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madridguy:
The man is the head of the family. During our fore fathers era, even their wives will fetch water for their husband's mistress to bath after the match.

They cooked for her and entertain her. They treat them as guest because men are allowed to take as many wives they want.

Go and try it with ur wife today na.....consoling urselves with tales by moonlight, make sure you tell ur daughter to bath her husband's mistress to keep the peace.

That's why DNA scandal will continue to prevail till u people realise that the bullsh..t women of old were made to go through can't happen in these era.

Na why Europe give woman more power but then some dey over use am just like how the man dey over use him own.

Nazgul:
That's because you're 100% dependent on him. He knows that if you leave him you won't be able to survive independently. Even his family wouldn't even rate you. Cos all they see is a lazy woman feeding fat their son's money.

This is why we advise you women to work hard and become financially independent before jumping into marriage. But you keep looking for a Davido who would treat you like Chioma.

Can Tuface with his reputation as the undisputed celebrity womanizer champion in Africa tell his new wife Natasha to apologize to a side chick. Dem no born am well. That's because the babe is independent. She doesn't need his money to survive.

The energy most young girls put in looking for successful men, if they channel that same energy into developing themselves, whoever they end up with would respect them.

You finished everything.
Tread closed

You just finished case, therefore case closed make we all dey comot from the court.... 😂 😂

Women should strive and be independent financially especially. Don't think of carrying your burden to your husband's house. As a man, I love to see an independent woman, creative and innovative, having a good means of earning money, a woman that wouldn't wait for a man to buy her panties, body cream, make up kits, Natural Hairs, Etc ...... Inspite of being independent woman, that doesn't mean I wouldn't take care of you financially, spoil you with good things and ofcourse buy you expensive gifts but as a woman, I would cherish you more when you have a sense of worth and value by being financially independent...

Nazgul:
That's because you're 100% dependent on him. He knows that if you leave him you won't be able to survive independently. Even his family wouldn't even rate you. Cos all they see is a lazy woman feeding fat their son's money.

This is why we advise you women to work hard and become financially independent before jumping into marriage. But you keep looking for a Davido who would treat you like Chioma.

Can Tuface with his reputation as the undisputed celebrity womanizer champion in Africa tell his new wife Natasha to apologize to a side chick. Dem no born am well. That's because the babe is independent. She doesn't need his money to survive.

The energy most young girls put in looking for successful men, if they channel that same energy into developing themselves, whoever they end up with would respect them.

Globad:
You’re trying to inject politics into this again!

Na wa o

Continue to allow a name to live inside your head when you can take a chill pill and try to enjoy life

na nairaland we Dey. Everything is politics including romance

If u hate apologizing .treat every one of his mistress as your co wives .thanks for telling us your husband is a true African king .I'm also like him .

Madam,you are broke..
You can't feed yourself without your husband.
Like my husband will tell me to apologize to his mistress,as how?
Them no born him papa well.
If I even find out he is having an affair,he will return to find his luggages outside.

"I Must Be Mrs By Force".

As for you side hoes who keep causing drama in people's marriages, your punishment will be very bitter. Your own marriages, if you ever do get married will be filled with double the drama and sorrow you caused for other women.

You men that do not stop at committing adultery but also add insult to injury by forcing your wives to be humiliated by your mistresses, continue. You will receive disgrace in 100 folds.

What was she made to apologize for? Let's hear this whole gist

I don't trust women's only side of stories!

Who does that Na see finish !!!! You likely met him with wealth!!! Never pass through his journey to become what he is !!! And he knows you find it difficult to replace him!!!
Honestly I don't know how easy for a man to be loyal to one wife in this world of women throwing themselves at Married Men in Naija yet hate Polygny ....it's funny

More exciting than a faithful man. Nothing to see here. If he wasn’t cheating, she’d’ve gotten the inclination to. These creatures love drama. The more unbelievable, the better because it makes them stand out from their peers.

Ishilove:
"I Must Be Mrs By Force".

As for you side hoes who keep causing drama in people's marriages, your punishment will be very bitter. Your own marriages, if you ever do get married will be filled with double the drama and sorrow you caused for other women.

You men that do not stop at committing adultery but also add insult to injury by forcing your wives to be humiliated by your mistresses, continue. You will receive disgrace in 100 folds.

One even stated here that they're "helping marriages".

APCNig:
But you pray to the God of Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, David and others who had multiple wives and none went to harass the other

I pray to the God they prayed to not to them or their wives. What's your point exactly? Are you saying that because you pray to the same God as Abraham, you will force your wife to apologize to your side chick?

Person like me,i'll gather receipts,then wait for him at oldage.

madridguy:
The man is the head of the family. During our fore fathers era, even their wives will fetch water for their husband's mistress to bath after the match.

They cooked for her and entertain her. They treat them as guest because men are allowed to take as many wives they want.

Why fontbyou speak only for your clan or village instead of making a sweeping statement to message your ego.

APCNig:
But you pray to the God of Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, David and others who had multiple wives and none went to harass the other

In the new testament, we pray to the God and father of our lord Jesus Christ. Pls take note.

shox:
it is dehumanizing.

I strongly guess that’s what apc is all about
Dehumanizing Nigerians

That na why I dey slowly agree with those who say that marriage, since the time of our ancestors, hass been nothing for a humiliation ritual for women. It is ripe for a complete overhauling.

Hellisreal70:
And the mistress is still a female o.
Women really supporting women indeed. Well this can only happens in a marriage without Jesus Christ.

See liars! No be for una church pastor wife dey know say pastor and choir mistress dey do undercG praise and worship season in bed but wife no go fit say or do anything because she be pastor wife? Abegi, make una stop lying!

