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Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Bigdickmoney(op):
spiceadole:
This is not possible.

A Kenyan lady cannot behave like this.

It is Nigerian ladies home and abroad that are bad for dating and marriage.
Op,you are lying.


Never say never

She is Kenyan, what do I gain in lying


Team foreign ladies.

You never see anything.

Now na morning
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Bigdickmoney(op): 11:08pm On Nov 03, 2025
Jammythebless:
There is something you are not telling us
You said she attacked you and yet you were the one the police took into custody
Your story doesn't add up
Jammythebless:
There is something you are not telling us
You said she attacked you and yet you were the one the police took into custody
Your story doesn't add up
This is Uk bro. Women come first before a man.
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Bigdickmoney(op): 11:09pm On Nov 03, 2025
Careful4u:
I feel your pain and kind of passed through same scenario here in UK as well! kindly contact me for how to deal with it and most important, make sure you have enough video evidence of her confronting you without her consent as an evidence!

She is doing it because you are on her visa or you intends to right?
Thank you for your kind words how do I contact you please.
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Bigdickmoney(op): 11:11pm On Nov 03, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
You left Nigeria for the UK in search of greener pastures,but all of a sudden you've forgotten why you went there and abandoned all your dreams simply because of one banny who may lead you to your doom angry

Bro, you're a Nigerian and we Nigerians don't give up ....We're known for that.......Leave that house for her....In fact,leave that relationship cuz it seems she's a weapon fashioned against you .....no loose guard bro..
It’s not like that anyway. It’s not because of nanny part of the reason I Dey the relationship na because of visa
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Kobojunkie: 11:12pm On Nov 03, 2025
Bigdickmoney:
➜It’s not like that anyway. It’s not because of nanny part of the reason I Dey the relationship na because of visa
You dey gain from her and you come dey tell us say na she be bad person, abi? grin
Bigdickmoney:
➜This is Uk bro. Women come first before a man.
The other post was right in insisting that there is something you were not telling us, and it turns out you were just using the gal to get yourself a visa. grin
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Bigdickmoney(op): 11:16pm On Nov 03, 2025
olax02:
Are you sure that you are a Naija guy? Cos I trust my Naija guy. You are there playing lover boy until she ki*ll you abi. You'd better be smart and use the Naija strategy to get rid of her.
Are you in the UK
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Bigdickmoney(op): 11:17pm On Nov 03, 2025
Michaelajah:
A man afraid of a woman
Very funny, some men are so weak
Very weak, I hate jeje men ehn....
Do you leave abroad
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Bigdickmoney(op): 11:19pm On Nov 03, 2025
FameGlory:
Maybe u are with her so u can marry her and get British Citizenship in the long run.

This one you say she had been in UK for 20 years. She must already be a British Citizen.
You’re right but now I don’t think I can take that chance again
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Bigdickmoney(op): 11:26pm On Nov 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
You dey gain from her and you come dey tell us say na she be bad person, abi? grin
The other post was right in insisting that there is something you were not telling us, and it turns out you were just using the gal to get yourself a visa. grin
Kobojunkie:
You dey gain from her and you come dey tell us say na she be bad person, abi? grin
The other post was right in insisting that there is something you were not telling us, and it turns out you were just using the gal to get yourself a visa. grin
Kobojunkie:
You dey gain from her and you come dey tell us say na she be bad person, abi? grin
The other post was right in insisting that there is something you were not telling us, and it turns out you were just using the gal to get yourself a visa. grin
Not entirely true. The intention was not to use her to get visa at first.
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Bigdickmoney(op): 11:26pm On Nov 03, 2025
Careful4u:
I feel your pain and kind of passed through same scenario here in UK as well! kindly contact me for how to deal with it and most important, make sure you have enough video evidence of her confronting you without her consent as an evidence!

She is doing it because you are on her visa or you intends to right?
How do I contact you
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Bigdickmoney(op): 11:31pm On Nov 03, 2025
nedekid:
Is it correct to say you are living with her? (her name is the one in the lease but you are the one paying is irrelevant).
Why not get a place of your own? How can you live in a woman's house and not expect abuse, you need connections to find such woman. Men are housing women and still complaining, imagine when woman is now housing a man.
I own the house I just put her name on the contract.
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by LOVEGINO(m): 11:42pm On Nov 03, 2025
Hypnotise:
You’re the one paying rent but afraid to go back home, make she no beat you grin why not just install camera so police go get evidence. Also try learning karate and watch plenty action movies. Always stay guiding.
I just dey wanda say yeye men dey like dis walahi. Just imagine mummy's pet.
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by LOVEGINO(m): 11:43pm On Nov 03, 2025
Bigdickmoney:
I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic

