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pocohantas:
You didn't remember me telling them to stop stop sleeping with teenage girls? You g man shut up and stop disguising.

I don't remember probably because I did not read every of your post. What I can remember is you stopped commenting on the thread after some guy was threatening to expose your laps he claimed you once posted. Is like you had a few bitter enemies on that thread .Anyways am happy for you.

Ozzyk:
We got married in ending of August
We didn't have anything to do together at all during our 2 year courtship
She's really adorable and a Godly babe to the core
On the second night of our wedding I confirmed she was a virgin
Sadly our honeymoon only lasted Barely 2 weeks before she missed her period
Here is the issue;
Since over a month and some few weeks now she won't let me touch her, in fact it's like my touches irritate her, no sex, no kiss, no smooching, no touching
It sometimes feels we're just house mates who shares same matrimonial bed together
I have tried to talk to her many times about my sexual wellness but she seems not interested at all
My marriage is less than 2 months and I am already over a month sex starved
Perhaps she sometimes complains of pregnancy cramps but this should not com at the detriment of my sexual well being.....
And besides she's goes to work everyday but the moments she gets home she won't let me touch not even slight touches not to talk of sex or romance....
I am already tired 😩

You caused it naw

Skj13777:
I don't remember probably because I did not read every of your post. What I can remember is you stopped commenting on the thread after some guy was threatening to expose your laps he claimed you once posted. Is like you had a few bitter enemies on that thread .Anyways am happy for you.

Okay. You don't remember the one that is important. But you can remember someone threatening to post my laps? As in laps? 😂
Take your drugs biko.

Azazyel:
This one wife don carry am handicap. Next time when you're courting, chop the cookie instead of forming good boy. Who even told him she's a virgin? Inexperienced man thought maybe it's when he feels tightness down there. Go through her phone and see revelation but just get shock absorber sha. Newly wedded wife dey avoid s*x cos she's a few weeks pregnant.

I've advised him to perform a DNA test on the baby as soon as he can. Funny enough if the lady is virgin then the 10days or less sex they had is not sufficient to open her womanhood for a babies head during delivery. A tear will need to be stitched and in some cases will condem the entrance or widen it permanently. The guy is unfortunate.

brain54:
I am not talking about all these your tactics...


And any other thing you posted. But did you consider that it may not be a case of manipulation but just a simple case of she being frigid or having low sexual drive genuinely?

Some people simply have low sex drives and it might not be about manipulation!

But she did it on their honeymoon abi? Maybe she believes sex should only be for procreating sha

Ozzyk:
Her symptoms is very very mild
She goes about her normal day to day activities
She's pretty much fine except that she sleeps often and eat less no vomiting, no fever, no fatigue, no spit no nausea, she barely even had mood swings.....
It's just not about the sex from my end too
But no form of intimacy no matter how small
No kissing, no touching, no smooching,no cuddling
No connection no bond at all
We're just living like housemates
Makes me wonder if her pregnancy only stopped her from being intimate with me but not her day to day activities
Sincerely you won't even notice she's pregnant by seeing her
She's very very active, doesn't look she's over a month pregnant at all
Her stomach is very much flat

You need to Start praying, looks like something beyond the natural, if you attend a good Church, report this to your pastor's wife if she's seasoned and can keep secrets.

Ozzyk:
We got married in ending of August
We didn't have anything to do together at all during our 2 year courtship
She's really adorable and a Godly babe to the core
On the second night of our wedding I confirmed she was a virgin
Sadly our honeymoon only lasted Barely 2 weeks before she missed her period
Here is the issue;
Since over a month and some few weeks now she won't let me touch her, in fact it's like my touches irritate her, no sex, no kiss, no smooching, no touching
It sometimes feels we're just house mates who shares same matrimonial bed together
I have tried to talk to her many times about my sexual wellness but she seems not interested at all
My marriage is less than 2 months and I am already over a month sex starved
Perhaps she sometimes complains of pregnancy cramps but this should not com at the detriment of my sexual well being.....
And besides she's goes to work everyday but the moments she gets home she won't let me touch not even slight touches not to talk of sex or romance....
I am already tired 😩

I think you need to consider her too as those decisions she has made is caused by the pregnancy hormones

Find a way to sort out yourself

zoomman:
He really did...not all men can withstand it including me. I hope the lady won't regret this action of hers.

