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My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by Careartrust(op): 5:42pm On Nov 05, 2025
My wife went to grind corn on 25th October. She then went to a nearby shop to buy half bag of water for the corn (#250) and later came back for another 3 satchets (#150), and she gave the man #500. She later needed more water and told the man to complete it one bag since he still has her #500 (cost of a bag of water). The man disagreed

Along the line, the man slapped my wife saying she's pointing at him. He beat her and his wife came and join him to beat my wife. They bite her and tore her clothes. It was the man's neighbor that gave my wife clothe to wear.

After my wife called me, I went to police station to request for the man's arrest.

At the end, the man denied that he didn't touch my wife. He turned it that it's woman to woman fight. It's only her wife that fought with my wife. We have been on it since then. I brought the person that grinded the corn to police and he testified that what my wife said was true. That it was the man the started beating my wife before his wife joined.

Yesterday, we went to DPO office. After hearing from the both parties again, he told the IPO to go to the scene and investigate what happened.

When the IPO came back, he said that from the information gathered, it was the woman that fought my wife. They took the case to court same yesterday and they turned it to woman to woman fight. The was adjourned.



What made me to create this post is that; this morning, my wife went to buy something. The neighbor of the man that beat my wife called her and asked her about the case. My wife told her that policeman was sent yesterday for investigation and he said that the people he asked confirmed that it was the man's wife that fought my wife. But the woman said no. That she's the one they met yesterday with another girl. They told the police that it was the man that beat my wife before his wife join.

How do I go in this case for the man to be charged for beating my wife.
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by Nobody: 5:46pm On Nov 05, 2025
Nigerian police and bribery 🫲…………🫱
But normally I think concrete evidence no Dey na why. Nigerian police fit fabricate as long as video or audio no Dey.
I pray make you get justice.





But normally if na me, anytime the wife sef pass my yard, we go do rematch. That one sure wella.
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by Nobody: 6:00pm On Nov 05, 2025
If any man beats my wife. Is police that will come and look for me.
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by brain54(m): 6:02pm On Nov 05, 2025
Remind me of what happened sometime ago...


I don't really know the Genesis of their disagreements or wahala o. But I saw this girl insult a guy in the area one time. She ended up slapping him and seizing his shirt, even tearing it.


The guy was calm allowing her to do everything. Saying he doesn't beat or fight women. And that he would respond at the right time but it's with her husband. After plenty noise they were separated and everyone went on their way.


Some weeks later on a Sunday. Bobo dressed up all nice and good going to church. Na so this other guy that was slapped by the girl appeared from nowhere and blocked his path. The way he beat that guy that day his nose started bleeding and his shirt stained with blood.

Innocent guy wey no know when e wife cause trouble o. Nobody ever believe say that guy go retailiate.

@spencerforbes na because of your comment I remember that story.


@ op e go hard make anything come out from this kind of case because police don dey sweep am under carpet like this. You seem like a gentleman wey no too like wahala but this case wan draw you out because honestly I understand how e be make man like you beat your wife make the matter go like that. Embarrassing no be lie.

But no go do something wey you go later regret Sha by taking laws into your hands!
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by Joeboypondeck(m): 6:18pm On Nov 05, 2025
Careartrust:
My wife went to grind corn on 25th October. She then went to a nearby shop to buy half bag of water for the corn (#250) and later came back for another 3 satchets (#150), and she gave the man #500. She later needed more water and told the man to complete it one bag since he still has her #500 (cost of a bag of water). The man disagreed

Along the line, the man slapped my wife saying she's pointing at him. He beat her and his wife came and join him to beat my wife. They bite her and tore her clothes. It was the man's neighbor that gave my wife clothe to wear.

After my wife called me, I went to police station to request for the man's arrest.

At the end, the man denied that he didn't touch my wife. He turned it that it's woman to woman fight. It's only her wife that fought with my wife. We have been on it since then. I brought the person that grinded the corn to police and he testified that what my wife said was true. That it was the man the started beating my wife before his wife joined.

Yesterday, we went to DPO office. After hearing from the both parties again, he told the IPO to go to the scene and investigate what happened.

When the IPO came back, he said that from the information gathered, it was the woman that fought my wife. They took the case to court same yesterday and they turned it to woman to woman fight. The was adjourned.