Nazgul:
That's because you're 100% dependent on him. He knows that if you leave him you won't be able to survive independently. Even his family wouldn't even rate you. Cos all they see is a lazy woman feeding fat their son's money.

This is why we advise you women to work hard and become financially independent before jumping into marriage. But you keep looking for a Davido who would treat you like Chioma.

Can Tuface with his reputation as the undisputed celebrity womanizer champion in Africa tell his new wife Natasha to apologize to a side chick. Dem no born am well. That's because the babe is independent. She doesn't need his money to survive.

The energy most young girls put in looking for successful men, if they channel that same energy into developing themselves, whoever they end up with would respect them.

Woman is that one person who would not want you to pay them in their own coin. You need to understand this world and the manipulative prowess of women. If you are a man you will learn one day.

Caaz:
Person like me,i'll gather receipts,then wait for him at oldage.

Old age is even far . Anything that will make that man broke,he will see the monster HE made of her , alongside with the kids , because they are watching and taking notes.


After they'll flood comments sections of how "Men are neglected and abandoned at old age"
"How mothers gets all the gifts and fathers only get Aromatic schnapps "
Yenyen.

This kind husband fit no see old age .

poshestmina:
Old age is even far . Anything that will make that man broke,he will see the monster HE made of her , alongside with the kids , because they are watching and taking notes.


After they'll flood comments sections of how "Men are neglected and abandoned at old age"
"How mothers gets all the gifts and fathers only get Aromatic schnapps "
Yenyen.

This kind husband fit no see old age .

What you mentioned na side attraction of part of the package,babe forget oh,the man wee see real definition of resident evul.

He did not force you, you had to obey him and follow his rules which is why he is your lord and master. What dafack is wrong with these women? When did it become a crime for a man to have concubines or is it because it's now been nicknamed sidechicks?

No, Trump telling Melania to apologise to Stormy Daniels.

Softmirror:
Like Bill Clinton telling Hilary Clinton to apologize to Monica Lewinsky?! Is that possible?😁

madridguy:
The man is the head of the family. During our fore fathers era, even their wives will fetch water for their husband's mistress to bath after the match.

They cooked for her and entertain her. They treat them as guest because men are allowed to take as many wives they want.

Our fore fathers deserve a round of applause...🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏.
For all the fore fathers who did this it will be well with them in the grave......( I mean the opposite)

shegoon:
Believe woman at your own peril.Remember they always want to play the victim card so as to sympathise with them.May we never fall into their traps(Amen).I used to wonder why a sane man will beat his wife until I enter marriage.A woman Will hit you hard just for you to retaliate and while explaining she won't tell the public what she did first.

no mind her.. she’s looking for pity party.. what’s wrong with apologizing when you’re in the wrong? She knew she was wrong and she didn’t want to loose her marriage, so she apologized. The public outcry is what I don’t understand.. have they even heard the husband’s version?

Mariangeles:
One even stated here that they're "helping marriages".

Please point me to the post so that I can marvel at their foolishness.

madridguy:
The man is the head of the family. During our fore fathers era, even their wives will fetch water for their husband's mistress to bath after the match.

They cooked for her and entertain her. They treat them as guest because men are allowed to take as many wives they want.

..that one is mistress not a legal wife .. mistress are not a man's wife

Nazgul:
That's because you're 100% dependent on him. He knows that if you leave him you won't be able to survive independently. Even his family wouldn't even rate you. Cos all they see is a lazy woman feeding fat their son's money.

This is why we advise you women to work hard and become financially independent before jumping into marriage. But you keep looking for a Davido who would treat you like Chioma.

Can Tuface with his reputation as the undisputed celebrity womanizer champion in Africa tell his new wife Natasha to apologize to a side chick. Dem no born am well. That's because the babe is independent. She doesn't need his money to survive.

The energy most young girls put in looking for successful men, if they channel that same energy into developing themselves, whoever they end up with would respect them.

@bold:

That's one of the numerous lies men sell to women.

Earning or lack of has not stopped a man from disrespecting a woman nor made a woman know her worth.

You will be shocked that she is the one fending for the household while apologising to side chics.

Ishilove:
"I Must Be Mrs By Force".

As for you side hoes who keep causing drama in people's marriages, your punishment will be very bitter. Your own marriages, if you ever do get married will be filled with double the drama and sorrow you caused for other women.

You men that do not stop at committing adultery but also add insult to injury by forcing your wives to be humiliated by your mistresses, continue. You will receive disgrace in 100 folds.

@bold:

Not necessarily true.

Caaz:
Person like me,i'll gather receipts,then wait for him at oldage.

Why though Ahnie?

Why do you do you want to waste a lifetime gathering receipts and bitterness just to deal with a man at old age.

No man is worth wasting your life for because to deal with him, you need to focus on him and keep maintaining the embers of bitterness to have the energy and reason to revenge.

Sis, this life is too sweet for that kind of nonsense.

bukatyne:
➜Why though Ahnie? Why do you do you want to waste a lifetime gathering receipts and bitterness just to deal with a man at old age. No man is worth wasting your life for because to deal with him, you need to focus on him and keep maintaining the embers of bitterness to have the energy and reason to revenge. Sis, this life is too sweet for that kind of nonsense.

Just imagine a human being literally saying she will spend her lifetime piling up evidence for what she imagines would be her eventual revenge against the very same person she literally devotes her entire life to pleasing and serving. NO be craze dem dey call that? 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
Just imagine a human being literally saying she will spend her lifetime piling up evidence for what she imagines would be her eventual revenge against the very same person she literally devotes her entire life to pleasing and serving. NO be craze dem dey call that? 🥱🥱🥱

That's what we have been used to.

What our mothers passed down to us.

We need to break that senseless cycle of wasting one's life to revenge.