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Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by richiemcgold: 2:12pm On Oct 30, 2025
Both of them were in their late 20s.
They got married in the 70s.
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by Akpan107(m): 2:14pm On Oct 30, 2025
creolehunt:
My parents had a whooping 16yr age gap
I am 12 Years older than my wife.

The lady I wanted to marry before was almost 3 years older than me.

But she later got another person.
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by Nfora: 2:14pm On Oct 30, 2025
Mum and Dad both @ 22yrs
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by Nehyooh(m): 2:16pm On Oct 30, 2025
franvincoop:
Dad was 61 years old
Mum was 11 years old
Which Region am I from?
grin
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by justvictor57(m): 2:17pm On Oct 30, 2025
Wetin be this? No better topic again?
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by AK481(m): 2:17pm On Oct 30, 2025
23 and 20
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by correctguy101(m): 2:17pm On Oct 30, 2025
RollinTNDA:
12 and 19

Guess who was 12?? grin
Ya papa? 🤧🤔🤣🤔🤣

Let me think about it again. Lwkmd 🤣🤣
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by Nehyooh(m): 2:17pm On Oct 30, 2025
Akpan107:
I am 12 Years older than my wife.

The lady I wanted to marry before was almost 3 years older than me.

But she later got another person.
12years, not bad.
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by Beermoney1: 2:18pm On Oct 30, 2025
Mom was 23, dad was 27
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by sacajawea(m): 2:19pm On Oct 30, 2025
Kaczynski:
my mom went against societal norms by marrying a man younger than her shocked

worst she went for black man


Even more worse, a nigerian man


no be juju be that undecided
Still Together?
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by Nehyooh(m):
Dad 34 and Mum 24

Based on most responses to this question, I noticed our parents seems to have some couple of age gap, which means our fathers are mature mentally to understand and cope with their wives back then. Marriage those days was sweet, understanding, true commitment from both parties and full support. I can attest to this because my late parents are typical example.

But nowadays, you'll see an immature man just because he has gotten some dash, he feels since my relatives, cousins and mates are getting married, then I need to as well.
On the other hand, it's the girls that do rush guys just because her friends are getting married. Just because two of my foolish 'ex' friends got pregnant out of wedlock, then she begin to pressure me about marriage, someone that's still in school, she has no skills, no job.
I never allow her attitudes to move me at all.

I'm really happy about some knowledge and understanding have gotten marriage, though we can't know everything.
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by sacajawea(m): 2:20pm On Oct 30, 2025
Giftedhand47:
They married early sha

Now dad is 83 yo
While mom is 69 yo
Jesus!
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by mablie(m): 2:20pm On Oct 30, 2025
KayaMaghan:
I will love to understand what makes Nigerians worse even among blacks.
That is a troll seeking for attention.Simply ignore
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by Samantha125(f): 2:21pm On Oct 30, 2025
Your fathers were just preying on naive children that they could easily control.

I'm sure most of the time they'd belittle them into submitting to them.
socialmediaman:
She must prefer older men with more experience. Perhaps she doesn’t want to be figuring things out with people closer her age. She has her own priorities. She lived with parents twice her age, possibly has colleagues at work much older. Life choices are different
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by creolehunt: 2:21pm On Oct 30, 2025
Akpan107:
I am 12 Years older than my wife.

The lady I wanted to marry before was almost 3 years older than me.

But she later got another person.
I think those age gaps were more prevalent back in the days up to the early 90s than now.
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by Odenscollection(m): 2:21pm On Oct 30, 2025
Dad was 31. Mum was 25
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by sacajawea(m): 2:22pm On Oct 30, 2025
tydi:
My dad was 30 and he married my mom a virgin .
How old was your mother?

That was the question
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by sacajawea(m): 2:22pm On Oct 30, 2025
AK481:
23 and 20
As how??
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by kentokay71: 2:23pm On Oct 30, 2025
From aboki land
franvincoop:
Dad was 61 years old
Mum was 11 years old
Which Region am I from?
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by sacajawea(m): 2:25pm On Oct 30, 2025
Kaczynski:
my mom went against societal norms by marrying a man younger than her shocked

worst she went for black man


Even more worse, a nigerian man


no be juju be that undecided
What Tribe or race is your mother?
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by Solution0707(m): 2:27pm On Oct 30, 2025
Your Dad i guess
RollinTNDA:
12 and 19

Guess who was 12?? grin
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by Eastcoastboy(m): 2:30pm On Oct 30, 2025
Kaczynski:
my mom went against societal norms by marrying a man younger than her shocked

worst she went for black man


Even more worse, a nigerian man


no be juju be that undecided
Where's she from
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by oluwaseyi0: 2:33pm On Oct 30, 2025
franvincoop:
Dad was 61 years old
Mum was 11 years old
Which Region am I from?
Ain't you a Northern or Easterner?
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by Jossyman0007(m): 2:35pm On Oct 30, 2025
[quote author=Telltruth123 post= This is so heart breaking,hope you've forgiven her action??
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by CoolAmbience(m): 2:40pm On Oct 30, 2025
sofeo:
The maturity of Dad brought peace. One of the advantages of getting married at a matured age.
I guess Ned Nwoko is too young to be married to Regina Daniel.
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by We4all: 2:42pm On Oct 30, 2025
KayaMaghan:
I will love to understand what makes Nigerians worse even among blacks.
Because compared to other black men, their archaic mentality sucks.
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by ceejayluv(m): 2:43pm On Oct 30, 2025
24 and 20
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by DMCA: 2:43pm On Oct 30, 2025
Beremx:
Mum was 23years and Dad was 27years
that is when dey started practicing dzoggy cool
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by Love800(m): 2:45pm On Oct 30, 2025
Which children!

Yea.. i understand dat countries have different benchmark for eligible adult ages for their females. Our's is 18. Okay.

Dat does not mean a 15--18yr cant be already metamorphose for marriage.

Anyway, we all know dat females should be through with their studies first before marriage. A fair one. Giving the ladies an edge in critical reasoning in associations, groups, family. The only disadvantage in dis one is that they get married at old age!
Samantha125:
Modimo waka... So your fathers were preying on children? shocked shocked shocked
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by AlphaTaikun: 2:45pm On Oct 30, 2025
Hackman1994:
The man 037.

The woman 023..............
Re: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by Prosperchuks1344(m): 2:50pm On Oct 30, 2025
My dad 31 mum 19
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