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Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by brain54(m):
Druss:
Lol. Trust issue based on judgement? Your mind analysed the situation and saw danger.

Ditto this one. If I enter a church and I see this woman in this outfit at the pulpit - my instincts would scream to me to get the eff away from the church. Another level of danger.
😂 I guess perspectives are subjective...

I see absolutely nothing wrong in the outfit. Especially if she didn't wear it to church.

It's already established it was worn for a photoshoot.

And if she wears it to church I would still see nothing wrong in the dress except that she dressed inappropriately for an occasion. Like wearing a dinner gown to the office.

I guess the "don't judge" mantra applies to judgement based on your perspective or lens of seeing things and not like in the mad man anology you used. You can't expect a mad person to make a rational decision after all!
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Emeka71(m): 10:27am On Oct 04, 2025
Predictor3:
Look, let's Stop all this wokeness. That dressing says a lot about her.
Who knows why the marriage even crashed. It could be because of her attitude. Probably she cheated on the poor man and broke his heart. This one I'm looking at go like man well well.
But wait a minute, is there any woman who don't like a man?
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by WizardOfNG: 10:33am On Oct 04, 2025
WesleyPepper:
Big Chief
You really dropped the ball there . The fellow you are responding to is not any different from the AbakalikiOrigin impostor .
In fact, this one here claimed to be a Yoruba from Ibadan while her posts are deeply pro beerfravd and anti Yoruba.
You only need to go through her posts bro
My bad. They all live and breathe deception so well, to the extent it is second nature to them, it becomes hard to tell who is sincere or not on NL.

That is another point of my posts here. Is it LagosOrigin, Aka SadWaste and PrinceOfLagos, calling someone a "stripper" who is an example of Christian virtues here or even human decency?

Lies shamelessly, dishonourable, proudly fraudulent by nature, peddles hate and bigotry 24/7, discriminate against others on account of their ethnic origin etc, etc.

Yet he is hypocritically calling someone he does not know a "stripper"? Nigerians are something else.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by seanery: 10:34am On Oct 04, 2025
OneCandleAway:
You didn't have to call her a stripper.

She inherited the pastoral calling just like other churches are doing.
Through phone call or text messagehuh?
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by churro: 10:41am On Oct 04, 2025
pocohantas:
Her brother's marriage and hers has crashed.
They are both heading the church. Last last we are all pencils in the hand of the creator.
What! Her brother's marriage has crashed as well? Are you sure about this?
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by osuofia2(m): 10:43am On Oct 04, 2025
LagosOrigin:
She didn't inherit anything calling from anyone .. she looks irresponsible to be called a pastor .
How does she look irresponsible, Mr holier than thou.
The outfit you saw is just design and nothing exposed there
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by BouquiLake: 10:43am On Oct 04, 2025
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by ZombieDredd: 10:45am On Oct 04, 2025
WizardOfNG:
What's not cool about the dress below worn at a private photoshoot celebrating her own bday? As I said before, some of you may be fifty or sixty but you are kids in terms of know women and being able to treat them with grace and dignity.

Long-sleeved, full-length and with lining underneath is not cool how? Something women have been wearing since 1860 even?

She is a pastor, and so? Is any of her body part, underneath the dress, visible to you? Do you know anything of her private life to confirm she is not decent or virtuous as you are insiinaying here.

Most of you are just unreasonable hypocrites and misogynista who belong in Somalia. Abeg go and sit down with your taliban mentality leave the woman be.
See how you are all over the place defending her.
She must be your pastor, no wonder.

I can imagine una dey dress too for house
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by WizardOfNG:
Druss:
Lol. Trust issue based on judgement? Your mind analysed the situation and saw danger.

Ditto this one. If I enter a church and I see this woman in this outfit at the pulpit - my instincts would scream to me to get the eff away from the church. Another level of danger.
Your talk just confirm most of you are patently judgmental and never read what others write, to become fully informed, before speaking.

How many times has it been said on this thread that that is a private photoshoot picture for her 40th bday?

Why would she wear a glamorous dress, best suited for a Nollywood award Night, to be preaching, as a Pastor, at the pulpit?

Has she ever worn similar, of the many images and videos that exist of her preaching, for you to even hypothesise as above with the bolded?

Below are three videos of her preaching. I can supply twenty more right now. Yet you are all here ignorantly assassinating her character over a dress, that is is actually decent, she wore for her own private bday photoshoot.

This thread confirms most of you are happy to operate with lynch-mob mentality, prejudice, total disregard for facts/reality and have no interested in personal development and evolving as human beings.

Nigerians, with how many perversely wallow in ignorance and backwardness plus revel in doing wrong to/by others, are the problem of Nigeria. Not leaders alone.

