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Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 10:10am On Oct 19, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Who caused you to fall in love with a specific girl? And that the same girl even loves you and wants to be with you, is it not God?

And they had God with them, so exactly like us, all they needed to do was Wait

And like us, Sathan always tries to break our relationships by causing and getting one of us to cheat!



I'm not privy to The Laws of u marriage God might have given to animals nor do I know if He gave them at all

The one I know is about the ones He gave us, who He called "man"
But God told them to go into the world and multiply. How🤷‍♂️ Were they supposed to create their kids with clay?? Or isn’t that consent?
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 10:11am On Oct 19, 2025
McLizbae:
Christianity is the true doctrine for christians. Forget church pickup your Bible (the book of laws) read with the guidance of the Holy Spirit, and you will know the laws that guide you (and all true Christians) in sexuality and every ways of life to righteousness.
Thanks 🙏 now state where in the “new testaments” where we have the laws of sex🤔
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Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 10:13am On Oct 19, 2025
SpencerForbes:
But God told them to go into the world and multiply. How🤷‍♂️ Were they supposed to create their kids with clay?? Or isn’t that consent?
You would see that it was stated even before the female was created exactly as we all know that if we have sex, we would multiply.

Yet, we all waited and many use condoms so as not to multiply before parental consent is given.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by orisa37: 10:21am On Oct 19, 2025
Fiscus105:
Does your God create your anus for sex or defecation?
FOR BOTH LIKE THE PENIS. WE USE PENIS FOR SEX AND TO URINATE.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 10:21am On Oct 19, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
You would see that it was stated even before the female was created exactly as we all know that if we have sex, we would multiply.

Yet, we all waited and many use condoms so as not to multiply before parental consent is given.
Nah you’re trying to confuse me prophet 😂 we don’t wait cos of consent. We’re waiting cos of the present situation of things and health implications. Then, Adam and Eve had everything. Why did God create eve as a lady if he didn’t want them to procreate??

He created all animals in twos and they were having sex cos that’s nature and he created “Adam and eve” and you’ll tell me he didn’t know they were going to have sex or he was still waiting for Adam to ask him before they had sex😂

I’m even having a thought that they were even having sex before they ate the fruit except their brains weren’t fully developed. Which I doubt.

So I disagree with you on that. This sex rules are just created by churchians to keep the system in order. That’s what I think but let’s not make it sound like God in heaven made them cos it was never stated not even by Jesus or the apostles that created the church. This taboo was created by the Roman Catholic to curb barbarism and let’s not try to make it sound divine.
Shalom🥂
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Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Oisagbai78: 10:25am On Oct 19, 2025
To any extent Oga. Sex na sex. For inside the other room, holiness nor dey at all. In as much I am married legally, there's I can explore my sex life with my wife anyhow I feel like.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by orisa37: 10:36am On Oct 19, 2025
SmartPolician:
No man should be washing his wife's plate. The Bible says that the power of life and death lies in the tongue. So, no man should be using his tongue to lick urine and other liquid wastes in the name of pleasing a partner. I hope I don't sound so dirty in this Christian thread though.
EVERY INTERACTION IS AN AGREEMENT, A CONTRACT OF OFFER, CONSIDERATION AND ACCEPTANCE.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 10:36am On Oct 19, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Nah you’re trying to confuse me prophet 😂 we don’t wait cos of consent. We’re waiting cos of the present situation of things and health implications.

Then, Adam and Eve had everything. Why did God create eve as a lady if he didn’t want them to procreate??

He created all animals in twos and they were having sex cos that’s nature and he created “Adam and eve” and you’ll tell me he didn’t know they were going to have sex or he was still waiting for Adam to ask him before they had sex
Yet, many did not get their girlfriend pregnant the second they showed her to their parents, even when they have the finance to perform the wedding. Tinubu no dey dat time, so no excuse grin


SpencerForbes:
I’m even having a thought that they were even having sex before they ate the fruit except their brains weren’t fully developed. Which I doubt.
So I’m sure disagree with you on that. This sex rules are just created by churchians to keep the system in order.
Adam male and female were created adults hence the word "man" and not children. So it means that their brains were ready made and follow come. grin

And so, they were not having sex as it even is when have fallen in love.

