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Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Michaelajah: 4:48pm On Nov 03, 2025
A man afraid of a woman
Very funny, some men are so weak
Very weak, I hate jeje men ehn....
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by marlow1962(m): 4:49pm On Nov 03, 2025
Person hit you multiple times and violently, but na you them carry go custody, lmao grin grin
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by franvincoop: 4:49pm On Nov 03, 2025
You register just today with this cock and bull, while using your other moniker to bash women.
Continue...
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Lovit(m): 4:49pm On Nov 03, 2025
You self go carry person wey pass you

No be relationship una dey do for that abroad

House wey I dey pay for?

ask for police escort to take your things and move elsewhere, before Raila Odinga pikin kpai you
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by prest(m): 4:51pm On Nov 03, 2025
Frankly, Kenya ladies for this uk 80% nah alcoholic, just run for your life
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by jaxxy(m): 4:52pm On Nov 03, 2025
She needs to go to rehab.
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by olabrad: 4:53pm On Nov 03, 2025
Bigdickmoney:
I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic

I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.
Tell the police to follow you to the house so that you can pack your things and leave for good
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by FameGlory(f):
Maybe u are with her so u can marry her and get British Citizenship in the long run.

This one you say she had been in UK for 20 years. She must already be a British Citizen.
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by ppogba: 4:57pm On Nov 03, 2025
You dey fall hand my guy.

E be like say you no complete your apprenticeship for Naija.

Ordinary Kenya babe dey dagbo you like dis?
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by EmperorIsaac(m): 5:03pm On Nov 03, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
You left Nigeria for the UK in search of greener pastures,but all of a sudden you've forgotten why you went there and abandoned all your dreams simply because of one banny who may lead you to your doom angry

Bro, you're a Nigerian and we Nigerians don't give up ....We're known for that.......Leave that house for her....In fact,leave that relationship cuz it seems she's a weapon fashioned against you .....no loose guard bro..
Never forget what took you there! I agree with you completely.
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by yewit37486: 5:07pm On Nov 03, 2025
DMCY:
Mugu stay there dey form lover boy till she lies against you to the police and you open your eyes waa to see welcome back to MMIA. grin
grin grin
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Db1234: 5:07pm On Nov 03, 2025
Your village people disgued as a girlfriend,brother run for your Life
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by dreamwords: 5:07pm On Nov 03, 2025
women dey make uk deport man, even if the man is innocent ,so be carefull
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by AfDapone: 5:08pm On Nov 03, 2025
You met her. A lady who smokes and drinks. She fVcks you like craze. You liked it. But now you are reciting the book of lamentations. just like our ladies, they fall for the bad guys, ignore the good guys, only to later come and start reciting from the book of lamentations. You should have left a long time ago but you are reasoning with your dEck.

Like somebody said

Db1234:
Your village people disgued as a girlfriend,brother run for your Life
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by odinga1of: 5:15pm On Nov 03, 2025
olax02:
Are you sure that you are a Naija guy? Cos I trust my Naija guy. You are there playing lover boy until she ki*ll you abi. You'd better be smart and use the Naija strategy to get rid of her.
The guy is a Ugandan or Kenyan.

Naija guy will not risk it and be following alcoholic up n down in UK
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by manuelkel(m): 5:16pm On Nov 03, 2025
DMCA:
This story is made up
Just look at d inconsistencies
Kind of a fictitious story. grin
People drop things online for engagements.
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by flexyrule(m): 5:17pm On Nov 03, 2025
Bigdickmoney:
I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic


2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody.
Taken into custody how?
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by nedekid: 5:18pm On Nov 03, 2025
Is it correct to say you are living with her? (her name is the one in the lease but you are the one paying is irrelevant).
Why not get a place of your own? How can you live in a woman's house and not expect abuse, you need connections to find such woman. Men are housing women and still complaining, imagine when woman is now housing a man.
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by flexyrule(m): 5:18pm On Nov 03, 2025
DMCA:
This story is made up
Just look at d inconsistencies
Bigdickmoney:
I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic


2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody.
This is the part that I didn't understand...
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by descarado: 5:18pm On Nov 03, 2025
No uk police will take you into custody when you are physically assaulted. None.
If you want to fabricate story, make it make sense.

What has this got to do with dbs?

What kind of cook and bull story be dis?

What brought me here for heaven's sake embarassed embarassed
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by socialmediaman: 5:20pm On Nov 03, 2025
This is a complex situation especially with the living arrangement. You need to talk to a lawyer and see how you can get yourself off the lease and move.
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by humberjade: 5:22pm On Nov 03, 2025
Kenyans are known fishes, they can drain a brewery. 😅
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by omooba969(m): 5:26pm On Nov 03, 2025
Why are you here telling us about your girl as if you only just knew this about her. If you're not enjoying the relationship anymore, just leave her and stop demonising the poor girl joor.

Nonsense and Buratai. 😏
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by New007: 5:28pm On Nov 03, 2025
Get sense. It may be painful but leave that house. Get your documents and critical properties and leave. Have the police follow you there. She could frame you and you'd be back in ojuelegba.
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Jman06(m): 5:31pm On Nov 03, 2025
Michaelajah:
A man afraid of a woman
Very funny, some men are so weak
Very weak, I hate jeje men ehn....
You've never met very strong ladies before. All women are not weak!
However, I guess the op is only restraining himself because he understands how the country he lives in works! In the UK and most western countries, men are the ones always trying to maintain peace in the house while their women are the aggressors. This is like a reversal of scenarios in some homes in Nigeria where the men are the abusers and the women are the victims .
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Chetas81(m): 5:31pm On Nov 03, 2025
WHO TOLD YOU THAT MONKEY CAN LIVE IN THE CITY, BEGIN TO PLANT TREES, MONKEY LIVES IN FOREST NOT CITY😀
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Belurved1(m): 5:32pm On Nov 03, 2025
So no be only nija girls bad.
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by oroje1(m): 5:33pm On Nov 03, 2025
All of una na really the same,like Eve like women,,always the bone in a man's neck...good ones dey sha o.like my wifey..
Jennyclay:
Nigerian women are too demanding, Nigerian women are this and that, foreign women are the best, bla bla bla undecided, all because you men don’t want to spend and take care of us.
now you have found your perfect match who is a foreigner and you’re still crying. undecided

Biko, remain in that relationship, till death do you both apart. undecided

You will cry. shior!!!
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Emmanuel909090: 5:40pm On Nov 03, 2025
Okoko must suffer..
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by LordReed(m): 5:41pm On Nov 03, 2025
Bigdickmoney:
I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic

I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.
Get your name off the contract, go rent somewhere else and leave the misery behind.
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by APOPTOSIS: 5:43pm On Nov 03, 2025
So what do you want us to do for you?
What exactly do you demand of us?🤷🏾🤷🏾
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