₦airaland Forum

njokuuche77:
As a parent to a daughter myself, this really speaks to me.
My hope is to raise her with the values, confidence, and wisdom she needs to make decisions that shape her future positively.

Every stage of life has its time, and guiding our daughters to move through those stages with patience, purpose, and self-respect is one of the most important responsibilities we have as parents.

I’m committed to giving her the support, direction, and love she needs to grow into the best version of herself.

You have spoken well sir 🫡

Urgent1Million:
None of those dresses are compulsory.
You must not wear a school uniform to be educated.
Matriculation and graduation gowns are not requirements for earning any academic qualification.
And a wedding is not even required for a marriage in Africa.
Finally, even without a maternity gown, a woman can still deliver babies and enjoy motherhood.
But I understand the significance of your post and girls should learn from it.

You go explain tire.

yomifowe:
If you love her, you will wait for her till she is ready.

Which one is ready again?

yomifowe:
If you love her, you will wait for her till she is ready.

Did femi waited before diving into the ocean after paying gate fee of indomie and egg?

Women profiling.

Men nko?

As good as it looks hypocracy lies beneath...
Hmmm some have eliminate innocent precious lifes by killing babies just to appeal to so called standards invented by who?

As usual, na man dey define which important dresses women should wear in their life time

Antwan99:
How about this; signifying 'work.'

Work in the Mud😂😂😂😂

Houseofglam7:
Of what relevance is this post

To reduce insecurity in Nigeria by making sure women wear their gowns

The only one I have worn is school uniform. I never went for any of my matriculation or graduation. Never been married nor have I ever given birth. Praise Jah I escaped the matrix. Blue pill or red pill?

Here I am sitting down and patiently waiting for a particular woman to come and counter this post furiously and blindly as usual.

yomifowe:
✓ Dear Parents TEACH YOUR DAUGHTERS THAT There are five (5) important dresses a woman should wear in her lifetime.
These are:
1. School uniform
2. Matriculation gown
3. Graduation gown
4. Wedding gown
5. Maternity gown
Let your daughters know that if any girl skips the 2nd dress, she will not get to wear the 3rd.
Daughters must not rush to wear the 5th just because a man has promised them the 4th.
More so, the 4th fits better and more prestigious if worn before the 5th.
Our daughters must learn to wait and follow the dress pattern from 1 to 5.Be a good parent and leader.
We have this as a responsibility to our children as parents and it is very important. May God help us. Amen!

Nonsense and Bullsheet! 🥳🥱🥱

If a woman then chooses not to wear any of those gowns:
1. She attends schools that require no school uniforms or she was homeschooled
2. She does not fancy wearing a matriculation gown and commits no criminal offense by it
3.. She graduates from college but skips the graduation ceremony for her peace of mind
4. She chooses to remain single to keep her peace and joy instead
5. She chooses not to have kids at all so she can make money and live to her fullest.
What becomes of this idea of yours on how parents should raise their daughters? 🥱🥱🥱

Na you go come tell the grown woman in this case say she no dey responsible or do her part in living her life well as she chooses? 🥱🥱🥱

Look, parents who think to force their children into moulds are examples of terrible parent the world no longer has need for. Ask your Gen Z /Gen Alpha children and they might tell you this to your face too. 🥱🥱🥱

yomifowe:
You mean you will not want her to graduate after matriculating, and you won't tie the knot the proper way before getting her pregnant? Then you really don't love her.

How dose wearing a wedding gown translate to important?

yomifowe:
✓ You mean you will not want her to graduate after matriculating, and you won't tie the knot the proper way before getting her pregnant? Then you really don't love her.

Why not let her do her life as she sees fit, the same way you let your sons do their lives as best they choose? 🥱🥱🥱

If she.doesn't wish to matriculate on your schedule, let her. Why must you impose of her ideas that may not be well suited to who she really is?

If she does not believe it is necessary to tie the knot, let her since, again, if you raised her well then it means she should then know what is best for her in her adult life. 🥱🥱🥱

If she chooses to have a child or not, that should be her own decision to make. 🥱🥱🥱

Or is this all about you being a bad parent and so feeling you should then also decide for your Children even after they have left to live out their adult years? 🥱🥱🥱

Talismann:
na so bisi jump straight from number one to number 5 that year.
Very fuuleash girl

Is Bisi living her life on your dime or under your roof? 🥱🥱🥱

yomifowe:
You go explain tire.

Evidence yapa!

nwirinedu:
Which one is ready again?

To wear dress no 5 of course.

mattb1:
How dose wearing a wedding gown translate to important?

No one says it's not. I guess you're not from the South Eastern part of the country.

mattb1:
How dose wearing a wedding gown translate to important?

...nor have female children someday.

No be every graduate dey make perfect marriage and no be white wedding dey make marriage sweet. Some girls got pregnant through wedlock and today are enjoying their marriages more than the graduates. Time and chance happen to everyone

yomifowe:
...nor have female children someday.

Well said bro.

mattb1:
How dose wearing a wedding gown translate to important?

..or who wedding gown epp?

yomifowe:
Figuratively not Literally speaking bro

Still same. Work dress is needed.

Remain 4 and 5 for me, and my God will do it for me at the right time in Jesus mighty name. Amen

yomifowe:
Dear Parents

TEACH YOUR DAUGHTERS THAT
There are five (5) important dresses a woman should wear in her lifetime.

These are:

1. School uniform
2. Matriculation gown
3. Graduation gown
4. Wedding gown
5. Maternity gown

Let your daughters know that if any girl skips the 2nd dress, she will not get to wear the 3rd.

Daughters must not rush to wear the 5th just because a man has promised them the 4th.

More so, the 4th fits better and more prestigious if worn before the 5th.

Our daughters must learn to wait and follow the dress pattern from 1 to 5.

Be a good parent and leader.

We have this as a responsibility to our children as parents and it is very important.

May God help us. Amen!

you forgot mourning dress for her soon to be dead husband

Antwan99:
How about this; signifying 'work.'

Na man go provide na .

Talismann:
na so bisi jump straight from number one to number 5 that year.

Very fuuleash girl

Very funny

Holluwhakemmy:
Remain 4 and 5 for me, and my God will do it for me at the right time in Jesus mighty name. Amen

I join my faith with you to say Amen.

Zooposki:
The only one I have worn is school uniform. I never went for any of my matriculation or graduation. Never been married nor have I ever given birth. Praise Jah I escaped the matrix. Blue pill or red pill?

Good to know that you at least wore one, and it goes on to strengthen the notion that the 'myth' is true.

Shalom80:
➜Good to know that you at least wore one, and it goes on to strengthen the notion that the 'myth' is true.

Not it doesnt't! This idea that if you can somehow pick out something, you can at least claim an entire myth as fact shows how very damaged many of you in Nigeria were raised when it comes to honesty and respecting truth.