What made me to create this post is that; this morning, my wife went to buy something. The neighbor of the man that beat my wife called her and asked her about the case. My wife told her that policeman was sent yesterday for investigation and he said that the people he asked confirmed that it was the man's wife that fought my wife. But the woman said no. That she's the one they met yesterday with another girl. They told the police that it was the man that beat my wife before his wife join.

How do I go in this case for the man to be charged for beating my wife.
what's wrong with Nigerian like this

If na your wife beat the man nau

You no go come here come shalaye ooo
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by papiSNEH: 6:27pm On Nov 05, 2025
From my own view starting from the buying of water, it's not her first time grinding corn so she should have know the quantity of water needed, she for just buy full bag the remaining carry it home. instead of buying half bag then three sachet and now go back to tell the seller to round it up as one bag and wanting to collect change, the man no go gree cus selling by piece is at the man's gain and him go dey feel like say your wife wan guy am..

as for your side you self no try..person beat your wife, a man for that matter...na to mount there make you and am diggeram one on one..if e reach police make them settle una.. now story don get K-Leg... no be who first call police dey win case...

Thank God e no pass like this cus you fit don out of anger go hit the man and him go down story go come change to had i know...just take heart e don happen sorry to your wife make make una forgive and forget..
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by Nobody: 6:29pm On Nov 05, 2025
brain54:
Remind me of what happened sometime ago...


I don't really know the Genesis of their disagreements or wahala o. But I saw this girl insult a guy in the area one time. She ended up slapping him and seizing his shirt, even tearing it.


The guy was calm allowing her to do everything. Saying he doesn't beat or fight women. And that he would respond at the right time but it's with her husband. After plenty noise they were separated and everyone went on their way.


Some weeks later on a Sunday. Bobo dressed up all nice and good going to church. Na so this other guy that was slapped by the girl appeared from nowhere and blocked his path. The way he beat that guy that day his nose started bleeding and his shirt stained with blood.

Innocent guy wey no know when e wife cause trouble o. Nobody ever believe say that guy go retailiate.

@spencerforbes na because of your comment I remember that story.


@ op e go hard make anything come out from this kind of case because police don dey sweep am under carpet like this. You seem like a gentleman wey no too like wahala but this case wan draw you out because honestly I understand how e be make man like you beat your wife make the matter go like that. Embarrassing no be lie.

But no go do something wey you go later regret Sha by taking laws into your hands!
Na true you talk because I be dat kind person. I no too big but for place of work or house, dem no Dey cross my boundary. I just like respect and boundary. @OP try comfort your wife because automatically she go feel down.

Before she tell you, she go Dey expect reaction and e no good make dem see you finish for compound. So if there’s anyway you fit resolve am without violence, e Dey perfect. Because if you let am slide like that, your wife go lose confidence in your protection and people for compound or street go see you finish.

Next time fit no Dey because by then your wife and children no go Dey safe and street no Dey smile on weak men.
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by correctyourself(m): 8:21pm On Nov 05, 2025
Though I don't support man beating wife! This matter I have feelings that your wife may have passed her boundaries in terms of words of mouth , and for the man's wife to join fighting her fellow married woman, it means they may not have been able to endure.

I have seen where in the morning were going to work, get to bustop saw a woman with a baby on her back arguing with Bike-Man , at a point people was like supporting her being married woman, before you know it she slapped the Bike-Man and the Man retaliate and She started crying.

Infact I became cold and angry about the whole issue, asking myself, why can't that Married Woman talk with mouth and allowed people to settle the matter instead of slapping and she ended up crying that morning, this is a lady that left home for work.

We should learn to withdraw when things are getting out of hand, please.
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by Nobody: 8:29pm On Nov 05, 2025
correctyourself:
Though I don't support man beating wife! This matter I have feelings that your wife may have passed her boundaries in terms of words of mouth , and for the man's wife to join fighting her fellow married woman, it means they may not have been able to endure.

I have seen where in the morning were going to work, get to bustop saw a woman with a baby on her back arguing with Bike-Man at a point people was like supporting her being married woman, before you know it she slapped the Bike-Man and the Man retaliate and She started crying.

Infact I became cold and angry about the whole the issue, asking myself, why can't that Married Woman talk with mouth and allowed people to settle the matter instead of slapping and she ended up crying that morning, this is a lady that left home for work.

