₦airaland Forum

Very good and vigilant neighbours. Trust Delta state. No nonsense. Very irresponsible man. Always beating his wife until he met his Waterloo. He met men like him and ran away from the fight. Lazy fellow.

Caaz:
Kobo i dont agree with you,i once had this neighbour that loves beating his wife,that day he was at it and I and some ladies beat the hell outta of him eeh.
Days later he came Reporting me to my husband, i gave my reasons....the lady just gave birth not up to 2 weeks.

I can tell you now that,we later changes locate and I m still in touch with mum gladys, the man is now responsible.


Kobo... Sometimes it's good to beat the man on the spot to recently his brains.


Days ago i mistakenly watched a video of a man pummeling his wife,till day that scene still hurt me,she was badly bloodied.

Nice One, that's Encouraging....
But what Steps do you take when it is the Woman Beating the Man or Molesting Him?

Just Asking....

Samantha125:
The poor child looks traumatized... But wait, I thought there's no such a thing as domestic violence or GBV in Nigeria... Could these be AI generated?🤔🤔🤔

Iffahear, it's everywhere. Even in developed nations

Kobojunkie:
What nonsense is this?

@Caaz, you see how violence-for-violence actions have left the average Nigerian boy-man out there unable to reason properly when faced with the fact that it is the law and the rights of others?

Why are you so judgmental on household issues. What do you know about marriage, and husband and wife Wahala?

You should ask for forgiveness for nosing into a terrain you have no experience.

We have been on marriage for long. So, listen to our testimony. You know nothing about marriage affairs. Cho cho cho won't help you.

I hope you understand.

Jennyclay:
Another woman beater at it again

Why are men so wicked? If you feel like beating someone then go to a military barrack and pick up a fight with a soldier there.

Don’t show your weak muscles on a woman.
Nonsense men everywhere!!

But na you dey advice your fellow women to stay toxic .. Abi you don forget? Preach love not hate.

Kewekubosineh:
➜Why are you so judgmental on household issues.
➜ What do you know about marriage, and husband and wife Wahala? You should ask for forgiveness for nosing into a terrain you have no experience.
➜We have been on marriage for long. So, listen to our testimony. You know nothing about marriage affairs. Cho cho cho won't help you. I hope you understand.

1. Where is it written in the Law or Constitution that the rights of an individual cease once that person enters this household of yours? Let's start there!

2. I don't give a flying f--k about your ideas regarding marriage, husband and wife wahala... what I do know is that regardless of whatever titles you folks bestow on each other or how you choose to classify your relationships, it is against the law for one human— man, woman or child — being to violently assault another human being— man, woman or child. Simple!

3. The rights a man and woman have as individuals in the land are not dependent on the time they have spent in their marriages. Hope this helps reorient your reasoning in the right direction from this point on.

Kobojunkie:
Why didn't someone call the police on him for violently assaulting a woman? If the one who is being abused won't use her head, then someone else should do so on her behalf.

Which police?

Who will pay them to come?

You talk as if you are not a Nigerian and you don't understand what it takes to make the Nigerian police officers to leave the station and do their work.


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Some men are heartless, why beat someone's daughter in the name of a wife as if he don't have a sister or girl child

Smartcitizen:
➜Which police? Who will pay them to come? You talk as if you are not a Nigerian and you don't understand what it takes to make the Nigerian police officers to leave the station and do their work. 🥱🥱🥱

Go ask the thousands of Nigerians in jail who paid the police to come in their case. Nonsense and eegridient! 🥱🥱🥱

Men are this..., Men are that...

But when the ships are down, and violence erupt, Men will still be the ones to rise to the occasion to protect women against their fellow men, including against other women.

Wait until paternity fraud creeps in.
Not in support of violence but don't judge yet.
ignore all this frustrated nairaland women whose everyday lives are spent online.
Which respectful woman stays online from morning until night?

