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chidi2003:
If you were a product of a polygamous family, you would not wish your enemies such bitter experience! Polygamy has nothing to do with any Religion; polygamy is a product of man's selfish sexual interest - forget about the fake old narratives of forefather. Don't die before your time because of pussy - make use of your sense - not your dick!

This is far more prevalent today with one wife!

Some sense there infact a woman sit tight ( well behaved, respectful) because there's another woman. Na so dem be..

APOPTOSIS:
Are you saying Monogamous men don't get poisoned by their wives? What about the female murderer that was just pardoned?🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

Help me ask him o!

CoronaVirusPro:
Bitter and honest truth!

Men with one wife are the saddest, demoralized, lonely and isolated creatures on Earth.

If marriage vows were to be renewable, 99% of men won’t renew it. They will run for their dear life’s.

How many wives do you have now?

SpecialAdviser:
Unfortunately many of our people are dieing in the sea to go to Europe. We also sit back and watch their football every weekend and wish we were born in Europe. Why wont I love been brain washed by them? Do you even know how polygamy is amplifying corruption in Nigeria? You dont know why Hausa people are destroying the country with corruption and banditry. Do you?

it you that is wishing dont used your narrow yardstick to measure everyone.
How are hausa people destroying the Country with Corruption?
Cos the Last I check .
Ibori , Dezani , Alam , Fasoye, Apakbio Ifanyin okowa are Non Hausa people
Also Majority of Yahoo boys /Men are Non Hausa people
Also Majority of Cocaine trafficker are Non Hausa
Majority of importers of Fake drugs and spare part are non Hausa
Majority of producers of Fake drinks are non Hausa
Majority of hook up girls , international prostitutes are non Hausa
Majority of Drug baron in prison in Asia ,south Africa are non Hausa
Majority of Democratic leaders since 99 are Non Hausa
Obasanjo, Jonathan and now Tinibu Total 18 years
Largest grants to State and. Non Hausa state Delta, Akwai IBom Rivers yet they can't Match Hausa run state of Kano ,Kaduna
Majority of terrorist in south are non Hausa

So how is Hausa people destroying Nigeria ?
By Farming and supplying your Lazy ass
Beans ,yams ,tomatoes,beef , carrots,onions Millets ,Maize , soya bean and accomdating Million of Nigerians in Hausa land peaceful

Forget Ned de chop life , have you ever imagined dicking someone like Regina ,glory ..although I can't imagine what that place looks like now with two kids and steady pororo,maybe that's why Ned no value her again

CoronaVirusPro:
Bitter and honest truth!

Men with one wife are the saddest, demoralized, lonely and isolated creatures on Earth.

If marriage vows were to be renewable, 99% of men won’t renew it. They will run for their dear life’s.

You and 117 likes need to be checked,first question,are you married?having more than a wife is one of the stupid and senseless decisions by any man.

Go and ask Abiola, Obasanjo even the same Ned Nwoko children

chidi2003:
If you were a product of a polygamous family, you would not wish your enemies such bitter experience! Polygamy has nothing to do with any Religion; polygamy is a product of man's selfish sexual interest - forget about the fake old narratives of forefather. Don't die before your time because of pussy - make use of your sense - not your dick!

So are you saying that some men who married only one wife do not die before their time?

Hotzone:
Men with one wife are the strongest

Dey play. You mean men with one wife whom their one wife is codedly controlling and manipulating bah?😂

CoronaVirusPro:
Bitter and honest truth!

Men with one wife are the saddest, demoralized, lonely and isolated creatures on Earth.

If marriage vows were to be renewable, 99% of men won’t renew it. They will run for their dear life’s.

Lwkmd 🤣🤣🤣

The program is falling apart.

We hope we wouldn't have kicked jerrycan when it all crumbles and the ensuing chaos births a new order. Sadly, that won't happen. We would long be gone... 😁

ravensckar:
NED is talking nonsense!

I was born and raised in a polygamous home but I'll forever choose monogamy.

