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muyico:
MARRIAGE IN SOUTH SUDAN: After the wedding, ​Even though the groom’s family pays a dowry, sometimes 100 to 500 cows, the new wife is treated with huge respect. For example, ​When a man marries, his wife does NOT cook or clean for 4 whole years. This time is called "Anyuuc" (Generous Welcome).

​The new bride simply rests, relaxes, & learns about her new family’s way of life. ​During these 4 years, the husband’s sister does all the hard work. She cooks, washes dishes, gets water, collects wood, & all other chores until the time is up. If she doesn't have a sister, he just employ someone to do it or he himself does the work, while the wife relaxes..

​After 4 years, the husband throws a huge party called "Thaat" (Cooking Festival). They kill 3 cows & 5 goats! This party is the official start of the wife cooking for her family.

​This custom has a very important rule: If the husband treats his wife badly during the 4 years, she can simply decide to leave the marriage. She does not have to pay back the cows (dowry) or any other thing that was gifted to her during that period..



#inspiring #marriage
#happy #marriage

Amsickindahead:
Lol..What a marriage? This south Sudanese men really need to wake and fight against this bullshit they've been practicing,so after marrying u as a wife, I'll have to do house chores for four years and if she ain't pleased she can opt out of it without returning the bride price..SMDH.This people are nothing but dumbos

brain54:
Interesting culture...


I like it. Four year probation period.

I think the whole culture and process has many advantages.

I hope it's still preserved and practiced in Sudan till date!

Feldie:
What do you expect from ugly low quality men that probably have mouth odor?

​This custom has a very important rule: If the husband treats his wife badly during the 4 years, she can simply decide to leave the marriage. She does not have to pay back the cows (dowry) or any other thing that was gifted to her during that period..

Amsickindahead:
Lol...This people are nothing but dumbos

muyico:
MARRIAGE IN SOUTH SUDAN: After the wedding, ​Even though the groom’s family pays a dowry, sometimes 100 to 500 cows, the new wife is treated with huge respect. For example, ​When a man marries, his wife does NOT cook or clean for 4 whole years. This time is called "Anyuuc" (Generous Welcome).

​The new bride simply rests, relaxes, & learns about her new family’s way of life. ​During these 4 years, the husband’s sister does all the hard work. She cooks, washes dishes, gets water, collects wood, & all other chores until the time is up. If she doesn't have a sister, he just employ someone to do it or he himself does the work, while the wife relaxes..

​After 4 years, the husband throws a huge party called "Thaat" (Cooking Festival). They kill 3 cows & 5 goats! This party is the official start of the wife cooking for her family.

​This custom has a very important rule: If the husband treats his wife badly during the 4 years, she can simply decide to leave the marriage. She does not have to pay back the cows (dowry) or any other thing that was gifted to her during that period..



#inspiring #marriage
#happy #marriage

Sonnobax15:

Na WA.....

Africans with their funny traditional practices..

Imagine allowing the wife you paid dowry on to be doing I.T under your roof for four good years . And she equally has the right to say--"I no wan do again" should the man treat her badly during the four years of internship

muyico:
​The new bride simply rests,

Samantha125:
Tell me you lack reading skills without telling me you lack reading skills, where does it says a man must do house chores for four years?

And why is the antispam bot now allowing people to utter swear words freely in here? Seun, it's like you need to tighten the rules once again.