We should learn to withdraw when things are getting out of hand, please.
Very correct, I’ve seen where a lady slapped a young man hustling (he was selling drinks in the sun) and instead of passerby to caution the lady; they were even planning to beat the man because he objected and I kept wondering- why the sentiment?
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by gift2xl: 9:04pm On Nov 05, 2025
The government I belong to, I don't fight, they fight for me. Forgive and move on.
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by Chummynoni(m): 10:15pm On Nov 05, 2025
I don't support a man beating a woman because they are not as strong as us , but a woman too shouldn't pass her boundary . @OP Now, put yourself in the man' shoe , would you be happy if someone is buying purewater from you that way? . For the man to beat your wife , she must have said something she shouldn't have said . Because you didn't train your wife at home, someone else did it for you . Tho , this my assertion doesn't negate the fact that the woman-beater is a phool . Don't retaliate , just die the matter and move on . Caution your wife too to mind the way she talks .. peace*
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by ExudeLoveToAll: 2:14am On Nov 06, 2025
correctyourself:
Though I don't support man beating wife! This matter I have feelings that your wife may have passed her boundaries in terms of words of mouth , and for the man's wife to join fighting her fellow married woman, it means they may not have been able to endure.

I have seen where in the morning were going to work, get to bustop saw a woman with a baby on her back arguing with Bike-Man , at a point people was like supporting her being married woman, before you know it she slapped the Bike-Man and the Man retaliate and She started crying.

Infact I became cold and angry about the whole issue, asking myself, why can't that Married Woman talk with mouth and allowed people to settle the matter instead of slapping and she ended up crying that morning, this is a lady that left home for work.

We should learn to withdraw when things are getting out of hand, please.
Sometimes when i see men dying for a lady because if her testimony i laugh because most men do know women. I am someone who don't believe when women cry at a glance, i usually have zero baise until I personally do my own investigations. The moment the lady is guilty I'm off tha situation but if the reverse is the case i use the laws of the land to fight nit never ever with mu fist. Most times the culprit will want me to use my fist . Where i get worried is when men act just because of testimony from one end(their woman), you go fight tire for this life.
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by Kaczynski: 2:24am On Nov 06, 2025
no man beat your wife



all i see here is a case of two women fighting and her husband interfered in the fight maybe trying to seperate them
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by BigYash: 6:52am On Nov 06, 2025
You should know that police doesn't solve issues like this, except you are a politician.

Na why I like area boyz treatment. Just like that guy said,na me police go dey find. Las las e go turn two fighting case ,just as they are telling you now..
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by Nobody: 7:54am On Nov 06, 2025
That's why it's good, as a gentleman in Nigeria, to know rough area guys...the small N1k, N2k dash will count for something one day.

Even if the woman was at fault, beating her was a direct disrespect to her husband. It's not as if she was a stranger. Report her to her husband, but no, na beating.


BigYash:
You should know that police doesn't solve issues like this, except you are a politician.

Na why I like area boyz treatment. Just like that guy said,na me police go dey find. Las las e go turn two fighting case ,just as they are telling you now..
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by Babinski: 9:01am On Nov 06, 2025
Careartrust:
My wife went to grind corn on 25th October. She then went to a nearby shop to buy half bag of water for the corn (#250) and later came back for another 3 satchets (#150), and she gave the man #500. She later needed more water and told the man to complete it one bag since he still has her #500 (cost of a bag of water). The man disagreed

Along the line, the man slapped my wife saying she's pointing at him. He beat her and his wife came and join him to beat my wife. They bite her and tore her clothes. It was the man's neighbor that gave my wife clothe to wear.

After my wife called me, I went to police station to request for the man's arrest.

At the end, the man denied that he didn't touch my wife. He turned it that it's woman to woman fight. It's only her wife that fought with my wife. We have been on it since then. I brought the person that grinded the corn to police and he testified that what my wife said was true. That it was the man the started beating my wife before his wife joined.

Yesterday, we went to DPO office. After hearing from the both parties again, he told the IPO to go to the scene and investigate what happened.

When the IPO came back, he said that from the information gathered, it was the woman that fought my wife. They took the case to court same yesterday and they turned it to woman to woman fight. The was adjourned.



