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17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by lagostrendboy(op): 8:07am On Oct 08, 2025
A 17-year-old TikTok user, known as Shopwithlee, has gone viral after sharing a shocking text message she received from her mother following her move into a new apartment.

According to the teenager, she not only secured her own apartment but also purchased her first vehicle, celebrating her growing independence and financial success. Eyes Of Lagos reports,
Details of the Text

In the message shared online, the girl’s mother criticized her decision to move out, writing:
“I see you got your stupid little apartment.”

She went on to accuse her daughter of being ungrateful despite earning a significant income, adding,
“You’re making all that money a month and can’t help your mother. I don’t want you back around me.”

The tone of the message shocked many viewers, who described it as emotionally manipulative and unsupportive.
From Struggle to Success

In a follow-up video, Shopwithlee revealed that her mother had kicked her out at age 16. Determined to survive, she worked hard and managed to rent her own apartment, buy a car, and build a career that now earns her over $20,000 monthly.

Despite her mother’s harsh words, the young entrepreneur has chosen to focus on her achievements and independence.

In another message, the mother appeared to curse her, saying,
“You won’t make it anywhere in life. I bet that 😂.”
To which the teen calmly replied, “That’s rude to say.”
Reactions Online

The story has sparked widespread discussion on TikTok and other social media platforms, with many users praising the young woman’s resilience and courage. Others condemned the mother’s response, urging parents to celebrate their children’s success rather than compete with or guilt-trip them.

Accompanied by photos of her new apartment and car, Shopwithlee’s story stands as a powerful example of determination, independence, and emotional strength in the face of adversity.
https://eyesoflagos.com/17-year-old-girl-shares-message-from-mother-after-moving-into-her-own-apartment/

Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by KingMack(m): 8:51am On Oct 08, 2025
I beg wettin she dey do to fit afford amhuh Cos e be like the marle can clearly see the signs 😁

Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by virginboy1(m): 8:59am On Oct 08, 2025
This social media era of noise and distractions .... undecided

no values anymore... just money money and pepper dem lifestyle...then mental health issues kicks in, drug abuse...then madness...sighssss
Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by seunny4lif(m): 8:59am On Oct 08, 2025
Maybe she doing OnlyFans
Most of those girls are doing onlyfans which is coded name for Prostitution
Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by Daniel058(m): 9:00am On Oct 08, 2025
What does she do for a living, the Carrer no get name?
Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by MaziObinnaokija: 9:01am On Oct 08, 2025
cool cool.HARD WORK DOESN'T KILL.
A subtle to HARD WORK is HARD LIFE.

Kudos to the girl
Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by BodyCount: 9:02am On Oct 08, 2025
Wetin happen!?


One sided story

E don mean sheee to me too
Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by koning: 9:02am On Oct 08, 2025
At 17 ?!.

I hope it's not through Only Fans. Selling her azz. Only in the West.(Saner Climes).
Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by symbianDON(m): 9:03am On Oct 08, 2025
The mother is clearly jealous! She's not a good mum
Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by saphiere(f): 9:05am On Oct 08, 2025
God bless the girl.

Mama is just feeling she's too young to stay alone.
Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by kiddaz: 9:05am On Oct 08, 2025
I hope it's not onlyfans. But then a girl at 17 shouldn't be living alone. She's going to get hit by lots of shiii she won't be able to fully grasp. The mother was wrong too no matter what, you don't speak negatively into your kids lives. Wish her well no matter what
Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by MaziObinnaokija: 9:06am On Oct 08, 2025
cool. Scamming, stealing, gangsters, shortchanged,gambling can't rescued u .There's prosperity/peace of mind in hard work.
Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by ajalawole(m): 9:07am On Oct 08, 2025
Those female tiktocer don't give a f***kd. I know a lady who leave her 2month marriage because she starts seeing money from tiktok. Marrying a tiktockers hmmmm
Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by Uchesis: 9:07am On Oct 08, 2025
The moment i started reading the write-up, i knew it can't be in Nigeria.

How many Nigerian girls have their own apartment at 17?

grin
Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by jeff1993: 9:10am On Oct 08, 2025
What did she do to work so hard t 16 to get a car and rent a new apartment?


WOMEN WOMEN WOMEN!!!!
Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by SmartPolician: 9:11am On Oct 08, 2025
virginboy1:
This social media era of noise and distractions .... undecided

no values anymore... just money money and pepper dem lifestyle...then mental health issues kicks in, drug abuse...then madness...sighssss
No, you are just on the wrong social media. If you want to meet reasonable people, go to Linkedin. That's the social media for reasonable Nigerians.
Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by ajalawole(m): 9:11am On Oct 08, 2025
MaziObinnaokija:
cool. Scamming, stealing, gangsters, shortchanged,gambling can't rescued u .There's prosperity/peace of mind in hard work.
I know of some guys also 17yrs who make almost 200m from tiktok (I think those one are into G), they open big shop for there mum, buy house for dad and am car, that is when family scatter. Mother has already sold her shop, dad also sold the house, the dad say maybe it's was the house that is bringing bad luck that those boys don't see money again. Those making it on tiktok have some fishy deals.
Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by IykeChukz(m): 9:12am On Oct 08, 2025
Obviously, you were hurt by what she said, and that’s understandable.

Still, it’s important to note that anyone who makes such a sweeping statement shouldn’t be taken too seriously. Words spoken in anger or frustration often don’t reflect the true feelings of the heart.

As long as there is life, nothing should be written off. The ALMIGHTY is watching from above, and you, as her daughter, have a responsibility to heal and make room for reconciliation.
Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by OBAJESU: 9:12am On Oct 08, 2025
Wow...A wicked and heartless 'mother'

REJOICE WITH THEM THAT REJOICE Romans 12:15 - (or at least remain neutral)
Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by MrSly(m): 9:14am On Oct 08, 2025
Entrepreneur, built a brand. What is the name of her brand? grin grin grin grin grin.
Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by Berankis: 9:25am On Oct 08, 2025
I thought it was a good thing for one's child to do well in life, even if he/she doesn't give to you. You would still be happy and wish them well, at least for not being a liability to you.
Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by Bigchris01(m): 9:25am On Oct 08, 2025
seunny4lif:
Maybe she doing OnlyFans
Most of those girls are doing onlyfans which is coded name for Prostitution
Onlyfans babes eyes nor clear normally na mainly OS full there
Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by Kaido: 9:28am On Oct 08, 2025
Instead of marrying a Black American settle with an Asian woman.


Most Black American women wahala no be here
Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by G0odharddick: 9:32am On Oct 08, 2025
Probably a single mother. It's obvious the daughter probably snatched her new boyfriend who's currently financing her lifestyle and also bought a car for her
Re: 17-year-old Girl Shares Message From Mother After Moving Into Her Own Apartment by Kaido: 9:32am On Oct 08, 2025
SmartPolician:
No, you are just on the wrong social media. If you want to meet reasonable people, go to Linkedin. That's the social media for reasonable Nigerians.
Twitter used to be great but it has turned to a battle ground for tribal bigotry just like Nairaland.
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