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Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by ogododo(op): 1:00am On Oct 27, 2025
Senator Ned Nwoko on Sunday said he feels sorry for men with one wife, insisting that polygamy provides men greater stability and balance.

The lawmaker representing Delta North, who made the comment while featuring on Channels Television’s Politics Today, also addressed recent allegations of domestic violence against him by his actress wife, Regina Daniels.

When asked how he copes with managing four wives—something many men find nearly impossible- Nwoko hesitated for a while before reacting.

“That is a different topic for discussion on another day. Yes, every man should do that. The example I give is this: just imagine telling you to stand on one foot or leg. You know how difficult it is.

“But to stand on two, three, four is much more balanced. That’s just the example I give. So I feel sorry for those who have one wife because it’s difficult to stand on one leg,” he stated.

When reminded that the Holy Bible does not endorse polygamy, Nwoko countered, “The Old Testament does. I am a man of faith. But that’s not what we are here for.”

Asked whether he had any regrets about his marital choices, the senator shook his head.

“No, I don’t have any regret. I will do the same thing again. Of course, that’s the way it should be. You should marry who you want to marry,” he defended stoutly.

On the domestic violence allegations trailing him, Nwoko dismissed them outright, saying, “No, come on. You know I am not a violent person. I respect my wives. I love them and my kids.”

His comments came just hours after Nollywood actress Regina Daniels, his estranged wife, flaunted a newly acquired mansion on social media amid reports of a marital crisis.

In a post on her Instagram page, Daniels shared photos and videos of the property with the caption, “In my house, I am a Queen! I needed a roof over my head, so I got this for me and my family.”


The post followed a viral video from October 18 showing the actress in tears outside her Abuja residence, lamenting alleged abuse.

“In Ned Nwoko’s house, I am nothing, but in my own house, I am a Queen. Not again. I can’t stand the violence, it’s too much,” she said in the footage.

The couple’s six-year marriage, once the subject of public fascination due to their wide age gap, has recently degenerated into a full-blown crisis now playing out before millions of Nigerians on social media.
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Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by Nobody: 1:16am On Oct 27, 2025
Bitter and honest truth!

Men with one wife are the saddest, demoralized, lonely and isolated creatures on Earth.

If marriage vows were to be renewable, 99% of men won’t renew it. They will run for their dear life’s.
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by 2mch(m): 2:54am On Oct 27, 2025
Na so. Na why all the wives you pack like cow for house don all run away. You come de marry your grand daughter age carry her go shrine say she must not leave you. She too don run like this. E remain the one wey don run before and you fit threaten. That one go still run as Regina don run. You wey do polygamy get 20 children no wife. Lmao. Baba, it seems like you are worse off o. You have a life that people all over social media are laughing about.
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by dantajay: 3:52am On Oct 27, 2025
Story story story story
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by Hotzone(m): 3:56am On Oct 27, 2025
Men with one wife are the strongest
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by SpecialAdviser(m):
CoronaVirusPro:
Bitter and honest truth!

Men with one wife are the saddest, demoralized, lonely and isolated creatures on Earth.

If marriage vows were to be renewable, 99% of men won’t renew it. They will run for their dear life’s.
There is no bitter and honest truth in it. I dont know why many of you clap at every statement without deep research about it. Monogamy seems troublesome now because many of us never witnessed polygamy in practice. Every type of marriage comes with its own drama, you cannot just believe one is so perfect.

Below are some of the insights. For every marriage, three major parties are involved. Father, mother and children. Polygamy may look like benefiting men but the mothers and their children will be getting the hits.

1) Father: Yes options for sex. Options for loyalty etc
2) Children; Except the father is rich, may drop out of school. May witnessed constant problems at home, quarrels and envy most times. Go to northern Nigeria and see their kids. With all the money they steal in government, still the most backward region. There can never be a man that loves two women equal! Even God does nit love us equal. If not why did He chose Israel those days in the bible. Why was DAVID His friend? Why did Abraham chase out Hagar? For as long as you cannot love those wives equal, trouble sets in and the kids get the hits.

