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Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by manuelkel(m): 4:03pm On Dec 11, 2025
nnamdi640:
Let me use myself as a case study, I teaches F/maths and Physics, in the junior section for Js1 I have like 7 students, JS2, I have 6 while in Js3 I have 8 students each student pay minimum of 20k which I share with my other colleague because we did joint lessons together while at the senior class I also have like 20 students doing lessons, each child I get #6500 because we are 4 teachers that coordinate that lesson. The school management allows us to use the school for lessons after school hours, after I finish around 6pm, I go home to prepare for my online class for the two students I take on Monday and Tuesday, 2hours which I start by 7pm and end 9pm sometimes 9:20 pm depending on when they joined the class, mind you UK and Nigeria is one hour different, by the time I get home, the students are already at home or heading home. I want you to tell me what is not visible on my breakdown, let me shock you, I still run 5 home lessons apart from what I described above. You think I will come here to start telling lies
I know you're not lying but I also thing you're exaggerating.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by nnamdi640: 4:19pm On Dec 11, 2025
manuelkel:
I know you're not lying but I also thing you're exaggerating.
Exaggerating in what way? So you mean my Saturday and Sunday is for fun or what, on Friday we close by 1pm. I still don't understand what you mean by exaggerating. The only thing you will say that I will agree with you is that this activities doesn't give me time for other things.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Nobody: 4:20pm On Dec 11, 2025
Demetrix:
Internet fraudsters
Female Bank / real estate marketers
Female Hotel Receptionists
Female Lounge workers
Models

Modified: Na female house cleaners wey dey use iPhone 14 own worse pass.
grin
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by bighorlus(m): 4:22pm On Dec 11, 2025
Fiscus105:
Nollywood actress.
Any form marketing job
Modelling job
Military job
Police job.
Hoteliers
Waitress.
Etc

You sabi ..😀
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by histemple: 4:24pm On Dec 11, 2025
In all you do, avoid Nurses.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by AirBere: 4:28pm On Dec 11, 2025
nnamdi640:
Let me use myself as a case study, I teaches F/maths and Physics, in the junior section for Js1 I have like 7 students, JS2, I have 6 while in Js3 I have 8 students each student pay minimum of 20k which I share with my other colleague because we did joint lessons together while at the senior class I also have like 20 students doing lessons, each child I get #6500 because we are 4 teachers that coordinate that lesson. The school management allows us to use the school for lessons after school hours, after I finish around 6pm, I go home to prepare for my online class for the two students I take on Monday and Tuesday, 2hours which I start by 7pm and end 9pm sometimes 9:20 pm depending on when they joined the class, mind you UK and Nigeria is one hour different, by the time I get home, the students are already at home or heading home. I want you to tell me what is not visible on my breakdown, let me shock you, I still run 5 home lessons apart from what I described above. You think I will come here to start telling lies, my salary is not part of this side hustle
Relax lol
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by 1F30M4(f): 4:38pm On Dec 11, 2025
essentialone & Diamond09845, share IV for online in-laws oo wink wink
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Love800(m): 4:43pm On Dec 11, 2025
Wow. So teaching could be dis lucrative and bring gains.

So its not whether the career is profitable or not, it the individual who engages in it.

Alright.
nnamdi640:
Yes, I use zoom
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Druss(m): 4:48pm On Dec 11, 2025
Stephen0mozzy:
I have nothing against Marketers o, but I won't be with one - Especially Bank and Real Estate Marketers. Abeg
When I see real estate marketers profiles in IG, I see a lot of suggestive sexual content. Why?
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by BarrElChapo(m): 4:49pm On Dec 11, 2025
Kaczynski:
I cant marry someone in the med field . im better off with someone in a technical field like engineering.
You are on Reddit 😜
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Blitzking: 4:51pm On Dec 11, 2025
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Samantha125:
Medicine is not for the clingy faint hearted, they will leave you during a romantic dinner date or during intimacy to attend to an emergency... grin grin grin

Before agreeing to get married to anyone in the field, just make sure you'll have your own life outside of the marriage.
Remember the day I was knacking my babe naso dem call me say road traffic accident patient don land naso I leave babe that night.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Konjiboii: 4:54pm On Dec 11, 2025
Modeling
Masseuse
Realtor
Salesperson
Nurses
Working in the club scene in any capacity
Content creator
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by essentialone(m):
correctguy101:
Some men sef...


Jhus now now, you don rush geh dear for nairaland.

Na una dey spoil Nigerian women with una anyhow characters
You too na dear. Hahahahha

But I believe in TuFace song that says, you cannot trust everybody but you got to trust someone. Meaning all online people cannot be that bad. So whether offline or online, who is ok is ok, and who is not ok, is not ok. If I like someone, or like the things I know about that person, then the person has become my dear.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by nnamdi640: 4:59pm On Dec 11, 2025
Love800:
Wow. So teaching could be dis lucrative and bring gains.

So its not whether the career is profitable or not, it the individual who engages in it.

