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Lawyer Addresses Men Who Abandon Children Who Are Products Of Paternity Fraud by saphiere(op): 11:16pm On Oct 30, 2025
Lawyer addresses men who abandon children who are products of paternity fraud

Re: Lawyer Addresses Men Who Abandon Children Who Are Products Of Paternity Fraud by saphiere(op): 11:17pm On Oct 30, 2025
There should be a legal law jailing these men. And for the women, they should learn to stay faithful
Re: Lawyer Addresses Men Who Abandon Children Who Are Products Of Paternity Fraud by badaru911: 2:36am On Oct 31, 2025
saphiere:
There should be a legal law jailing these men. And for the women, they should learn to stay faithful
... It should be... There should be a legal law jailing these women with hard labor. And for the men, they should learn to accommodate..
Re: Lawyer Addresses Men Who Abandon Children Who Are Products Of Paternity Fraud by Ojuntana: 2:45am On Oct 31, 2025
Is Chisom saying there's a moral obligation to raise an illegitimate child by a deceived father
What moral code is that?
Never heard of it
Is Chisom saying if after years of using and maintaining a car, you find out that it never belonged to you but was sold to you under fraudulent circumstances you should continue to use the car? Instead of telling the fraudster to return the car (child) back to the original owner?
Participating in a fraud makes you part of the fraud
Now that's a moral code right there!!
Re: Lawyer Addresses Men Who Abandon Children Who Are Products Of Paternity Fraud by Nobody: 2:46am On Oct 31, 2025
Charge and bail lawyers…….
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Re: Lawyer Addresses Men Who Abandon Children Who Are Products Of Paternity Fraud by saphiere(op): 2:53am On Oct 31, 2025
badaru911:
... It should be... There should be a legal law jailing these women with hard labor. And for the men, they should learn to accommodate..
You can say your nonsense without quoting me. I didn't quote you.
Re: Lawyer Addresses Men Who Abandon Children Who Are Products Of Paternity Fraud by Katell: 6:23am On Oct 31, 2025
Got forbids I grow up.

If accepting a product of paternity fraud is what it means to grow up, I will never grow up.

The acceptance means forgiveness to the mother. Forgiveness is the beginning of the foundation of the man's grave.

Once again, I won't grow up.
Re: Lawyer Addresses Men Who Abandon Children Who Are Products Of Paternity Fraud by Openair: 7:12am On Oct 31, 2025
badaru911:
... It should be... There should be a legal law jailing these women with hard labor. And for the men, they should learn to accommodate..
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Re: Lawyer Addresses Men Who Abandon Children Who Are Products Of Paternity Fraud by AndroBlaze: 7:48am On Oct 31, 2025
saphiere:
There should be a legal law jailing these men. And for the women, they should learn to stay faithful
If I was to pray that God will bless you with the most loveliest of sons and a corresponding woman that does this needful evil to him, maybe then your eyes would be clear.....

Anyway I wont. What you wrote was silly/witchcrafty and you know the proper order it is suppose to be.
Re: Lawyer Addresses Men Who Abandon Children Who Are Products Of Paternity Fraud by Dtruthspeaker: 10:52am On Oct 31, 2025
If only Leviticus 20:10 was in forced, would she have even said this?
Re: Lawyer Addresses Men Who Abandon Children Who Are Products Of Paternity Fraud by Jman06(m): 10:54am On Oct 31, 2025
Situations like this are really tough for men! Men love children alot and tend to bond more with them. So, having to unlove a loved child is really difficult. Let's just pray we don't find ourselves in that position, but in the event that it happens, I think the best thing is to adopt the child even while treating the woman's fackup. After all, people have been adopting and raising other people's children since the beginning of time. My mom adopted and raised two children abandoned at infancy, so it's no big deal provided the fund is there.
Re: Lawyer Addresses Men Who Abandon Children Who Are Products Of Paternity Fraud by saphiere(op): 10:55am On Oct 31, 2025
AndroBlaze:
If I was to pray that God will bless you with the most loveliest of sons and a corresponding woman that does this needful evil to him, maybe then your eyes would be clear.....

