₦airaland Forum

Rexnegro:
➜I can relate chief , cause I stay in a students dominating neighborhood in Lagos , although your point are valid but don't generalise all the girls , some if not many don't do that.

You can relate because mentally, you are convinced that women owe you an explanation as far as what they can do with their bodily autonomy rights, abi?

SeverusSnape:
To marry girl wey go higher institution na big, very big GAMBLE.

After what I saw and experienced in school, I said the same thing - That I wouldn't want to marry a girl who passed through the system.

Forget, it's not about school, it's about their personality and upbringing.

If I tell you what I've seen with some secondary school girls . The worst is those that are learn work, they beep without caution or sex knowledge, getting pregnant to useless guys or not even know who impregnate them among the boys.

I think the problem is not about higher institutions, it societies decadent.

Tradman:
This remaind me girl wey we stage as if we are acting porn with camera on. Sotey the babe they call me porn star. I enjoy kpekus shall wen I was in uniben. Toto na water for me

wow

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That is what they doing o, it's very serious matter and they keep doing several abortions for this guys while school in school.
Na female students do abortions pass for this country. Because the boys sleeps with them raw always.
Very serious matter
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Makavelli001:
Hello nairalanders

I want to draw u people attention to what females are doing in our higher institutions.
I currently live in students environment close to a reputable tertiary institution in Nigeria.

When I see what young girls who live off campus do. I WEEP for their future husband.

How on earth would girls leave the rooms they rented, and go and live with their boy friend through out the years of their schooling as if they are married....IN THE NAME OF SCHOOL LIFE !
The guys will be bleeping them for FREE...

Then after graduation everybody go find their way.
THE SAME GIRL GO COME THE FORM RITCHO FOR MEN .

Man go still marry that kind girl....PAY her bride Price....carry am put for him house!

NA NOW I SEE WHY SOME OF MY FREZ SAY THEM NO GO EVER MARRY A GIRL WEY GO HIGHER INSTITUTION.

These tales has been happening right from time..social media made it easy to tell the world!

Lanre1st:
➜Forget, it's not about school, it's about their personality and upbringing.
If I tell you what I've seen with some secondary school girls . The worst is those that are learn work, they beep without caution or sex knowledge, getting pregnant to useless guys or not even know who impregnate them among the boys.
I think the problem is not about higher institutions, it societies decadent.

Both men and women have the right to bodily autonomy, and society has, for the longest time, allowed men to exercise their rights; however, looked down on women exercising their same rights. What does that tell you about the decadence that is society?

Divoc19:
Why didn’t you mention the guys bleeping the girls. Who told you the girls are complaining?

If all men are to marry only virgins then, who will bleep them men.

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Please stay away from this act if that's what you're into.
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Makavelli001:
Hello nairalanders

I want to draw u people attention to what females are doing in our higher institutions.
I currently live in students environment close to a reputable tertiary institution in Nigeria.

When I see what young girls who live off campus do. I WEEP for their future husband.

How on earth would girls leave the rooms they rented, and go and live with their boy friend through out the years of their schooling as if they are married....IN THE NAME OF SCHOOL LIFE !
The guys will be bleeping them for FREE...

Then after graduation everybody go find their way.
THE SAME GIRL GO COME THE FORM RITCHO FOR MEN .

Man go still marry that kind girl....PAY her bride Price....carry am put for him house!

NA NOW I SEE WHY SOME OF MY FREZ SAY THEM NO GO EVER MARRY A GIRL WEY GO HIGHER INSTITUTION.

Jealousy
Because u no fit find babe wey go dey give u knacks.


You come dey crey for nairaland
Almost Everyone knacks in higher institution u dey form holy because u no get class to find your own

If you're normal in the head then you should be able to also think from the angle that the ladies living with these boyfriends could just be wasting the youth of these boys, and using the boys to satisfy their own sexual urges, that the boys are wasting away, being used like a intimacy gadget.
Many are incapable of looking at it like this because they are still primitive, misogynistic and think the value of a woman has a relationship with the number of sexual partners she has had, and that the male is allowed to have as many as possible sexual escapades and still deserving of a female Virgin 😂 slow people.

