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DanseMacabre:
A more proper phrasing should have been that she's the only known woman to be married to two presidents of different countries.

Exactly, now you're talking. I don't think she became the first lady of South Africa. She just got married to Mandela as an ex president

Beauties solemn story

ademijuwonlo:
So because she was widowed she shouldn't remarry abi? She was not the reigning First lady of Mozambique when she remarried and she stayed for over a decade before she remarried. How many men can stay for 10 years after their wives pass on before they remarry?

People are allowed to remarry after the passing of their partners if they like and no one has a say over that. No society judges people for remarrying except if it's immediately after the passing of the partner.

Marriage is till death do us part!

Oga this is not about marriage or widowhood, this is about a First Lady.

Your father is a man he is also your father and head of your household . As a man he has the right to knack. But as your father he has to consider the impact of his knocking on you his family and children. If your father decides to knack outside and have more children if affects the harmony in your family and possibly his ability to provide for you.

The minute he chooses to be your father his actions must always reflect the interests of and impact on you his family. Nobody said don’t knack but knack with responsibility.

Nobody forced him to be a father. Nobody forced him to marry your mother. Being a father comes with lifelong responsibilities just like a First Lady.

Knowing the difference is the difference between classless and irresponsible or responsible and having class.

Pls ma don't cut soap for 9ja women,E get why.

Looks like Graca and Winnie got along well. I always got a sense South Africans preferred Winnie - I was still a kid to know for sure.

Angelfrost:
That the others didn't do it, doesn't make it inglorious or abominable.

She didn't divorce the man, but was widowed... By the laws of God and man, she did absolutely nothing wrong or despicable.


Say what you like, but it remains your personal opinion... She exuded class! Simple!

Come to think of it, if all the former first ladies you mentioned chose to remarry even a gatekeeper in their old age, no one would have overly stressed their brains about it.

Their lives as private individuals, their choices.

There are things that the minute you open your mouth, people with pedigree, class and proper upbringing know you come from an environment without class or pedigree. Being poor doesnt mean you dont have good upbringing or class. Class is largely defined by having boundaries of what is or isnt acceptable behaviour.

It is important that I state, because many of you do not understand, that position or wealth is not the same as pedigree or class. A man or woman can win the lotto and buy all the trappings of wealth, a man or woman can find themselves in positions of fame fortune or power but they can’t buy class. Class is a state of mind, it is how you think, it is what behaviors, situations and environments you deem beneath you. it is the boundaries and situations you set for yourself that determines and seperates classes of people. What many of you deem to be "class" is actually crass behavior because many of you don't know what having class truly means.

That’s why it’s difficult to explain this to many of you and why you will never get it. The mentality and upbringing of a commoner is what is on display by many on my mentions.


Someone whose pedigree and upbringing is low can rise to the position of a First Lady. It doesn’t mean she has class. We’ve seen this before in Nigeria. She will behave like a commoner because that is who she is. If you judge class by money or position then you don’t know what class it. I’d you don’t know what it means to have class how can you identify someone who is behaving like a mongrel? Class is not about position or wealth, class is about having boundaries and knowing what is appropriate behavior. you don’t date your friends ex, your brothers ex, same way a woman with class knows having served as First Lady, you cannot be First Lady of another country. First lady ship is not short time and serving who comes next.

A First Lady is a public figure for the rest of her life even after leaving office. She is a mother of a nation, she cannot behave anyhow even after leaving office. There was outrage from the American public, the Kennedy family, the Greeks, the Vatican when Jackie Kennedy married Greek magnate Onassis after the assassination of JFK. Onasis wasnt even a head of state and Americans aren’t exactly refined people with class. Even they knew it was an insult to the institution of the 1st lady and what it stands for.


But this is Nigeria, your heroes public figures and role models are themselves questionable characters so I am not shocked by the responses.

Like I said there is a reason she is the first and the only, even in biblical times there is non on record.


People use the word “class” anyhow, usually people without class who have no pedigree or class and hence have never experienced how people with class operate. Again what separates someone with class is not position, materialism or wealth but knowing that because you can doesn’t mean you should. Take that lesson into your lives and don’t throw the word class around until you actually know what having class means! No offense but your last sentence is the biggest telltale sign that someone has no class! That you can doesn’t mean it is the right or appropriate thing to do, again that is what separates those with class from t house without.