Anyway I wont. What you wrote was silly/witchcrafty and you know the proper order it is suppose to be.
So men should stay faithful and women get jail term?
Re: Lawyer Addresses Men Who Abandon Children Who Are Products Of Paternity Fraud by saphiere(op): 10:57am On Oct 31, 2025
Jman06:
Situations like this are really tough for men! Men love children alot and tend to bond more with them. So, having to unlove a loved child is really difficult. Let's just pray we don't find ourselves in that position, but in the event that it happens, I think the best thing is to adopt the child even while treating the woman's fackup. After all, people have been adopting and raising other people's children since the beginning of time. My mom adopted and raised two children abandoned at infancy, so it's no big deal provided the fund is there.
kiss
Re: Lawyer Addresses Men Who Abandon Children Who Are Products Of Paternity Fraud by Onegai(f): 11:32am On Oct 31, 2025
Ojuntana:
Is Chisom saying there's a moral obligation to raise an illegitimate child by a deceived father
What moral code is that?
Never heard of it
Is Chisom saying if after years of using and maintaining a car, you find out that it never belonged to you but was sold to you under fraudulent circumstances you should continue to use the car? Instead of telling the fraudster to return the car (child) back to the original owner?
Participating in a fraud makes you part of the fraud
Now that's a moral code right there!!
If Emeka brings home a 4 year old and tells his wife that the boy is his nephew, the wife cares for him for 8 years and then, Emeka confesses that the boy is his son from adultery, what moral code should his wife follow please?
Re: Lawyer Addresses Men Who Abandon Children Who Are Products Of Paternity Fraud by Talkisneeded(m): 11:35am On Oct 31, 2025
saphiere:
There should be a legal law jailing these men. And for the women, they should learn to stay faithful
You use to say things that represents a sane and functional person tho…
So I’m quite surprised with this your assertion
Re: Lawyer Addresses Men Who Abandon Children Who Are Products Of Paternity Fraud by Kobojunkie: 2:41pm On Oct 31, 2025
Jman06:
Situations like this are really tough for men! Men love children alot and tend to bond more with them. So, having to unlove a loved child is really difficult. Let's just pray we don't find ourselves in that position, but in the event that it happens, I think the best thing is to adopt the child even while treating the woman's fackup. After all, people have been adopting and raising other people's children since the beginning of time. My mom adopted and raised two children abandoned at infancy, so it's no big deal provided the fund is there.
Men love children yet the same men are notoriously known for abandoning their children the moment they abandon or break up and it the mothers of those children? undecided

Story, story?!! 🥱🥱
Re: Lawyer Addresses Men Who Abandon Children Who Are Products Of Paternity Fraud by tanigororo: 4:53pm On Oct 31, 2025
Onegai:
If Emeka brings home a 4 year old and tells his wife that the boy is his nephew, the wife cares for him for 8 years and then, Emeka confesses that the boy is his son from adultery, what moral code should his wife follow please?
She can pack out, or send the two (husband and son) packing.
Re: Lawyer Addresses Men Who Abandon Children Who Are Products Of Paternity Fraud by ManknowThyself(m): 6:17pm On Oct 31, 2025
If was to be her husband, tomorrow all my kids go for DNA test.

Only a fool accept that. If I want to raise other children that is not mine , I go donate to the fatherless and motherless homes.


Men never allow manipulation from this gender of our generation.
Re: Lawyer Addresses Men Who Abandon Children Who Are Products Of Paternity Fraud by Ojuntana: 10:23am On Nov 09, 2025
Onegai:
If Emeka brings home a 4 year old and tells his wife that the boy is his nephew, the wife cares for him for 8 years and then, Emeka confesses that the boy is his son from adultery, what moral code should his wife follow please?
Good morning
You have asked a simple question. You are probably looking at it from an emotional and sentimental angle which is why you think it's knotty.
The child is Emeka's which makes him a part of Emeka's family. As his child, he has the right to bear his father's name and be counted among his children. While Emeka deceived his wife, the fact is still that he never passed of the child as hers when it wasn't. Thus, Emeka has an obligation to own up to his deceit and apologize to his wife, then ensure that the child is properly assimilated into his family.
Comparing this scenario with a case in which a woman passes of an illegitimate child as her husband's is to totally miss the point of what it means to have a child. Having a child is a physical, mental, financial and social investment. Deceiving one to spend such huge investments on a child that was never his is very much akin to wasting away the life of the man. Such level of wickedness is unforgivable
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