Outthemudbyvoke:
➜These girls don't even fear anything again. Some girls legit go to school just to become somebody’s unofficial wife for 4 years. No focus, no boundaries, just vibes and “we move”.
➜ Then after school they start shouting “men are scum” like say dem no finish internship for free house chores and morning sex 😭. Truth is, not all girls are like that but the few doing it don spoil the name for serious ones. Everyone just needs to reset abeg.
➜ Truth is as young adults with raging body hormones, they need a guy to satisfy they sexual urges and to explore as well after dreaming of an imaginary freedom from parental eyes.
➜ Secondly, they crave soft life so they run into arms of financially buoyant guys on campus to cater for their feeding and little expenses. I know some girls with good moral compass that never engaged in such but that's the norm among majority as o witnessed in my college years.

1. Why should they fear anything when all they are doing is living their lives and exercising their bodily autonomy rights? They commit no crimes against anyone by that, so why should they not move with confidence? 🥱🥱🥱

2. If they experience misogyny in the process of exercising their freedoms and rights, why shouldn't they scream from the high heavens about it? 🙄 🙄

3. So, your adulthood is literally an imaginary freedom from parental eyes... that is what your adult experience has been for you? 🙄 🙄 🙄

4. If this craving of softlife a criminal offense that you should talk down on them wanting that for themselves? 🥱🥱🥱

One of the reasons why many muslim ladies get married and even have children while in school. No matter what the course—even if it's MBBS. It's more difficult for student males to marry because of finance. But females are fended for by their husbands who are already working. To guard one's dignity is foremost.

Why is OP lamenting
There is nothing wrong in what the girls do
It is known as .. passing through the school and the school passing through you

Chakam

TempleHouse:
Go to the Campus at night and see how haggling like market place for the night outing!

Are the ones doing the haggling not the same men who think they will now later find themselves virgins to marry? Nonsense!

Kobojunkie:
1. Let me guess, you believe or conceive that these women owe you their bodies, right?

2. Wait a second... the boyfriends these women live with, aren't they equally future husbands to other women? Why are you willing to overlook what those men do, yet you deem it your place to condemn the women for doing the same? Why do you feel you are entitled to monitor the bodies of these women and not those of the men? Who made you monitor spirits over what females can or cannot do with their own bodies?

3. Why is she not allowed to hold her head up high after graduation? Because in your mental delusion, you are the judge and jury as far as the quality of a woman's body? Are you OK in the head?

4. If a woman can marry the boyfriend who lived with her for all those times, why can't a man marry her? Let me guess, your particular delusion leads you, again, to believing the quality of a woman's body is decided, not by her, but by you?

Honestly, I don't know who did this to you all in the year 2025, but I hope you seek treatment before it is too late. Better look at what those delusions did to the generations before you. They are literally nothing to write home about as far as society and the nation are concerned. If you are looking to live as they did, please, do not procreate.

. Who pays the pride price? I hope you know is not the women? When you want to buy something, would you go for a rottened stuff? No! That is why a woman should be mindful of what she does with her body. Besides, who takes abortion pills? It is still the same woman and I hope you know that it is capable of damaging her womb and a man doesn't take that.

franchasofficia:
Op, if they tell you what the girls schooling abroad that you maybe praying for do, you will turn to a Reverend Father


The thing is, take your mind off these things and just pray to your God for a good spouse with good heart and human conscience, those are the key qualities you must consider.


Some Virgin girls are soulless you will regret ever wifing them.


You guys should take your minds off these things and focus on bettering your lives economically/financially and on how to stop failed, corrupt kleptomaniacs from being elected into offices as Governors, Senators, Reps and President in Nigeria starting from 2027. Those are the major issues destroying lives and pushing our young girls into immoral lifestyle

No be lie o. They're like a natural disaster.

Kobojunkie:
The girls were playing wifey to men who lived as husbands, right? Why, in the year 2025, do you go around believing it is OK to condemn the girls for living that way, but not the boys in this case? Is it some bias against the female gender that I sense here?

2. Well, what is clear from their action is that they do not believe they owe you or anyone their virginity. So, the question is really, why do you think it your place to claim that which you have none to offer in return?

The thread is about girls' lose behavior in school, that's why the emphasis is on girls, when girls here start creating topics on boys, it will be balanced.

However, of course the boys are not innocent. It takes two to fornicate. I also have male neighbors that were banging other neighbors' girls. A guy called DJ was shooting his shot on a pregnant girl who was living with her boyfriend at the time, and we condemned him for such move, but the expectant father was murdered and the girl terminated the pregnancy and moved in with that DJ guy.

My point is, the youths in school are living a denigrating life bereaved of any iota of moral compass, a decadence lifestyle, irrespective of the gender.

franchasofficia:
Op, if they tell you what the girls schooling abroad that you maybe praying for do, you will turn to a Reverend Father


The thing is, take your mind off these things and just pray to your God for a good spouse with good heart and human conscience, those are the key qualities you must consider.


