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I didn't want to watch the video because I don't fancy watching people cry. But what I noticed is that she has placed her UK dream above her marriage. All her cries is not about separation or leaving her husband but about her imminent eviction from the UK.
I also seem to have heard the sound of a child in the video, so I think they have kids together. If it's not infidelity, I don't support men throwing their wives out even though I know women can be brutal sometimes, but for the sake of the family's togetherness (the children), men should be more patient.
The mentality of a woman is never the same as with a man.
I hope she gets the help she wants, Nigeria is currently not the best place to seek refuge right now. Everywhere is currently tensed up here now, not the best place to relocate to right now.

I'll tell u to listen to the other side of the story...find out what really went down from the second side of the story

GUNITGuy:
Even US laws ..
They're trying to change to Patriarchal System that was in both Europe and America ...
Fall in family values in the name of women liberation and empowerment has caused a whole lot of problems in which women never take responsibility despite equality ...
Asians are doing better because they still uphold Patriarchy ...
Finally, War is likely coming and it's not going to be business as usual....An serious economic downturn could hit Europe and America any time soon with far reaching consequences because of de-dollarisation..

Hmmm. Men don't have issues with women rather women have issues with there ambitions.

My Uncle was sleek about his. He sold all his assets in UK and relocated back to Nigeria. The wife couldn't go back to UK. The kids eventually schooled here but he kept a window open for the kids to study/relocate overseas.

He divorced the wife who ran through men like whisky in a bottle. The man runs a Nail production factory and doing very well.

According to him it took some years before the kids came to understand why he did what he did back then.

Despite the above there are good women out there too.

Berankis:
I didn't want to watch the video because I don't fancy watching people cry. But what I noticed is that she has placed her UK dream above her marriage. All her cries is not about separation or leaving her husband but about her imminent eviction from the UK.
I also seem to have heard the sound of a child in the video, so I think they have kids together. If it's not infidelity, I don't support men throwing their wives out even though I know women can be brutal sometimes, but for the sake of the family's togetherness (the children), men should be more patient.
The mentality of a woman is never the same as with a man.
I hope she gets the help she wants, Nigeria is currently not the best place to seek refuge right now. Everywhere is currently tensed up here now, not the best place to relocate to right now.

The children will be alright but the man will be miserable for life if he doesn't take that right decision now.

This kins of woman will be cruel to the husband and still turn the children against him...same children you are asking the man to sacrifice his happiness for. I have seen this happen to older men. Prioritise your sanity and peace of mind. The children will be fine

Oblongata:
It’s content creation. The new UK law, if you divorce your wife/husband, na both of you must go back to your country👍

If we say make you Show us the link to the new law now...shey u no go vex??

promami:
The lady has touched that guy in a dangerous place and the guy took precaution.

When she’s asked to explain she’ll probably say: “I only…”

Trying to downplay the seriousness of whatever crimes she committed against the guy.

“The man I call my husband “ - Red flag

Your husband didn’t just wake up and withdraw his certificate of sponsorship. There must be a reason for him to do so. What did you do that resulted in him taking that hard stance.

One chilled natural glass of Orange juice for the man He's a Sharp man who has foreseen the future.

nedekid:
Lawyer to advice that what? The man has reused himself from her sponsorship simple, it means the basis for her stay in the UK is no longer viable, she has to return to naija. Another sicker can wife her and sponsor her again, hopefully she will have sense next time.

An immigration lawyer to be precise but maybe she has some lessons to learn in Nigeria aswell.

thomas2024:
Capt’n Save A’ OWE🥳

Capt’n save a life not to return back to Nigeria

This is advert stunt if not why displaying the website address on such a video. It's all about marketing and attention grabbing. Nice job!

Play me the cassette.

You guys should wait and hear the second side of the story only then will you all be shocked

Young woman what did you do that provoked your husband to take such action, tell us the truth first?

Her opening statement says it all
The "person" I "called" my husband.....
That's entirely a bad grammar, height of disregard and disrespect 😡😡😡. Never fall for her tears. Never!
At the peak of such deceptive tears, Is the beginning of lies, and dishonesty.
Finally, what's wrong with going back to Nigeria?
Is that not your ancestral home?

