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Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by donmik: 9:10am On Oct 19, 2025
Okay o

All I know is that he that goes anal and oral will certainly go to the brothel or into a house pet one day. It's an expression of sex maniac, even in marriage

That's what I see
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Antoeni(m): 9:11am On Oct 19, 2025
They Are Allowed to Explore Sex At The Slightest Opportunity
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by juwoonn(m): 9:15am On Oct 19, 2025
If you like chuke your d!<k inside your wife nose if e size am...as long as you're married together...e no concern God.

Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Chegesnd: 9:17am On Oct 19, 2025
femi4:
Can you proof that anal does not Glorify God?

Does doggy glorify Gid?

What sexual pattern were Adam & Eve involved in?
Did God creat the anus for sexual activities?
The anus and the cervix are two different openings on female body, where does each lead to?
Why would anyone swap their uses, even against nature?
Have you woken up one day and resolve to start feeding from your nose?
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 9:19am On Oct 19, 2025
I’m very sure all this didn’t start now so why wasn’t it documented in the Bible?? A lot of sins were documented in the book of deut. But not one pointed to sex styles. Major ones documented were with angels, homosexuals and rape. So why didn’t God talk about them?

Even the book of Romans never stated anything about anal but we all know the Romans are the modern day sexual explorer but why did the Bible turn a “blind eye”. I don’t indulge in it tho and I’m not supporting it but I want to know why they weren’t documented🤷‍♂️
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Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by juwoonn(m): 9:21am On Oct 19, 2025
donmik:
Okay o

All I know is that he that goes anal and oral will certainly go to the brothel or into a house pet one day. It's an expression of sex maniac, even in marriage

That's what I see
The Bible is silent about these...but then, every action have their consequences..
Oral posses risk to Cancer while Anal can weaken the anus and make you poo uncontrollably. These parts of the body are not designed for sex...so even if you take on some adventure, everything should be with moderation..otherwise, there are severe consequences.

Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by femi4: 9:21am On Oct 19, 2025
Chegesnd:
Did God creat the anus for sexual activities?
The anus and the cervix are two different openings on female body, where does each lead to?
Why would anyone swap their uses, even against nature?
Have you woken up one day and resolve to start feeding from your nose?
Show me where God mentioned the job description of each part of our body
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 9:27am On Oct 19, 2025
AntiChristian:
This is your ancestral Bible version design by you!
Romans 2:14 is in all Bibles. Just say that you were shocked that bible covered this matter
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 9:28am On Oct 19, 2025
juwoonn:
You can only argue this based on Trinity..
But in reality Christianity started with Jesus Christ... It means people who believes in Jesus and follow his teachings; people who are Christlike.
But sex has been in existence since the days of Adam and Even in the garden of Eden.
Inorder words, God created sex long before Jesus Christ came (Christianity started with Jesus Christ).
Trinity or not, the bible shows that Christ is The Lord. The Same Lord we see in Genesis
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 9:30am On Oct 19, 2025
juwoonn:
The Bible is silent about these...but then, every action have their consequences..
Oral posses risk to Cancer while Anal can weaken the anus and make you poo uncontrollably. These parts of the body are not designed for sex...so even if you take on some adventure, everything should be with moderation..otherwise, there are severe consequences.
I don’t do it but even vagin@ sex still possesses risk so that’s off point. Sex is meant to be enjoyed and not a duty. We Christian now turned it into a chore with our laws like Pharisees. Making ladies feel unsatisfied in the oza room. Our religiosity has limited us rather than upgrade us and I thank God some of our preachers are realizing this.
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Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by WantsandMore: 9:32am On Oct 19, 2025
SpencerForbes:
You’re saying something totally different from what I said. John 5 never mentioned about anal. So everything not stated in the Bible is wrong, right??
perhaps if you read and understand and practice the biblical principles you’ll begin to see the nuances, other than that, your opinion about anal sex may still persist which is termed sin of the flesh in the bible. ask yourself why do you hold a strong opinion on anal sex ? Is it justifiable such that where you take a shit , you require a penetration in there?
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by SmartPolician: 9:33am On Oct 19, 2025
orisa37:
THERE IS NO LIMITATIONS AND NO RESTRICTIONS.
THE LORD IS OUR DIRECTIVES, DIRECTIONS AND DISCERNMENT.
THE LORD IS A SPIRIT AND IN SECRET. WE MUST ALWAYS APPROACH HIM IN SECRET AND IN SPIRIT.
AND GOD ALWAYS ANSWERS US IN SPIRIT AND IN SECRET.
HAPPY SUNDAY.
No man should be washing his wife's plate. The Bible says that the power of life and death lies in the tongue. So, no man should be using his tongue to lick urine and other liquid wastes in the name of pleasing a partner. I hope I don't sound so dirty in this Christian thread though.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by samuelson06(m): 9:35am On Oct 19, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Christianity started with Christ and it is Christ Who created us, so Christianity started before sex.

