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Grammy-winning Nigerian singer, Temilade Openiyi, popularly known as Tems, has revealed her major red flags in a potential partner.

In a recent interview with American outfit Complex, the Love Me Jeje crooner said she can’t date unfriendly or uncurious men.

According to her, the essence of relationship is lost if a partner isn’t friendly and curious about their spouse.

“My dating terms are someone who is not trying to be your friend is a red flag. Anybody that isn’t curious about you is also a red flag. Because what are we doing? Why are we here if you don’t want to know me?

“If he or she doesn’t want to know more about you, end the relationship,” she said.

Tems said she is a “lover girl” but trying to be careful due to past experiences.

She added that she is more focused on self-love currently.

https://dailypost.ng/2025/12/08/singer-tems-reveals-types-of-men-she-cant-date-or-marry/#:~:text=Grammy%2Dwinning%20Nigerian%20singer%2C%20Temilade,date%20unfriendly%20or%20uncurious%20men.

Tems is a premium target. Wizkid tried and failed, Drake tried his luck and couldn't land her, and even DJ Khaled couldn't succeed. If those heavyweights couldn't handle the mission, then who exactly am I to try? I’ll just admire from afar. 😅

This ur past experience, u sure say no be ur fault dis woman. Bcx una way be woman get fish 🐠 brain 🧠

Doesn’t she claim to be a virgin? What does she know about dating? She sounds like a boring person. It’s easy to tell from interviews.

DyshApp:
Grammy-winning Nigerian singer, Temilade Openiyi, popularly known as Tems, has revealed her major red flags in a potential partner.

In a recent interview with American outfit Complex, the Love Me Jeje crooner said she can’t date unfriendly or uncurious men.

According to her, the essence of relationship is lost if a partner isn’t friendly and curious about their spouse.

“My dating terms are someone who is not trying to be your friend is a red flag. Anybody that isn’t curious about you is also a red flag. Because what are we doing? Why are we here if you don’t want to know me?

“If he or she doesn’t want to know more about you, end the relationship,” she said.

Tems said she is a “lover girl” but trying to be careful due to past experiences.

She added that she is more focused on self-love currently.

She added that she is more focused on self-love currently.

Good for her.
Self love comes first.

That is her 'TEMS' and conditions,
Guys, take note

DyshApp:
https://dailypost.ng/2025/12/08/singer-tems-reveals-types-of-men-she-cant-date-or-marry/#:~:text=Grammy%2Dwinning%20Nigerian%20singer%2C%20Temilade,date%20unfriendly%20or%20uncurious%20men.

make she near 38 fess...
u Go HEAR ONE SIZE FIT ALL

TEMS get TERMS and Conditions.. now worry wen u reach 3rd TERM

I thought she's future's baby mama. Abi na lie dem lie

Until she knows that she is just another random woman existing amidst billions

SpencerForbes:
Tems is a premium target. Wizkid tried and failed, Drake tried his luck and couldn't land her, and even DJ Khaled couldn't succeed. If those heavyweights couldn't handle the mission, then who exactly am I to try? I’ll just admire from afar. 😅

Still try na.

E fit be you oooo.

#JustBelieve😃

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I am exactly the right man for you Tems!


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SpencerForbes:
Tems is a premium target. Wizkid tried and failed, Drake tried his luck and couldn't land her, and even DJ Khaled couldn't succeed. If those heavyweights couldn't handle the mission, then who exactly am I to try? I’ll just admire from afar. 😅

Classical example of Low self esteem.

She forgot to include that a man with no vein on his gbolq is a 🔴 flag...

Like me now, I gat thick veins on it but she ain't my spec...

My first impression is the front assets...

lightwind:
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I am exactly the right man for you Tems!


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Naso.com.

We will let her know.

MrNipplesLover:
She forgot to include that a man with no vein on his gbolq is a 🔴 flag...
Like me now, I gat thick veins on it but she ain't my spec...

My first impression is the front assets...

Others prefer the back assets.
Different folks Different strokes..

Well... that's her terms and conditions

SpencerForbes:
Tems is a premium target. Wizkid tried and failed, Drake tried his luck and couldn't land her, and even DJ Khaled couldn't succeed. If those heavyweights couldn't handle the mission, then who exactly am I to try? I’ll just admire from afar. 😅

Maybe she’s waiting for Tinubu or or Akpabio or even MC oluomo to propose to her . Since premium guys no Dey good enough

No issues with your terms and conditions because now guys know what your week points are

All these high standard demanding ladies usually end up single or with the wrong partner.

YourGFsnatcher:
I thought she's future's baby mama. Abi na lie dem lie

You are thinking about someone's future?
What an audacity!

Pmoney0123:
This ur past experience, u sure say no be ur fault dis woman. Bcx una way be woman get fish 🐠 brain 🧠

....and na woman born dis one so!

Spits.

MrNipplesLover:
She forgot to include that a man with no vein on his gbolq is a 🔴 flag...

Like me now, I gat thick veins on it but she ain't my spec...

My first impression is the front assets...

Men who get laid regularly and have had their fill of sex don't talk like you just did.

You sound more like someone who spends more time in his head and in front of p0rn than those who actually get it.

Cos if you get it on a regular, you will know say Sex nor be food or big deal.

SpencerForbes:
Tems is a premium target. Wizkid tried and failed, Drake tried his luck and couldn't land her, and even DJ Khaled couldn't succeed. If those heavyweights couldn't handle the mission, then who exactly am I to try? I’ll just admire from afar. 😅

You never can tell. Always man up and take your shot. We miss 100% of shots we didn't take.

I never one day admire dis lady...
She no fine reach my spec aswr

I've watched Tems before, she's highly intelligent and spiritual. Someone like her needs a mature man, QED. Only mature men can handle such a person because she's elevated intellectually so it will be difficult for the average man to impress her. She should find a sapiosexual or an eedeot.

I think this was the interview I watched and saw how high her IQ was/is


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zjTF4F7hyTE

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Good for her.
Self love comes first.

That is her 'TEMS' and conditions,
Guys, take note

You Wey don shower all your love on your "darling daddy".

Baseless...who can help me with at least 40 characters.

When you try to know about others, they will still change the story. The life no balance they said.

MrNipplesLover:
She forgot to include that a man with no vein on his gbolq is a 🔴 flag...

Like me now, I gat thick veins on it but she ain't my spec...

My first impression is the front assets...

same here, front assets first but for Tems I will pick her anyday she has the feminine appeal I like and she sef be asset on her own lol 😂

Nobleou:
I never one day admire dis lady...
She no fine reach my spec aswr

Leave her for us wey like what we see. Beauty is the eye of the beholder. Na we behold this wan 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Sirmwill:
Until she knows that she is just another random woman existing amidst billions

Don't forget you are also random human existing amidst billions but UNKNOWN.

SpencerForbes:
Tems is a premium target. Wizkid tried and failed, Drake tried his luck and couldn't land her, and even DJ Khaled couldn't succeed. If those heavyweights couldn't handle the mission, then who exactly am I to try? I’ll just admire from afar. 😅

Get busy bro,

You are supposed to be bigger than this.

Stop sullking like a kid in dire need of pity.