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Feisu:
My wife still keeps contact with her married ex. She says they parted peacefully so they are still friends.
I didn't have an issue with it.

But I recently found out he sends money and gifts to my inlaws and they are all so happy with that. Even celebrating this in my presence and saying I shouldn't be jealous or anything because their daughter knows she's married and their relationship was in the past.

This doesn't sit well with me.

I also know for a fact that my parents wouldn't accept unsolicited gifts from my ex or that of my siblings.

Feisu:
My wife still keeps contact with her married ex. She says they parted peacefully so they are still friends.
I didn't have an issue with it.

But I recently found out he sends money and gifts to my inlaws and they are all so happy with that. Even celebrating this in my presence and saying I shouldn't be jealous or anything because their daughter knows she's married and their relationship was in the past.

This doesn't sit well with me.

I also know for a fact that my parents wouldn't accept unsolicited gifts from my ex or that of my siblings.

Double0h7:
The message they are sending is to up your hustle! Do you gift them?

Feisu:
My wife still keeps contact with her married ex. She says they parted peacefully so they are still friends.
I didn't have an issue with it.

But I recently found out he sends money and gifts to my inlaws and they are all so happy with that. Even celebrating this in my presence and saying I shouldn't be jealous or anything because their daughter knows she's married and their relationship was in the past.

This doesn't sit well with me.

I also know for a fact that my parents wouldn't accept unsolicited gifts from my ex or that of my siblings.

Phred1717:
The Ex is a sharp guy get ready to be SACKED if you don't act smart or face massive competition with your inlaw's... But against all odds warn your wife to block all communication with him or move on with your life

Feisu:
My wife still keeps contact with her married ex. She says they parted peacefully so they are still friends.
I didn't have an issue with it.

But I recently found out he sends money and gifts to my inlaws and they are all so happy with that. Even celebrating this in my presence and saying I shouldn't be jealous or anything because their daughter knows she's married and their relationship was in the past.

This doesn't sit well with me.

I also know for a fact that my parents wouldn't accept unsolicited gifts from my ex or that of my siblings.

Double0h7:
The message they are sending is to up your hustle! Do you gift them?

Feisu:
I'm sure he still has feelings for my wife and she's feigning ignorance.
If she and her family are comfortable receiving monetary and other forms of gift from another man, don't you think I should be worried.

Adexvivacity:
You wont know when they are around....Just accept your fate, your boo has a boo. Weak men everywhere. It is either u dnt try nonsense or you hide the nonsense away from me totally. She is doing it and robbing it on ur face 😂

Kobojunkie:
1. She started collecting money from him, or, as OP instead said, her in-laws collected money and gifts from him? You seem to be writing your own script here.

2. Trying to understand? Are you joking? If his wife keeping in touch with her ex was a red flag for OP, OP's mistake was marrying her despite that. Also, OP already made clear that he had no problem with her keeping in touch with the ex. My issue is, why do you keep making an issue of it when this is literally his own statement from the beginning?



3. Keeping in touch with an ex has nothing to do with having an open relationship. Please look up the meaning of the term to be sure why it should not be a part of this.

Kobojunkie:
You mean there could be a motive directed towards their current son-in-law for them collecting money and gifts from the lady's ex?

InvertedHammer:
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Many of you tolerate nonsense.

Apparently you are the wife in the relationship. She is your husband.

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Feisu:
My wife still keeps contact with her married ex. She says they parted peacefully so they are still friends.
I didn't have an issue with it.

But I recently found out he sends money and gifts to my inlaws and they are all so happy with that. Even celebrating this in my presence and saying I shouldn't be jealous or anything because their daughter knows she's married and their relationship was in the past.

This doesn't sit well with me.

I also know for a fact that my parents wouldn't accept unsolicited gifts from my ex or that of my siblings.

Ezini:
✓ A big yes Or else they would just do it in secret

Kobojunkie:
Does the man in question directly threaten you or your wife? Does his sending money to her parents somehow threaten your ability to relate to them or send them gifts? What exactly is the problem here? Let us know!

Ezini:
✓ Are you the ex? Why are you not seeing anything wrong with this

Feisu:
My wife still keeps contact with her married ex. She says they parted peacefully so they are still friends.
I didn't have an issue with it.

But I recently found out he sends money and gifts to my inlaws and they are all so happy with that. Even celebrating this in my presence and saying I shouldn't be jealous or anything because their daughter knows she's married and their relationship was in the past.

This doesn't sit well with me.

I also know for a fact that my parents wouldn't accept unsolicited gifts from my ex or that of my siblings.

Ezini:
✓ Some things are better left as they are,
They have each moved on, they should leave it at that, reconnecting again on the premise of just friendship is pretentious, sex and romance connected them before and would still connect them again if they should have one on one meeting again

ghettochild:
On a norms, them no suppose to Dey collect the money but then them no get respect for themselves and them Dey hungry so am sure they are the ones asking for money since he has a child with their daughter.

Helpout12345:
The ex and your wife still have feelings for each other. Your wife has told her parents the truth. They support it.

The ex might be having marital problems with his wife abroad and planning to marry your wife as his ex love. Your wife also will like to marry abroad man to japa from Nigeria.

Once that ex lands in Naija this December, he will k.nack your wife.


Just be prepared. It's coming.

emiye:
✓ Switch it , and assume it is the wife that came to complain on Nairaland that her husband is sending money to his ex inlaws , are you keeping the same energy? Or you only support everything as long it is feminine centric?

Kobojunkie:
So, what is the motive? 🥱🥱