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buckeyemedia:
Purporting to sympathize more than the bereaved, wetin concern u?

U dey mind them 🤣

My little advice to all men's, don't allow woman to kill u , whenever u notice ur wife has started misbehaving abeg just leave her or u notice ur wife always bring out knife to threaten u pls leave her, I know that this lady isn't in this country again once again pls don't allow woman to kill u

Tranquill:
Grease whose hand?

Both families are not poor people.

Is it being about poor. Are there not more things in life. Is there a limit to wealth.

Putindbutt:
The lists were recommended by a committee, many of these wailers do not know that the committee must have done their homework before recommending it to the council of state.

And the presidency never stated that there was a committee abi. Bros calm down and stop all these

zero8zero:
I had to read it again, it was the father of the man that had even been begging for forgiveness on behalf of the woman. So why are some people crying more than the bereaved.

You can lie for Africa.

Christistruth00:
If Northerners don’t forgive , Ironsi’s kinsmen would
Not have been able to live in the North again

The kind ofnnonsense you spew ehnnnn. So all igbos are Ironsi's kinsmen abi. But they forgave Yoruba since Ademoyega was their kinsman in that coup.

seunoyeleyep:
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Politics has so much blinded you that you now see anyone on the side of truth as obedient. This obsession actually reveals that that you know the truth but ignorantly hide from it.

that's how they're wired.. especially that one you quoted

zero8zero:
Side of truth or side of hate and bitterness?.
If the father of the man who was murdered was the one asking for forgiveness, why then are you bitter Obidients insulting the President?. You sit behind your keyboards talking ignorantly but none of you knew what went on behind the scenes. This man had to come out to keep your mouths shut.. busybody people full of h8te and bitterness.

No cry again e don do..take hankachief

Believeintruth:
And the presidency never stated that there was a committee abi. Bros calm down and stop all these

How will you know when you no dey read.. the damage wailing can do.

pocohantas:
I don't know if I am overreacting, but I have been thinking of it and I plan to stop using my afang seller for my market run. I have asked my fam and they said I am right.

Last year she asked me for a loan, paid back the first two times and didn't pay back the third time __ 30k. She didn't even mention it at all. She just carried on, you will think it never happened and to tell you she knows what she did, she never asked for another loan till date.

Subsequently she has tried to talk down on anyone who wants to come into my life to help me. She did it with MM, with my friend and my HA. She is getting possessive.



What spooked me into my decision to cut her services off was the incident of last week __ I feel irritated by her husband's message asking me for a loan.

A little over a month ago, her child was sick and she told me. I visited and gave money for drugs. Last 2wks it was school books and uniform. Last week was rent.

Is it right?

I am sure she didn't ask me because she knows how much I have parted with. She must have told her husband this, but he insisted on getting my number to message me. Why did he do that? Doesn't he have his circle of friends and market association? Why his wife's customer? He should have sourced it within his circle. If at all he gets it from anyone affiliated to his wife, it should be through her. He even said he wanted to come to my house, but he doesn't know where. Come to my house for what?

His action is akin to a lady asking her friend's husband for money without telling the friend.



I am sure I am not overreacting.
This relationship is not going well, please.

Please be very careful with these people, they are not beyond kidnapping or otherwise hurting people if they feel entitled to their resources and they aren't getting what they believe is their due

I couldn't post this in diary section because of the restrictions but I just had to find a way to pass the message across

Tareq1105:
In other words, the old man doesn't have sense abi? Is that your take? You lack wisdom and that's what the old man just taught you.

At his age, you want him to be taking care of his grandchildren and be doing schoolrun so that his murdered son can come back alive abi?

And at 80+ and he die tomorrow, the children should be brought to your house to look after them abi or he should take them to motherless home?

Think about it again. The old man is not a foolish person, he puts the lives and future of the 2 children above his pains and that's why he wrote for govt to pardon her.

Imagine Atiku said Tinubu put politics above humanity. He goofed seriously.

Since you have the emboldened, why didn't you think that it could be dangerous to entrust the lives of two kids into the hands of a murderer? So many kids in Nigeria grew up without their parents. Did they die? What values does a murderer have that she can possibly instil in her kids? Are we talking about the same kids she denied before or did she give birth to more kids while in jail?

Please spare me the sermon! A woman that has killed before in cold blood won't hesitate to kill again when provoked. I am even afraid for her kids because she is a danger to them. Your point that the father-in-law cannot raise the kids is ridiculous. Must he be the one to train them? Since she has family members that supported her heinous crime, then why can't they be compassionate enough to train her kids?

Let me ask you a simple question: 'would you embrace your mom or look her in the eye if you ever find out that she killed your dad in cold blood'? We all know the answer to that and the kids should not be made to go through the emotional torture of having to live with a mother who is a murderer. It's a pity her family members don't even care about the trauma the kids will struggle with if their mother reunites with them. You are lucky that the bots are on a banning spree or I could have unleashed my venomous tongue for supporting what is clearly not right.

Because money is now involved. Nonsense

only if you know how much was spent in lobbying before setting her free.

jamafa:
The father of the deceased don forgive nah

Watin U want again??

Did the deceased forgive ? Abu the forgiveness bring the deceased back to life ?

This is injustice to the family of the bereaved. It’s very sad

zero8zero:
Hmmm, the finishing specialist and his bitter Obidients will be disappointed right now. They were crying more than the bereaved.

Oh yeah, that's the type of Nigeria you deserve, a country where murderes and drug peddlers are firgiven for their misdeeds.
Kwontinue.

IbnB:
Please be very careful with these people, they are not beyond kidnapping or otherwise hurting people if they feel entitled to their resources and they aren't getting what they believe is their due

I couldn't post this in diary section because of the restrictions but I just had to find a way to pass the message across

Thank you.
I am sure something is not right. Maybe not kidnapping, but I am beginning to question their intentions and capabilities.