Some Virgin girls are soulless you will regret ever wifing them.


You guys should take your minds off these things and focus on bettering your lives economically/financially and on how to stop failed, corrupt kleptomaniacs from being elected into offices as Governors, Senators, Reps and President in Nigeria starting from 2027. Those are the major issues destroying lives and pushing our young girls into immoral lifestyle

This is so apt

Demigod22:
I lived off campus and in a lodge of 45 rooms, more than 15 rooms have campus couples living campus marriage. You will see these girls cooking, washing, cleaning and being wifey.

The tertiary institutions are a crazy place. My experience for four years convinced me that I can never date a student no matter how beautiful she is.

How sex is being given and received in school like two neighbors sharing salt is mind-blowing, many girls you don't need to ask them out, during birthday party, end of the year party, neighbors in the same compound, classmates in the department, staff to students, even the bike men, a Mairuwa got a student pregnant in my school, even a secondary school boy in the University secondary school got a 300 level Sociology girl pregnant too.

Sex is really common and cheap in school. When a neighbor has a birthday and throws a party in the compound, a neighbor must bang a neighbor. Cheating and fornication piqued in school.

School is the place that even the good ones turn wild. Those girls that went to school as a virgin and graduated as a virgin without smooching, sucking, fingering, masturbating, anal sex, send nudes, are quite few and rare.

wow

Makavelli001:
Hello nairalanders

I want to draw u people attention to what females are doing in our higher institutions.
I currently live in students environment close to a reputable tertiary institution in Nigeria.

When I see what young girls who live off campus do. I WEEP for their future husband.

How on earth would girls leave the rooms they rented, and go and live with their boy friend through out the years of their schooling as if they are married....IN THE NAME OF SCHOOL LIFE !
The guys will be bleeping them for FREE...

Then after graduation everybody go find their way.
THE SAME GIRL GO COME THE FORM RITCHO FOR MEN .

Man go still marry that kind girl....PAY her bride Price....carry am put for him house!

NA NOW I SEE WHY SOME OF MY FREZ SAY THEM NO GO EVER MARRY A GIRL WEY GO HIGHER INSTITUTION.

It takes two to bleep! Those men too don peruse several ladies and when it's time to marry, they look for one innocent girl. I pity girls that marry such men.

It's funny how we always think this sexcapade is only about girls. It's applicable to both genders.

Kobojunkie:
1. Why should they fear anything when all they are doing is living their lives and exercising their bodily autonomy rights? They commit no crimes against anyone by that, so why should they not move with confidence? 🥱🥱🥱

2. If they experience misogyny in the process of exercising their freedoms and rights, why shouldn't they scream from the high heavens about it? 🙄 🙄

3. So, your adulthood is literally an imaginary freedom from parental eyes... that is what your adult experience has been for you? 🙄 🙄 🙄

4. If this craving of softlife a criminal offense that you should talk down on them wanting that for themselves? 🥱🥱🥱

1. I want to believe you are being sarcastic.

2. I want to believe you are being sarcastic

3. I speak from my own experience and perspective as one brought up by morally upright and disciplinarian parents, imaginary freedom because you want to get away from their eyes to live the dream life filled with youthful exuberance. At the end it's only a mirage as life catches up to you and you now see that all the advices from our parents were true words backed by their own experiences as well but no!!! A kid has to put his hands in flame to know that fire burns

4. You can't eat your cake and have it. Its a pound for pound world. What happens to focusing on why you got into college so you can live a soft life on your own terms rather than being a cum bucket for early morning erections for four years?? Well what do I know?? The act is enjoyed by both parties. Peace

No girl living with a man in her school days deserve marriage! No man will support such abomination, she's typically a divorcee! In my school days, some few girls do it but it's codded sure now it's an open act !

Society must condemn and report the matter to school authorities and parents.

Amebo wetin concern you.

Sammy101111:
Bro I no fit date girl way still they school
I go school so I know as he be

The knack way some guys done knack some girls even the husband way go marry am fit no fit knack her reach that level .

When I was in university my neigbours then was staying together with is girlfriend the girl done commot like 3 belle for the guy and yet the guy go they bang her every night they don't even use to coded it they will be banging loud screaming noise the girl go they scream loud.THE GUY NO STILL MARRY AM

My case

Demigod22:
I lived off campus and in a lodge of 45 rooms, more than 15 rooms have campus couples living campus marriage. You will see these girls cooking, washing, cleaning and being wifey.