So, you see The Law of sex and marriage was already upon us even before church was created.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by billyG(m): 10:37am On Oct 19, 2025
Ojady:
Do spirits have any form of sexual intercourse? No, because it is a product of the fall. To procreate or know our spouse intimately, God's original intent was not to have us exchanging body fluid, grunting like lower animals, devising "styles' etc just to please flesh. All we did was "go to sleep" but since the fall, man has continue to wallow deeper and deeper into the flesh and finding ways, through the help of demons, to justify it. If publicly and in all things, a child of God (notice the use of child of God, not Christian - Christian also being word created by men to exploit others) is expected to be totally different as night from day, from the world, why then would a child of God not be expected to have restrictions and limitations in sexual exploration. For example, from who would a child of God get the idea of anal sex? The devil. A spirit does not have an anus but the devil persuades that a hole is a hole when the vaginal hole, the penile hole and the anal hole are not the same. As a matter of fact, the anal hole was not meant to be seen, talk less of penetrated. Let us remember, that in the garden, there were many trees (many equally pleasurable, unashamed ways of sexual exploration) but the devil emphasized and deceived man to fixate on that one 'tree' (anal, oral, porn, child sex, dominatrix, bestiality etc) that spiritually leads to death.
How will man multiply & fill d earth if sex is not d original plan huh huh
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 10:38am On Oct 19, 2025
I guess orphans are doomed to remain single for life

Dtruthspeaker:
Do you not see that parental consent is the beginning and validity of marriage?

Abraham was in his father's house when he married Sarah, so it means parental consent was there. And you can see it play out in Rebecca and Rachel. (Don't forget that Laban was as a father to Jacob since Jacobs parents are now far away)

And that is why I said marriage is done at permission and Blessing and Celebration of the parents
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by McLizbae: 10:41am On Oct 19, 2025
All the spiritual and scriptural laws that guide us as christians, can not be explicitly written in any book. It will be so voluminous no one will be able to pick such book, read, and comprehend. That is where the ministrations of the Holy Spirit comes in as the divine help and guide. John 14: 26, John 16: 13.

Now, These are just few of the verses that speaks to sexual morality, in the new testaments. With inspiration of the spirit of God, you may under the immoralities in sex even in marriage.

1 Corinthians 6, 18-20
1 thessalonians 4, 3-5
Ephesians 5, 3-5
Galatians 5, 19-21


SpencerForbes:
Thanks 🙏 now state where in the “new testaments” where we have the laws of sex🤔
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Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 10:42am On Oct 19, 2025
You think the eden story actually happened.

I don't believe it to be true. I prefer to believe it is a symbolic representation of deep mental/psychological truth.

Not to be taken as historical truth, especially since the story is present in religions older than Christianity

SpencerForbes:
Nah you’re trying to confuse me prophet 😂 we don’t wait cos of consent. We’re waiting cos of the present situation of things and health implications. Then, Adam and Eve had everything. Why did God create eve as a lady if he didn’t want them to procreate??

He created all animals in twos and they were having sex cos that’s nature and he created “Adam and eve” and you’ll tell me he didn’t know they were going to have sex or he was still waiting for Adam to ask him before they had sex😂

I’m even having a thought that they were even having sex before they ate the fruit except their brains weren’t fully developed. Which I doubt.

So I disagree with you on that. This sex rules are just created by churchians to keep the system in order. That’s what I think but let’s not make it sound like God in heaven made them cos it was never stated not even by Jesus or the apostles that created the church. This taboo was created by the Roman Catholic to curb barbarism and let’s not try to make it sound divine.
Shalom🥂
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Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by fykes(m): 10:42am On Oct 19, 2025
Anal sex does not glorify your God not mine. Anuofia
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 10:44am On Oct 19, 2025
dollypi:
I guess orphans are doomed to remain single for life
God has made it so that even orphans too have "parents" as no baby can grow unparented. It just not possible
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 10:45am On Oct 19, 2025
dollypi:
You think the eden story actually happened.

I don't believe it to be true. I prefer to believe it is a symbolic representation of deep mental/psychological truth.