Tranquill:
Oga all over the world Presidents have power to give pardon to convicts.

There are many considerations before this power is excised and in many cases they attract criticisms.

There are political, economic, social and even family considerations when using these powers so not every deserving person will benefit and not all those who benefit are deserving from everyone’s point of view.

It’s purely the President’s prerogative.

When Joe Biden pardoned his convicted son or Bill Clinton pardoned his own brother and political supporters, you think there are no Americans who are more deserving of pardon than they?

The reality of the world is that all fingers are not equal.

In this particular case, the lady has two children that will grow up without a father who was murdered by their own mother.

The man’s family felt they shouldn’t deprive their grandchildren of motherly care even if their mother murdered their own son.

They explored the available route of getting a pardon for her from the president.

Who are you to now say that the president is wrong to issue the pardon?

I hear you. You can as well use this strength to juxtapose Nigeria economy with other working economies of different countries in the world, by that time, I’ll take you serious.

Lol they have cornered this one to say this. The why did he take the case to court in the first place and followed up till they sentenced the woman to death if he truly forgave her. You guys should be deceiving urself. Your son has died and it's your loss. The money they gave you to say this will soon be exhausted

immortalcrown:
Whether the forgiveness is good or bad depends on whether the forgiveness is genuine or financially-induced.

You didnt read the piece or listen to the audio. The deponent/ father of slain husband was pleading for the sake of her children. She has a daughter and a son. If she were hanged the children would be orphans. That's enough justification.

Blackmail. Power from above.

Yankiss:
You didnt read the piece or listen to the audio. The deponent/ father of slain husband was pleading for the sake of her children. She has a daughter and a son. If she were hanged the children would be orphans. That's enough justification.

You are the one who didn't understand the comment you responded to.

Sometimes, what is presented to the public as the reason for an action is not the actual reason.

Two things:
1.
Why didn't the man publicly forgive his daughter-in-law before the presidential pardon? Is it after the presidential pardon that the man got grandchildren from the pardoned lady?

2.
There are many other women and men who are in prison because they killed their spouses. Those one should be granted the same pardon so that they can take care of their children, even if the families of the slain spouses do not publicly claim that they have forgiven the murderers.

Yankiss:
You didnt read the piece or listen to the audio. The deponent/ father of slain husband was pleading for the sake of her children.

She has a daughter and a son. If she were hanged the children would be orphans. That's enough justification.

Do you know if all the other mariticide convicts who were hanged, did not have any child

God bless you. This has been my argument since I heard this news

immortalcrown:
2.
There are many other women and men who are in prison because they killed their spouses. Those one should be granted the same pardon so that they can take care of their children, even if the families of the slain spouses do not publicly claim that they have forgiven the murderers.

immortalcrown:
Whether the forgiveness is good or bad depends on whether the forgiveness is genuine or financially-induced.

Two things:
1.
Why didn't the man forgive his daughter-in-law and plead for her release before the presidential pardon? Is it after the presidential pardon that the man got grandchildren from the pardoned lady? APC can do anything for damage control.

2.
There are many other women and men who are in prison because they killed their spouses. Those one should be granted the same pardon so that they can take care of their children, even if the families of the slain spouses do not publicly claim that they have forgiven the murderers.

Did you fail to read the part where the father said he wrote multiple letters to the state prosecution, judge and the attorney General Malami asking for leniency . Or do you some difficulty with the English language !

immortalcrown:
Whether the forgiveness is good or bad depends on whether the forgiveness is genuine or financially-induced.

Two things:
1.
Why didn't the man forgive his daughter-in-law and plead for her release before the presidential pardon? Is it after the presidential pardon that the man got grandchildren from the pardoned lady? APC can do anything for damage control.

2.
There are many other women and men who are in prison because they killed their spouses. Those one should be granted the same pardon so that they can take care of their children, even if the families of the slain spouses do not publicly claim that they have forgiven the murderers.

You definitely didn't read the article to the end and just jumped to conclusions because it would have answered your number one question

You cannot try this shit in Afghanistan. I read recently they shot a woman who killed her husband dead with AK 47 while she was kneeling down. Those countries are quite harsh to women, at the same time a wife killing her husband or husband killing his wife is very wrong and should be condemned

immortalcrown:
Why didn't the man forgive his daughter-in-law and plead for her release before the presidential pardon?

Why didn't you read the article?

immortalcrown:
There are many other women and men who are in prison because they killed their spouses. Those one should be granted the same pardon so that they can take care of their children, even if the families of the slain spouses do not publicly claim that they have forgiven the murderers.

Legally, the presidency can offer pardon (even without the forgiveness of the bereaved). Whether this is morally upright is another question.

jamafa:
The father of the deceased don forgive nah. Watin U want again??

This is a poor though. It doesn't work that way. Forgiveness from a victim doesn't cancel legal consequences.

immortalcrown:
You are the one who didn't understand the comment you responded to.

Sometimes, what is presented to the public as the reason for an action is not the actual reason.

Two things:
1.
Why didn't the man publicly forgive his daughter-in-law before the presidential pardon? Is it after the presidential pardon that the man got grandchildren from the pardoned lady?

2.
There are many other women and men who are in prison because they killed their spouses. Those one should be granted the same pardon so that they can take care of their children, even if the families of the slain spouses do not publicly claim that they have forgiven the murderers.

My brother, I made my observation and comment based on what's apparent, not what's hidden or implied.

anonimi:
Do you know if all the other mariticide convicts who were hanged, did not have any child

There's political undertone in the pardon. That's clear. The father in law either willingly for stated reason or by coercion behind the scenes, supported. If the family of victim insist on the conviction being carried out and the law is set, it would be so, baring political interference.