₦airaland Forum

ZUBY77:
Wait until paternity fraud creeps in.
Not in support of violence but don't judge yet.
ignore all this frustrated nairaland women whose everyday lives are spent online.
Which respectful woman stays online from morning until night?

And here you are online, a not so respectful man.

Thanks to the good Samaritans who intervene. That's how it's supposed to be, let's not wait till somebody kpai before intervening

EdonhappenTv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OloWzYxTTAs

Residents of Asaba, Delta State, were left outraged after witnessing a disturbing scene where a man was seen flogging his wife, who is reportedly a nursing mother.

Eyewitnesses say concerned neighbors immediately intervened, confronting the man and condemning his violent behavior. In the viral video, voices can be heard shouting at him to stop as the visibly shaken woman clutches her baby in tears.

The incident has sparked a heated conversation online about domestic violence and the urgent need for stronger community action and legal penalties against abusers.

🎥 Watch the full video to see how residents stood up against abuse — and hear what people are saying about the rising cases of domestic violence across Nigeria.

the baby is in shock, welcome to naija ooh

What a weak man

The guy don price market wey big pass im savings and he must pay. Policemen are after him.

He must be a beast. I'm so disgusted.

Jennyclay:
Another woman beater at it again

Why are men so wicked? If you feel like beating someone then go to a military barrack and pick up a fight with a soldier there.

Don’t show your weak muscles on a woman.
Nonsense men everywhere!!

na gender equality, if a man can fight, a woman can fight also.

I need to hear for the man's side.. cause this women be annoying and provoking af.

After this it's advisable for the wife not to return to his house.

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Kobojunkie:
Don't fight for her but call the police to report the public nuisance.

I no dey call ANYBODY so long as na wife/girlfriend vs Husband/bf matter. When beating tire her she go go one way or another.

Kobojunkie:
1. Where is it written in the Law or Constitution that the rights of an individual cease once that person enters this household of yours? Let's start there!

2. I don't give a flying f--k about your ideas regarding marriage, husband and wife wahala... what I do know is that regardless of whatever titles you folks bestow on each other or how you choose to classify your relationships, it is against the law for one human— man, woman or child — being to violently assault another human being— man, woman or child. Simple!

3. The rights a man and woman have as individuals in the land are not dependent on the time they have spent in their marriages. Hope this helps reorient your reasoning in the right direction from this point on.

Your points/epistle sounds germane within civilized climes. Not Nigeria where cultural values are adhered strictly in every marriage.

So, talk about Nigeria and her peoples and Not Oyinbo settings.

The action of the young man on his wife should not be judged based on emotions. But on available cultural values which guides every marriage.

You goofed,Kobojunkie!

Kewekubosineh:
➜Your points/epistle sounds germane within civilized climes. Not Nigeria where cultural values are adhered strictly in every marriage.
➜ So, talk about Nigeria and her peoples and Not Oyinbo settings. The action of the young man on his wife should not be judged based on emotions. But on available and cultural values which guides every marriage. You goofed,...!

1. The one thing most Nigerians know never to do is adhere to traditional/religious values. Any sane individual in that country is more than aware of this. Nigerians often discuss their values at length, but rarely adhere to them unless the outcomes favor them.(It is a different level of hypocrisy that is the Nigerian value system.) That is the general illusion of what is referred to as values in that country called Nigeria, and among those who refer to themselves as Nigerians— they all talk and no substance to the bone.

2. Nigerians are humans, and human behavior isn't rocket science, but a lot more pattern-based than you would like to think or accept.

Kobojunkie:
1. The one thing most Nigerians know never to do is adhere to traditional/religious values. Any sane individual in that country more than knows this well. Nigerians typically like to talk a lot about what their values are without ever needing to adhere to said values unless the outcomes would favor them.

2. Nigerians are humans, and human behavior isn't rocket science, but a lot more pattern-based than you would like to think or accept.

Hmmmm

Ok oooooooo!👏

They should have minded their business since the abuse wants to remain in an abusive marriage. I never get involved in issues like this because at the end some will still be the one to turn against that interfered.

iamL:
They should have minded their business since the abuse wants to remain in an abusive marriage. I never get involved in issues like this because at the end some will still be the one to turn against that interfered.

You mind your business while they are living in the horror, but the moment news breaks of a death or this sort here as a result of the horror, you all flock here to air your views? Why? Why not shut up about it all until the end?

She should leave the marriage before he kills her, he's a beast.