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I feel your pain and kind of passed through same scenario here in UK as well! kindly contact me for how to deal with it and most important, make sure you have enough video evidence of her confronting you without her consent as an evidence!

She is doing it because you are on her visa or you intends to right?

Michaelajah:
A man afraid of a woman
Very funny, some men are so weak
Very weak, I hate jeje men ehn....

My girlfriend always read my steppings, most highly intelligent, because in my journey no drama's

correctyourself:
Explain this to the police and let them escort you to the house, package you belongings and go.

But if you allow love control you, one day she would broke your head.

That lady needs serious help and treatment to overcome that habit which you can not render.

Even Your profile name self no show say u be gentleman o

This man is a disgrace who a Nigerian is.

You're lucky the lady hasn't done away with you.

Bigdickmoney:
I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic

I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.

The police was called to sort only you out.
The police has not restricted your access.
You are afraid to return.

Reading this you wonder if she is a police officer or has them on speed dial because the one thing you have not done is present your side to the police.

Is there something that you are not disclosing.

descarado:
No uk police will take you into custody when you are physically assaulted. None.
If you want to fabricate story, make it make sense.

What has this got to do with dbs?

What kind of cook and bull story be dis?

What brought me here for heaven's sake

Lol , that got me for a moment but had to allow it.

Bro, find another plan B.

You can't use an unstable person for visa.

She's toxic. Perhaps she's traumatised, while using the alcohol to escape reality.

Its too early for you to be a customer at the police station.

Get away while you can.

Bigdickmoney:
I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic

I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.

Oga dump her now! Instead of writing this long epistle seeking for people's opinion.

Bigdickmoney:
I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic

I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.

I wonder how you guys choose to cohabit with animals. Take the policemen to your house get your properties and flee from that jezebel before she ensures your deportation.
Someone has all these terrible traits so what are you doing with her? Because she probably offers free sex.
Flee before you regret your actions

Listen to yourself. See the kind of person you are dating.

NotOfThisWorld:
If she's an alcoholic and she's violent, why don't you break up and go your separate ways? Why're you afraid of going back to the house that you're paying for? You say you don't want to call the police again because you don't want anything to affect your dbs. What's dbs? Does that have anything to do with you getting papers there (you don't have papers?)? Or what's making you hesitant to call the police again? If your claims are true and you're innocent and have nothing you're hiding, then calling the police again, this time to have her removed from the property, shouldn't be a problem.

If you know what dbs is and how it will affect your future jobs, you will understand why he’s careful about it.

Best things just leave the relationship, buy na op know Wetin he Dey look for. Probably hoping for papers through the girl.

Bigdickmoney:
I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic

I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.

If you are so afraid do going.to the house, then don't go. Move on with your life, go.and pay for rent elsewhere, since you are the one paying.

Or have you not told us the full story?

Jman06:
You've never met very strong ladies before. All women are not weak!
However, I guess the op is only restraining himself because he understands how the country he lives in works! In the UK and most western countries, men are the ones always trying to maintain peace in the house while their women are the aggressors. This is like a reversal of scenarios in some homes in Nigeria where the men are the abusers and the women are the victims .

I can't let a woman rule me. In my home o....God forbid.

Just one year boom na girlfriend you achieved?

kpankpangolo:
What’s a dbs? You better find an escape route of your predicament before she deports you back to Nigeria from her actions.

A dbs is synonymous to police certificate in naija, if you have bad record, it will be difficult to get a job or some opportunities.

Go and get a protection order. But even at that, be careful ooooooo. That woman fit kpai u one day.

One day she will kill you under the influence of alcohol

olax02:
Thank God Nigeria is preparing to go to war with US. We need able men in the war front..

Ajeh seh!!!! From his choice of words, dem go sabi where to put am

Qualityoffer:
My bible tells me in Sirach 26:8 - A drunken woman (wife) is the same as rage; she won't hide her disgraceful conduct.

You're Catholic?

Bigdickmoney:
I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic

I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.

lol you go still enter that jail you’re afraid of if you don’t leave that girl 🤣

Bigdickmoney:
I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic

I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.

If up till now, you don't see yourself in a dangerous relationship then you are the problem here not the girl

A Kenyan girl for that matter, what actual made you to start dating her to the extent of living with her and becoming a Liability

You didn't behave like a Naija guy

If it's possible don't go back that's if you don't have any documents you will be needing, I advice just move on.. such is life my brother

Mariangeles:
You're Catholic?

Yes, I do identify as one; I was once an active one. Presently, however, I'm at best SBNR.

My bible in Deuteronomy 31:8 has already given me assurance because it says to me - Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the LORD will personally go ahead of you. He will be with you; he will neither fail you nor abandon you.

Nigerian girls get entitlement mentality, Nigerian girls are demanding, Nigerian girls are feminists, nigerian girls are olosho etc shebi foreign girls are the best na but same foreign girl chase you comot for the house wey you use your money rent...big shame on you bro.

descarado:
No uk police will take you into custody when you are physically assaulted. None.
If you want to fabricate story, make it make sense.

What has this got to do with dbs?

What kind of cook and bull story be dis?

What brought me here for heaven's sake

My bible has your type of person in mind when it says in 1 Timothy 6:4 - they are conceited and understand nothing. They have an unhealthy interest in controversies and quarrels about words that result in envy, strife, malicious talk, evil suspicions.

Person wey get head no get cap, person wey get cap no get head

Bigdickmoney:
I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic

I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.

This is not possible.

A Kenyan lady cannot behave like this.

It is Nigerian ladies home and abroad that are bad for dating and marriage.
Op,you are lying.


Team foreign ladies.

You never see anything.

Now na morning

There is something you are not telling us
You said she attacked you and yet you were the one the police took into custody
Your story doesn't add up

Bigdickmoney:
I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic

I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.

Ode.... Yeyenus, all this children, doing relationship s, what's the big deal leaving the apartment for her and go rent somewhere else, abi, shey dem tie your placenta join her bombom

Bigdickmoney:
I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic

I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.

Seize all her cards