And do note, since marriage is done at the permission and Blessing and Celebration of the parents, Adam male and female broke The Law by having sex before their marriage.(fornication)
Adam had sex before marriage? Where's that in the Bible?
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 9:35am On Oct 19, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Define marriage please🤔 so marriage is until we go to church right? Adam and Eve were not married or he should have paid her dowry to God abi likewise Sarah, Rebecca and Rachael. I think we should go back to Sunday school🚶‍♂️
Do you not see that parental consent is the beginning and validity of marriage?

Abraham was in his father's house when he married Sarah, so it means parental consent was there. And you can see it play out in Rebecca and Rachel. (Don't forget that Laban was as a father to Jacob since Jacobs parents are now far away)

And that is why I said marriage is done at permission and Blessing and Celebration of the parents
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by SmartPolician: 9:37am On Oct 19, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Christianity started with Christ and it is Christ Who created us, so Christianity started before se

And do note, since marriage is done at the permission and Blessing and Celebration of the parents, Adam male and female broke The Law by having sex before their marriage.(fornication)
No, Christianity started when Christ came and selected His apostles who were called Christlike at Antioch. People had been having sex before that time.

Adam's and Eve's earthly parents were God Himself because they didn't have any. So, they didn't break anything.

It was after Adam blamed God for giving him a woman that led him astray, then God asked man to start getting himself a man of his choice.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 9:38am On Oct 19, 2025
WantsandMore:
perhaps if you read and understand and practice the biblical principles you’ll begin to see the nuances, other than that, your opinion about anal sex may still persist which is termed sin of the flesh in the bible. ask yourself why do you hold a strong opinion on anal sex ? Is it justifiable such that where you take a shit , you require a penetration in there?
I don’t indulge in it and I don’t support it but I dislike when we Christians try to make something look bad by making us feel afraid. Christianity is not a religion of fear. Wasn’t this sin done in the time of Egypt, Babylon, sodom and Gomorrah and even present day Rome, why didn’t God or the apostle try to instill fear into the life of Christians by pointing out specifically🤔 but here we are with our modern religion trying to act better than God or the apostles.

I just dislike when we try to coerce people with fear. When we do that, we aren’t acting Godlike but religious like just like the Pharisees in the Bible.
Shalom 🥂
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Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by GOVERNORR: 9:39am On Oct 19, 2025
See humans mentally enslaving themselves with ideologies born out of stupidity

Tell me birds of the sky, Bible used as reference for saying don't worry about what to eat tomorrow. Do birds worry about how often they should have sex

Human brain
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 9:41am On Oct 19, 2025
samuelson06:
Adam had sex before marriage? Where's that in the Bible?
Have you not heard that the forbidden fruit is sex?

I prove it in this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7947204/truly-forbidden-fruit-sex#127583663

Only to see that other people had found same even before me

VinnyBaba:
The OP is clearly RIGHT. smiley

Very Right thinking Person knows This.

Only Church fanatics and Dullards will disagree. undecided undecided

The Way God Punished Adam and Eve is way TOO SEVERE for a sin of eating Fruits. sad

[b]Again, why will 2 persons eat Fruit and run to cover their Genitals [/b]when they heard God is coming? huh
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by samuelson06(m): 9:41am On Oct 19, 2025
paxonel:
Lies!

God is not concerned about how married people are enjoying their sex.
If you want to say a particular sex pattern is bad, then give a tangible reason why, and stop bringing God into it
Do everything in a manner that glorifies God. You don't expect the Bible to document how we should live from A-Z. That's not possible. And that's why we have the power of discretion—everyone of us have it. It's that inherent ability in us to make choices based on what's right or wrong.

So if you feel anal sex, bestiality, and the rest fulish sexual practices are right, go ahead. No one's going to stop you. But one thing is clear: they'll be repercussions.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 9:43am On Oct 19, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Do you not see that parental consent is the beginning and validity of marriage?

Abraham was in his father's house when he married Sarah, so it means parental consent was there. And you can see it play out in Rebecca and Rachel. (Don't forget that Laban was as a father to Jacob since Jacobs parents are now far away)

And that is why I said marriage is done at permission and Blessing and Celebration of the parents
Did the Bible state that Sarah was in her father’s house. So now if the parent of a girl should give me consent to marry their daughter and I get her pregnant and I refuse to pay her dowry. Does that make me her husband🤔
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 9:47am On Oct 19, 2025
SmartPolician:
No, Christianity started when Christ came and selected His apostles who were called Christlike at Antioch. People had been having sex before that time.
So Christ did not exist before He Came?
And then John 1/Proverbs shows that He is even the One Who created us.

SmartPolician:
Adam's and Eve's earthly parents were God Himself because they didn't have any. So, they didn't break anything.

It was after Adam blamed God for giving him a woman; that led him astray, God asked man to start getting himself a man of his choice.
Blaming God is not the only offence Adam committed.

