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I will try my best to explain the details of what happened to the best of my knowledge without any bias, I need pure advice please.

I have been dating this pretty girl for the past 8months and she's everything I need in a woman she's smart, business oriented and very homely.

My friend came to my place and we were having argument on burna boy and that girl he wanted to buy Lamborghini for and this led to us talking about how expensive lekki girls are I doubted it and my friend asked me to download tinder on my phone which I did on that my second phone, chatted 3 hookup girls up and they charged 150k, 200k for all night sex, which means I have confirmed what my friend said . I didn't have sex with them I only asked them for price to confirm what my friend said and I deleted the app immediately but I didn't delete the chats I had with them on my phone.

My girlfriend saw this chat when I forgot my phone at her house when she checked my second phone because the phone wasn't passworded, I tried explaining to her that I wasn't lying and I didn't have anything to do with those olosho girls, She isn't listening and called me several names, saying that no wonder I sex her with strength that's it's because I patronize prostitutes that's why I have sex with her like one.

What do I do to salvage the situation please 🙏

Trust,love,caring/sharing is the foundation of any "good" relationship.
U have done your best/honest with her.If she refused to listen,believe/trust you.FREE HER/let her go.To avoid story that TOUGH

A responsible man wouldn't have the time or interest to download an app like that to make $illy findings. Change your circle of friends. Send your woman a text message explaining everything that happened.

RELATIONSHIP IS NOT BY FORCE. Stop begging her.If she lacks TRUST,FREE HER

LilMissFavvy:
A responsible man wouldn't have the time or interest to download an app like that to make $illy findings. Change your circle of friends. Send your woman a text message explaining everything that happened.

I have explained through calls and text but she's not having it. I don't know what to say anymore. I have never in my life patronized 0l0shos before and I aint about to start now

MaziObinnaokija:
RELATIONSHIP IS NOT BY FORCE. Stop begging her.If she lacks TRUST,FREE HER

U mean I shouldn't call her again?

Keep trying and give her time. If she still doesn't return, don't blame her, the fear of a reckless $exual partner is enough to end a relationship.

Paragonpric:
I have explained through calls and text but she's not having it. I don't know what to say anymore. I have never in my life patronized 0l0shos before and I aint about to start now

LoL.

So you didn't read pastor idowu's singles conference on frontpage.

Didn't you read the follow up comments where nl guys where saying "Men are the prize".
You owe her no apology,there are many fishes in the ocean so stop having headaches over nothing.

But, but you dey sex her like prostitute?
You sadi you love her oh remember 😆 🤣


No reason the matter, just chill.
After a week or two you will find a better way to fix things..

Paragonpric:
U mean I shouldn't call her again?

Leave her..STOP CALLING Her. Dnt let her see u as weakling. If she wants u,she'll com back and settled.

Get your sister or an aunt to beg her for you promising never to chat online babes again

Give her time and space. If it’s meant to be you can get through this and if it’s not then you’ll get over this. Grow up though! Why would you do something so dumb? Wgaf about what a prostitute charges in different locations? I personally would move on because everything about this situation is giving undiagnosed STDs 🤢

KillahPriest:
Get your sister or an aunt to beg her for you promising never to chat online babes again

I'll never do that, if she no fit believe me then that's her problem

Use the bible it's your only option, that way she will know anything you say is not a lie because God is watching. If she doesn't believe you after that then you were never truly friends from the start. A true friend will see your honesty and sincerity if you can't lie in the face of GOD. thank me later through a prayer

Paragonpric:
I will try my best to explain the details of what happened to the best of my knowledge without any bias, I need pure advice please.

I have been dating this pretty girl for the past 8months and she's everything I need in a woman she's smart, business oriented and very homely.

My friend came to my place and we were having argument on burna boy and that girl he wanted to buy Lamborghini for and this led to us talking about how expensive lekki girls are I doubted it and my friend asked me to download tinder on my phone which I did on that my second phone, chatted 3 hookup girls up and they charged 150k, 200k for all night sex, which means I have confirmed what my friend said . I didn't have sex with them I only asked them for price to confirm what my friend said and I deleted the app immediately but I didn't delete the chats I had with them on my phone.

My girlfriend saw this chat when I forgot my phone at her house when she checked my second phone because the phone wasn't passworded, I tried explaining to her that I wasn't lying and I didn't have anything to do with those olosho girls, She isn't listening and called me several names, saying that no wonder I sex her with strength that's it's because I patronize prostitutes that's why I have sex with her like one.

What do I do to salvage the situation please 🙏

Just let her go if she doesn't want to accept your talk.

Even if you didn’t want to sleep with those girls, you made the effort and took the time to confirm how much they charge. You have energy. I couldn’t take you seriously even if it was true. Market researcher.