Leaders, because they are each and every one of you, only do to you what you do to each other and will surely repeat against ordinary Nigerians if in leadership positions.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3f4NJyC627k?si=dDB8w1tUrxVYVhRh


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hobK7C-W_S0?si=q-kDjHXhEbHnsLkR


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OxGtc2as_-A?si=w8u-ejBxwtp4ueu8
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by LoneSoldier: 10:53am On Oct 04, 2025
Chineke! This one na pastor, omo? Wonders shall never end, now I see why her husband left her.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by emmyN(m): 10:54am On Oct 04, 2025
Modern day "feminism" have seen more women out of their marriages.

Seun, thank you for dark mode on nairaland. This new look is really cool.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by CorperKola: 11:00am On Oct 04, 2025
WizardOfNG:
It does. You may not know him, but many here do to confirm he hates anything/anyone Yoruba. Check his past posts.

Also check the past post of his other usernames here like SadWaste and PrinceOfLagos. There is nothing in the woman's daily conduct or dressing (see below) to validate anyone rushing to call her a "stripper".

It is wrong, ungracious and wicked to assassinate character of others like that. Decent and objective people refrain from doing such.

Your comment below show you are no better than the person you are defending.



She is not "naked" and not in church. That was a photograph from a photoshoot for her 40th birthday. She is wearing a full-length dress with a body-coloured lining underneath and clearly not nude.

The above you'd know if an objective person who gave her the benefit of the doubt to do basic research rather than think the worst of her as most puritanical and over-religious Christians do.

You guys never live and let live and aren't greatly different , in my opinion, to moslem fundamentalists drowning Nigeria in death, terrorism and misery currently.
Comparing critizing someone online to carrying bombs to kill people and behead people is most uncharitable and dishonest of you

Its like there sgould be no critism or disagreement in your own world
You are the fundamentalist here
***
PS
I dont think what she is wearing is terrible at the same time i believe only women should worship under a female pastor.
If i was on dreads and wearing earrings i'll want to have a church to worship in peace if i so choose
We even now have male pastors with plaited hair
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by DixseenMktPlace(m): 11:00am On Oct 04, 2025
OneCandleAway:
You didn't have to call her a stripper.

She inherited the pastoral calling just like other churches are doing.
You no go keep quiet there ☹️

Show me one place a female was ever a pastor or inherited pastoral role in the Bible?
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by pocohantas(f): 11:05am On Oct 04, 2025
churro:
What! Her brother's marriage has crashed as well? Are you sure about this?
100%
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by zoedew: 11:13am On Oct 04, 2025
WizardOfNG:
Dressing like what exactly? She is not nude, as the full-length dress she is wearing has a body-coloured lining underneath it.

Also, that is a photoshoot for her 40th bday. Is she not a human being allowed to be decently glamorous on her most special day of the year?

She commits no sin nor crime. You are the one who should look in the mirror honestly for possessing a prejudiced mind eager to rush and judge others wrongly.
The Bible already spoke about her and folks who are sold to her ways like you obviously are.
2 Timothy 4:3
3 For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears;
Truth is, it is not sound doctrine for a Christian to be dressed that way even if you receive the gift of a trillion dollars and it became your happiest day ever! Siju Iluyomade's story and lifestyle is a sad reminder of what Christianity has become for some>
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by sexy74(m): 11:15am On Oct 04, 2025
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by zoedew: 11:17am On Oct 04, 2025
Globad:
You dey mind them?

They want to eat their cake and have it

They will soon launch into a meaningless drivel about how Jesus loves everyone and how you should not judge

Meanwhile, Jesus loves but didn’t accept everything

They lap up judgement when it’s positive and suits them but reject it once it’s a criticism
You were right! One of them just set at me on my mention here. I have directed the fellow to the Bible. They can argue with the Bible like forever! I just pray it won't be too late for them. God does not want us to perish.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Dee60: 11:17am On Oct 04, 2025
LoneSoldier:
Chineke! This one na pastor, omo? Wonders shall never end, now I see why her husband left her.
Do you have daughters? Pray earnestly to have one like her, that is serious, educated, godly and serving the Lord. This woman portrays everything that a man will love to have in a daughter, but you still choose to judge and condemn her.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by WizardOfNG:
Dee60:
Men see something 'wrong' in a lot of dresses worn by women but they never see anything wrong with what men wear. And vice versa. It is just that when women see provocative dresses, they keep quiet so that they dont appear to be looking too much. For example, men dont know that wearing shorts can be seductive to women, and men even wear shorts to meetings and sit in front. If you ask 100 women to comment about this dress she is wearing, I think 100 of them will say it is very good and in order. If you ask men, 50% of them will say No. What I have come to realize is that sometimes a woman wears what she fancies and dont look to the extent a man will look. It is the role of the husband sometimes to balance this up. I am not talking about women who dress shamelessly. If you are condemning this dress of hers, it may be that you are looking too much! I said maybe. Personally, I am not in any position to judge.
Don't mind them. Their minds, as you suggest is in the gutters because it should not, and would never be as high as 50% of men who would say her dress is indecent if they are exposed, knowledgeable about womens fashion (from being proper and balanced men who have had long term relationship with women, married and generally interact well with the opposite sex) and can actually think logically.