What happened in your family is not the standard experience in all polygamous families!

elitper:
Very true. But you need resources to do polygamy. Most Nigerians can't afford it. Many can't afford even one wife.

Apart from funds, there's time which is another very scarce commodity.

His opinion, he wouldn't be making that opinion if he was poor, he can only say it because he is rich or maybe his wealth depends on it.

Most men would be polygamist if the had the funds.

To be a polygamist you either have the funds or a law or culture that supports you.

Wall gecko looking Ned.

Because u hv money 💰 oga. If not u go die with stress money stress and fighting tress

CoronaVirusPro:
Bitter and honest truth!

Men with one wife are the saddest, demoralized, lonely and isolated creatures on Earth.

If marriage vows were to be renewable, 99% of men won’t renew it. They will run for their dear life’s.

Lol. Are you speaking from experience? Have you ever been married? Do you have female children, above 14, you can go and ask right now if they'd go into polygamous marriages?

In your older years, you'd be able to relate with your daughters and grandkids who are in a polygamous home?

I personally think speaking decisively on issues one lacks experience of is a big problem for humanity.

Polygamy is not about you and what you want alone or find attractive. It is about many complex relationships created that may be humanly difficult to manage.

nwirinedu:
His opinion, he wouldn't be making that opinion if he was poor, he can only say it because he is rich or maybe his wealth depends on it.

Most men would be polygamist if the had the funds.

To be a polygamist you either have the funds or a law or culture that supports you.

He is even kidding himself and naive Nigerians, trying to defend his lifestyle, because we can all see how Regina Daniels, a child when he married her, is struggling with the environment Nwoko put her in she was grossly unprepared for.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KtkqVW8I5sg?si=CtdMrGwD14zLsc6R

Educationalserv:
it you that is wishing dont used your narrow yardstick to measure everyone.
How are hausa people destroying the Country with Corruption?
Cos the Last I check .
Ibori , Dezani , Alam , Fasoye, Apakbio Ifanyin okowa are Non Hausa people
Also Majority of Yahoo boys /Men are Non Hausa people
Also Majority of Cocaine trafficker are Non Hausa
Majority of importers of Fake drugs and spare part are non Hausa
Majority of producers of Fake drinks are non Hausa
Majority of hook up girls , international prostitutes are non Hausa
Majority of Drug baron in prison in Asia ,south Africa are non Hausa
Majority of Democratic leaders since 99 are Non Hausa
Obasanjo, Jonathan and now Tinibu Total 18 years
Largest grants to State and. Non Hausa state Delta, Akwai IBom Rivers yet they can't Match Hausa run state of Kano ,Kaduna
Majority of terrorist in south are non Hausa

So how is Hausa people destroying Nigeria ?
By Farming and supplying your Lazy ass
Beans ,yams ,tomatoes,beef , carrots,onions Millets ,Maize , soya bean and accommodating Million of Nigerians in Hausa land peaceful

It means you dont know the root of Nigerian problem. Go and do your research bro. The only reason you dont get to hear Hausa names is because they always get scot free. Abacha and Babangida destroyed Nigeria. Major cases of corruption in Nigeria are from Hausas. Dont be deceived

judewrites:
Whatever rocks your boat...it's your life.

You live only once, live well before you report to your creator.

So, you mean to tell me that all the Billions of people dead and alive, will be reporting to One Creator? Think!

whippersnapper:
my dad married 4 wife's but all of us went to the best schools. Sometimes it's all about balance and sacrifice.

Your dad must be rich then

Hotzone:
Men with one wife are the strongest

sorry " are the weakest " what will make and proved one as strong without obstacles and challenges with many battle ? The energy and mental to manage 2,3... is far more than 1.

SpecialAdviser:
There is no bitter and honest truth in it. I dont know why many of you clap at every statement without deep research about it. Monogamy seems troublesome now because many of us never witnessed polygamy in practice. Every type of marriage comes with its own drama, you cannot just believe one is so perfect.