CC: ademijuwonlo daddyjapan

OverCalculating:
Here Is The Woman Who Became First Lady In 2 Countries

Yes, she married two presidents. She became a First Lady in two countries...✍🏽

There is a woman whose love story feels like legend — Graça Machel. The only woman in modern history to marry two Presidents and become First Lady of two different countries.

She first shared her life with Mozambique’s President Samora Machel — a love full of purpose and power. But when Samora died in the 1986 plane crash, her world fell silent. A queen was left standing, crown in hand, with no king beside her.

Years later, destiny returned — this time in the form of Nelson Rolihlahla Mandela.

Mandela didn’t see a widow to console. He saw a woman who still deserved joy, partnership and sunrise after a long night. With patience, dignity and clarity, he chose her — and she allowed her heart to rise again. When he married her, she became First Lady of South Africa.

One woman.
Two Presidents.
Two nations.
One crown that never touched the ground.

And that is the beauty we often forget:

Real love doesn’t die with tragedy — it learns to live again. It heals. It rebuilds. It returns in a different season, sometimes in a different home, but always to the same heart that still believes.

Akanda Eniyan.
An Exceptional human.

casualobserver:
There are things that the minute you open your mouth, people with pedigree, class and proper upbringing know you come from an environment without class or pedigree. Being poor doesnt mean you dont have good upbringing or class. Class is largely defined by having boundaries of what is or isnt acceptable behaviour.

It is important that I state, because many of you do not understand, that position or wealth is not the same as pedigree or class. A man or woman can win the lotto and buy all the trappings of wealth but they can’t buy class. Class is a state of mind, it is how you think, it is what behaviors, situations and environments you deem beneath you. What many of you deem to be class is actually crass behavior because many of you do t know what having class truly means.

That’s why it’s difficult to explain this to many of you and why you will never get it. The mentality and upbringing of a commoner is what is on display by many on my mentions.


Someone whose pedigree and upbringing is low can rise to the position of a First Lady. It doesn’t mean she has class. We’ve seen this before in Nigeria. She will behave like a commoner because that is who she is. If you judge class by money or position then you don’t know what class it. I’d you don’t know what it means to have class how can you identify someone who is behaving like a mongrel? Class is not about position or wealth, class is about having boundaries and knowing what is appropriate behavior. you don’t date your friends ex, your brothers ex, same way a woman with class knows having served as First Lady, you cannot be First Lady of another country. First lady ship is not short time and serving who comes next.

A First Lady is a public figure for the rest of her life even after leaving office. She is a mother of a nation, she cannot behave anyhow even after leaving office. There was outrage from the American public, the Kennedy family, the Greeks, the Vatican when Jackie Kennedy married Greek magnate Onassis after the assassination of JFK. Onasis wasnt even a head of state and Americans aren’t exactly refined people with class. Even they knew it was an insult to the institution of the 1st lady and what it stands for.


But this is Nigeria, your heroes public figures and role models are themselves questionable characters so I am not shocked by the responses.

Like I said there is a reason she is the first and the only, even in biblical times there is non on record.


People use the word “class” anyhow, usually people without class who have no pedigree or class and hence have never experienced how people with class operate. Again what separates someone with class is not position, materialism or wealth but knowing that because you can doesn’t mean you should. Take that lesson into your lives and don’t throw the word class around until you actually know what having class means! No offense but your last sentence is the biggest telltale sign that someone has no class! That you can doesn’t mean it is the right or appropriate thing to do, again that is what separates those with class from t house without.



CC: ademijuwonlo daddyjapan

Nice write up... I honestly appreciate the time you took to put this forward, and I took my time to read every word.

Still, while I never even disagreed with your earlier position, I yet respectfully stand on my submission.

At the end of the day, class is relative and subject to bias... On this, I don't even stand to be corrected.


See ehn... That our former first ladies that are widowed chose to stay unmarried doesn't make them more classy than their counterparts that remarried in other parts of the world.

Cultures and customs are dynamic and are continually unique across the globe.

In Nigeria, the widowed Kumuyi of Deeper Life remarried after his wife's burial... Same with late. Odukoya.

If the roles were reversed, would their better halfs have done the same?!! The answer is no! Why not?!! Because it is a cultural thing that most Widows in Nigeria hardly remarry or easily remarry.

That doesn't mean their counterparts doing the same in other nations is wrong or out of place, or as we put it, less classy.