3) Mothers: Lack of attention, Unhealthy competition, Sometimes lacking sex, Their husbands gets the licenses to honourably chase women since they can bring in another wife. Go to Abuja and see how Alhajis chases young girls for sex. I have seen first wives suffer in Kano state and wonder if polygamy worts it. It looks like its succeeding in the north because most of the women are uneducated and religion also used to calm them. If your child drops out of school, its the will of God. My dad was born into a polygamous home. Very brilliant man. They called him uneducated professor but he never went to school. I still thank God my dad did not bring in another woman to compete with my mum all the time they had issues. It would have been a disaster. I would never have been educated and will still be suffering now. People are blind sha

Summarily, Its only selfish for men to believe their sexual satisfaction and attention is enough for marriages. Do you think of being born into polygamous homes? Most of us would not have attained our heights Most tich people will always make polygamy look perfect until you get into it as a poor man. Many people will argue that when you have another woman in the space of competition, it gets the first woman behaving well but this has always been FALSE. It actually gets the first woman CRAZY. The threat can get her behaving a BIT okay but not when the ACTION is carried out.
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by dalongjnr: 3:59am On Oct 27, 2025
He's saying the right ✅️ thing.
Forget about morality. Marriage is firstly cultural before spiritual and then scriptural.
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by foodlum(m):
Bruh! aint dat the truth!
I've always wanted to marry as many wives as I can fully provide for and take care of. Women are creatures made to be loved and cared for by men. In turn, the woman yields and submit herself to that provider and caring man. I love women. I care about them just as I love children and care about them. Even though I was raised in a monogamous strict Apostolic tradition household and spent most of my life in the West (mostly the US), I fully intend to marry many wives BUT not have many children. 1 wife 1 child. Each wife gets 1 separate house, 1 car and 1 thriving business. I will love them and fully provide for them equitably. No favoritism. And I will be the King of my mini kingdom.
This template is fully permitted by God. Check and confirm your scriptures.

ogododo:
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Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by waslag11(m): 4:01am On Oct 27, 2025
Polygamy is optional , everybody with his own kettle
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by Ifexibe(m): 4:02am On Oct 27, 2025
“Women would rather share a high value Man than be saddled with a faithful loser.” - RM

"Hypergamy doesn’t care for male idealistic expectations of love." - Rational Male

Her goal was probably to get pregnant first since she was pressured by family to marry an older man so she can at least lay claim to inheritance, then later pursue her hypergamous instincts like most of these dumb bitches do.

All in love is fair - Steve wonder.
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by Creditalerts: 4:05am On Oct 27, 2025
Story for d gods


Just make it
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by DiarisGodoo: 4:06am On Oct 27, 2025
CoronaVirusPro:
Bitter and honest truth!

Men with one wife are the saddest, demoralized, lonely and isolated creatures on Earth.

If marriage vows were to be renewable, 99% of men won’t renew it. They will run for their dear life’s.
dalongjnr:
He's saying the right ✅️ thing.
Forget about morality. Marriage is firstly cultural before spiritual and then scriptural.
foodlum:
Bruh! aint dat the truth!
I've always wanted to marry as many wives as I can fully provide for and take care of. Women are
Just talk to kids from polygamous families. You'd change your mind
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by Ifexibe(m): 4:10am On Oct 27, 2025
DiarisGodoo:
Just talk to kids from polygamous families. You'd change your mind
If you know. You know. Polygamy is devastating in the long run.
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by AngelicBeing: 4:12am On Oct 27, 2025
Nawaooo, mucheche Hahaha Mucheche oturugbeke shocked
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by nkwoemeka(m): 4:12am On Oct 27, 2025
I think he should look at the condition of the road that leads from Onitsha ugbo to Ewohimi, after onitsha ugbo, the next town is his, the suffering commuters experience on the road is horrible, and it won't take much to put the road right. He can marry as many as he wishes.
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by GarageDoorniger(m): 4:13am On Oct 27, 2025
Ned will always defend himself. Until one of him wife poisoned am and they all share the money first
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by EponObi(f): 4:15am On Oct 27, 2025
He is saying this because he is mega rich, well exposed, and have abundant connection. He has too much wealth, more than enough to go round his wives and kids. No doubt, there will be rivalry, envy, and jealousy amongst the wives and kids, even if he denies it, but it will be limited.