Not to be taken as historical truth, especially since the story is present in religions older than Christianity
The mere fact that it is present in other religions is proof that it is True
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by samuelson06(m): 10:46am On Oct 19, 2025
SpencerForbes:
But it can record all others. Even the downfall of sodom and Gomorrah and even revelations of things to come. My question is did this sin start today🤔 were this sin not done in the time of Egypt, sodom and Rome🤔
While the book of deut. explained and amplified the 10 commandments, why didn’t it touch ithuh
Wasn’t this sin done in Rome, why didn’t Paul write about it??
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Human beings are always in the habit of questioning God, and they always pay for it. I don't know why God gave you a brain. My joy is that our conscience always tells us when we are about to do fulish things so we could judge our actions because God judges us. So feel free, go ahead and do what you want, but be rest assured that you'll pay for your actions.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by keemsleek(m): 10:46am On Oct 19, 2025
Hismajesty44:
Paul invented Christianity..., just like how Arabian scholars invented Islam. It was discovery of sex that religion was invented to protect it from being radicalised. How partners chooses to praticalize their sexual affairs shouldn't be anybody business.
Paul did not invent Christianity. Christianity means Christ's followers, and those who followed Christ when he was on earth were called Christians.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Urgent1Million: 10:47am On Oct 19, 2025
Godly this, ungodly that.
Una don try to use religion control people sotayy una dey even wan control how dem dey 4huk.
Na wa oooo!!
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by donami(m): 10:47am On Oct 19, 2025
Within the confines of a sane mind, so you won't need prayers to undo derailment of the mind which becomes perversion. The more you explore , the more you move closer to perversion.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 10:47am On Oct 19, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Yet, many did not get their girlfriend pregnant the second they showed her to their parents, even when they have the finance to perform the wedding. Tinubu no dey dat time, so no excuse grin




Adam male and female were created adults hence the word "man" and not children. So it means that their brains were ready made.

And so, they were not having sex as it even is when have fallen in love.

So, you see The Law of sex and marriage was already upon us even before church was created.
After marriage of “consent” as you say is what?🤔
What are the percentage of people that don’t indulge after their wedding🤔

You expect two grown up to see animals doing things and procreating and you’re telling me they won’t wanna know what the animals are doing with fully developed brains and no warning?

Preacher keep dragging me into pit of confusion.
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Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 10:48am On Oct 19, 2025
Lol... I do not currently find this logical. Maybe when I gather more information


Dtruthspeaker:
God has made it so that even orphans too have "parents" as no baby can grow unparented. It just not possible
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 10:50am On Oct 19, 2025
dollypi:
Lol... I do not currently find this logical. Maybe when I gather more information
grin I understand. You can check and see if it is possible for any baby or child to grow into an adult without someone being a parent to him/her
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 10:50am On Oct 19, 2025
samuelson06:
Human beings are always in the habit of questioning God, and they always pay for it. I don't know why God gave you a brain. My joy is that our conscience always tells us when we are about to do fulish things so we could judge our actions because God judges us. So feel free, go ahead and do what you want, but be rest assured that you'll pay for your actions.
Yeah he gave us brains and I appreciate but my problem is why make a human law sound divine by instilling fear🤔

We all have conscience. Tell us to our face that this thing is here so we don’t behave like the barbarians and uncivilized but trying to make it seem like it was said by Paul is wrong.
Call a spade a spade
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Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Urgent1Million: 10:51am On Oct 19, 2025
samuelson06:
Human beings are always in the habit of questioning God, and they always pay for it. I don't know why God gave you a brain. My joy is that our conscience always tells us when we are about to do fulish things so we could judge our actions because God judges us. So feel free, go ahead and do what you want, but be rest assured that you'll pay for your actions.
There are consequences for every action.
If you comit a crime and you're caught, you'll be judged in a law court and sentenced accordingly. That's the law.
The Christian version of that is "sin" which is to be judged by god after death, meaning people can do all the evil they want and not be punished on earth and can even escape punishment if they confess and "repent".
Can you not see that this singular doctrine is the promoter of evil deeds in society?
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by dododawa1: 10:54am On Oct 19, 2025
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Is like wike and corruption
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 10:54am On Oct 19, 2025
dollypi:
You think the eden story actually happened.

