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We live in cool and quite place, so recently a group of boys that are into cultism relocated to our place, I was brought up in a godly family, and don't follow or join cult, they have been disturbing my life with, boy find us 1k, even when I no get, boy you dey Bleep up, U be juu man, etc.

I am really tired of their bully. I am a calm and quiet person and I don't like rough life, these guys will smoke and shout till night, I am afraid of reporting this to security agency, because I thought they might come after me if they discover I reported them.

So what can I do in this situation?

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Please, stop giving them anything.

See if you can report to the police without disclosing your identity.

Importantly, plan to relocate ASAP.

Those boys are subhumans with no brain in their skulls.... living close to them exposes you to all sorts of risks.

Relocate from there to another place.

Emma513:
We live in cool and quite place, so recently a group of boys that are into cultist relocate to our place, I was brought up in a godly family, and don't follow or join cult, the have been disturbing my life with, boy find us 1k, even when I no get, boy you dey Bleep up, U be juu man, etc, I am really tired of there bully I am a calm and quiet person and I don't like rough life, this guys will smoke and shout till night, I am afraid of reporting this to security agency, because I thought they might come after me if they discover I reported them, so what can I do in this situation

Relocate or if you have someone close prolly a family member or friend in the army report them

Relocate if you can. That's the best option

Just as people had advice above, please if you feel insecure kindly relocate

Boy how often do u roll with them?
Do u smoke with them ?
What lead to those demanding from dem ?
You breached a code which is minding my business at first and it seems like u have submitted to dem already hmmm soon they go carry u go initiation.
Pack out or set strong boundaries.
Report to nearest police station just in case.

Emma513:
We live in cool and quite place, so recently a group of boys that are into cultist relocate to our place, I was brought up in a godly family, and don't follow or join cult, the have been disturbing my life with, boy find us 1k, even when I no get, boy you dey Bleep up, U be juu man, etc, I am really tired of there bully I am a calm and quiet person and I don't like rough life, this guys will smoke and shout till night, I am afraid of reporting this to security agency, because I thought they might come after me if they discover I reported them, so what can I do in this situation

Whose house are they living in, who is the Landlord, does he know that he rented his place to such men?

Can you approach any older neighbors to meet with the landlord and warn him that people will soon go and report his tenants to police and he will enter wahala once police has to come and raid the place.

You know Nigerians are fearful, so this should work on getting them evicted

Don’t report to police, doing such just put you at risk. Nigerian police work for money, not to protect your life.

Relocate ASAP, like tonight.

When dealing with humans, have one thing in mind. No one has a monopoly of evil.

You see why billionaires and presidents move in huge security envoy because they understand that we are all equal in the execution of evil.

Billionaires fit lock you for jail or torment you with their connections, but you fit kill them if you grab their neck or pay a tout 50k to get close enough and shoot.

Being right, or refusal to play their game is not a solution. You can’t reason with people that sees cultism as a way of life. They are the lowest in human IQ. The only solution is distance, like far distance.

Relocate ASAP

Get an elder like your father, mother or brother to them for proper them

pansophist:
Don’t report to police, doing such just put you at risk. Nigerian police work for money, not to protect your life.

Relocate ASAP, like tonight.

When dealing with humans, have one thing in mind. No one has a monopoly of evil.

You see why billionaires and presidents move in huge security envoy because they understand that they we are all equal in the execution of evil.

Being right, or refusal to play their game is not a solution. You can’t reason with people that sees cultism as a way of life. They are the lowest in human IQ. The only solution is distance, like far distance.

Relocate ASAP

he should relocate because of some low lives?
Do you even consider that he might be too young for that and can not afford relocating now?
So what happens when he relocates and a group of low lives start bugging him again?
Another relocating?
The kind advice una dy give sometimes sef.

@op….stop giving them money
Report them to the security agencies or have a senior bros warn them…:they are mad

How exactly are we supposed to advise you

First, focus on your safety, avoid confrontation and don’t give them any reason to target you further. Try to document everything discreetly, like when and what they say or do. If possible, seek help from trusted neighbors, family members, or community leaders who can support you or intervene. You can also report to the police or local security quietly, maybe through someone you trust, so they know what’s happening without exposing you directly. Avoid walking alone at night, keep your phone charged, and stay connected with people who can respond quickly in an emergency. The key is to protect yourself first, then involve authorities safely so the harassment can stop.

Bro you gats use your brain o...no be everything you carry come nairaland

You just have to maintain your confidence. No send their papa, them no fit do you anything. But you don't make it so obvious.
You go still relate with them man-to-man, you no be street normally?
You sef go relate with them according to street level, you don't need to be a cultist, you already a Naija boy .
If you get money, once in a while you give them, if you no get let them know say you no get! No long stories and no fear them and no need of reporting them. Them full my area for here too, I just know how I dey handle them, I don't see them as a problem.

if you cant win them join them.

join the judges bro......Amici

i drop you a mail

Stand your ground. Give them if you have, if you don't have turn them down with your full chest, don't be a pussy

You first need to join the NAF, then when you are done you come and open another trend and I will advise you further

Never, Never join them, never cave in, they are men like you. All of them have fear too because they are mortals.