Again, I respect your position on this discourse and matter, but I find it still rank with cultural bias.


At the end, we can agree to disagree.

Thank you.

Aduke olorioko.

casualobserver:
There are things that the minute you open your mouth, people with pedigree, class and proper upbringing know you come from an environment without class or pedigree. Being poor doesnt mean you dont have good upbringing or class. Class is largely defined by having boundaries of what is or isnt acceptable behaviour.

It is important that I state, because many of you do not understand, that position or wealth is not the same as pedigree or class. A man or woman can win the lotto and buy all the trappings of wealth but they can’t buy class. Class is a state of mind, it is how you think, it is what behaviors, situations and environments you deem beneath you. What many of you deem to be class is actually crass behavior because many of you do t know what having class truly means.

That’s why it’s difficult to explain this to many of you and why you will never get it. The mentality and upbringing of a commoner is what is on display by many on my mentions.


Someone whose pedigree and upbringing is low can rise to the position of a First Lady. It doesn’t mean she has class. We’ve seen this before in Nigeria. She will behave like a commoner because that is who she is. If you judge class by money or position then you don’t know what class it. I’d you don’t know what it means to have class how can you identify someone who is behaving like a mongrel? Class is not about position or wealth, class is about having boundaries and knowing what is appropriate behavior. you don’t date your friends ex, your brothers ex, same way a woman with class knows having served as First Lady, you cannot be First Lady of another country. First lady ship is not short time and serving who comes next.

A First Lady is a public figure for the rest of her life even after leaving office. She is a mother of a nation, she cannot behave anyhow even after leaving office. There was outrage from the American public, the Kennedy family, the Greeks, the Vatican when Jackie Kennedy married Greek magnate Onassis after the assassination of JFK. Onasis wasnt even a head of state and Americans aren’t exactly refined people with class. Even they knew it was an insult to the institution of the 1st lady and what it stands for.


But this is Nigeria, your heroes public figures and role models are themselves questionable characters so I am not shocked by the responses.

Like I said there is a reason she is the first and the only, even in biblical times there is non on record.


People use the word “class” anyhow, usually people without class who have no pedigree or class and hence have never experienced how people with class operate. Again what separates someone with class is not position, materialism or wealth but knowing that because you can doesn’t mean you should. Take that lesson into your lives and don’t throw the word class around until you actually know what having class means! No offense but your last sentence is the biggest telltale sign that someone has no class! That you can doesn’t mean it is the right or appropriate thing to do, again that is what separates those with class from t house without.



CC: ademijuwonlo daddyjapan

I appreciate the callout.

The problem with evaluating the lives of people like Garca Machel with rose-tinted lenses, and without an appropriate context as you have done here, is that one ends providing a distorted view.

Do you really know what it takes to wage serious struggle - far away from the comfort of your keyboard - especially when success is not necessarily a predetermined outcome? Wait, or is it her refusal to be reduced to a shrinking violet, living out the rest of her life as dedicated widow, that offends your religious sensibilities so much?

I am horrified by a lot of the flippant and, dare I say, puerile comments I am reading here. With haughtiness , you speak of what the people of Mozambique make of her union with Mandela. Do you even understand the history of the frontline states? Who appointed you the adjudicator of public opinion in that country?

Class my foot. Give me a Martin Luther King (Jr), who prioritised the Civil Rights struggles while occasionally indulging in sexscapades on the side - as I understand the failings of humans. Give me an Nkrumah, whose own marriage to an Egyptian woman was facilitated by Nasser (the Egyptian leader at the time), and retain your faux respectability about class, as the struggle for Africa's liberation is advanced by imperfect people who make no pretenses about the human condition.

As you continue shooting darts from your elevated heights of hypocrisy, just remember that millions of Mozambicans celebrate Garca Machel for what she is - more than sum of the caustic and poorly-formed analysis presented by many here on Nairaland.

The President of the Republic, Daniel Chapo, today sent a message of congratulations to social activist and former First Lady of Mozambique, Graça Simbine Machel, on the occasion of her 80th birthday marked today.

The message, on behalf of the people and the Government of the Republic of Mozambique, and personally from President Chapo, conveys the “warmest congratulations” to the birthday celebrant, recognising her as an “illustrious daughter of Mozambique and citizen of the world”.

The head of state highlights Graça Machel’s dedication to public causes and human rights, stating that on this significant day “we celebrate a life entirely devoted to public service, the service of humanity, and the unwavering defence of human rights, with particular emphasis on the promotion of education, gender equality, and the protection of children”.