His abundant wealth rubs off on his family. Everyone eats what they want, wear, drive whatever they want. They go on vacation anywhere they want, private jet lifestyle, la vida loca, etc. Everyone has their businesses, and enough political network of Ned to get whatever they want for themselves, their kids, and immediate family members. Take Regina for example, Ned's wealth rubbed off on her mother and brother. Her brother alone has enough wealth that 90% of young Nigerians can only dream of - simply because he's Regina's brother. Among the wives, it's a game of chop, make I chop. In fact, they don't live together. They all have their apartment and take turn to sleep with Ned in his own palace.

Compared to a middle or low class man, where his own resources is not even enough to take of himself alone. Now add 4 wives and dozens of kids like Ned has. Na die! Crazy scarcity mentality will reign terror in that family. Everyone is looking out for themselves. Everyone wants to cut the other one out with whatever means. Everyone - wives and kids - want the man alone for themselves because his resource is limited. Juju priest, Alfa, pastor - you name it - they will tour round to get something to turn away the man from the other wives and kids. The wives will use their feminine gifts to manipulate the man and their own kids. Resentment, envy, jealousy will reign supreme.

And majority of men today don't have the wisdom of the ancient men. Most are more feminine than they are masculine. They don't possess the ability and wealth to establish balance and fairness in their home. At the end, you have a broken home where the wives hate each other; the children become enemies for life.

If you think I'm saying rubbish, ask those who come from polygamous family, they will give you proper gist.
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by AZControversial: 4:22am On Oct 27, 2025
undecided

You obviously need to stand on 'four legs' because your pockets are overfilled..... That's a no-brainer.....

And it's no surprise because the women are merely tools to you..... To satisfy your procreative and randy desires.....
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by illicit(m): 4:22am On Oct 27, 2025
How many legs women come take stand....?
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by jchioma: 4:23am On Oct 27, 2025
King Solomon Nwoko speaking. I wonder why you didn’t marry up to 100, so we know that you are standing on a very balanced ground.

While men are polygamous by nature, several factors have kept many from engaging in polygamy among which is peace of mind.
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by idrismodel: 4:36am On Oct 27, 2025
DiarisGodoo:
Just talk to kids from polygamous families. You'd change your mind
You are referring to kids that are yet to understand life.

Are you saying that kids from monogamy family do not have reason to complain

Even kids that are from monogamy family also experience some happenings that make them blame their presents situation.

The ultimate reality is that when kids grows into maturity and become adults, they will realise that most of the childhood experiences were necessary to shape them into what they will become in life

I am from a polygamy family and I am grateful for the reality that my polygamy background had made me to realised
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by foodlum(m): 4:39am On Oct 27, 2025
Bruh I aint changing nun. Intra-family disorderliness, chaos and rancor are just as rampant in monogamous households just as much as they are in polygamous households. The way you organize your household will determine how it turns out.



DiarisGodoo:
Just talk to kids from polygamous families. You'd change your mind
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by dangotesmummy: 4:39am On Oct 27, 2025
Looking to recruit men like yourself grin
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by Chinny024(f):
CoronaVirusPro:
Bitter and honest truth!

Men with one wife are the saddest, demoralized, lonely and isolated creatures on Earth.

If marriage vows were to be renewable, 99% of men won’t renew it. They will run for their dear life’s.
Same goes to women..
Let everyone kuku run for their dear lives..
These were the responses from women when asked if they will marry their spouse over again if given the opportunity on IG..
You wouldn't want to see response from men and women on tiktok to same question..Was horrible and pitiable.
May God help his people

Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by Angelfrost(m): 4:51am On Oct 27, 2025
In addition to his misogynistic ridicule of women as feet or stools, he practically said nothing meaningful nor intelligent.