I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.
give me her control. E get why my guy.
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Kobojunkie: 11:48pm On Nov 03, 2025
Bigdickmoney:
➜Not entirely true. The intention was not to use her to get visa at first.
It doesn't matter whether it was at first or not, so long as you have something you are looking to use her for, you don't get to come here and label her as the bad person like you did. Start opening up and telling the truth if you're truly seeking a solution. undecided
Bigdickmoney:
I own the house I just put her name on the contract.
First of all, the police, even in the UK, would not throw a man out of his house if he were a victim in an assault case. You came here and claimed otherwise. Why? undecided

Second, if you really own the place and are not guilty of assault, your best bet to getting the lady off your property is the police, but you already accused them of not following the law. So, are you certain you are ready to get the woman out of your life or not? huh
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Michaelajah: 12:01am On Nov 04, 2025
Bigdickmoney:
Do you leave abroad
even if l stayed in abroad, I will not allow a woman to maltreated me.if we are not good together we split
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by tubolancer(m): 12:58am On Nov 04, 2025
Bigdickmoney:
I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic

I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.
I hope your mama know what you are passing through. You know how many people you leave for Niger, continue....
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Vision101(m): 3:09am On Nov 04, 2025
correctyourself:
Explain this to the police and let them escort you to the house, package you belongings and go.

But if you allow love control you, one day she would broke your head.

That lady needs serious help and treatment to overcome that habit which you can not render.

Even Your profile name self no show say u be gentleman o grin
He used her for paper. That's all. He no fit leave her.
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Vision101(m): 3:12am On Nov 04, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
You left Nigeria for the UK in search of greener pastures,but all of a sudden you've forgotten why you went there and abandoned all your dreams simply because of one banny who may lead you to your doom angry

Bro, you're a Nigerian and we Nigerians don't give up ....We're known for that.......Leave that house for her....In fact,leave that relationship cuz it seems she's a weapon fashioned against you .....no loose guard bro..
He no fit because of paper. Na the lady dey cover him.
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Berankis: 5:51am On Nov 04, 2025
I won't encourage you to live alone if you don't want to. But why not go for Nigerian girl. Most especially, someone from your tribe. You see these things we down play are very important. Though, no relationship may be perfect but at least, save yourself some differences by settling for someone of same cultural background and other things can be worked on... Na wetin me I do and I no regret am till date.
I prefer Nigerians to any other people of this world. I go for my tribes' people first, if not available I go for the next group I love and then the last. I don't like white people and any other people for relationship matters.
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by Omalicious1: 6:32am On Nov 04, 2025
Bigdickmoney:
I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic

I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.
Another story of a weak man..smh
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by spiceadole(f): 8:03am On Nov 04, 2025
[quote author=Bigdickmoney post=137349937][/quote]Nigerian men have agreed on this platform that Nigerian ladies are the worst thing to happen to men worldwide.
And that foreign ladies are the trophies.
This, it is impossible to believe that a Kenyan lady who is also British can become a problem to a Nigerian man.

I live in the UK too for about 6 years now.
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by spiceadole(f): 8:08am On Nov 04, 2025
themanderon:
I wonder how you guys choose to cohabit with animals. Take the policemen to your house get your properties and flee from that jezebel before she ensures your deportation.
Someone has all these terrible traits so what are you doing with her? Because she probably offers free sex.
Flee before you regret your actions
She probably doesn't ask him for money unlike Nigerian ladies who are said to be money conscious and greedy.. making sex transactional.

Baba is enjoying free sex.
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by spiceadole(f): 8:12am On Nov 04, 2025
Berankis:
I won't encourage you to live alone if you don't want to. But why not go for Nigerian girl. Most especially, someone from your tribe. You see these things we down play are very important. Though, no relationship may be perfect but at least, save yourself some differences by settling for someone of same cultural background and other things can be worked on... Na wetin me I do and I no regret am till date.
I prefer Nigerians to any other people of this world. I go for my tribes' people first, if not available I go for the next group I love and then the last. I don't like white people and any other people for relationship matters.
But it's still your gender that demonize Nigerian ladies.. They say foreign ladies are better
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by sinola(m): 12:26pm On Nov 04, 2025
hmm! one man meat is another mans poision....see someones prayer point grin
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by rick1dude(f): 3:23pm On Nov 04, 2025
we the association of comment reader's gather here grin
Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by FameGlory(f): 6:16pm On Nov 05, 2025
Bigdickmoney:
You’re right but now I don’t think I can take that chance again
Then you have a choice.
British Citizenship or your Mental Health.
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