Source: https://clubofmozambique.com/news/graca-machel-turns-80-chapo-praises-illustrious-daughter-of-mozambique-and-citizen-of-the-world-294227/

Her husband was killed by South Africa's apartheid government.

Lalami3232:
Mandela of all people married a single mother rather than a virgin? One man's food is another man's poison.

What would a 70 something year old be doing with a Virgin?
Was he a village Idol that demands the bloo d of virgins?

Mandela was eyeing her when her husband was alive?😂😂..
Just asking ooo

Angelfrost:
Nice write up... I honestly appreciate the time you took to put this forward, and I took my time to read every word.

Still, while I never even disagreed with your earlier position, I yet respectfully stand on my submission.

At the end of the day, class is relative and subject to bias... On this, I don't even stand to be corrected.


See ehn... That our former first ladies that are widowed chose to stay unmarried doesn't make them more classy than their counterparts that remarried in other parts of the world.

Cultures and customs are dynamic and are continually unique across the globe.

In Nigeria, the widowed Kumuyi of Deeper Life remarried after his wife's burial... Same with late. Odukoya.

If the roles were reversed, would their better halfs have done the same?!! The answer is no! Why not?!! Because it is a cultural thing that most Widows in Nigeria hardly remarry or easily remarry.

That doesn't mean their counterparts doing the same in other nations is wrong or out of place, or as we put it, less classy.


Again, I respect your position on this discourse and matter, but I find it still rank with cultural bias.


At the end, we can agree to disagree.

Thank you.

as a result of poverty, we have elevated the wrong people as our role models in all facets of life, we think their actions are good actions or acceptable actions and I dont blame many because they know no bettter and the people with class in Nigeria just keep quiet and watch the madness take over. The problem with your example is that who says these people have any class simply because they are church, political or other forms of leaders? this is why I say be careful the kind of people we allow to be our role models because we can only be as good as their guidance, examples and their flaws. if a pastor wants to justify nonsense because he hasnt got the discipline or class to follow the scripture, so also will his followers because now he cannot chastice them for he did same. Let us not forget that divorce was once a sin in the UK church until a King came along who had no self control and pulled the church of England out of the cathloic church. Did the Bible change?, did the biblical pronouncements on divorce change? One bad leader changed to cover his frailties as a human and now a whole nation is allowed to divorce willy nilly but the words of the bible on divorce never changed. be careful accepting the leadership of flawed leaders. what is wrong is wrong.

Until you stop judging people by position, wealth, fame, fortune and power you wont understand what class is. when you do you will realise that most of the people (certainly in Nigeria) that you put on a pedestal are some of the most classless tacky people that exist. Class is about acceptable behaviour, having boundaries and a sense of appropriateness, that is what seperates the classes. "Anything goes", "I do as i want" is by definition low class, the more class you have the more things you cant do. Its not about what you have the power to do or what the law allows.

All these pastors...they will answer to God because when you are not leading by example, you are leading God's people astray. the judgement is not the judgement for your sins but the judgement for those you led astray with bad leadership.


and please when you give examples give appropriate examples. the wife of a pastor remarrying is not the same as an ordinary Nigerian widow remarrying, an ordinary person doesnt have the same weight of responsiblities over his/her head. For me it is Taboo but we have pastors who divorce, have affairs etc but again what is their pedigree?

with position comes responsibility, but when we elevate the classless to positions of influence in all aspects of life these things are what we get. its because anybody can wake up and call himself a pastor or Bishop and the gullible will follow.

look at this point i am waflling, to sum up class is about setting boundaries, a sense of what is or what isnt appropriate and knowing that you can doesnt mean you should. Class is like a fence that controls your actions and behaviour. Metaphorically, the smaller the fence that contricts your behaviour, the higher your class, the wider the fence the less class you have and if you have no fence or no boundaries then anything goes and you have absolutely no class.

leadership comes not just with responsibilities but a higher sense of responsibility than the masses in and out of office. Even the bible says it in Romans 13:1 that all leaders are from God, so they cannot act like ordinary citizens, they have a special responsibility to act appropriately.

everybody wants to be a leader, many dont understand the responsibilities and sacrifices that come with it.

DaddyJapan:
You dare to describe a woman who was prepared to lay down her life in the service of her people in such terms? This is misogyny of the highest order!