The tertiary institutions are a crazy place. My experience for four years convinced me that I can never date a student no matter how beautiful she is.

How sex is being given and received in school like two neighbors sharing salt is mind-blowing, many girls you don't need to ask them out, during birthday party, end of the year party, neighbors in the same compound, classmates in the department, staff to students, even the bike men, a Mairuwa got a student pregnant in my school, even a secondary school boy in the University secondary school got a 300 level Sociology girl pregnant too.

Sex is really common and cheap in school. When a neighbor has a birthday and throws a party in the compound, a neighbor must bang a neighbor. Cheating and fornication piqued in school.

School is the place that even the good ones turn wild. Those girls that went to school as a virgin and graduated as a virgin without smooching, sucking, fingering, masturbating, anal sex, send nudes, are quite few and rare.

Omo, na which school Abeg 😂

Demigod22:
➜The thread is about girls' lose behavior in school, that's why the emphasis is on girls, when girls here start creating topics on boys, it will be balanced.
However, of course the boys are not innocent. It takes two to fornicate. I also have male neighbors that were banging other neighbors' girls. A guy called DJ was shooting his shot on a pregnant girl who was living with her boyfriend at the time, and we condemned him for such move, but the expectant father was murdered and the girl terminated the pregnancy and moved in with that DJ guy.
My point is, the youths in school are living a denigrating life bereaved of any iota of moral compass, a decadence lifestyle, irrespective of the gender.

So, their bodily autonomy rights, the same right those boys with them exercise, are subject to your private moral delusions about them? I see!

Makavelli001:
Hello nairalanders

I want to draw u people attention to what females are doing in our higher institutions.
I currently live in students environment close to a reputable tertiary institution in Nigeria.

When I see what young girls who live off campus do. I WEEP for their future husband.

How on earth would girls leave the rooms they rented, and go and live with their boy friend through out the years of their schooling as if they are married....IN THE NAME OF SCHOOL LIFE !
The guys will be bleeping them for FREE...

Then after graduation everybody go find their way.
THE SAME GIRL GO COME THE FORM RITCHO FOR MEN .

Man go still marry that kind girl....PAY her bride Price....carry am put for him house!

NA NOW I SEE WHY SOME OF MY FREZ SAY THEM NO GO EVER MARRY A GIRL WEY GO HIGHER INSTITUTION.

This is not a problem anymore.
Just assume you are marrying a divorce or widow.
After all, people marry them everyday knowing they have had several sex with their previous partner for long

Makavelli001:
Hello nairalanders

I want to draw u people attention to what females are doing in our higher institutions.
I currently live in students environment close to a reputable tertiary institution in Nigeria.

When I see what young girls who live off campus do. I WEEP for their future husband.

How on earth would girls leave the rooms they rented, and go and live with their boy friend through out the years of their schooling as if they are married....IN THE NAME OF SCHOOL LIFE !
The guys will be bleeping them for FREE...

Then after graduation everybody go find their way.
THE SAME GIRL GO COME THE FORM RITCHO FOR MEN .

Man go still marry that kind girl....PAY her bride Price....carry am put for him house!

NA NOW I SEE WHY SOME OF MY FREZ SAY THEM NO GO EVER MARRY A GIRL WEY GO HIGHER INSTITUTION.

It has been happening for a very long time, most of them even get pregnant in the process.

Shawarmagirl:
Na why is good to marry a virgin and have peace of mind.

Hobby married me a virgin. As we speak, he's in Nigeria for a project for 2 months now. He's at peace knowing that if his wife can keep herself unstained till she gets married, she won't start now to misbehave.

Please men yet to marry, marry a virgin or a lady who knows her worth to have peace.

How do you find these virgins in a land that gals get active from 14 years?

franchasofficia:
Op, if they tell you what the girls schooling abroad that you maybe praying for do, you will turn to a Reverend Father
The thing is, take your mind off these things and just pray to your God for a good spouse with good heart and human conscience, those are the key qualities you must consider.
Some Virgin girls are soulless you will regret ever wifing them.
You guys should take your minds off these things and focus on bettering your lives economically/financially and on how to stop failed, corrupt kleptomaniacs from being elected into offices as Governors, Senators, Reps and President in Nigeria starting from 2027. Those are the major issues destroying lives and pushing our young girls into immoral lifestyle

I don talk am tire. Men who are more concerned about what goes into a woman's vagina would never make it in life.

If Nigeria were a rich country, the rate of these activities by these girls would be so low.