Paragonpric:
I'll never do that, if she no fit believe me then that's her problem

you never ready to settle quarrel then. Killing your ego is the key to a successful relationship or marriage if you don't know but as it stands now, her mind is that you prefer sleeping with olosho and potentially getting infected than respecting her as a woman you love so tell me, what would you do if you came across messages in her phone where she was negotiating prices for overnight sex ? Too much of this red pill and blue pill nonsense have made many guys lose the essence of true love but you do you

Leave her na

[b]She isn't listening and called me several names, saying that no wonder I sex her with strength that's it's because I patronize prostitutes that's why I have sex with her like one.[/b]

Make una leave premarital sex alone, una no go hear. Na so we go hear baby mama and baby papa tomorrow. Children raised without their fathers and/or mothers.

so,at any slight misunderstanding, he should be sending emissaries/ family, friends to beg girlfriend 😒 🤔😒🤔? That's a sign of WEAK MEN.Nobody will tell me to say sorry when I'm wrong.But if u decide to act stubborn/heady,trust me,i'll FREE U sharp sharp.

KillahPriest:
you never ready to settle quarrel then. Killing your ego is the key to a successful relationship or marriage if you don't know but a it stands now, her mind is that you prefer sleeping with olosho and potentially getting infected than respecting her as a woman you love so tell me, what would you do if you came across messages in her phone where she was negotiating prices for overnight sex ? Too much of this red pill and blue pill nonsense have made many guys lose the essence of true love but you do you

I just they laugh since for here your babe say na why you they knack her with strength lol he be like say you too they do much you they knack that babe too much she they find way to japa before now you have given her point to escape the strength knacking .he be like say that girl just like you for something way you they offer her for her to bring out that se...x issue of strength she don't really lobe you I swear bro .just leave her if she love you she go come back don't act like a simp 8 month of simping is enough let her come back if she is ready to stay don't force it

Double0h7:
Give her time and space. If it’s meant to be you can get through this and if it’s not then you’ll get over this. Grow up though! Why would you do something so dumb? Wgaf about what a prostitute charges in different locations? I personally would move on because everything about this situation is giving undiagnosed STDs 🤢

Truth is i have never had sex with another woman since I started dating her. The chat with h00kup girls only happened on 30th June. I know i messed up but I had no intention of meeting any of those girls.

Maeve7:
Even if you didn’t want to sleep with those girls, you made the effort and took the time to confirm how much they charge. You have energy. I couldn’t take you seriously even if it was true. Market researcher.

I know i messed up but it was just an in the moment kind of thing. It looks suspicious and if tables were turned I'll never accept it. I like to use scenarios to check myself too.

If she doesn't come back I'll accept my loss and move on. I have pleaded and it's falling on deaf ears. I have stopped begging and let her be.

Paragonpric:
Truth is i have never had sex with another woman since I started dating her. The chat with h00kup girls only happened on 30th June. I know i messed up but I had no intention of meeting any of those girls.

I think you need to focus more on why you care about prostitutes and their economics as a man in a relationship with a woman. It portrays you as an irresponsible man. It’s not about whether you can explain your way out of this but the fact that you’re that kinda guy. Look within and ask yourself questions. I don’t think about the price of drugs, and start phoning drug dealers to figure out the price of crack on the streets! Why did you have the need to know and go to the extent of using your own phone. These prostitutes now have your number on their phone! They can message you directly offer you discounted rates. You’re not ready for a serious relationship so please leave that lady alone and let her find her husband.

Double0h7:
I think you need to focus more on why you care about prostitutes and their economics as a man in a relationship with a woman. It portrays you as an irresponsible man. It’s not about whether you can explain your way out of this but the fact that you’re that kinda guy. Look within and ask yourself questions. I don’t think about the price of drugs, and start phoning drug dealers to figure out the price of crack on the streets! Why did you have the need to know and go to the extent of using your own phone. These prostitutes now have your number on their phone! They can message you directly offer you discounted rates. You’re not ready for a serious relationship so please leave that lady alone and let her find her husband.

I don'tcare about prostitutes or their economics, and I didn't have intention to do anything with them, and they aren't messaging me for discounted rates. I have left her alone she deserves better actually. I have learnt my lesson though.

For the future, use a burner phone when you want to do stupid shit like this.

tensazangetsu20:
For the future, use a burner phone when you want to do stupid shit like this.

Won't be trying such anymore in my life. Frankly I don't want her to accept me back. Na very good girl, and so many comments here has shown that am in the wrong. I acknowledge my mistakes

Paragonpric:
I don'tcare about prostitutes or their economics, and I didn't have intention to do anything with them, and they aren't messaging me for discounted rates. I have left her alone she deserves better actually. I have learnt my lesson though.

Honestly, I hear what you’re saying but your actions don’t match your words! I would lose any respect for my man if I saw what your girl saw. Women are constantly told to choose better so she’s avoiding stories that touch. You used your own hand to spoil a good thing; do better going forward. Let your actions match your words.

Paragonpric:
I know i messed up but it was just an in the moment kind of thing. It looks suspicious and if tables were turned I'll never accept it. I like to use scenarios to check myself too.

If she doesn't come back I'll accept my loss and move on. I have pleaded and it's falling on deaf ears. I have stopped begging and let her be.

Next time, hopefully, you’d be wiser.

Na from clap, dance dey start.