What sacrifices have you made in the service of your people, Mr Armchair analyst?

Don't mind all those small boys who can't look beyond their noses and think the world revolves around their red pill indoctrination

ademijuwonlo:
So because she was widowed she shouldn't remarry abi? She was not the reigning First lady of Mozambique when she remarried and she stayed for over a decade before she remarried. How many men can stay for 10 years after their wives pass on before they remarry?

People are allowed to remarry after the passing of their partners if they like and no one has a say over that. No society judges people for remarrying except if it's immediately after the passing of the partner.

Marriage is till death do us part!

They always hate to see women move on

casualobserver:
as a result of poverty, we have elevated the wrong people as our role models in all facets of life, we think their actions are good actions or acceptable actions and I dont blame many because they know no bettter and the people with class in Nigeria just keep quiet and watch the madness take over. The problem with your example is that who says these people have any class simply because they are church, political or other forms of leaders? this is why I say be careful the kind of people we allow to be our role models because we can only be as good as their guidance, examples and their flaws. if a pastor wants to justify nonsense because he hasnt got the discipline or class to follow the scripture, so also will his followers because now he cannot chastice them for he did same. Let us not forget that divorce was once a sin in the UK church until a King came along who had no self control and pulled the church of England out of the cathloic church. Did the Bible change?, did the biblical pronouncements on divorce change? One bad leader changed to cover his frailties as a human and now a whole nation is allowed to divorce willy nilly but the words of the bible on divorce never changed. be careful accepting the leadership of flawed leaders. what is wrong is wrong.

Until you stop judging people by position, wealth, fame, fortune and power you wont understand what class is. when you do you will realise that most of the people (certainly in Nigeria) that you put on a pedestal are some of the most classless tacky people that exist. Class is about acceptable behaviour, having boundaries and a sense of appropriateness, that is what seperates the classes. "Anything goes", "I do as i want" is by definition low class, the more class you have the more things you cant do. Its not about what you have the power to do or what the law allows.

All these pastors...they will answer to God because when you are not leading by example, you are leading God's people astray. the judgement is not the judgement for your sins but the judgement for those you led astray with bad leadership.


and please when you give examples give appropriate examples. the wife of a pastor remarrying is not the same as an ordinary Nigerian widow remarrying, an ordinary person doesnt have the same weight of responsiblities over his/her head. For me it is Taboo but we have pastors who divorce, have affairs etc but again what is their pedigree?

with position comes responsibility, but when we elevate the classless to positions of influence in all aspects of life these things are what we get. its because anybody can wake up and call himself a pastor or Bishop and the gullible will follow.

look at this point i am waflling, to sum up class is about setting boundaries, a sense of what is or what isnt appropriate and knowing that you can doesnt mean you should. Class is like a fence that controls your actions and behaviour. Metaphorically, the smaller the fence that contricts your behaviour, the higher your class, the wider the fence the less class you have and if you have no fence or no boundaries then anything goes and you have absolutely no class.

leadership comes not just with responsibilities but a higher sense of responsibility than the masses in and out of office. Even the bible says it in Romans 13:1 that all leaders are from God, so they cannot act like ordinary citizens, they have a special responsibility to act appropriately.

everybody wants to be a leader, many dont understand the responsibilities and sacrifices that come with it.

A pastor can remarry after the death of a spouse but the wife of a pastor can't remarry after the death of her husband?

DaddyJapan:
I appreciate the callout.

The problem with evaluating the lives of people like Garca Machel with rose-tinted lenses, and without an appropriate context as you have done here, is that one ends providing a distorted view.

Do you really know what it takes to wage serious struggle - far away from the comfort of your keyboard - especially when success is not necessarily a predetermined outcome? Wait, or is it her refusal to be reduced to a shrinking violet, living out the rest of her life as dedicated widow, that offends your religious sensibilities so much?

I am horrified by a lot of the flippant and, dare I say, puerile comments I am reading here. With haughtiness , you speak of what the people of Mozambique make of her union with Mandela. Do you even understand the history of the frontline states? Who appointed you the adjudicator of public opinion in that country?

Class my foot. Give me a Martin Luther King (Jr), who prioritised the Civil Rights struggles while occasionally indulging in sexscapades on the side - as I understand the failings of humans. Give me an Nkrumah, whose own marriage to an Egyptian woman was facilitated by Nasser (the Egyptian leader at the time), and retain your faux respectability about class, as the struggle for Africa's liberation is advanced by imperfect people who make no pretenses about the human condition.