This is a billionaire Senator (Lawmaker o) and leadership example to Nigerians!


...And you wonder why the nation continues to retrogress in almost every sector. lipsrsealed
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by Adakintroy:
Most people are naturally polygamous. They really love women and the variety of options it present. Many of us also do..we just on budget or can't tolerate the headache. The whole bible said is the least of the reason. Even the way we sleep around is a sign..


Aside if I have the billing of cuz yes! Why stay with one woman and few children and spoil them rotten. Dedicating so much resource to raising 2_3 children. They may become too entitled especially the women. That resource can raise a mini village and give all of them absolute quality.. Society wins in the end.


Note even in society were it's thrown open only few can still pull it off. It's an elite lifestyle. Emotionally, Mentally and financial. I have never understood the notion of being a Christian and secretly having relationship outside of marriage. Is that not already polygamous?
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by hotseat: 4:53am On Oct 27, 2025
Ned Nwoko is entitled to his opinion.

As a Christian of the Old Testament, he could beat the record of King Solomon if he so wishes.

How I wish all his female children would become second, third, fourth, etc wives to other men.

The truth about Ned Nwoko is that as a very randy fellow, he can't keep his "third leg" in check.

Thus far, he operates a harem of wives and concubines.

Simply put, Ned is actually a male pr*stitute!

If not for his stupendous wealth, most ladies would spit on him due to his sheer ugliness.



@hotseat
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by Lexusgs430: 4:54am On Oct 27, 2025
One wife...... Only one problem....... 🤣😊
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by Angelfrost(m): 4:56am On Oct 27, 2025
GarageDoorniger:
Ned will always defend himself. Until one of him wife poisoned am and they all share the money first
Well, before they poison or kill him to inherit all the money, they will need to first have access or be signatories to the said wealth.

They will have to be certain of being well compensated in his final will and testament.

Men like Ned don't get to become this wealthy and powerful by being naive about life and the complications that come with multiple wives or excessively large families.


The women will do all they can to please him and ingratiate themselves deeply into his Will.


You don't diminish yourself to the lowly state of Polygamy with unattractive men if you don't have schemes of being well compensated.
Re: Ned Nwoko Defends Polygamy, Says Men With One Wife Deserve Pity by Host78: 4:57am On Oct 27, 2025
SpecialAdviser:
There is no bitter and honest truth in it. I dont know why many of you clap at every statement without deep research about it. Monogamy seems troublesome now because many of us never witnessed polygamy in practice. Every type of marriage comes with its own drama, you cannot just believe one is so perfect.

Below are some of the insights. For every marriage, three major parties are involved. Father, mother and children. Polygamy may look like benefiting men but the mothers and their children will be getting the hits.

1) Father: Yes options for sex. Options for loyalty etc
2) Children; Except the father is rich, may drop out of school. May witnessed constant problems at home, quarrels and envy most times. Go to northern Nigeria and see their kids. With all the money they steal in government, still the most backward region

3) Mothers: Lack of attention, Unhealthy competition, Sometimes lacking sex, Their husbands gets the licenses to honourably chase women since they can bring in another wife. Go to Abuja and see how Alhajis chases young girls for sex

Summarily, Its only selfish for men to believe their sexual satisfaction and attention is enough for marriages. Do you think of being born into polygamous homes? Most of us would not have attained our heights Most tich people will always make polygamy look perfect until you get into it as a poor man.
you're lying.

Most of us today have witnessed monogamy than polygamy.

In fact, to many Nigerians today, polygamy is a myth. One they are continously taught that it's bad and bad for the children.

Most have not seen a man with more than one wife and most can easily tell you the disadvantages of polygamy and the advantages of monogamy because that's all they've been taught from childhood.

Polygamy is great and children all went to school.

My uncle was a primary school teacher with 3 wives and all went to school.

I know of others like that. There are some who had just one wife and the kids don't go to school.

If the man wants to train his children he will regardless of the number of wives.

There are disadvantages also but for the man the advantages are more just that it has been painted black by our schools and our minds have been poisoned against it right from primary school
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