What made me to create this post is that; this morning, my wife went to buy something. The neighbor of the man that beat my wife called her and asked her about the case. My wife told her that policeman was sent yesterday for investigation and he said that the people he asked confirmed that it was the man's wife that fought my wife. But the woman said no. That she's the one they met yesterday with another girl. They told the police that it was the man that beat my wife before his wife join.

How do I go in this case for the man to be charged for beating my wife.
Record several people from your neighborhood stating that the man first beat your wife before the wife joined. Let them state that it is the truth and they are volunteering the information without any threat or coercion. If possible, get them to make written and signed statements as well. Then package all the evidence in copies and show the DPO. If possible, get a lawyer to follow you. Evidence is what matter in court.
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by TheWolfen(m): 9:08am On Nov 06, 2025
Women get sharp mouth.
But that is still not an excuse to beat either your wife or another man's wife.
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by Sophiemama: 12:28pm On Nov 06, 2025
BigYash:
You should know that police doesn't solve issues like this, except you are a politician.

Na why I like area boyz treatment. Just like that guy said,na me police go dey find. Las las e go turn two fighting case ,just as they are telling you now..
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by NwaAmaikpe: 12:40pm On Nov 06, 2025
shocked



The same woman you are arresting a man for will call you a weakling in the future for involving the police.

Use your brain,

She has been beaten, it is in the past, move on.
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by kingthreat(m): 1:20pm On Nov 06, 2025
Did your wife sustain any major injury??
If she didn't, move on. The wife of the other man was smart enough to intervene to make it a woman to woman fight. That wife is indeed a good wife.
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by IamAsiri: 4:24pm On Nov 06, 2025
Kaczynski:
no man beat your wife



all i see here is a case of two women fighting and her husband interfered in the fight maybe trying to seperate them
And you were there? You even sabi pass the eyewitnesses?
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by MiamiLord: 7:55am On Nov 07, 2025
One thing men hate is a woman disrespecting them in public.
Your wife was insulting him and pointing fingers at him in public...that's very wrong and rude of her.

If the man should beat your wife...he will injure her...his wife intervened and beat up your wife instead.

Just caution your wife and allow the matter to die....i know you are pushing the case so that your wife will not see you as a coward.
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by Christlike01: 3:09pm On Nov 07, 2025
Careartrust:
My wife went to grind corn on 25th October. She then went to a nearby shop to buy half bag of water for the corn (#250) and later came back for another 3 satchets (#150), and she gave the man #500. She later needed more water and told the man to complete it one bag since he still has her #500 (cost of a bag of water). The man disagreed

Along the line, the man slapped my wife saying she's pointing at him. He beat her and his wife came and join him to beat my wife. They bite her and tore her clothes. It was the man's neighbor that gave my wife clothe to wear.

After my wife called me, I went to police station to request for the man's arrest.

At the end, the man denied that he didn't touch my wife. He turned it that it's woman to woman fight. It's only her wife that fought with my wife. We have been on it since then. I brought the person that grinded the corn to police and he testified that what my wife said was true. That it was the man the started beating my wife before his wife joined.

Yesterday, we went to DPO office. After hearing from the both parties again, he told the IPO to go to the scene and investigate what happened.

When the IPO came back, he said that from the information gathered, it was the woman that fought my wife. They took the case to court same yesterday and they turned it to woman to woman fight. The was adjourned.



What made me to create this post is that; this morning, my wife went to buy something. The neighbor of the man that beat my wife called her and asked her about the case. My wife told her that policeman was sent yesterday for investigation and he said that the people he asked confirmed that it was the man's wife that fought my wife. But the woman said no. That she's the one they met yesterday with another girl. They told the police that it was the man that beat my wife before his wife join.

How do I go in this case for the man to be charged for beating my wife.
Your ego has been bruised! Regardless of what your wife might have done,no other man has any right to lay a hand on her. What to do depends on the kind of person you are — to fight the man and restore your bruised ego or let go of the matter. I know most women have this toxic, ferocious mouth,but I hate men who have the courage to beat another man's wife. Trust me,in another clime,the man that beat your wife would be walking around with some assistance now — crippled!
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by Nobody: 9:59pm On Nov 07, 2025
Careartrust:
My wife went to grind corn on 25th October. She then went to a nearby shop to buy half bag of water for the corn (#250) and later came back for another 3 satchets (#150), and she gave the man #500. She later needed more water and told the man to complete it one bag since he still has her #500 (cost of a bag of water). The man disagreed

Along the line, the man slapped my wife saying she's pointing at him. He beat her and his wife came and join him to beat my wife. They bite her and tore her clothes. It was the man's neighbor that gave my wife clothe to wear.