And this is even proven by the fact many couples who planned on marrying each other real eyesed that they got punished when they had sex before marriage. Eg for many of them it was after that day that their plans and marriage and prosperity scattered
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 9:47am On Oct 19, 2025
samuelson06:
Do everything in a manner that glorifies God. You don't expect the Bible to document how we should live from A-Z. That's not possible. And that's why we have the power of discretion—everyone of us have it. It's that inherent ability in us to make choices based on what's right or wrong.

So if you feel anal sex, bestiality, and the rest fulish sexual practices are right, go ahead. No one's going to stop you. But one thing is clear: they'll be repercussions.
But it can record all others. Even the downfall of sodom and Gomorrah and even revelations of things to come. My question is did this sin start today🤔 were this sin not done in the time of Egypt, sodom and Rome🤔
While the book of deut. explained and amplified the 10 commandments, why didn’t it touch ithuh
Wasn’t this sin done in Rome, why didn’t Paul write about it??
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Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 9:55am On Oct 19, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Did the Bible state that Sarah was in her father’s house.
Where else would she be married from? And did you not read that they are like relations which means that their parents know themselves?

Please, you have no thing.

SpencerForbes:
So now if the parent of a girl should give me consent to marry their daughter and I get her pregnant and I refuse to pay her dowry. Does that make me her husband🤔
Have you not heard of parents who even helped a man pay bride price (not dowry), or even waive it or take a price that the man can pay?

Or have you not heard of people bringing the more than the bride price, yet the parents refused consent?

It is parental consent that makes the marriage and not the bride price
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by McLizbae: 9:56am On Oct 19, 2025
This is actual not an intelligent question. The laws, rules, and regulations, will normally come after the institution not before it.
SpencerForbes:
Was Christianity created before sex or afterwards?
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Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 9:58am On Oct 19, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Where else would she be married from? And did you not read that they are like relations which means that their parents know themselves?

Please, you have no thing.



Have you not heard of parents who even helped a man pay bride price (not dowry), or even waive it or take a price that the man can pay?

Or have you not heard of people bringing the more than the bride price, yet the parents refused consent?

It is parental consent that makes the marriage and not the bride price
So whose consent did Adam need again? Since you said it was fornication?
And do animals also need this consent??
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 9:59am On Oct 19, 2025
Kalulu44:
Bcus oyibo get sense pass us. If to say oyibo no show us how to use handset and internet, you for never dey use am now
So we be no dey talk b4 oyibo make handset?
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by WantsandMore: 10:00am On Oct 19, 2025
SpencerForbes:
I don’t indulge in it and I don’t support it but I dislike when we Christians try to make something look bad by making us feel afraid. Christianity is not a religion of fear. Wasn’t this sin done in the time of Egypt, Babylon, sodom and Gomorrah and even present day Rome, why didn’t God or the apostle try to instill fear into the life of Christians by pointing out specifically🤔 but here we are with our modern religion trying to act better than God or the apostles.

I just dislike when we try to coerce people with fear. When we do that, we aren’t acting Godlike but religious like just like the Pharisees in the Bible.
Shalom 🥂
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don’t say that but I get you. What’s wrong and pervasive shouldn’t be encouraged by you or any Christian, the method used in achieving said purpose may differ, which is why Christ preaches compassion towards sinners, mercy and repentance. Whatever method a Christian uses to warn others of their spiritual need’s without “Love.” Apostle Paul has made us to understand that it is worthless.
1 Corinthians 13:1–3
Shalom Brother
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 10:00am On Oct 19, 2025
McLizbae:
This is actual not an intelligent question. The laws, rules, and regulations, will normally come after the institution not before it.
Okay. So did the law of sex come after Christianity🤔
Or what are you trying to say?
Who wrote this laws?
Even some of your doctrines in church?
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 10:05am On Oct 19, 2025
McLizbae:
This is actual not an intelligent question. The laws, rules, and regulations, will normally come after the institution not before it.
Did apostle paul write anything on sexual laws or it wasn’t done in the time of the Romans?

Let’s go back in time was “sexual sin” not done in the time of the Israelites, why wasn’t it taken note of but all other things were taken note of in deut.?
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 10:07am On Oct 19, 2025
SpencerForbes:
So whose consent did Adam need again? Since you said it was fornication?
Who caused you to fall in love with a specific girl? And that the same girl even loves you and wants to be with you, is it not God?

And they had God with them, so exactly like us, all they needed to do was Wait

And like us, Sathan always tries to break our relationships by causing and getting one of us to cheat!

SpencerForbes:
And do animals also need this consent??
I'm not privy to The Laws of u marriage God might have given to animals nor do I know if He gave them at all

The one I know is about the ones He gave us, who He called "man"
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by McLizbae: 10:09am On Oct 19, 2025
Christianity (being like the Christ) is the true doctrine for christians. Forget church pickup your Bible (the book of laws) read with the guidance of the Holy Spirit, and you will know the laws that guide you (and all true Christians) in sexuality and every ways of life to righteousness.
SpencerForbes:
Okay. So did the law of sex come after Christianity🤔
Or what are you trying to say?
Who wrote this laws?
Even some of your doctrines in church?
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