Alright.
Exactly, once you are good in what you are doing, you will surely excel.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Samantha125(f): 5:14pm On Dec 11, 2025
I need to share a glass of wine with your girlfriend...😭😭😭
Blitzking:
B
Remember the day I was knacking my babe naso dem call me say road traffic accident patient don land naso I leave babe that night.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Jeshurun101: 5:18pm On Dec 11, 2025
nnamdi640:
One thing we failed to understand is that no matter what you do, if God has destined you that you will be successful in that area, nothing can take that from you, no matter the obstacles, she earns 150k in that private school but get more than that at the end of the month. She was the one that connected me to one of my client in UK and one thing about this foreign parent, once you are good and you don't disappoint, just have it in mind that the whole children in that family, you will be the one that will do the work of coaching them all.
What subject do you take them sir?
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by nnamdi640: 5:23pm On Dec 11, 2025
Jeshurun101:
What subject do you take them sir?
Mathematics and Physics
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Twoclans(f): 5:55pm On Dec 11, 2025
pocohantas:
Lol! Who you dey call wey you dey fear?
Lol, my way no pure naahhh grin grin grin
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Passionate888: 5:57pm On Dec 11, 2025
Diamond098454:
no but not yet time?
That's exactly what I once said, now it's......
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Diamond098454(f): 5:58pm On Dec 11, 2025
Passionate888:
That's exactly what I once said, now it's......
hahaha hahaha hahaha hahaha
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by samuelson06(m): 6:01pm On Dec 11, 2025
Kaczynski:
I cant marry someone in the med field . im better off with someone in a technical field like engineering.
Any career that prevent the woman from taking care of the children is a no no for me. When a woman become overexposed to her career, she tends to act like a man in the house—reduced care for children, reduced loyalty to the man, reduced romance/love for the man and family, increased ego, etc.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Diamond098454(f): 7:21pm On Dec 11, 2025
Passionate888:
That's exactly what I once said, now it's......
my dad gave me from now till January to introduce my boyfriend to him or

He get one for me.
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by essentialone(m): 7:24pm On Dec 11, 2025
Diamond098454:
my dad gave me from now till January to introduce my boyfriend to him or

He get one for me.
Hahahhahahhahahha, so hilarious.

Does he no longer want you to be an Independent Feminist Lady?
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Hassanmaye(m): 7:33pm On Dec 11, 2025
Samantha125:
Medicine is not for the clingy faint hearted, they will leave you during a romantic dinner date or during intimacy to attend to an emergency... grin grin grin

Before agreeing to get married to anyone in the field, just make sure you'll have your own life outside of the marriage.
You scared me honestly, my girlfriend is a day a doctor
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Passionate888: 7:35pm On Dec 11, 2025
Diamond098454:
my dad gave me from now till January to introduce my boyfriend to him or

He get one for me.
Less than 3 weeks to go.

Introduce him to your dad na
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Diamond098454(f): 7:38pm On Dec 11, 2025
Passionate888:
Less than 3 weeks to go.

Introduce him to your dad na
I don't have a boy friend to introduce to him
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Samantha125(f): 7:41pm On Dec 11, 2025
Don't worry, just get yourself something that'll keep you occupied and you'll be just fine... grin grin grin
Hassanmaye:
You scared me honestly, my girlfriend is a day a doctor
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Diamond098454(f): 7:41pm On Dec 11, 2025
essentialone:
Hahahhahahhahahha, so hilarious.

Does he no longer want you to be an Independent Feminist Lady?
he hasn't seen me with a man so, he is scared I may be a lesbian ( my thoughts)
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by bigpicture001: 7:44pm On Dec 11, 2025
Samantha125:
Why would you call her to check on her dying patients? I thought medicinal practitioners were forbidden from breaching their doctor and patient confidentiality?
When ur gf is restless and having psychological trauma of being in contact with someone sh felt sh delayed to save.. because sh got the blood match quite late... ND u did all u could to keep her calm..

The next day from. Work will u b wrong to call in and ask her how far?

Again, all this patient, I dnt know even 1 of them.. they are all stories... I never met any
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Samantha125(f): 7:56pm On Dec 11, 2025
If you're checking after her wellbeing, that's fine, but it's something else when you're calling her on duty to be asking her about her patients, you not knowing them doesn't invalidate the fact that she'll be breaching her doctor-patient confidentiality.
bigpicture001:
When ur gf is restless and having psychological trauma of being in contact with someone sh felt sh delayed to save.. because sh got the blood match quite late... ND u did all u could to keep her calm..

The next day from. Work will u b wrong to call in and ask her how far?

Again, all this patient, I dnt know even 1 of them.. they are all stories... I never met any
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by bigpicture001: 8:04pm On Dec 11, 2025
Samantha125:
If you're checking after her wellbeing, that's fine, but it's something else when you're calling her on duty to be asking her about her patients, you not knowing them doesn't invalidate the fact that she'll be breaching her doctor-patient confidentiality.
This same person will jerk wake up deep in her sleep, and sometimes cry in the dream... And I shouldn't call to ask if her fears are founded

U dnt know the psychologial effect patient dieing take on this health practitioners , especially those with soft heart...

I know ur type , try ur best to discredit a good deed all cuz u want to make a point...
Re: Which Career Is Turn Off For A Serious Relationship? by Diamond098454(f): 8:19pm On Dec 11, 2025
essentialone:
Hahahhahahhahahha, so hilarious.

Does he no longer want you to be an Independent Feminist Lady?
he should bring bf for me since he knows the type of food i like eating

Him and his wife should go and rest joor
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