As you continue shooting darts from your elevated heights of hypocrisy, just remember that millions of Mozambicans celebrate Garca Machel for what she is - more than sum of the caustic and poorly-formed analysis presented by many here on Nairaland.


Source: https://clubofmozambique.com/news/graca-machel-turns-80-chapo-praises-illustrious-daughter-of-mozambique-and-citizen-of-the-world-294227/

I had an aunt who died and my cousin asked me to write a tribute. He didnt know I had major issues with his Mom. For his sake and for the sake of the family, I wrote a glowing tribute, it cost me nothing.. That i write a glowing tribute does not negate my feelings and for the sake of my cousins, lets sleeping dogs lie. Its called being civil and in relations between countries, its called diplomacy. Simpletons wont understand that in statecraft and even in official communications you choose your words carefully and in a civil manner. Again its like my friend marrying a woman i dont like and I wish her happy birthday, i am not doing it because i like her or think its a good marraige but out of respect for my friend. your comment is a stark display of ignorance. Do you not see bitter political enemies embracing each other in public events? are you a kid? so they shouldnt congratulate their former first lady on her birthday? Does the presidency not send Atiku birthday wishes every year? I wont be surprised if he doesnt even know about it. This is simply official protocol as a VP or first lady. if it were me, I will send it every xmas, easter birthday etc to remind her diplomatically, this is where you came from and you messed up! Do you really think a president of a country has time to think of someone's birthday? These things are done on his behalf by presidency staff and have to be done ........how shallow are you?

The other thing i will say is this, if you have spent a minute trying to explain the difference between butter and margarine to someone 9assuming you even know) and they still argue...just let them be, they are not meant to understand, they should continue eating their refined palm Oil.

Class is something you have or you dont. its like trying to explain to someone what is beauty. if you have no class you are unlikely to understand your responsibilities as a leader or former leader.

have a good day!

He was admiring her from the prison abi?
Someone who spent decades in prison abi!
The way some of you reason sef is shocking...
You just rush to type nonsense. Some muntulas too will rush to like the comment..

GanagiBitrus:
Maybe Mandela was covertly or openly admiring her even as Mozambique President's wife.

SmileDance:
A pastor can remarry after the death of a spouse but the wife of a pastor can't remarry after the death of her husband?

perhaps you can show where i said so? I am not responsible for your failure to understand what i said. you can try re reading as many times until it hits you what i said.

Unfortunately, they all died before her

Lalami3232:
Mandela of all people married a single mother rather than a virgin? One man's food is another man's poison.

She was not a bitter feminist, bambiala or bed to bed midfielder like the single mothers of today. Get the difference?😜

OverCalculating:
Here Is The Woman Who Became First Lady In 2 Countries

Yes, she married two presidents. She became a First Lady in two countries...✍🏽

There is a woman whose love story feels like legend — Graça Machel. The only woman in modern history to marry two Presidents and become First Lady of two different countries.

She first shared her life with Mozambique’s President Samora Machel — a love full of purpose and power. But when Samora died in the 1986 plane crash, her world fell silent. A queen was left standing, crown in hand, with no king beside her.

Years later, destiny returned — this time in the form of Nelson Rolihlahla Mandela.

Mandela didn’t see a widow to console. He saw a woman who still deserved joy, partnership and sunrise after a long night. With patience, dignity and clarity, he chose her — and she allowed her heart to rise again. When he married her, she became First Lady of South Africa.

One woman.
Two Presidents.
Two nations.
One crown that never touched the ground.

And that is the beauty we often forget:

Real love doesn’t die with tragedy — it learns to live again. It heals. It rebuilds. It returns in a different season, sometimes in a different home, but always to the same heart that still believes.

Well, she reminds of me of Barbara Bush who was married to a president and was also mother to another President. Probably there might be a few others who were as lucky as she was.

autoez:
Oga patapata of Olo sho in her days.

To the pure, all things are pure . . .

Interesting

SmileDance:
They always hate to see women move on

Don't mind them!

dangermouse:
An inspiring story. She must be a phenomenal woman. A woman worth her salt for Mandela to choose her as a wife.

As a woman, always get knowledge/wisdom and understanding. It will carry you far in life.

It is not by slaying over the internet.

smh did he divorce her