Chucks13:
Young woman what did you do that provoked your husband to take such action, tell us the truth first?

They never respond to such.
They use tears to brainwash the weak, but the whites now know better. More awareness!

Let her come home

iLoveYouToo:
When she’s asked to explain she’ll probably say: “I only…”

Trying to downplay the seriousness of whatever crimes she committed against the guy.

“The man I call my husband “ - Red flag

Exactly

EvergreenDiarie:
A UK-based Nigerian lady breaks down in uncontrollable tears 😭 after her husband allegedly removed her from his Certificate of Sponsorship. 🇬🇧💔

In this emotional video, she recounts how her dream life in the UK suddenly turned into a nightmare — losing not just her spousal sponsorship, but also her residency rights and security. Many Nigerians in the diaspora are reacting, calling it a painful reminder of how love, immigration, and power can collide.

💬 What do you think — was he justified or heartless?
📍Watch, share, and join the conversation.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I_Cgqn7Qt8g

sorry madam for your crocodile tears 😭..
I know there is no smoke without 🔥 ...
Your husband can't just wake up one morning and act cruel to you by removing...
You must have actually wronged him and he warned and warned you ..
But U did not change...

What did you do to him?

When a man makes money he thinks of spending it on his wife but when a woman makes money she feels she doesn't need a man.

For the man to do that it means the woman is not a good person

Madam, what did you do to the man?
The fact that he warned you before removing your name tells much. He gave you opportunity to change whatever you were doing to anger him but you refused.

The moment most Nigerian wives get to abroad, they turn to something else. Go and sturdy the Indians and how they maintain their families even when they are abroad.
Anyways, you will be fine laslas. Meanwhile, 'husband' has taken his decision, please live with it or leave the UK.

Stayingalive:
oga me and you were not there.... we could as well cook up some assumption for the lady too... make we rest small

What the lady did must be very bad, no way to twist it to her advantage ...hence she didnt bother mentioning it . If it was something not too bad or something she can deny she would have mentioned it and twisted it. Try dey decode.

Hisroyalbadmeat:
As a woman for this life, after sense and degree, try get breast and yansh,E get why?

Money nko??

Yea,to avoid pending disaster

promami:
The lady has touched that guy in a dangerous place and the guy took precaution.

EvergreenDiarie:
A UK-based Nigerian lady breaks down in uncontrollable tears 😭 after her husband allegedly removed her from his Certificate of Sponsorship. 🇬🇧💔

In this emotional video, she recounts how her dream life in the UK suddenly turned into a nightmare — losing not just her spousal sponsorship, but also her residency rights and security. Many Nigerians in the diaspora are reacting, calling it a painful reminder of how love, immigration, and power can collide.

💬 What do you think — was he justified or heartless?
📍Watch, share, and join the conversation.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I_Cgqn7Qt8g

There’s no smoke without fire, no man want to be in a toxic relationship 💯💯

Must they cry on social media? So make we do wetin for her now? Beat the man or sue him on her behalf?

If you had ask her they will say UK is not worth it and it's better to stay back in Nigerian and she will advice people not to come Now you can come back to Nigeria she is now crying

Hypnotise:
It’s quite sad, she’ll be passing through serious psychological and emotional torture with absolutely no one to help her. My two cents will be to contact marginalised minority associations and to get a lawyers advice.

Go and hide your pathetic self with this irrelevant emotion

drsibz66:
What the lady did must be very bad, no way to twist it to her advantage ...hence she didnt bother mentioning it . If it was something not too bad or something she can deny she would have mentioned it and twisted it. Try dey decode.

I am not naive to figure out she didn’t mention what the issue was and it was like she was looking for online attention but then you wrote a lot for a person who know practically knows nothing about her as well. That is my point

You even went as far as hailing the husband hahahaha…. Or could it be you’re the husband brother lol

Something wey you nor know learn to talk small until you know better

Stayingalive:
oga me and you were not there.... we could as well cook up some assumption for the lady too... make we rest small

No doubt.... I cooked one for the man... gas on low. Why don't you cook one for the woman? .... must I cook both rice and stew?