I don't believe it to be true. I prefer to believe it is a symbolic representation of deep mental/psychological truth.

Not to be taken as historical truth, especially since the story is present in religions older than Christianity
Yeah I keep getting revelations now. Even a flying bird, I’ll wonder why the bird can fly and I can’t and I’ll realize it has wings which I don’t. Now you expect Adam and Eve to see animals with the same body parts as them doing something and procreating and not wonder what they are doing even with developed brains.

If we were to follow their narrative, we’ll end up blaming God
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Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 10:56am On Oct 19, 2025
McLizbae:
All the spiritual and scriptural laws that guide us as christians, can not be explicitly written in any book. It will be so voluminous no one will be able to pick such book, read, and comprehend. That is where the ministrations of the Holy Spirit comes in as the divine help and guide. John 14: 26, John 16: 13.

Now, These are just few of the verses that speaks to sexual morality, in the new testaments. With inspiration of the spirit of God, you may under the immoralities in sex even in marriage.

1 Corinthians 6, 18-20
1 thessalonians 4, 3-5
Ephesians 5, 3-5
Galatians 5, 19-21
Show me specifically the one that mentioned anal sex🤔 but the book of deut can categorically tell us things to eat and not to eat?
You have no point🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by keemsleek(m): 10:56am On Oct 19, 2025
First, think about the word purity, which comes from the word pure. Are adult films pure can you bring out adult movies and watch them in public? All the sexual styles we all talked about came from adult movies, which are not pure, and to a real Christian, it's a sin to watch. The devil would make you sit comfortably in sins. Yes, you will enjoy it, but deep in your soul, do they feel pure, having mouth actions or whatever style? The devil knows how to capture the soul and he feeds us with what we like. Cause we enjoy them in our flesh does not mean it glorifies God
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 10:57am On Oct 19, 2025
SpencerForbes:
After marriage of “consent” as you say is what?🤔
What are the percentage of people that don’t indulge after their wedding🤔

You expect two grown up to see animals doing things and procreating and you’re telling me they won’t wanna know what the animals are doing with fully developed brains and no warning?

Preacher keep dragging me into pit of confusion.
🚶‍♂️
Since nursery, primary and junior secondary school have you not been seeing animals and humans doing sexual acts?

So, off Point! So, deal with it
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 11:00am On Oct 19, 2025
keemsleek:
First, think about the word purity, which comes from the word pure. Are adult films pure can you bring out adult movies and watch them in public? All the sexual styles we all talked about came from adult movies, which are not pure, and to a real Christian, it's a sin to watch. The devil would make you sit comfortably in sins. Yes, you will enjoy it, but deep in your soul, do they feel pure, having mouth actions or whatever style? The devil knows how to capture the soul and he feeds us with what we like. Cause we enjoy them in our flesh does not mean it glorifies God
They weren’t made impure by God. It was made by the Roman Catholic to curb barbarism. Paul never had anything to tell the Christians on sexual sins. Your church made it so to curb uncivility which is human nature. My issue is don’t make it sound like it was stated by God, Jesus or Paul. It was never written by them. Tell us straight up and don’t make it sound divine.
Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Nobody: 11:01am On Oct 19, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Since nursery, primary and junior secondary school have you not been seeing animals and humans doing sexual acts?

So, iff Point! So, deal with it
Yeah the reason I didn’t indulge wasn’t that God told me not to but the society and Roman Catholic told me it’s bad. It’s my nature to have sex when I’m of age but people like you curbed it and I’m not saying it’s bad but don’t make it sound divine. Period
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Re: To What Extent Are Christian Couples Allowed To Explore Sex? by Dtruthspeaker: 11:04am On Oct 19, 2025
SpencerForbes:
They weren’t made impure by God. It was made by the Roman Catholic to curb barbarism. Paul never had anything to tell the Christians on sexual sins. Your church made it so to curb uncivility which is human nature. My issue is don’t make it sound like it was stated by God, Jesus or Paul. It was never written by them. Tell us straight up and don’t make it sound divine.
Is it not Paul who described homosexuality and sexual wreckfulness in Romans 1 and 2 describing them as impure and unholy and ungodly?
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