Below are some of the insights. For every marriage, three major parties are involved. Father, mother and children. Polygamy may look like benefiting men but the mothers and their children will be getting the hits.

1) Father: Yes options for sex. Options for loyalty etc
2) Children; Except the father is rich, may drop out of school. May witnessed constant problems at home, quarrels and envy most times. Go to northern Nigeria and see their kids. With all the money they steal in government, still the most backward region. There can never be a man that loves two women equal! Even God does nit love us equal. If not why did He chose Israel those days in the bible. Why was DAVID His friend? Why did Abraham chase out Hagar? For as long as you cannot love those wives equal, trouble sets in and the kids get the hits.

3) Mothers: Lack of attention, Unhealthy competition, Sometimes lacking sex, Their husbands gets the licenses to honourably chase women since they can bring in another wife. Go to Abuja and see how Alhajis chases young girls for sex. I have seen first wives suffer in Kano state and wonder if polygamy worts it. It looks like its succeeding in the north because most of the women are uneducated and religion also used to calm them. If your child drops out of school, its the will of God. My dad was born into a polygamous home. Very brilliant man. They called him uneducated professor but he never went to school. I still thank God my dad did not bring in another woman to compete with my mum all the time they had issues. It would have been a disaster. I would never have been educated and will still be suffering now. People are blind sha

Summarily, Its only selfish for men to believe their sexual satisfaction and attention is enough for marriages. Do you think of being born into polygamous homes? Most of us would not have attained our heights Most tich people will always make polygamy look perfect until you get into it as a poor man. Many people will argue that when you have another woman in the space of competition, it gets the first woman behaving well but this has always been FALSE. It actually gets the first woman CRAZY. The threat can get her behaving a BIT okay but not when the ACTION is carried out.

Most of the points you made applies equally to monogamy and polygamy and I don't see why anyone should be compelled to choose either.
Also would you say because you cannot love two children equally you should have only one child?

I'm with Ned on this. Even my bible indirectly encourages me to marry as many wives as I can, provided that I don't marry two living sisters at a time. Leviticus 18:18 - Do not take your wife's sister as a rival wife and have sexual relations with her while your wife is living.

Hotzone:
Men with one wife are the strongest

No be only strongest

SpecialAdviser:
Your dad must be rich then

He wasn't rich per se. He was just selfless and loves education. He was always ready to spend his last dime to sponsor you even till PHD even if it meant going into debts. God knows I owe that man a lot once he blesses me

2mch:
Na so. Na why all the wives you pack like cow for house don all run away. You come de marry your grand daughter age carry her go shrine say she must not leave you. She too don run like this. E remain the one wey don run before and you fit threaten. That one go still run as Regina don run. You wey do polygamy get 20 children no wife. Lmao. Baba, it seems like you are worse off o. You have a life that people all over social media are laughing about.

..... If e pain u knack ya head for wall

dantajay:
Story story story story

Succintly put. He is clearly delusional

whippersnapper:
He wasn't rich per se. He was just selfless and loves education. He was always ready to spend his last dime to sponsor you even till PHD even if it meant going into debts. God knows I owe that man a lot once he blesses me

Nice of him but how many people can be like your dad. If men and women can be good in polygamy, then no issues but history says otherwise

CoronaVirusPro:
Bitter and honest truth!

Men with one wife are the saddest, demoralized, lonely and isolated creatures on Earth.

If marriage vows were to be renewable, 99% of men won’t renew it. They will run for their dear life’s.

Not a bitter truth, polygamy at young age has no benefits to a man. It is much more better to have a lovely wife and side chicks if you can't control your sexual urge.

Though a wealthy man around 60's can take up a young wife around 30's as a solution to lonely old age.

If she's tired, polygamy solves it

If she's not in the mood, polygamy solves it

If she doesn't want to submit, polygamy..

If she's unavailable, polygamy solves it

If she's on her period, polygamy solves it

If she's acting funny & trying to deny you sex, polygamy solves it.