₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
Nigerian women don't learn.
Especially those ones in the church. Same church and Pst Bolaji that told them to endure and bind the spirit of infidelity in their husbands. Look at the comments of the Adams they want to sleep at night with. I wish them the husbands they desire. I pray it works out well for them because if this works, they wouldn't be there to start with.

I am genuinely curious, what do you recommend to those ladies? Divorce? Do the husband back with another man?

I am not for the pastor or the women. I am just curious.

Many will knack themselves o,chaiiii,see as girls plenty.

ideologies:
Lagos was lit up this past weekend as Pastor Bolaji Idowu, Lead Pastor of Harvesters International Christian Center, hosted what many are now calling the largest singles gathering in Lagos — the Singles Connect Conference.

Over 8,500 singles packed the Harvesters International Headquarters, beside grand view hotel ,Ologolo, Lekki.

The atmosphere was electric powerful worship, deep prayers, and real conversations about love, marriage, career, healing, and finding purpose as a single person.

According to many who attended, this wasn’t just another church program.

Testimonies have already started rolling in — from answered prayers about marriage, clarity for relationships, emotional healings

See video here -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ukzlTyLqy0

Majority of these ladies have boyfriends but the fine the man not fit to take care of them that’s why they run to look for a better man, I can’t blame them but I will make sure my daughter is not going to entirely depend on man to take care of them because I hate liability in marriage or relationship

Some Nigeria ladies believe they are beautiful and the man must take care of them, don’t cross border with that mentality western culture everybody work for their money nobody is a liability to the others, we usually misplaced priorities in this part of the world, if a pastor can actually hold a program for singles why can’t they hold a program to find an employment for them? Nor be husband majority of these people need na money to take care of themselves 😂😂

men are not scum again 🤣

Gerrard59:
I am genuinely curious, what do you recommend to those ladies? Divorce? Do the husband back with another man?

I am not for the pastor or the women. I am just curious.

I recommend whatever you recommend.
Do not ask me bait questions. You are not curious. Thank you.

madridguy:
Polygamy is the answer to their prayer.

Many will disagree, but this is the ultimate solution for many single women who wish to get married. In a world where there is almost parity in both genders and there are few marriageable men, single women might have to take a re-look at polygamy.

Our forefathers were right on that aspect because the current side chic model does no good for a lady who wishes to marry the sugar daddy she dates. Polygamy is a better option. In fact, polygamy puts more responsibility on the man than the woman. The current side chic model greatly benefits men.

P.S. Only well-to-do men should be polygamous.

pocohantas:
I recommend whatever you recommend.
Do not ask me bait questions. You are not curious. Thank you.

Okay. Thank you.

We are not quarrelling. I was just curious.

Gerrard59:
Okay. Thank you.

We are not quarrelling. I was just curious.

Of course we are not.

No, you are not curious.

Adams with a very fancy horse and carriage, which translates to luxury vehicle these days

Sleeping alone Is depressing

ideologies:
Lagos was lit up this past weekend as Pastor Bolaji Idowu, Lead Pastor of Harvesters International Christian Center, hosted what many are now calling the largest singles gathering in Lagos — the Singles Connect Conference.

Over 8,500 singles packed the Harvesters International Headquarters, beside grand view hotel ,Ologolo, Lekki.

The atmosphere was electric powerful worship, deep prayers, and real conversations about love, marriage, career, healing, and finding purpose as a single person.

According to many who attended, this wasn’t just another church program.

Testimonies have already started rolling in — from answered prayers about marriage, clarity for relationships, emotional healings

See video here -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ukzlTyLqy0

singles conference is good but I think it should be for gathering of Knowledge about love and dating for marriage from a biblical perspective and this would apply to all ages including teens transiting into adulthood. but this gathering strictly to pray for a husband I don't think it's biblical or necessary.

Una use guys wey been come around for your early 20's dey play for no reason.. una never chee something.

It's not about attending marriage seminars will make you marry fast. It's about doing God's assignment. Some ladies are the problem of themselves.
1. They refused to work on their characters and behaviours towards men. Once they see men that are struggling financially, they believed the man will never make it in life.
2. Some ladies refused to yield to God's instructions in doing God's work. Some ladies in church got married cos' they are doing one or two works in the God's vineyard. God favour them with God fearing husband.
3. Some ladies have foundation issues about marriage (spiritual marriage). Some of these ladies refused to dealt with their foundation problem. They felt they can't prayed and worked on their foundation that experienced failed marriages in their lineage.
4. Sexual immorality caused late marriage too. Some ladies in their 20's preferred to go colded hookups in order to cater for their needs, but they forgot there are huge repercussions for their actions. Now they are in their late 30's, they are now looking for available husbands. It doesn't work that way.
My solution is for them to turn a new leave and give their life to Christ. It is not by attending marriage seminars here. It's by changing bad behaviours to good behaviours.

