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| 'where Are Our Wives?'- Husbands Of Kidnapped Defence Ministry Directors Cry by Bobloco(op): 1:36am On Dec 07, 2025 |
..... after N60m ransom •Chinwe Emeribe… kidnapped. The first thing that captures one’s sight in the Emeribe family sitting room in Festac Town is a photograph on the wall. It shows Mrs. Chinwe Emeribe in her University of Lagos graduation gown. Her smile is calm, gentle, and full of hope, a quiet pride captured in the frame. But today, that composed smile feels like a question suspended in the air, since she was kidnapped on November 9, 2025, along with five colleagues, all teachers and Assistant Directors of the Ministry of Defence attached to Command Secondary School, Ojo. The Emeribes are not alone in this agony. Across Festac Town, Mr. Chibuikem Onwuzurike lives in the same torment. His wife, Mrs. Juliana Onyekachi Onwuzuruike, was abducted alongside Chinwe Emeribe and four other women. Both men spoke exclusively to Saturday Vanguard, their voices heavy with fear, frustration, and helplessness. Mrs Juliana Onwuzurike. another victim. False news of release In the days following the abduction, reports filtered through the media claiming that all six women had been released. But for the husbands, they described the news as cruelly false. “I saw it on television” Chinwe’s husband, Nnamdi Emeribe said, shaking his head. “I called everywhere to verify. My wife and Mrs. Juliana Onwuzurike were still missing. That report was not true.” For Chibuikem, his heart sank the moment he learned the truth. “When I finally got confirmation, it was worse than the uncertainty itself. Four women were released, yes. But my loving wife Juliana was not among them. My wife is still in captivity,” he said in a trembling voice. The last words that haunt them For Nnamdi Emeribe, the memory of his last conversation with his wife is seared into his mind. He recalled: “I was the one who took her to the bus terminal at First Gate, Festac, where they boarded a vehicle owned by AndyLiz Motors Limited. She paid N35,500 for her ticket. The bus left by 7:46 a.m. I called her one hour later to remind her to take her morning medication because she was not feeling well. She had a fever. “By 1:30 p.m., I called again, and she said they were at Akure. I reminded her to take her afternoon medicine; she assured me she would. I asked if she had eaten the food she took from home. She said she would eat it and that they bought cooked corn. That was the last normal conversation I had with her. “By 4 p.m., I called again to check how the journey was progressing, but both her lines were unreachable. One phone was switched off, and the other rang intermittently without anyone picking. I kept calling from 4 p.m. till 6 p.m. with no response. By nightfall, I was deeply disturbed. “Her aunty also called, asking if I had heard from her. I stayed awake all night. I knew something was wrong. I called again at 1 a.m., 2 a.m., 3 a.m., and 5 a.m., yet still no response.” “When I went to AndyLiz Park by 7 a.m. to ask if anything had happened to their vehicle. The ticket clerk could barely speak; she just stared at me. She explained that the bus’s movement was monitored until 8 p.m., but there was no update. Then around 11 p.m., news came that the passengers had been kidnapped in Kabba, Kogi State. Tears ran down my cheeks; I couldn’t hold myself. “When I went to meet the company’s Director, he told us he had heard about the matter and was on it. He said the Commandant of the Command Secondary School, the Chief of Army Staff, and even the Inspector-General of Police were aware. I asked why none of the families had been contacted, and he said they could not call anyone. I asked what then was the use of having next-of-kin information if it would not be used. “Before we left the Director’s office, my phone rang. I picked up, and the voice I heard was my wife’s, very faint. She told me they were demanding N100 million as ransom. I wanted to tell her to hold on, but they snatched the phone from her. Then it rang again, and she said the ransom was now N150 million. I could not speak to her, and the phone was switched off. I was helpless. “I met other husbands of the kidnapped women at the park. We were later told by the transport company that the kidnappers had reduced the amount to N60 million. This was to be shared among the six women, the driver of the bus, who was also kidnapped, a boy of about 17 years old, who is a half-caste, another boy, and about five Ghanaians who were also in the vehicle. “Altogether, there were 14 passengers and the driver. “We pleaded with the owner to pay the money first and allow us to reimburse him, because we were desperate to get our wives back. But he said he would pay N15 million, while we shared the rest among ourselves. When we contacted the Ghana High Commission, it said it would not pay ransom.” Where is mummy? – Children demand Amid the endless waiting and uncertainty, Mr. Nnamdi Emeribe’s heart aches not only for his missing wife but also for their twin children, who are left to grapple with the fear and absence of their mother. He said they turned nine years old on Wednesday, November 26, 2025, a day that should have been filled with laughter, now overshadowed by an unbearable question. Our children just turned nine on Wednesday. It was supposed to be a joyful day, but the house was heavy with silence. They kept asking me, over and over, ‘When will mummy come back?’ Each question felt like a knife through my heart. I had no answer. I had nothing to tell them but to hold them close and pray silently that she would return safely,” he stated in tears. For Mr. Chibuikem Onwuzurike, whose wife, Mrs. Juliana Onyekachi Onwuzuruike, is also still in captivity, he said his wife told him to sell their house and cars to raise money for the ransom because of the excruciating pain from the torture. According to him, “I spoke with my wife three times before the ransom was made. She was putting pressure for the money to come out. The kidnappers were the ones that called with a different numbers, and they would edit what she would say. “The first call I heard from her was that they had been kidnapped. The second one was that I should sell anything sellable to come remove her from there so that she wouldn’t die. I told her, ‘You won’t die.’ The third was Friday, November 14, when we were taking the money. “One of the captors collected the phone and said, ‘Oga, are you sure that you are bringing the money tomorrow?’ I said yes and asked where I should drop it. He said I should take it to the transporter company; they would be the ones to bring the money to them. Since then, I have not heard from her. Ransom paid “For my wife’s ransom alone, I paid “5,625,000. Then we all paid N804,000 each again when they insisted we must pay also for a deportee from Dubai who was kidnapped along with them. Andy, the transport owner and negotiator, told us that the kidnappers instructed that no other person or vehicle should bring the money except Andy’s vehicle. “They also threatened to kill the driver if the money was not complete or if there was counterfeit. We added an additional N3,000 to avoid any shortage. The ransom of N60 million was packed in six bags of N10 million each.” The return That Monday, November 17, 2025, on the day the kidnapped women were to return, both Mr. Emeribe and Mr. Onwuzurike, along with a few other families, gathered at the transport park from as early as 12 noon, hoping and praying for the safe return of their wives. The hours crawled by slowly, each tick of the clock deepening their anxiety. When the bus finally arrived around 5 p.m., hearts pounding with anticipation, they rushed to the doors, only to be met with an empty vehicle. Recalling that shattering moment, Onwuzuruike said, “My wife was not in the vehicle that arrived. ‘Where are our wives? Where are the women?’ I asked. But the driver said only four out of the six women were released to him.” Hopeless state One of the most harrowing details that emerged from the interviews was that one of the kidnapped women, in the grip of pain and exhaustion, had been abandoned by the kidnappers because she could no longer walk, complaining of severe knee pain. The husbands described a sense of helplessness that has only deepened since paying the ransom. “We gave them everything they asked for, followed every instruction, and yet our wives are still not back,” Mr. Emeribe recounted, his voice heavy with despair. Days have turned into weeks, and silence has been their constant companion, not only from the kidnappers but also from their employers at the Ministry of Defence and the Army, where the women worked. No call, no message, no attempt to coordinate or reassure the families has come from those who should have been their first line of support, according to the devastated husbands. To worsen the case, Mr. Emeribe alleged, “They didn’t even give a dime as transport fare for the journey my wife embarked on. We had to source our own money for transport because it was a promotional examination. Even to pay the ransom, nobody from the Ministry of Defence or the Army assisted. We were on our own.” Since the day they brought back the four women and other passengers, excluding their wives, they said they had not seen Andy, the transporter, adding that “If you call his number, it will not respond. We have gone to the Festac Police Division to report.” Efforts to get a reaction from the Ministry of Defence failed, as Saturday Vanguard was informed it had not had a spokesman since the last person was redeployed. However, a director in the ministry, who spoke on condition of anonymity, confirmed that only four out of the six women had been released, adding that apprehension had heightened over the safety of the remaining two. The void of communication has left them in a limbo of anxiety and despair, wondering if their loved ones will ever return. https://www.vanguardngr.com/2025/12/where-are-our-wives-husbands-of-kidnapped-defence-ministry-directors-cry-after-n60m-ransom/#google_vignette |
| Re: 'where Are Our Wives?'- Husbands Of Kidnapped Defence Ministry Directors Cry by FirstCounsel(m): 2:08am On Dec 07, 2025 |
Very terrible harrowing experience |
| Re: 'where Are Our Wives?'- Husbands Of Kidnapped Defence Ministry Directors Cry by Igbophobia: 2:21am On Dec 07, 2025 |
The best strategy is to sit this one out. If you live in Nigeria, do not travel by road. If you can't pay for flight, simply sit it out because nothing will be done about this because the menace affects only the masses. Until the political elites start getting nabbed, nothing will be done. The bad news is that even that is a matter of time. |