Kobojunkie:
Go ask the thousands of Nigerians in jail who paid the police to come in their case. Nonsense and eegridient! 🥱🥱🥱

Are you damn serious?

Oya try it out let's see how many bandits you and them will take to station.


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Smartcitizen:
➜Are you damn serious? Oya try it out let's see how many bandits you and them will take to station. 🥱🥱🥱

So, this is a bandit situation? 😩😩😩

I no dey fight for any woman wet decide to endure abuse

delishpot:
I no dey fight for any woman wet decide to endure abuse

Don't fight for her but call the police to report the public nuisance.

Na una Mumu pass by making videos instead of doing otherwise. You are making videos,what if the drug addict kill the woman and the child? Until we realise that there must be time to make and post video in a sensitive situations,we will continue to supervise killings and evil in our society

muyico:
Don't blame the man yet, it maybe paternity fraud, don't trust women

Every man should do paternity test. Even the nicest woman can be a paternity fraudster. In fact, the woman being very nice is what makes the man to suspect nothing. The perfect format.

The child that resembles you can still belong to your brother, cousin or anyone close. It can even belong to the hubby's randy father. We have already seen it all in real life. Most people are blissfully unaware of how depraved people can be these days.

Even if she's a paternity fraudster, no need beating her. That's the benefit of doing the test ASAP. Send her packing or leave the house for her. No long story.

Kobojunkie:
So, this is a bandit situation? 😩😩😩

As if they were good in responding to distress calls.

Please.......!


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Men nor fit knack bottle for him head?

Not in support of violence.

someone once said, control your mouth will help to control your anger.

I hope say dem beat the man too?

At least 2 or 3 slap suppose land for him face.

Jennyclay:
Another woman beater at it again

Why are men so wicked? If you feel like beating someone then go to a military barrack and pick up a fight with a soldier there.

Don’t show your weak muscles on a woman.
Nonsense men everywhere!!

he received just one slap from neighbor and flee, that show he's a coward

Kobojunkie:
Why didn't someone call the police on him for violently assaulting a woman? If the one who is being abused won't use her head, then someone else should do so on her behalf.

Most women stay in abusive relationship/marriage coz of what people will say

Emeskhalifa:
➜Most women stay in abusive relationship/marriage coz of what people will say

That is why I believe people should call the cops on him. When he has been reported several times for causing a public nuisance and has had to bail himself out at least once, maybe he will learn that such nonsense is unacceptable, and the woman eventually begins to see that people no longer condone such nonsense.

Attimes I wonder where women dey go find this beast dem marry all in the name of marriage!
The man no even fear say you carry his child n begin beat you.....we'll I should also ask wetin the woman don do wey make oga begin paranoid like this.
Make I Sidon small

valentineuwakwe:
➜Attimes I wonder where women dey go find this beast dem marry all in the name of marriage! The man no even fear say you carry his child n begin beat you.....we'll I should also ask wetin the woman don do wey make oga begin paranoid like this. Make I Sidon small

. Some of them are your friends, relatives, and coworkers. They are everywhere, given the high rates of domestic abuse in Nigeria.

Why him dey run?

Him for wait make dem use rope tie am down like goat.

Coward.

Very bad
But do u know one funny thing about women? If same woman had married to a very peaceful, loving, caring and nice man. She herself would have frustrated the man or even leave the marriage for excuse of too much peace. But in this case of violence, don’t be surprised she will stay and be happy to stay. They are incomprehensible

Baby shock sef.

He's like "aroba, you get mind dey nak mumsy oo"

cococandy:
She should leave but we know she won’t/can’t so it makes me feel like any effort spent on this discourse would be a waste. I hope I’m wrong.

She won't want to leave because the society is mean to single mothers. They will say she wants to market her coochie, they will say she can't keep her home as if it doesn't take two to tango, they will rather she kpai in that marriage and blame her for not leaving than praise her for leaving to live.

It's a hard society we live in and only a strong woman who doesn't care what the society will say can leave an abuser.