After my wife called me, I went to police station to request for the man's arrest.

At the end, the man denied that he didn't touch my wife. He turned it that it's woman to woman fight. It's only her wife that fought with my wife. We have been on it since then. I brought the person that grinded the corn to police and he testified that what my wife said was true. That it was the man the started beating my wife before his wife joined.

Yesterday, we went to DPO office. After hearing from the both parties again, he told the IPO to go to the scene and investigate what happened.

When the IPO came back, he said that from the information gathered, it was the woman that fought my wife. They took the case to court same yesterday and they turned it to woman to woman fight. The was adjourned.



What made me to create this post is that; this morning, my wife went to buy something. The neighbor of the man that beat my wife called her and asked her about the case. My wife told her that policeman was sent yesterday for investigation and he said that the people he asked confirmed that it was the man's wife that fought my wife. But the woman said no. That she's the one they met yesterday with another girl. They told the police that it was the man that beat my wife before his wife join.

How do I go in this case for the man to be charged for beating my wife.
A man beat your wife and you went to police station to do what? Beat the living hell out of that ni**a.
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by brain54(m): 10:10pm On Nov 07, 2025
Jamahyel:
A man beat your wife and you went to police station to do what? Beat the living hell out of that ni**a.
So that dem go beat am join the wife abi...?

No be everybody get power for fight na. Life na sense o!
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by Cum4me(m): 7:28am On Nov 09, 2025
Oga let the case rest your wife should avoid them. Maybe your wife might have insulted the man before his wife interfere. Sorry about the abuse but let it slide.
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by ozo13(m):
papiSNEH:
From my own view starting from the buying of water, it's not her first time grinding corn so she should have know the quantity of water needed, she for just buy full bag the remaining carry it home. instead of buying half bag then three sachet and now go back to tell the seller to round it up as one bag and wanting to collect change, the man no go gree cus selling by piece is at the man's gain and him go dey feel like say your wife wan guy am..

as for your side you self no try..person beat your wife, a man for that matter...na to mount there make you and am diggeram one on one..if e reach police make them settle una.. now story don get K-Leg... no be who first call police dey win case...

Thank God e no pass like this cus you fit don out of anger go hit the man and him go down story go come change to had i know...just take heart e don happen sorry to your wife make make una forgive and forget..
I like ur analysis.most people Sha wan to be the one to gain from every transaction.she felt the number she got will be enough and from her calculations she would gain from such transactions. Fast forward , when she realized it wasn't going to be enough, she quickly want to use another strategy so that she would still gain from it. No be every marketer dey allow such kind of people use them all the time.
Oga poster , try and ensure u caution ur wife.no be everything person go think say em wise. By doing such , one would be saving his family from a lot of unnecessary wahala.
Again u didn't tell us what ur wife actually told the man to have made him angry resulting to the altercation.
Like one guy like that whose wife slapped another woman and in an attempt to settle them , the woman confessed to have slapped the other one but the yeye troublesome man was saying the wife f*cked up to have agreed she slapped her instead to cautioning his wife not to do such next time. Fast forward to when same woman delivered, Mrs slapper went to greet the one she slapped in her family house, and started narrating how their house was dirty.I just knew I was dealing with a troublesome family .
If couples caution each other against making trouble outside, one would be saving a lot of unnecessary wahala outside. Even when u clearly know the other parties is at fault
Re: My Wife Case With A Man That Beat Her. How Can I Get Justice. by allen113: 7:23pm On Nov 10, 2025
Op don't mind the people telling to go and fight the man, what if he beats you too. It's good you reported the matter to the police let them handle it, atleast money go comot for the man pocket him go feel am too. If you get small money push the matter go court so by the time him spend that him small profit him dey make for him business next time him go know say no be strength dem they use kill mosquito way they for blokos.
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