The OP na real man abeg... the young man really tried and he get patience sef

correctguy101:
This man... Wicked advice but it might work.

Just withdrawal of attention and most women will go crazy. If Oga take this ya advice, awa iyawo go know say oga don vex..

Na the best advice be this.she deserves this kind treatment to reformat her brain

mctech:
I'm surprised at the comments I'm seeing here.
Are there no married people here?

Bros I understand how you are feeling especially as you have abstained for two years.

Firstly, you need to wait about three months for the foetus to form before touching your wife so as not to cause damage.
Or do you want to risk having an slowpoke child? And even after that there are styles you can't do. Touch your toe, doggy etc are forbidden.

Secondly is the emotional toll of a first time pregnancy on your wife.

If you watch Holy Ghost Service regularly, you will realize that perhaps the most common problem people have in marriage is conception. Nine out of twelve testimonies are always about babies.

You escaped such a big issue please try to make peace with your wife and find a middle ground.
However, there are other ways you can pleasure yourselves, decently, though.

Nawa ooh! you guys should always read and comprehend na! sex is not really the op's major problem per say but the wife's total lost of affection and hence making him look like he's living with a male friend

Donlexino:
✓Nawa ooh! you guys should always read and comprehend na! sex is not really the op's major problem per say but the wife's total lost of affection and hence making him look like he's living with a male friend

OP is the one who made this seem it is all about sex(physical touch aka skinship) since he declared that his woman decided there would be no skinship until much later.

Go read his op again to see this.

Kobojunkie:
OP is the one who made this seem it is all about sex( physical touch aka skinship) since he declared that his woman decided there would be no ski ship until much later.

Go read his op again to see this.

Hahahahahahaha! u nor go fit kill me with laugh oh! u are very funny ah swear

NiRfreak:
Oga. This is not right at all
At the beginning of what should be your bonding time, she's playing games and manipulation....
These are what you should do.

1. Erase the fact you have in your head that she's godly or good or virgin. Erase it. It no longer count. Otherwise you won't be able to act as a man, even when u are hurting, ur emotional side will be emasculating you..
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2. Approach the situation practically and zero your mind completely away from having sex with her. At least before marriage u dint die without sex. So don't let her use the sex card to turn u to her slave.
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3. Insist on pregnancy test
4. Insist on DNA test after 9 months..... Just to get on her nerves and make her agitated that you may not trust her.
5 Don't try to please her, do the barest minimum and no special treat. I beg you, no special treat or outing meant to curry favor.
6 play the same game she's playing. And don't bother her for sex... and don't seek her attention.
7 don't sleep in same room at night..go sleep in the second room.
8 Create scene and lambast her if she tries to gaslight you or flip the script on you for behaving mean towards her. A woman should be able to see your anger expressed as a man when she crosses certain lie. Even if u can't express anger.. voice and act it... No go dey do gentle man for this situation o

Over times she will sit up if she realises u are not taking her manipulation.

But I bet you can't do this because u still see her as a saint who has ur best interest.. Lol.. But she's there manipulating you and trying to be the boss over you. If u don't flip the script, she will turn ur boss, u will have to obey anything she says, and she will make you beg for everything in that marriage

dear Ozzyk, if I am a man, I will definitely go with this advice. This guy knows us ladies too well and this is just the only cure.

My brother, pls play the same game not out of hatred though, just to help her get to her senses.

I don't see any reason why a woman who goes to work daily will not open leg for just five minutes for the man she claim to love. Shine your eyes, women dey sew up vjay these days.

You can pretend like another woman is interested in you by making some false romantic calls before her. Trust me, if she love you, she go reset. If she no reset, she no love you be that

I'm not saying there are no instances that some doesn't work out, you just said that your wife understands how marriage should be, but majority flop.

Not necessarily true. My wife said no sex before marriage... and she's easily better sexually than any other woman I've been with. The difference is that she understands what a marriage is and fully commits herself to it. Looking back, sex before marriage was completely of no value.[/quote]

Apologize:
The man in this picture is actually dead

Ancient news. That's Bernie Mac a great comedian and actor. Died 17 years ago