Anything you do, make sure you don't succumb to joining them, what they are doing to you is called suffocation. by pressuring you, you will join them. Once you join, you have lost your peace.
Better to be a Ju than to be a strong man. No price no pay. Say no to cultism. We have seen 99 wetin be 100.

Tell them you have kidney disease

Na you cause this issue. Anytime you see boys gather, dont hail them, bone face, dey your dey. If them asked for money, just say you no get.

For now, avoid crossing path with them. Last question, you no get work? If you go work in the morning and come in evening, how come you and boys dey chat

The Lord is good
All the time. He shows mercies to his people's

They are completely right... You are a Total Juu Man..

You don't belong anywhere, that is why they keep harassing you..

The way they harass you, is that how they harass the Jehovah's Witness or Scripture Union disciples in your vicinity ?

They see those ones as belonging to the Church...

Do they harass the Young Muslim disciple in your neighborhood like that ?

You are friendly with them that is why they always ask you for 1k...

You are neither here nor there.

If you don't want to join cult, then be a good Christian and let them see that ... This one is a young pastor..

Be a good Muslim disciple and let them see that this one is a potential Imam

I bet you... They will leave you alone

But when you are too cozy with them without belonging to their inner circle, then get ready to either join them or pay constantly for their "protection"

Back then in school, dem nor burn any cultist well to harass me

because dem know say I stand for Jesus Christ....

So you better take a Stand now

Emma513:
We live in cool and quite place, so recently a group of boys that are into cultism relocated to our place, I was brought up in a godly family, and don't follow or join cult, they have been disturbing my life with, boy find us 1k, even when I no get, boy you dey Bleep up, U be juu man, etc.

I am really tired of their bully. I am a calm and quiet person and I don't like rough life, these guys will smoke and shout till night, I am afraid of reporting this to security agency, because I thought they might come after me if they discover I reported them.

So what can I do in this situation?

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Stop talking to them. Don't associate with them for any reason. Mind your business

We live in cool and quite place, so recently a group of boys that are into cultism relocated to our place, I was brought up in a godly family, and don't follow or join cult, they have been disturbing my life with, boy find us 1k, even when I no get, boy

Emma513:
We live in cool and quite place, so recently a group of boys that are into cultism relocated to our place, I was brought up in a godly family, and don't follow or join cult, they have been disturbing my life with, boy find us 1k, even when I no get, boy you dey Bleep up, U be juu man, etc.

I am really tired of their bully. I am a calm and quiet person and I don't like rough life, these guys will smoke and shout till night, I am afraid of reporting this to security agency, because I thought they might come after me if they discover I reported them.

So what can I do in this situation?

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You're at a position to be a force for good on them.

Firstly, begin modelling a better life style before them.

Invite them to your church or find someone within your church,I'm assuming your a born again; take the person along with you to invite them to your youth programs.
In no time, they are transformed, or they will avoid you.
You wield a great influence over them; you don't just know it yet.Get to work now!

Don't relocate, write a petition to the commissioner of police ,copy the DPO of the nearest Police station and make sure you give a detailed and verifiable narration of their activities in the area. add Photos of the vagabonds and locations where they can be found too.
You can add a little salt and pepper, for instance they have turned the neighborhood into a drug den.theyre making life unbearable for residents,people are living in fear etc
The DPO will do the needful ASAP before a query comes from the CP.
Bet me it won't take up to 1 week before they're nabbed.

Ubanz:
Don't relocate, write a petition to the commissioner of police ,copy the DPO of the nearest Police station and make sure you give a detailed and verifiable narration of their activities in the area. add Photos of the vagabonds and locations where they can be found too.
You can add a little salt and pepper, for instance they have turned the neighborhood into a drug den.theyre making life unbearable for residents,people are living in fear etc
The DPO will do the needful ASAP before a query comes from the CP.
Bet me it won't take up to 1 week before they're nabbed.

@Op, follow this advice. I know a very wise advice when I see one. You can also report discreetly on Twitter. You can create a fake account just for that purpose.

Find the nearest military formation around and report them.

TONYE001:
Please, stop giving them anything.

See if you can report to the police without disclosing your identity.

Importantly, plan to relocate ASAP.

Those boys are subhumans with no brain in their skulls.... living close to them exposes you to all sorts of risks.

Relocate ASAP. That was what I did while in 300lvl in Unilorin. Cultists storm my area till some of my neighbours joined, I didn’t even went back to pack, I had to send money to one of my friend to help me do that.

There's a chance they would force you to join if you act too timid or continue to extort you.

They are one of the silent problems we are facing in Nigeria Higher Institutions.