| Re: 'where Are Our Wives?'- Husbands Of Kidnapped Defence Ministry Directors Cry by duduade(m): 2:30am On Dec 07, 2025 |
I just hope it's not what I am thinking for the remaining two women Thank God the husbands are speaking up now |
| Re: 'where Are Our Wives?'- Husbands Of Kidnapped Defence Ministry Directors Cry by VeeVeeMyLuv(f): 3:33am On Dec 07, 2025 |
Igbophobia:Weldone Boss You said it all Helinues come and defend o.. Chief defender I don't understand how you guys can be so cruel and heartless to the masses |
| Re: 'where Are Our Wives?'- Husbands Of Kidnapped Defence Ministry Directors Cry by Buharidgeneral: 5:08am On Dec 07, 2025 |
This looks like insider job. God will bring them back home safely. So sad and pathetic |
| Re: 'where Are Our Wives?'- Husbands Of Kidnapped Defence Ministry Directors Cry by tobenuel(m): 5:25am On Dec 07, 2025 |
The country is on Grand Theft Auto |
| Re: 'where Are Our Wives?'- Husbands Of Kidnapped Defence Ministry Directors Cry by TONYE001(m): 6:08am On Dec 07, 2025 |
Jesus Christ! I can't even imagine being in these men's shoes. Ordinary to go market wey my wife number no connect, I don dey worried.....not to talk if having her in the bush with these evil extremists The government deliberately fed us with the wrong information.....to distract us...or to score cheap political points? God forbid! May these men's heart be strengthened. May their wives return home safely! |
| Re: 'where Are Our Wives?'- Husbands Of Kidnapped Defence Ministry Directors Cry by kingthreat(m): 6:10am On Dec 07, 2025 |
The Andyliz guy is not to blame. He is a businessman who has lost great deal of money on his investment. Why didn't the employers do something. As in these women work at the ministry of defence and you tell me that the ministry of defence neither tried to rescue or pay for their ransom is so sad. I think those other women should resign ASAP. |
| Re: 'where Are Our Wives?'- Husbands Of Kidnapped Defence Ministry Directors Cry by Nackzy: 6:20am On Dec 07, 2025 |
Tinubu and his online warriors don sacrifices those ones, imagine America came to Nigeria since they for don smoke them out by now |
| Re: 'where Are Our Wives?'- Husbands Of Kidnapped Defence Ministry Directors Cry by Walezy2020: 6:26am On Dec 07, 2025 |
May we not be a victim of evil circumstances in Jesus name.the story no clear to me out of 6 only 4 was released but they all paid ransom why the remaining 2 women weren't released?then the they paid tru the transport company...hmmmm I pray they will be release & return home safely |
| Re: 'where Are Our Wives?'- Husbands Of Kidnapped Defence Ministry Directors Cry by AMINDA: 6:41am On Dec 07, 2025 |
This didn't even make the news when it happened. Whole Directors of Defence Ministry kidnapped and the government is pretending like nothing happened. They wouldn't even acknowledge it. |
| Re: 'where Are Our Wives?'- Husbands Of Kidnapped Defence Ministry Directors Cry by DatNiggaDaz: 6:49am On Dec 07, 2025 |
![]() The supporters from the West who believed that Tinubu will favour them should provide answers to these questions. After all they still believe that Tinubu is the greatest Leader in their delusions which was brought about by tribal hate Their defence of a disaster has brought so much shame that they shamelesly block anyone calling them out ![]() |
| Re: 'where Are Our Wives?'- Husbands Of Kidnapped Defence Ministry Directors Cry by Spainever(m): 8:24am On Dec 07, 2025 |
If senior staff of ministry of defence can be kidnapped and life continue , we are in dangerous time. I pray these two women are still alive |
| Re: 'where Are Our Wives?'- Husbands Of Kidnapped Defence Ministry Directors Cry by Spainever(m): 8:25am On Dec 07, 2025 |
AMINDA:If directors can be kidnapped who is the common man ? Government so engrossed with 2027 elections . There are several kidnapped cases that are not on social media |
| Re: 'where Are Our Wives?'- Husbands Of Kidnapped Defence Ministry Directors Cry by Elusive001: 8:55am On Dec 07, 2025 |
DatNiggaDaz:No wonder!!!!!! Let them continue to support evil. Evil has a way of visiting those who support it. |
| Re: 'where Are Our Wives?'- Husbands Of Kidnapped Defence Ministry Directors Cry by Racoon(m): 9:15am On Dec 07, 2025 |
Chai! God abeg. I feel my loved ones are the ones kidnapped. This is how hopeless the situation in Nigeria has became today. Yet Tinubu's wife is hosting legislathieves to sumptuous dinner? |
| Re: 'where Are Our Wives?'- Husbands Of Kidnapped Defence Ministry Directors Cry by CodeTemplarr: 10:50am On Dec 07, 2025 |
The highways are not as busy as they used to be before becauae people now prefer to waybill parcels rather than travel themselves for business. That means fewer vehicles and lonelier roads. Instead of securing existing highways, we are building new mega ones for main purpose of tolling. |
| Re: 'where Are Our Wives?'- Husbands Of Kidnapped Defence Ministry Directors Cry by Nobody: 11:48am On Dec 07, 2025 |
Most likely duduade: |
| Re: 'where Are Our Wives?'- Husbands Of Kidnapped Defence Ministry Directors Cry by delpee(f): 12:05pm On Dec 07, 2025 |
Na wa! I think this happened before the Kebbi girls and the Catholic School Papiri abduction. This isn't looking good at all. No news about the Papiri children too. ![]() |
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