infidelity in their husbands. Look at the comments of the Adams they want to sleep at night with. I wish them the husbands they desire. I pray it works out well for them because if this works, they wouldn't be there to start with.

Karleb:
Reason why these singles conferences don't work is because they are never catered towards men.

And they also don't encourage women and the few men that come to interact.

Advice too much but actions so little.

To be fair though, these churches do organise conferences and fellowships for young men. I have been told of such, but I did not attend. The issue with marriage is that these women are super hypergamous amidst social media trends. The economy has nosedived for a decade and counting. People have lost lives and businesses. These actions affect the average young man's ability to provide. Additionally, there have been cultural changes towards the marriage institution. Some will marry, others won't.

I strongly think that a significant number of young Nigerians would love to marry earlier than usual if the economy were as pre-2015. Then again, some people have to leave Lagos so they can marry, especially if they believe their current income in Lagos cannot maintain their desired standard of living.