Let's drop personalised opinion and do the science. What makes her dress indecent? Can anyone come and prove , with sound logic, that her dress is indecent?

Let's inspect the facts logically.

Dress is long-sleeved, therefore not even likely to offend the most devout Christian, and has high neck line therefore not revealing cleavage.

Dress is tastefully full length, so not showing legs nor upper thighs as a dress above the knee may reveal.

Dress is lined underneath so no nipple, navel, buttocks or underwear visible that would indicate deliberate effort to be overtly sexy and provocative.

What then exactly is 'offensive aboit the dress if Nigerians are a people able to rise above personal prejudice and bias to submit themselves to the facts of an argument?
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by LoneSoldier: 11:23am On Oct 04, 2025
Dee60:
Do you have daughters? Pray earnestly to have one like her, that is serious, educated, godly and serving the Lord. This woman portrays everything that a man will love to have in a daughter, but you still choose to judge and condemn her.
Don't give me that bullshit, what is bad is bad, stop painting black white, because am not as ignorant as you people, you are giving me craps. Can't you see in the first image that her boobs is almost on full display, what do you have to say about that Mr reasonable.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by georgeakins: 11:25am On Oct 04, 2025
LagosOrigin:
She didn't inhwerit anything calling from anyone .. she looks irresponsible to be called a pastor .
There is no genuine pastor in Nigeria. They are all hustlers
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by samuelson06(m): 11:28am On Oct 04, 2025
WizardOfNG:
That is a photoshoot for her 40th Bday. The outfit has a body-coloured lining underneath so she is not displaying flesh. Also it is a full-length dress.

I am not surprised at your ungracious talk though as it is in character for you to use your uncouth mouth to run down anything and anyone Yoruba.

It is only confirmed personal conduct, such as immorality and daily scanty dressing, that should warrant anyone calling her the bolded.

When both are not her reality, and the second set of images confirms how she dresses daily, what does such say about you and the motivation behind your false accusation against her?
That picture is not nice no matter how you look at it. It would've made sense if this is when she was in the world or as a nominal member of her church, but dressing like this as a pastor is wrong. No sugarcoating! And it's born of who she is on the inside. She's not given herself wholly to what she does.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by XAUBulls: 11:31am On Oct 04, 2025
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by WizardOfNG: 11:32am On Oct 04, 2025
zoedew:
The Bible already spoke about her and folks who are sold to her ways like you obviously are.
2 Timothy 4:3
3 For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears;
Truth is, it is not sound doctrine for a Christian to be dressed that way even if you receive the gift of a trillion dollars and it became your happiest day ever! Siju Iluyomade's story and lifestyle is a sad reminder of what Christianity has become for some>
Lol. As I have said previously, most of you Nigerians Christians only know how to talk the talk yet you can never walk the walk.

What are you doing, with the bolded, if not judging the lady and your fellow Nairalander that Jesus directly and explicitly speaks against in Matthew 7:1?

You are a perfect example of why Christianity, as practised in Nigeria by most Pastors and your churchgoer sort, is not delivering the Godly, progressive, charitable and humane nation Nigeria should be for her over-relogiosity.

Given that we are one of the most religiously Christian nation of of the world ,with literally ten church or more per most street, yet Nigeria is does not exemplify Christian virtues and is actually more an example of a devilish nation it appears God has deserted and even avoids..

Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Chetas81(m): 11:34am On Oct 04, 2025
OneCandleAway:
You didn't have to call her a stripper.

She inherited the pastoral calling just like other churches are doing.
look at your comment, nothing like pastoral calling, Israeli people will be laughing at you living in Nigeria, sense of religion killed the sense of logic in west Africa country,
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Kwinesther: 11:34am On Oct 04, 2025
zoedew:
What does the Bible say about a woman dressed like this?
What is wrong with her dressing? What part of her body not covered?
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Nobody: 11:38am On Oct 04, 2025
Too much wokeness is destroying our society.

A simple and genuine "I'm sorry " will reset most marriages to their default settings.
Re: Pastor Tolu Odukoya Confirms Collapse Of Her Marriage by Yxxx: 11:38am On Oct 04, 2025
Okay, she didn't change her surname because I was confused thinking it was the wife of odukoya's son.
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