They are not looking for husbands. They are looking for sponsors. All men that full Nigeria, they didn't see anyone they like

That banner is actually "God send my sponsor, I am tired of spending alone"

Kemadealadire:
It should be, ' Send my Eve'. It's 'he who finds a wife, finds a good thing' not she who finds a husband.

Na so!.If mountain can't come to Mohammed, Mohammed can go to the mountain. However, they did not go to 'catch'men. It is called knowledge acquisition and strategic positioning.

All these ones are just looking for rich ready made men non want to struggle with any financial unstable young man.

Waste of time..........

judewrites:
According to a famous Nigerian deliverance minister, seven out of ten men and women are troubled with spiritual wife/husband_these wicked spirits fight marriages and can make men poor in order to hinder them marrying.

No be me talk am o.

Make una leave this kind talk. Spirit husband and Spirit wife don suffer for most preacher mouth.

APOPTOSIS:
For those who respect, listen, desire and willing to come under the tutelage of men, may it be granted unto them their heart desires. But for those who want to do so for neighbor sake or for publicity, most especially those who detest men with innate hatred, labeling them dogs, may they never have anything to do with men.

For those who have nothing else to offer besides making babies, not even a wise counsel, may they keep searching. However, for those who are ready and have got a lot to offer, may their desires be granted unequivocally.
Singlehood is not a crime, rather also a means to a peaceful existence too.

How can they come under the tutelage of men when most men have nothing to offer? :-

They are prolly waiting for dangote's son after enjoying themselves to the fullest

See as women plenty and guys still dey pay for sex. You can now see that any man that pay for sex has low self esteem.

madridguy:
Polygamy is the answer to their prayer.

According to the bible many old testament prophets were practicing polygamy; Why did Paul come along and say they were wrong that only Monogamy is right?

Why are women struggling to find husbands, population declining and same sex marriage increasing in all the societies that practice monogamy?

Why did Church of England appoint a female Archbishop even though the bible says head of woman is man?

Why doesn't she cover her head even though the bible says any woman that doesn't cover head, her head should be shaved off?

Why did the previous Archbishop give "blessing for same sex marriage" even though in the bible God destroyed sodom and gomorrah for same sex marriage?

spencekat:
Make una leave this kind talk. Spirit husband and Spirit wife don suffer for most preacher mouth.

Dem real bro....

Spiritual things don't make sense but they are realer than what you see, touch and hear.

My brothers...
A wa problem be say ..we wey think say be the prize too loud
Una don ever see prize dey talk...?!

ideologies:
more pictures from Gallery

looking at the picture, new people have taken the sit that belongs to pocohantas ... see risky n motunde for back those ones there case

🔴BREAKING NEWS: Men are in short supply worldwide. UN releases demographic report for the first quarter of 2025. There are 7.8 billion people on planet Earth. - Women = 5.6 billion breaths - men = 2.2 billion So the UN advises women to be cautious in their attitude towards men, because out of 2.2 billion men: - 1 billion married already - 130 million in jail - 70 million suffer from mental health problems and various illnesses. That means there are only about 1 billion men available for marriage. And who is this billion : - 56% are unemployed - 3% of them are gay - 1% are Catholic priests. - 10% are parents or close relatives - 30% over 65 years old So, ladies, married or single, treat men with respect. There is a shortage of men all over the world pay attention! If you like make you still dey ask men,where did you get my number or making unreasonable demands 😂😂

See plenty ladies to harvest

BannedUser:
See as ladies full front seat . Men are the prize.

Unfortunately the prize thinks they are the contestants. Every man born is a generation. Every man born is a potential country even at 80 years old.

judewrites:
Dem real bro....

Spiritual things don't make sense but they are realer than what you see, touch and hear.

Spiritual things are real, but they are mostly used to manipulate people. Remember,what you accept and think about will become part of you.

These pictures should tell you who should kneel to propose and not the heinous lies we have been told all these years.